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Shall I stay with my bf when I can not satisfy him with deepthroat?

Q.   I have been with my bf for two years. We love eachother but last year there has been a sexual issue which has become big mental problem for me. Like 1 year ago he told me that the most exciting thing in the world is deepthroat. Well, ok, I haven´t ...

A.   12 May 2010: My suggestion? Buy a big dildo. Tell him to deep throat it, the selfish pig.... (read in full...)

How do I find what I'm looking for?

Q.   Hello everyone. My question is how do I find who I'm looking for. As in a girlfriend I care about and who cares about me. At least I think that's what I'm asking. Here is my story. I'm 16 and I hated middle school. I was very nerd looking ...

A.   12 May 2010: well, you're not horrible. You are just allowing the wrong head to do the thinking for you. You need to be in charge of your hormones and these carnal urges. In order to find a meaninful relationship with someone, all that sexual stuff HAS to wait... (read in full...)

MSN conversation has left things sour

Q.   I'm feeling stressed at the moment, because me and my boyfriend have just had a bit of rough conversation on MSN. I really love him but I'm worried. He's way too good for me and usually we just joke about and I'm not the type of soppy person. But he ...

A.   4 May 2010: Talking over the internet is ok, but sometimes you just need to reassure each other of your love in person. My boyfriend and I have had some issues via internet, but once in person, we were able to resolve them and our love became that much ... (read in full...)

Shaving, losing my virginity and pain! Need advice on all!

Q.   Hia, I'm 16, and i think that in august i will loose my virginity to this lad i am in love with. We're not going out because he lives about 2 hours away and we think it would be too hard to have a relationship cus of the distance, but we both want...

A.   4 May 2010: Ok, 1, you are a little too young and hormone driven to totally understand what you're doing. As goowes says, you don't know your body. You need to learn it, learn about your parts and then when you fully understand it, maybe you can make a ... (read in full...)

How much time should I wait for him to text me?

Q.   Hi, I just met a guy through a friend, and we talked for a bit then in the end he asked for my number. He texted me the day next. We chatted. Then I texted him 2 days after. We chatted. That was yesterday. The question: I'm wondering how lon...

A.   4 May 2010: Try not too stress too much if he doesnt text right away. Remember that he may have things going on and checking his phone for a text or responding right away will not be foremost on his mind, even if he does like you a lot. Other things of higher ... (read in full...)

How do I stop doing this, and if I'm going the right way to handle it?

Q.   ok so, heres the deal, I have an amazing boyfriend, hes not perfect, but he perfect for me. I have really bad self eestem issues, and i feel likei have to bring up every thing me and other boy talks about to him, to make him jealous so you know, he ...

A.   4 May 2010: This isnt self esteem thats driving you to do this. Its your ego. This is not a good thing at all, and you need to become determined to change this aspect of you. You want your boyfriend to stroke your ego, and thats unhealthy. Yes, we females love ... (read in full...)

I want to leave him, but he might be dying

Q.   Sorry this is so long, but I think details should be known. Hi guys. I'm going through some really hard times here. My boyfriend used to make me incredibly happy. He'd try his best to please me and everything for the first couple of weeks we got ...

A.   14 April 2010: Ok, well think about this: Why do you want to stay with him? Because he might be dying? That is no reason at all. As mentioned above, type 1 diabetes is perfectly manageable. And cancer patients do not have an expiration date. I know cancer s... (read in full...)

I was almost raped by my ex should I tell my new boyfriend?

Q.   *OP's own title* Ok. I'm not sure how to do or say this. It's too hard for me to even talk about it. Writing it I think I'm ok. A year ago I was in a relationship with a guy a year and a half older than me. Kissing was as far as we'd ever went befo...

A.   14 April 2010: It is too early in the relationship for you to tell him this. No offense is meant when I say this, but what you have is not a very serious relationship, as you are both young and unlearned. High school relationships are hardly ever serious. I had ... (read in full...)

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