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Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?
Q. This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...
A. 8 January 2008: Sometimes yes, other times, no. There is never jsut one reason women cheat, believe me!
If you have a girlfriend, ask yourself why you would cheat on her (you may never, but be poky and find something no matter how small!).... (read in full...)
Should I warn my friend about using protection, as I am worried about him?
Q. I'm worried for my freind. He and his girlfreind are both deeply in love with eachother, and they are both underage. They have been very close to having sex, and I'm worried that they're going to do so without protection. I don't know if I should ...
A. 8 January 2008: I don;t know if its the same in America but in England, underage sex involves the boy being prosecuted and possibly done for rape, even though she consented! Tell him that and I'm sure he'll reconsider!... (read in full...)
Do I contact him or should I wait for him to contact me??
Q. I met a really great guy online. He's a few years older than me, divorced - I was never married, just engaged, though both our partners cheated on us - both these relationships ended about 5 years ago. I have a kid which this guy has known about si...
A. 8 January 2008: Set youeslf a time. Wait until say midday tomorrow, if you here nothing, text him. You may think he may not care if he doesn't contact you, but really, that's men for you! A lot of them are like you, and he may feel like he is pushing you too much.... (read in full...)
What should I say to him when I see him?
Q. My ex split up with me out of the blue. Everything was fine. All went wrong from am-pm the same day. I sent an e-mail about him cancelling plans with me (the first time in 7 months)which he told me has made him feel he doesn't treat me like he ...
A. 8 January 2008: I am sorry to say this, but you cannot make someone love you, as painful as it sounds.
Next time you see him, walk up to him and say "who's the other girl then?". This will embarrass him into telling you what the hell is going on.
Good Luck, lo... (read in full...)
We want sex but can't. What should we do?
Q. This isn't funny. It's true. I'm experienced, she's a virgin. We have 5 years between us and in our twenties.2 years together. I'm an average guy, it's just everytime she said it was hurting her I backed off. I want to have sex with her...
A. 8 January 2008: Was she a virgin? I forget what it was called, but a lot of women have a lining inside the vagina that hurts during sex, but once broken, is fine. This is fine im sure. It hurts when it breaks though, and you find some blood. You may need to see a ... (read in full...)
Does the contraceptive Implant hurt when it is inserted?
Q. Hello, I am thinking of using the contraceptive implant. I was just wandering if it hurt at all to have it put in, thats the only part that puts me off. Thanks...
A. 7 January 2008: The doctor (or nurse) injects a little anaesthetic into your skin, and then pushes the tiny rod in, using a needle.
Because of the anaesthetic, there should be very little pain.
Generally, the procedure takes no more than two minutes. If ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to wait til your 18 to lose your virginity or do anything sexual?
Q. is it ok to wait til your 18 or so or at uni to lose your virginity or do anything sexual (other than kissing)? p.s i live in uk where everyone has sex before 16 [rolls eyes] id like everyones personal oipinions please, also not "don't be press...
A. 7 January 2008: OK? That's fantastic if you can wait that long! A lot of people become products of pier pressure. If you can stay away from that then I'm sure you will be fine. You don't want to be tied up with responiblites if you don't use protection now do you?... (read in full...)
How can I get my family out of the house for a while?
Q. How can I get my parents and brothers out of the house for a few hours while I invite my girlfriend round? My mum has said before that if I wanted to bring a gf round then to ask her and she'll disappear for a while but theres no way she'll do that ...
A. 3 January 2008: I think maybe it would be for the best to ask her if she would mind disappearing for a while. Just make it sound innocent (if it is then this shouldn't be hard). If she DID give you tonnes of lectures, just say to her that you are a responsible ... (read in full...)
14, my dad died, my big brother hates me, my mother as well and I am bulied in school and at home. I'd like to move with my auntie but don't know how she'd react. Solutions for me, please?
Q. here are my promblems ... -my dad died 3years ago when i was 10, i miss him so much -ive fallen out with all my mates, i cant live without them -my big brother hates my, and i mean hates me, he wont talk to me and hasnt for a year, he moved t...
A. 26 December 2007: I am 14 and I genuinly feel for you. I am lucky I suppose, but at 14 you feel as though you hate everything anyway. Do not let thes problems affect your future. Put it this way, early teens are the worst EVER!! You will learn to be strong and just ... (read in full...)
What is sticking sex?
