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Afraid that my brother's going to tell what he saw, then I'll be grounded...

Q.   Dear cupid. I'm 13 and I was straddling one of my friends and he's 18 and we were making out and doing well you know and I didn't know it but my brother was outside my window watching us. And he's told my ex, also his best friend. His ex also my ...

A.   9 July 2005: I know when you are 13 an older man feels exciting and I'm sure that you feel like an adult yourself. But honestly 13 is too young to be putting yourself through the stress of this type of relationship. If you have read the other problems on this ... (read in full...)

I just know that she's the one for me, but she's still stressing over her divorce...

Q.   I am a 25 year old man and have been dating a women that is 32. We met at her workplace and hit it off right away. I knew from the time i saw her that she was the one. She was married and after meeting me and knowing for the 2 years in her ...

A.   21 June 2005: Back Off, going through a divorce especially when kids are involved is extremely difficult. She needs to focus 100% on making sure that her kids can cope with this and that will leave her no time to start a new realtionship. What this woma... (read in full...)

We're both 15 and we're ready for sex... I think...

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while now. We are both teenagers and are 15. We have talked about sex and feel we are both ready for it, but she says that sometimes after we do things together i.e 'heavy petting' or foreplay etc it ...

A.   21 June 2005: If your girlfriend is in pain then it could be that she is not fully relaxed and enjoying what is happening or it could be that in your own excitement you are being too rough. YOu must speak to hear to make sure that your girlfriend is happy ta... (read in full...)

Too much commitment to work drove a wedge between us, but now she won't even give us a chance!

Q.   I (40)have been in a relationship with my partner (26) for 16 months and we both run a successful business in a foreign country. We have moved through many stressful situations as we have both been struggling to make ends meet ie rent/car payments...

A.   21 June 2005: I think that you need to give your ex some space. You said that you both felt happier as individuals since the breakup so why rush back in to something that made you unhappy. If you give her some space but stay in her life as a good friend then... (read in full...)

Why am I jealous of my husband's time with his adult daughter?

Q.   I have recently got married for the second time. We both have children, but my husband's are grown up. Except for his 18yr old daughter whom he is still very close with. I find it difficult to accept their close relationship as sometimes it has infr...

A.   21 June 2005:  it is understandable to feel insecure about your partner spending time with another woman but this is his child. You should consider yourself extremely lucky to have found a man who is caring enough to want to spend time with his children... (read in full...)

My mother is in denial, and my sister doesn't know, but my dad is keen on Sis's boyfriend!

Q.   Make sure you are sitting down for this awful situation I have found myself in. My father has taken to my sister's boyfriend. I dont mean that in a platonic way and will spare you the gruesome details for your own personal sanity. I have brought ...

A.   21 June 2005: You're in a really diffcult situation and I really feel for you. I would advise that you speak to your Dad about what you saw and heard. Is it possible that there is an innocent reason behind it? If your Dad won't talk try to speak to your sisters ... (read in full...)

My ex-fiance and I are only friends now, but is there a chance for us again?

Q.   Hi, I posted a question about four months ago when I had just split up with my fiancee. We were due to get married in September but he could not handle the commitment and together with me being diagnosis at the time as have m.e we were both ...

A.   21 June 2005: Maybe you just need some time apart to make him realise how he really feels for you. My advise would be to give him some space but still keep in touch and go out as friends. If he loves you being apart will make him realise how much.... (read in full...)

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