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My girlfriend cheats! How should I react?

Q.   I don't know how to take this news, but first i'm going to give a little background story. A girl proper fell for my friend about 3 years ago, and he really liked her too but they never got together. Then i started to feel asthough i was real...

A.   28 August 2008: at your age it is not cheating it is discovering life. be happy and enjoy all your friends they will change and grow over time ... (read in full...)

I love two boys at once and they both want me?!!

Q.   I'm so distraught about this at the moment. I have loved a boy for about 2 maybe 3 years now and he has had such a massive impact on my life he has loved me too but we have never gone out or anything So i gave up hope of that ever happening a...

A.   28 August 2008: lucky you. at your age don't make any firm commitments to anyone. enjoy life and enjoy them both... (read in full...)

He has told me he would come to me if I was interested and I am but my conscience says no because he's married. Any views?

Q.   I am very recently divorced. I was devastated by this , my husband left me and the children for another woman. For 25 years and long before I was married I knew this other man. I always liked him but sadly chose my ex husband over him and he then ...

A.   28 August 2008: If he is unhappy in his present situation he should leave his wife with no commitment from you. If he is not willing to do that, then you can be sure that he is not serious about you either. Don't make a commitment to an unhappy partner. Tell th... (read in full...)

Is there a "right" way to ask out a married woman at work?

Q.   Hi! My question is slightly controversial (so humble apologies in advance!). Is there a 'right way' to ask out a married woman at work? Is the protocol different vs asking out single women at work? I know I should really consider married women to be ...

A.   28 August 2008: yeah there is a right way..........ask Both she and her husband... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend AND HIS FRIEND! I don't know what to do.

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now and I love him very much. In the past few months I have developed very strong feelings for one of his friends who I have known for as long as my boyfriend (2 years). Even though I really care about my...

A.   28 August 2008: At your age what you are still learning about love and will be making new friends for many years. It is not the tme to get to serious with any one person. enjoy life and enjoy many friends.... (read in full...)

My fiance went out on her "hen night" and denies giving oral to this bloke, as I was told. I can't tell if I want to continue to be with her.

Q.   I hop you can help as I dont know what to do. I'm about to get married next month but my fiance did something horrible to me and i just cant tell if i even want to be with her anymore. She went on her hen night last week and her and her mates go...

A.   28 August 2008: forgive her and be happy... (read in full...)

Why does he want threesomes after 5 years?! What happens if I say yes?

Q.   i am 19 and for the last 5 years i have been with the same person. We now have a gorgeous son who is 5 months old. Ever since the beginning of our relationship everything was fun we didnt have sex untill about a year after we met just recentlly afte...

A.   28 August 2008: There are many reasons why he might want to do threesomes. First of all don't over-react. It is important that you both continue to talk openly and honestly about your desires/needs. Threesomes and partner swapping is not as unusual as you might ex... (read in full...)

I slept with my husbands friend! What do I do now?

Q.   So yeah last night i went out with a mutal friend for mine and my husband. Granted there has always been some sexual tention there, never intented to act on it but did entertain the idea on occastion . We go to the bar and have a good time just some ...

A.   28 August 2008: Get over the guilt feelings. Talk to your partner about your desires for multiple partner sex. Be patient and honest and when you are on the same page, play safe and play together and have fun together. No need to cheat or feel guilty. If your ... (read in full...)

My husband told me to sleep with another man, I have and liked it,will we have problems?

Q.   my husband, of two years,. has given me permission to have sex with other men. i did not ask him for this, he just told me it was ok one day while we were raking the yard (why, when we were raking the yard...wouldn't bed be a better place...but ...

A.   28 August 2008: It is a very common fantasy for men to like to watch and share their wives. Some fulfill that fantasy. Most go through life frustrated because social values get in the way and often frustrated mates become obsessive and refuse to understand their ... (read in full...)

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