Q. plz tel me what is the sticking sex...? or meaning of sticking sex....?...
A. 26 December 2007: I've never heard of it. Are you sure you don't mean stocking sex?... (read in full...)
We are in love but my parents won't agree to our relationship. What should I do, marry him anyway or forget him?
Q. i love a guy and he too loves me a lot,but my parents wont agree for our relationship, due the circumstances he is telling let us forget and marry the person our parents like. how should i react and wat should i do. should i marry him or forget...
A. 23 December 2007: Don't listen to your parents! I would NEVER say that usually, but I believe you should go with your heart and if your parents believe in the arranged marriage system, then you should sit down and talk eith tem about it.... (read in full...)
My bf is so loving but I just don't seem to want sex and its tearing me apart.
Q. I have a loving boyfriend we have been together about 10 months now, but for some strange reason i just don't want sex? I don't remember being like this with my ex's, but i have never felt this strongly about anyone before. I was sexually harrass...
A. 23 December 2007: That's good if your relationship isn't just sex sex sex. It shows you are capable of basing a love life on care, and trust. When you both feel ready, have sex. But remember, its not jsut about that.... (read in full...)
With or without a condom....which way is less painful??
Q. My girlfriend said that it hurt's her less with a condom but i have also heard that it hurt's more with a condom. What do you think? Any tip's will help becouse i want to hurt her as little as i can....
A. 23 December 2007: It should hurt less, because the condom is lubricated to reduce friction.... (read in full...)
Happy Xmas from DearCupid
Q. Happy Xmas everyone :-) The aunts who share their wisdom, the people who share their questions and the team of moderators who keep everything flowing onto the site! Plus the 350,000 people who visit each month Have a great Xmas! Feel free t...
A. 23 December 2007: Just to wich you all a merry christmas, and thank you so much to Andrew. Without dearcupid I would have gone mad with all the problems in me! Thankyou, this is my first xmas on dearcupid, I only joined, I think, October or September. Well done!
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My crush told me in a dream that it's not meant to be, what does this dream mean??
Q. A couple of nights ago, i had a dream about my crush. It took place at school in the art room. He was sitting on te counter top and i was standing on the ground handing him like paints or something to put away in the cabinets. Then all of a sudden ...
A. 23 December 2007: I am not that superstitious, but I would say that these are your feelings, that you feel deep inside. Are you really that sure about him? or maybe you do like him but just can't admit for beingg too shy?
Hope I helped
Merry xmas,
mark
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I love her so much and want to write her a poem, can anyone please help me??
Q. i want a cute girl to love me i know her but i want her to love me, her nickname is tatty my nick name is moa so please can u make a good poem for me and her i want her to love me i want her to fall in love with me please...
A. 23 December 2007: I just thought I would add to my last post, it would be nice if you could give it to her as a Christmas present, make it that little bit more special,
merry xmas!... (read in full...)
I love her so much and want to write her a poem, can anyone please help me??
Q. i want a cute girl to love me i know her but i want her to love me, her nickname is tatty my nick name is moa so please can u make a good poem for me and her i want her to love me i want her to fall in love with me please...
A. 23 December 2007: that's really nice! im 14, and i really wish i had the courage to do that. i might give it a go and email it to you through the messaging service here oon dearcupid.
it will mean more if you do it yourself though.
it doesn't have to rhyme, i... (read in full...)
Eating problems, constipation, stress. Any recommendations, please?
Q. dear cupid i am currently having a problem, when ever i eat, i always seem to vomit what i ate, this is to the fact that i do not want to gain weight and this has caused me to become constipated, and also the paranoia of my man boobs increasing...
A. 13 December 2007: bulimia
thats the simple thing. i was dong some biology lessons on it today in fact, and this is where you do not want to gain weight because of your PARANOIA!
obviously, i cant tell you if you are fat because i cant see you, but go to a clos... (read in full...)
My best friend (16) is pregnant with my Maths teacher's baby... What should I do?
Q. omg! iv just found out that my best friend is pregnant with my maths teachers baby. this has come as a complete shock to me because i had no idea theyd even slept together! shes really worried cos her parents will just freak out n shes also really ...
A. 13 December 2007: i believe it may be illegal, yes. well in england you must be over 18 to have sex with a teacher(?). im not sure but anyway the main problem is what toy say to her. you may vae to be the one to say to her that abortion may be the only answer. i ... (read in full...)
Do you think he likes me?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm still in public school. Some of my friends think this guy likes me. I'm not gonna say his name. On the first day of school he winked at me. One time in gym class I was just standing in the middle of the gym and he ...
