Dream interpretation about a friend
Q. can anyone help me interpret this dream? i feel like it's really important background: my friend who's graduating a year earlier than me and going to college and i had a fight which caused us to stop talking. we haven't talked for a year. we're...
A. 23 June 2009: I don't know, but what I do know is that dreams aren't as random as we'd like to think!
I recently passed my driving test and placed a deposit on a new car but the problem was... I hadn't seen it because it was half way across the UK and needed t... (read in full...)
Dream interpretation about a friend
Q. can anyone help me interpret this dream? i feel like it's really important background: my friend who's graduating a year earlier than me and going to college and i had a fight which caused us to stop talking. we haven't talked for a year. we're...
A. 15 June 2009: the fact that you've written it on here and want to read into this particular dream says to me that you're still hung up on your lack of friendship. Maybe you initially thought you would work this out with her?
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Ex having midlife crisis and now wants to be friends
Q. i have been with my fella for over a year.. his best friend has just been sentanced to 9 months in prison and has received a letter from him explaining he wants to start a new when he gets out.. this has made my fella want to think and has ca...
A. 11 May 2009: It sounds to me like he just wants you at his beck and call. Do NOT fall for this. Tell him that if you love me 'so much' that you want to make love, then we can be together- properly. He is using you, sweetie. I hate to break it to you but it is ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my boyfriend want to give me a hand job?
Q. My boyfriend has fingered me and touched my chest n everything and we really respect each other and have good communication so we're talking about it and he sez he doesnt want me to give him a handjob and i dont know why any ideas?...
A. 9 May 2009: maybe he's self-conscious of his penis size/shape? Or maybe he just wants to take things slowly? Talk to him, and remember to respect what ever pace he wants to move at xx... (read in full...)
I care about her so much and just wish I knew what she thought about me.
Q. Hello everyone, I have been seeing this girl for about four months and I really care about her a lot. Things have been sort of rocky. Sometimes she just doesnt seem interested in me and other times it seems like she is really interested in me...
A. 5 May 2009: Ok, I am only speaking from personal experience here but...
a) Maybe she doesn't know how to expres how she's feeling. I recently spent a year with a guy and just COULDN'T say those three little words, even though sometimes I felt I was going to... (read in full...)
I want to express appreciation for my Teacher...any tips?
Q. my teacher has had a huge impact on my life, I look up to him and he is such a big influence to me. I think i'm using him as a father type figure. I know that I am one of his favorite students and i'm one of the best at his subject in my school, ...
A. 5 May 2009: Saying that he's a father figure may be over-stepping the mark a little. Although it is highly flattering it borders your relationship on the realm of the unprofessional. You should try to word it something like "you are inspirational to me" ... (read in full...)
Best sex positions?
Q. Hi this question is mainly for women but any male posts would be great well im just wondrin which sex position is best for both partners wanna give my gf a night to remember thanks ...
A. 5 May 2009: My personal preference is doggy-style. Which, to clarify, is VAGINAL penetration from behind (the women on all fours with the male behind). It just seems to hit the right spot and enables you both to play a part in the speed, depth and roughness of ... (read in full...)
I find it difficult to orgasm through penetration alone. Does anyone else find this?
Q. Hey, I have a problem that's really bothering me and it's making me really paranoid. Everytime I have sex I just can't orgasm through penetration at all... Like not even close and this is like this regardless of the guy I'm with. So much so tha...
A. 5 May 2009: I have had a strange experience with orgasm through penetration...
I have been in a few long-term relationships that I never had an orgasm through penetration. I mean, relationships where we were perfectly comfortable with each other/each other's ... (read in full...)
Why do guys like to play games with your heart?
Q. Why do guys like to play games with your heart? Its obvious sometimes how this guy feels about me but then it seems like he doesn't like me. It makes me sad when I don't talk to him and he doesn't care until later on. I don't like him playing games! ...
A. 5 May 2009: I have no faith in the male population too, ha. Hop on the bandwagon, my dear :P
You want to address this issue directly. Ask him straight out why he's playing games with you. Tell him that this is his last opportunity to sort this out (and act... (read in full...)
I am in a new relationship. Please Helppppp!!!
Q. I am in a new relationship, I've known this guy since high school and he's changed so much. When we were together in high school he was so touchy feely and always happy but now six years later he's gotten a whole lot quieter and distant and I don't ...
A. 5 May 2009: You need to talk to him. He obviously isn't aware of how much of an effect this is having on you. You need to tell him that this isn't going to work unless something changes. You can't beat this problem out of him but you need him to know that you ... (read in full...)
Does having your nose pierced hurt?
