Did our two year relationship mean nothing to him?
Q. So me and my ex got back together and in November and split again in December when he decided to kiss my best friend when he was drunk and out with his friends. But a week later I ended up staying at his house as we were on a night out with mutual ...
A. 17 March 2011: Again I ask, why do you think he would want to hurt you?
What happened in the first part of the relationship?... (read in full...)
Need help with drug addicted boyfriend
Q. Hello. I seriously need help. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly two years. I am 26 and he is 25. At first, things were great. We got along really well and had lots of fun together. I knew he had problems in the past, and had do...
A. 10 March 2011: You help you first. Go attend an AlAnon meeting. That's first. In that meanwhile, his addiction is his alone. Until you get clear any amount of nagging, demanding, threatening is not going to help. It's not doomed, it's just in high veloci... (read in full...)
My family controls my life!
Q. im 19 and still live at home and i cant tak eit anymore. i can move out and have no where to go, my whole life is being controlled by everyone in the house. My sister gets angry at me over small things calling me and swairing at me that pushes my ...
A. 10 March 2011: Firstly if your parents don't recognize your depression, tell a teacher, a counselor a friend, your emotions should be given attention, if not in the home, from some other guidance. Give yourself a personal area in the house or outside where yo... (read in full...)
Am I being overly chill?
Q. I just got out of a horrible relationship. We were together for two years, but things weren't the greatest while we were together. We loved each other but for some reason he didn't know how to treat me right. The whole relationship was dysfunctional ...
A. 10 March 2011: Well I think you've earned your wings and your sword and your shield from your last dysfunctional relationship.
Now you know how to proceed in confidence, caution and strength. That's good !
Now you seek balance and the chance to put your heart ou... (read in full...)
Boyfriend broke up then texted me saying "I hope you get over me soon"
Q. Why did my ex boyfriend text me this? please help? ? ? ? My boyfriend of 5months suddenly tells me he doesn't want a relationship cos he got so used to the single life before we got together and he might cheat on me if we stay together, he doesn...
A. 10 March 2011: This is cute. You gave him a text book answer.
But not the one you felt in your heart.
You say you still love him, feelings are there.
He is actually saying (while keeping his cowboy hat on)
I miss you, lets meet up, I'm an idiot but I'll s... (read in full...)
His family won't accept me and now he wants to see me in secret!
Q. good day! im 32 y/o, a mother with four childrens and already separated. i had a relationship with a bachelor guy who is 28 y/o. at first everything is fair and smooth on our relationship. he shows me so much love as well to my kids, who also loves ...
A. 10 March 2011: If your having a sexual relationship with him STOP it.
If he still comes around to be with you and yours, than tell him to man up to his family or walk.
You don't need a player in your life and you don't need
to have some outside force dictat... (read in full...)
Its been 2 years since it happened, but my husband talks like my affair happened just yesterday
Q. I was transfered 2 work from a different twon for 6months leaving my husband i got involved with a man whom we even had sex, my husband got 2 find out everthng.its being 2yearz bt he talks lyk it jst happend,i hav no say n the house now its 2much ...
A. 10 March 2011: I'm going to go out on a limb and say just seeing the short cuts and the bad spelling you used in this post makes me think you are really mad at him for getting caught.
Like you want to tell him, "So what, it was nothing to me, a one night stan... (read in full...)
I satisfy my husband, but he doesn't satisfy me
Q. I satisfy my husband, but he doesn't satisfy me. What can I do? This has gone on for 20 years. I am sick of it! Now he has a heart condition and does not want sex at all. This has gone on for about 3 years. He does not even want to kiss, hold ...
A. 10 March 2011: Ok firstly you must let go of the 20 years. Your needs and desires are taking center stage now, even though you've not had the tools to ask for what you wanted back than, you feel enough for yourself to want them now. His physical condition at thi... (read in full...)
We are both married and attracted to each other. Should I be friendly with him or keep ignoring him?
Q. Hi Cupids. Is it possible for two married people to be friendly with each other if they both know there is an attraction between them? I am experiencing this. I am attracted to a man I see regularly. I am certain he is also attracted to ...
A. 10 March 2011: This sounds like you have a dessert shop across from your gym. You have to decide how many reps on the bench press it will take to eat your cake. You could stay in the gym and build that body or you could just eat cake, or you could have both and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend threatens to hit me, and breaks up with me when he wants to sleep with other girls. He wants me to move in with him. Can he really change?
Q. I hope that you can help me. I can't trust my family or friend’s opinion because they're obviously going to take my side. Alright so my boyfriend of a year is asking me to move back with him. I love him very much but he has done so many awful things ...
A. 10 March 2011: You are in a cage with a mad monkey and you have the key in your pocket. However, you have one hundred and one pockets and your blind. You need professional help, I highly suggest you get it. They will help you find that key and help you set your ... (read in full...)
Did our two year relationship mean nothing to him?
Q. So me and my ex got back together and in November and split again in December when he decided to kiss my best friend when he was drunk and out with his friends. But a week later I ended up staying at his house as we were on a night out with mutual ...
A. 10 March 2011: Get back at you for what? You sound like your feeling guilty for something?... (read in full...)
He dumped me! Does anyone have any tips for me to stop thinking and crying about this? How do I get over him?
Q. I had asked a question recently here about my boyfriend (of 1 year and 2 months) ignoring me and what I should do with him. Well on Monday he broke up with me. It really hurt me and it's still hurting me! His reason was that he was having problems...
A. 10 March 2011: Your human it's an emotional event, I say cry your eyes out.
You'll find you can only cry so much before the body just can't do it anymore and there is a physical end to it.
The Psychological pain and sorrow will always be a choice.
How you w... (read in full...)
I love someone who doesn't love me and it hurts! Any tips to dealing with this?
Q. I love someone who doesnt want me. It hurts so much. I wake up thinking about him and cant seem to get him out of my head or heart. He told me he loved me then ignored me. He came back to me 2 months later and has repeated the same thing. I h...
A. 10 March 2011: A lot of fine advice here! When you love someone and they don't appear to be loving you! How can someone love someone who is not reciprocating that love given? Is it addiction, loneliness, need, lust? Or is it a genuine love? If you can... (read in full...)
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