A. 12 December 2007: take advice from me
hes either sarcastic, synical or just loves himself
hes desperate, quite frankly
hes stalkin u
then again i may be wrong and he might actually like, but u shud be weary, u dont no who he is really... (read in full...)
Can a virgin pass on an STD?
Q. Is it possible to get STD's from giving oral to your partner who is a virgin and yourself a virgin?...
A. 7 December 2007: i believe so, because although it is rare, you can be born with it but if it hasn't affected your partner or yourlsevses in anyway then i shouldnt worry about it.... (read in full...)
I have just had a mental blockage and cannot remember what I learned in preparation for the GCSE. Please help.
Q. i am very seriously worried i have my gcse examinations on mondai i am sudying 15 subjects and i am a higher teir student meanin i expected to get a-C grades i have jus had a mental block i cannot think of anything or remember what i learned ...
A. 6 December 2007: hey hey hey! calm down. this is competly normal. u will find that when you try to REMEMBER what you rememberd you cant, just take some revisoin and you will see that you didnt forget it. im only 13 and have already done gcses, just pace yourself. ... (read in full...)
My girls wants a threesome!
Q. My girlfriend wants us to have a threesome with another woman and I'm not sure if I want to. I think it would be fun, but I'm quite a jealous person when it comes to her, and I think I might even get jealous of her with another woman. She really ...
A. 6 December 2007: like phil said, go for it! if she enjoys it she will apreciate you more and know u respect her. just let urself go for one night!... (read in full...)
Am I wierd?
Q. Okay, well heres the deal.. Im an 18 year old guy.. and I recently made friends with an 13 year old girl.. but theres more to it than that. Basically I saw this girl on MySpace, and it said her age was 19.. she looked abit younger but i thought ...
A. 6 December 2007: im sorry to say this but yes, most people wud. for now, stay as friends and dont initiate anything. fight urself back, dont let ur desire take over and DONT meet her until shes at least 16 for obvious reasons. im sure ur a great guy but people may ... (read in full...)
I say "no" when asked out cos I don't know how to snog!
Q. hey im 14 years old girl lot of lads keep askin me out n i keep sayin no just because i dont know how to snog..... im realy need a help with this........
A. 6 December 2007: this is stupid! dont worry about something as silly as that. if u like the guy, go for it. it doesnt matter if u cant snog. im 14 and havent kissed in my life. things like this will come naturally, and you will learn. as other people have said... (read in full...)
What is the risk of pregancy??
Q. If my girlfriend is on the pill, can i ejaculate inside her, without fear of pregnancy? What is the risk? ...
A. 18 November 2007: the pill is very effective, but s other people have ,mentioned it has flaws. i reccomend a barrier contraceptive such as a condom, to be extra sure.... (read in full...)
Should I date my deceased ex-boyfriend's best friend
Q. My exboyfriend died 3 months ago in a tragic car accident. I loved him dearly but he did not know, he thought I hated him because of a lot of things he put me through. I have a problem. I still love my exboyfriend with all my heart, but I may be ...
A. 16 November 2007: First of all let me give my condolences for you. It seems as if you really liked this guy, and then he goes and leaves you. look on it like that. are you religious? If so then you'll no he'll be watching you and respecting your decisions. If not, ... (read in full...)
I thought she was the one. How can I get over her?
Q. Probably no point in saying this really but i am going to put in out there. A couple of weeks ago i was told by a girl that i like that she likes me. i told her the same. she said she liked me but didnt want to rush it. after 2 weeks of getting ...
A. 2 November 2007: a couple of weeks isnt a very long time. love comes when it comes and doesnt when it doesnt. im sure you will find someone, good luck!... (read in full...)
Reading body language - does he like me? I already told him I like him more than a friend!
Q. If a guy does these things: - folds his arms, often/contantly - is very quiet/shy suddenly when around you - laughs nervously - won't look me in the eye/avoids eye contact - looks uncomfortable - smiles slightly to himself, and looks downwards ...
A. 1 November 2007: no, he likes you. That seems to be exactly me around this girl in my class. laughing nervously, avoiding eye contact, blushing when mates tell her i fancy her... yup.
have u considered that he may be shy BECAUSE he likes you? ... (read in full...)
I want out because I'm not loyal and I'm bored. But she loves me - and sometimes I think I love her - so I could just come back!