Q. This isn't a relationship question but I'm hoping to get advice anyway. I've been wanting to get my nose pierced for quite some time now and I'm allowed to get it done but I'm scared that it's gonna hurt. Does getting your nose pierced hurt? Anyone ...
A. 4 May 2009: When I had mine done I actually asked if they had done it!! lol. No, seriously though, it doesn't hurt very much AT ALL. It is just a split-second sting followed by your eyes watering! Just remember to use the correct cleaning procedure afterwards, ... (read in full...)
Is this a case of practice makes perfect or not?
Q. Hello! I am female and 18 years old. So last night, me and my boyfriend lost our virginity to each other. Yes I am on the contraceptive pill and he used a condom, which as far as we are aware, did not break. Anyway, even though we both orgasm-ed, ...
A. 4 May 2009: I think you would have said if it had caused you pain, so therefore I am assuming either a) your vagina will 'strech' to accomodate him over time or b) you weren't relaxed enough c) you weren't turned on enough. If you don't completely relax those ... (read in full...)
She's had sex with possibly 30 plus guys and I have issues with it!
Q. Hi everybody Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now. Im 20 and she's 23. I seem too keep on having an issue with her past. She's had sex with around 30 guys. Could be more. I myself have been with 17 girls, and as such I a...
A. 4 May 2009: I personally would like to add that it would bug me more if the person I was dating had previously been engaged etc. For this woman to have been with so many guys shouts out to me that they didn't mean anything/ much.
Just to put this is to persp... (read in full...)
I'M ATTRACTED TO TRANSEXUALS. AM I GAY?
Q. I have a problem! I am a 17 year old lad who really likes girls but for some weird reason i am really into transexuals. I only like the transexuals who really look like girls though and i find myself watching more transexual porn these days. I feel ...
A. 1 May 2009: This is a difficult one for me to answer because I can't tell you how you are feeling...
However, I would like to say that you are at a very curious age. Sex and sexuality are curious subjects for all teenagers, hence why many immature youths w... (read in full...)
How do I give her the bad boy attitude without going too far and running her off?
Q. I have been dating a girl for 6 months. She recently told me I was too nice and smothered her. I only call her so much because she cheated on me for a month with her ex. She is pregnant with my child. How do I give her the bad boy attitude without ...
A. 12 April 2009: she doesn't want 'bad-boy'!!!!!! She just means that she wants you to not be so smothering and clingy. Just give her abit more distance. If you have issues with this because of her cheating, you should address this with her! Tell her that you have ... (read in full...)
15 yo and pregnant. Who decides on giving the baby up for adoption: me or my parents?
Q. Hey. Im 15 years old and i think i might be pregnant. I live in Georgia, and i was wondering if i am pregnant can my parents make me put in up for adoption or is it my choice? Just need some advice, Thanks....
A. 9 April 2009: I'm not sure about Georgia, or the U.S, but here in the U.K it would be completely down to the mother. Maybe have a look online? I'm pretty certain that it will be down to you no matter what your age.
Why, are your parents threatening to put it u... (read in full...)
How can u tell if a man still loves you?
Q. Id like to ask all the men out there a question. I'm a woman confused about men, so who better to ask :) right! The question is, how can u tell if a man still loves you? My ex broke my heart, i let him go because that is what he wanted and that...
A. 7 April 2009: I don't think he loves you as much as you want him to love you (if that makes any sense)! If he loved you more than anything else in the world, and you are his be-all and end-all, then there should be no mixed signals? For you to ask this questio... (read in full...)
Will he contact me? Or do I just forget?
Q. i was seeing this guy for 6 months and I'm crazy about him. he finished with me about a month ago but we kept on sleeping together. this is all over with now but because i was so angry and confused by his actions i got drunk and sent a lot of unfo...
A. 6 April 2009: I really can not say whether he'll be in touch. I was in EXACTLY the same situation until this evening (except me and the guy have been trying to be just-friends for the last month). I text him a couple of times since we split and he has been ... (read in full...)
I don't know whats going on with me and my bf. Should I just be patient?
Q. I don't no whats going on with me and my bf we've been together 5 years ok we had a big row a couple of months ago and sai not nice things and broke up but now we are back together. He hasn't said i love since Christmas he always used to say befo...
A. 6 April 2009: I think he is deliberately distancing himself so he can prepare himself for the worst again. Either that, or he doesn't feel quite the same anymore. Sorry, I didn't understand your post very well... did you put that he said "ok mate x"?? I think you ... (read in full...)
My wife watches porn when I am away!
Q. I am 32 and married. In some occasions I watched porn with my wife. Afterwords she said it was not a good idea and rejected it so I stopped. Lately I have seen she is watching porn while I am away. She is now in another country and when I call...
