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I can be my siblings' tutor (husband disagrees) or give them into foster care. Should I go against hubby's wishes?

Q.   My sister (who's 5) and brother (who's 7) was being abuse by our parents who are now in jail. To a long story short the cops call me asking if wanted to be they'll guardian or they'll be in foster care. I don't want them to live with brunch of ...

A.   12 October 2008: babe, you love your own blood right? if hes a good husband he will give you respect and help you not go against you. it doesnt matter if he doesnt like kids. their your siblings. HOW DARE HE! please do whats right for your siblings. ... (read in full...)

What should I do about my sister watching lesbian porn?!

Q.   Many times i have caught my sister watching porn and kind of grinding to a stack of pillows (the way a man would to a woman). anyway, it was lesbian porn and shes 12 years old. i didnt tell her i knew in case of embarrassment. but i dont know if its ...

A.   11 August 2008: i think you`ve found your answer matey :) nothing at all. all the best x Cupids Sidekick ;)... (read in full...)

Am I too young for Electrolysis?

Q.   Hi. I have a problem with facial hair on my upper lip. I was wondering about Electrolysis treatment. Does anyone know anything about it? How much does it cost to get it done in a clinic? I'm only 14, so am I too young for Electrolysis? Any info...

A.   11 August 2008: id say just have it waxed every 2 weeks at a local salon. the prices range up to about £3.50 - £4.50. it could cost more though depending on wher u go. it doesnt hurt much and as long as you go ever week or 2 weeks your upper lip will stay cle... (read in full...)

Can he really want me even though I'm fat?

Q.   Hi Im 21 and iv got a dilema! Im thinking of loosing my virginity to a person i trust 100% although i trust him i cant help thinking about how turned off he will be when he see's the fat. Yes im a big girl and its not as if he doesnt know but he ...

A.   11 August 2008: as everyone else said i think he`ll see through your size and into your personality. also size doesnt make you ugly .. Many women are beautiful even if they are a size bigger than 6 :) good luck x Cupids Sidekick ;)... (read in full...)

How do I steal him away from her?

Q.   I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend. How do I steal him away from her?...

A.   10 August 2008: i wouldnt suggest "stealing someone from someone else" because: no1. it would hurt them. no2. its not the right thing. no3. you may make enemies. i suggest you wait for them to be over or just move on. good luck x Cupids sidekick ;)... (read in full...)

He's mean to me for a joke, but it's hurtful. Please help.

Q.   I just wondered if you could help me. My boyfriend is mean to me, for a joke, but it's hurtfull. I haven't talked to him about this because i dont want to upset him. Please help. Many thanks x...

A.   10 August 2008: Even though you dont want to hurt him by telling him straight its the only way you can deal with it properley. Tell him that you know he may mean it as a joke but it still hurts you. if he understands you hes the right guy. Good luck x Cupids ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has threatened to upload videos of me on porn sites if I ever leave him...Please help!!

Q.   What do i do? My boyfriend has videos of me doing things, and he says if i leave him or don't take naughty pics for him - he's going to upload them to porn sites. If my family ever found out they'd be so mad :( I don't know what to do :( I'm onl...

A.   10 August 2008: i would suggest going to your mother as its the best thing to do, 2 heads are better than 1 and you`ll have more support. i also suggest going to the police as this form of blackmail is surely not legal as your 16. good luck x Cupids Sideki... (read in full...)

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