Q. Okay, well I have been going out with this girl for about six months. I look at myself and I think "why would someone want to go out with me?" I think this because I like my freedom - I'm unloyal - and to be honest I get bored. Well, now I'm thin...
A. 22 October 2007: if you only love her SOMETIMES then you have to ask yourself what is you love about her, and is it enough?... (read in full...)
Going through a Self-Esteem Crisis!
Q. To give you a bit of a brief of the situation, im going through a self esteem crisis. Now, where to start... I'm fat, ugly and a real geek. My best friend of around 8 years has disappeared since I moved house. I feel empty, and as if i can trus...
A. 14 October 2007: thanks everyone ive had some great advise... (read in full...)
I don't know why all boys find me so unattractive?
Q. I really really really want a boyfriend i have wanted one for ages and its killing me inside, i want someone to talk to, to cuddle and to love but i don't know why all boys find me so unnattractive...
A. 14 October 2007: put it this way. I'm 13 and ive never had a girlfriend, for similar reasons. a couple of days ago, i had this brilliant thought. ie decided not to give a damn until im 18 and leave school, then people wont know you and you can start again. for now ... (read in full...)
What has changed since her trip away??
Q. I have been with my wife since university and married for the last 3yrs. She recently worked in Africa for 4mths and since coming back i eventually noticed a lack of affection towards me. I decided to test this by not kissing, hugging, snuggle up or ...
A. 12 October 2007: say to her:
'do you want to go, or stay. i will support you, you just need to tell me.'
she will most likey here give you the truth, i mean, you can try chasing afte her, but this may not work. if she loves you then love her back. either way... (read in full...)
He proposed to me - but did he really mean it?
Q. Hi all...new here so not sure how this all works but really liked your posted discussions so thought that I would throw my current situation/question out there.. The man that I have been involved with(great relationship) for sometime asked me a cou...
A. 11 October 2007: i think he really meant it when he said it, but it seems to me he is having second thoughts. has anything happened since then? have you had disagreements? has any romance gone?... (read in full...)
He never instigates sex. Why not? Is he gay?
Q. Hi.. I've been in a relationship with an amazing guy for 7 months now. We moved in together one month ago. He is perfect on every level - considerate, fun, witty, very sociable etc etc... However, I feel he doesn't fancy me because he never...
A. 11 October 2007: I wouldnt say he was gay. I would presume that he is just looking out for you. I dont think he thinks he is good enough for you. He may get plain embarrassed during sex. you never know. ... (read in full...)
Who should make the first move - and how?
Q. Hi everyone I got such nice responses last time, I need some more advice and feel I can turn to you guys so here goes. I have been with my boyfriend now for 6 weeks and he told me for the first time on saturday that he is a virgin and while I ...
A. 11 October 2007: there are two types of sex, planned and spauntanious. Planned should entail romance, candles and the like, whereas spauntanious should just be a romantic plunge. you know, romantic music playing in the background over a glass of wine. What is seems ... (read in full...)
I need sex, what do I do
Q. i feel like i am going to die without sex what should i do i am 12...
A. 10 October 2007: Im 13, a year older than you. im telling you, SURVIVE! I felt exactly the same way and 13 is the worst. from then on, its gets easy. Life carries on and stress realy kicks in at your age. The hormones are killing you and you really need to cool ... (read in full...)
How can I satisfy him?
Q. Hi there... ive been with my boyfriend for three months now and everything is fantastic. He actually told me for the first time that he loved me the other day. We got chatting about bedroom antics and he said that even though he doesnt always r...
A. 9 October 2007: he wasnt complaining as he? no! he was just making conversation (not exactly but you get the idea). he says it still satisfies him. its alway the plesure that satisfies him, he may well just enjoy the intimacy of sex.... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell him I don't want to go out with him.
Q. i need help. This is going to sound like a soap opera but this is it. ok a guy from work who are hung out with sometimes has broke up with his girlfriend. So now the guy whats to date me and ex girlfriend wants to date my ex (which to be honest i...
A. 9 October 2007: do you like him? go with your heart. if you like him, well quite frankly you should stuff everyone else.... (read in full...)
I want a threesome, she's reluctant. What do I do now?
Q. Ok here's the story, I hooked up with this chick I met a little while ago and we get along famously. We speak often, have a good time when we go out, great sex albeit a little infrequently due to distance constraints. It hasn't been going long ...
A. 9 October 2007: if you really want this experience then go down to a club and get a 3some. there are always people looking for this kind of stuff... (read in full...)
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