A. 4 April 2009: I think you may be overreacting here... You are away? She got bored? You don't sound like you know for definate that she is watching anything 'suspect'? Don't you watch porn/masturbate without your wife? I think porn can be used successfully in ... (read in full...)
My huge crush is dating my best friend
Q. i have a huge crush that is dating my best friend, there pretty serious but my best friend never has long relationships. his girlfriend is also my best friend thats a girl. im afraid we have developed to much of a close friendship that she'll like ...
A. 4 April 2009: I can only say one thing here- Friends girlfriends are OFF-LIMITS. Seriously. You can not put this girl before any friendship. I know this isn't what you want to hear but you HAVE to move on. NO OTHER OPTIONS (sorry!) Good luck, ... (read in full...)
I cant drive...does this make me a loser?
Q. Hi,i just need some honest advice. Im 26 year old female and i dont drive. I did lessons a few years ago but just couldn't get my head round them so i quit. Also i suffer with anxiety -on and off and for the past few years i've been on antidepr...
A. 4 April 2009: No, it just means that some people are SHALLOW. You can be the most interesting person in the world and not drive! Don't feel pressured into driving but if it is something that you'd like to pursue, then go for it! Anxiety and depression aren'... (read in full...)
So what else can I do in place of giving him oral sex?
Q. Hello! I posted a question yesterday evening, but only recieved one response. And, well to be quite honest it didn't really answer my problem. So I'm reposting in hopes that someone can help out. Here is the question in it's original form. "My bo...
A. 26 March 2009: Does he have any difficulties when masturbating? If it doesn't hurt when masturbating, I think there may be abit of fibbing going on here... (?)
Write back x... (read in full...)
I've finally fallen for him, but now he doesn't care. What should I do?
Q. Ok, I was in love, in a 2 year relationship and then he suddenly left me and didn't even give me any reasons. I was shocked, and alone for about three months, and then this guy (my current bf) came around and I really liked him. I even thought at ...
A. 24 March 2009: I had EXACTLY the same situation as you last year. I was with this guy who was in the same friendship group, we were together all day every day etc, but I didn't feel like the relationship was working. It was the hardest thing I could do, but I ... (read in full...)
He has done this before where we break up and then get back together...??
Q. My boyfriend and I have had a rough month kind of like constantly walking on eggshells. He went out on St pattys day all night and didn't call me which I found disrespectful since we live together. I called him the next day and he gave me the worst ...
A. 24 March 2009: Maybe you should try and move out for a while? Even if you do get back together then at least you have boh had a breather. Plus, he may realise that he misses you when you are gone? If you do move out, don't contact him straight away, give him time. ... (read in full...)
I was tricked and I'm hurt .
Q. Oh my god I can't even begin to tell you. The love of my life is NOT what I thought he was. I thought he moved away, at least that's what I was told, cried myself to sleep that night when he comes back. I thought we had broken up but you know that ...
A. 24 March 2009: Tell him you've broken up with him, laugh a lot and then tell him you're NOT JOKING either. What a stupid idiot and a waste of your time and effort. Find somebody who really cares about you x... (read in full...)
My beautiful baby was born dead and I'm finding it very difficult to cope... Please help me...
Q. On the 27th of February my baby was born dead... I'm finding it very hard to grieve and do anything. I have an 18 month old baby and I can't seem to hold her... I don't know how to go on. Please I need some help. ...
A. 23 March 2009: I see you cry, I cry for you. I see you hurt it hurts me too. Every day as you grow worse, I die inside, as you get hurt. I wish that I could help you now, And save you, but I don’t know how. So we’ll hold hands, in pain forever, Unt... (read in full...)
My fiancee wants an abortion, but the thought of it makes me sick. What should I do?
Q. Hi everyone. My fiancee was scared to death of becoming pregnant and now she is. We use contraception but nothing is 100% as you all know. She has always been adamant that she will get an abortion regardless of whether I want it or not and she says ...
A. 9 March 2009: You really might have to learn to respect her decision. What sort of life would this baby have if she didn't want it and only had it because she felt persuaded by you. That would cause an awful amount of resentment? I know you resent the idea of her ... (read in full...)
I just found out he has a child!
Q. Dear Cupid i have been in this relationship for four years with this guy i love him very much and i know that he loves me too.the problem is tht this past week the was a lady who came to him and told him that he has a 4 or 5 year old girl whit her...
A. 9 March 2009: Whether or not he has a child shouldn't effect how you feel for him. I understand that you feel confused as this is a huge surprise, but this is his problem. Would it be so bad if he did have a child to loook after one day a week? Even if you decide ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 have a baby, want another. Should I?
Q. I'm 14 and when I was 13 I wanted a baby really badly. Well I got one and my daughter is just the love of my life. The father left but still helps fnancially, other than that I am supporting the baby fully on my own, so don't even start with any of ...
