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Do tell her to put family before anything else?

Q.   I am 19,n really want to give my sort of step mom some good advice caz shes been askin my opinion. You see we are like best friends, shes been there for me for 5 yrs.She married her 1st boyfriend right outa high school, is now devorised n has been ...

A.   4 August 2017: Thank you all for taking the time for me. Many thanks. (Our familys going to grams n gramps for a 2 week much needed vacation. No computer there.I think getting away is going to do us all great.)Best of luck to u all. ... (read in full...)

Was substitute dad trying too hard or did he overstep the mark?

Q.   So my ? is Can substitute dad put down ground rules on date night when i am 19 and will not graduate high school until January. My father is no longer living with us-Due to my dads meanness we have never been close. anyways, my step mom is now ...

A.   4 August 2017: Many thanks for all your help, i wish u all well--We are going to Leave for my grandparents for 2 weeks much needed vacation. Thanks again:) ... (read in full...)

Was substitute dad trying too hard or did he overstep the mark?

Q.   So my ? is Can substitute dad put down ground rules on date night when i am 19 and will not graduate high school until January. My father is no longer living with us-Due to my dads meanness we have never been close. anyways, my step mom is now ...

A.   3 August 2017: To make a long story short, last night i got hurt at work, my uncle was the 1st to arrive n take me for stitches. mom came to the walk in as quickly as she could. My dad got called- he never showed-nothing from him. im not surprised -hes never been ... (read in full...)

Do tell her to put family before anything else?

Q.   I am 19,n really want to give my sort of step mom some good advice caz shes been askin my opinion. You see we are like best friends, shes been there for me for 5 yrs.She married her 1st boyfriend right outa high school, is now devorised n has been ...

A.   31 July 2017: To be civil or not??? Truth comes out!!! Saw my dad in town when i went to pick up my paycheck. at this moment i have no respect for him. He came up to me asking for my blessing and congrats of his new engagement to his 8 month pregnant girl... (read in full...)

Do tell her to put family before anything else?

Q.   I am 19,n really want to give my sort of step mom some good advice caz shes been askin my opinion. You see we are like best friends, shes been there for me for 5 yrs.She married her 1st boyfriend right outa high school, is now devorised n has been ...

A.   29 July 2017: My grandfather caught me reading the responses you all left for me. Gramps and gram just said we'd talk later about it. Him and gram came out to visit because they wanted to help me get over my cheating bf-that i dumped last night. I didn't realize ... (read in full...)

Do tell her to put family before anything else?

Q.   I am 19,n really want to give my sort of step mom some good advice caz shes been askin my opinion. You see we are like best friends, shes been there for me for 5 yrs.She married her 1st boyfriend right outa high school, is now devorised n has been ...

A.   29 July 2017: My grandfather caught me reading the responses you all left for me. Gramps and gram just said we'd talk later about it. Him and gram came out to visit because they wanted to help me get over my cheating bf-that i dumped last night. I didn't realize ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is cheating, pressuring me to have sex. I'm afraid he'll leave me if I don't give in

Q.   I am 19 and even tho i know all my friends are having sex, i know it doesn't mean i have to but i'm getting a lot of pressure from my boyfriend to do it right now. The pressure seems to be more and more as the days go on. And I will be honest, i ...

A.   29 July 2017: Thank you for helping me. i tried leaving a message here earlier-but i don't think it went threw. Friday night/last night several of us caught my bf cheating and I broke it off-we are no longer together. I'm not sure how to say it but i don't th... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is cheating, pressuring me to have sex. I'm afraid he'll leave me if I don't give in

Q.   I am 19 and even tho i know all my friends are having sex, i know it doesn't mean i have to but i'm getting a lot of pressure from my boyfriend to do it right now. The pressure seems to be more and more as the days go on. And I will be honest, i ...

A.   29 July 2017: I want to thank you for all your wonderful help. Thank you. After taking all your advice to heart, I informed my boyfriend that we needed to talk-his reply was he was to busy. Knowing he was home I decided to go speak to him. Sense it was close to ... (read in full...)

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