A. 2 March 2009: only you can make that decision. Personally, I think it is a silly idea. It will be alot more of a burdern for you. What's the rush? Why not enjoy the child you have? Or is it the 'puppy has now grown into a dog' so you want another puppy-syndrome? ... (read in full...)
So close to something great, but unable to get there.
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and 1/2. We live an hour apart. Generally spend weekends together and sometimes weeknights. There has been growing problems about her expressing her feelings for me. I know she loves me, I can see it in ...
A. 2 March 2009: I think an actual space will help her realise what you mean to her and she will miss you. Make sure that you don't pester her during this time. As much as I disagree with playing games in a relationship, sometimes games can work. Play hard to get a ... (read in full...)
So close to something great, but unable to get there.
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and 1/2. We live an hour apart. Generally spend weekends together and sometimes weeknights. There has been growing problems about her expressing her feelings for me. I know she loves me, I can see it in ...
A. 2 March 2009: I think maybe you should distance yourself from her for a while. Maybe take a break in the relationship and she will come running. This chase will help her tell you how she's feeling. Or just explain that her distance is killing you and you can't ... (read in full...)
What is he REALLY saying?
Q. hello i really really need your help. wt does it mean when a guy asks you to ask him what you mean to him, and then so u ask him and he says to me your a gurl?? is that him blowing me off or is that him not being able to tell me how he rea...
A. 2 March 2009: Boys often do stupid things. If you know deep down that he isn't a jerk then let it drop this time, but if this happens again don't stand for it! If this was one of your girl friends you wouldn't stay friends with them if they were deliberately ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is more like my father figure.
Q. My boyfriend is a way over my age which is normal for me, because I've also been attracted to older men, than my own age. My father died a few years ago, and it feels like my boyfriend is trying to be more my father figure. Of course, we do th...
A. 2 March 2009: I think the only way he will learn that you are he girlfriend and not his daughter is for you to stand on your own two feet! I think your boyfriend just likes to control and appears quite possessive of you = not a good thing! Make him realise that ... (read in full...)
What is he REALLY saying?
Q. hello i really really need your help. wt does it mean when a guy asks you to ask him what you mean to him, and then so u ask him and he says to me your a gurl?? is that him blowing me off or is that him not being able to tell me how he rea...
A. 28 February 2009: Unless he was joking, I think he is making a point of telling you that you don't mean much to him. Even if he was joking, he may be slightly subconsciously thinking it. What context are we talking here? Are you just friends? Where were you when it ... (read in full...)
Are these signs that he's not interested?
Q. Help! I can't stop thinking about this guy. We started seein each other beginning of january. The last time I saw him was 10 days ago. He lives about an hour away. And since then he only texts back after i do first. I've only talked to him on the ...
A. 27 February 2009: I think it is a bit harsh to claim that this is a childish post/situation. Everyone has doubts and fears no matter how old they are! Everyone plays games and become infatuated no matter how old they are! Isn't love beautiful! :D Anyway, back t... (read in full...)
Prego? Or too much sex caused damage?
Q. The weekend before last I stayed at my boyfriends house over night, and because this rarely happens we slept together 10 times over the period. 3 times with protection, 7 times without. We also had unprotected sex the weekend before. My period was ...
A. 25 February 2009: You should definately go and either see a doctor or take a home pregnancy test? The only other thing I can say is to click on the link below- http://www.ivillage.co.uk/pregnancyandbaby/tools/ovucal/ If you have regular periods usually, this wi... (read in full...)
He went running back to his ex!
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years i paid for his car and help him financially. his ex girlfriend called and said she want him back and he went back to her. she doesnt even know about me. but i still love him n cant get over him what...
A. 10 February 2009: are you still in contact with him??... (read in full...)
Is "I'm falling for you" close to "I love you"?
Q. My bf said, "I think I'm falling for you." Is that getting close to saying 'I love you.'?? ...
A. 9 February 2009: I would say yes. "I think I'm falling for you" means I think I am falling [in love]. Different people adopt different meanings for phrases and words though? Like I often tell my friends that I love them, just as I would a bf? Meaning is down to the ... (read in full...)
Troubled by feelings for a younger girl and my older teacher...
Q. Basically, Theres a girl a couple of years younger than me who likes me. She is openly gay, everyone knows she likes me. I, on the other hand am a coward, I see the way they shun her and I just don't want that to happen to me. She's in isolation ...
A. 9 February 2009: It is obvious that you are sick of being alone by your lust for two different people. I suggest you forget about your teacher, it really isn't going to happen. I really can NOT believe that she got undressed in front of you, that is ridiculously ... (read in full...)
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