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Cultural differences are causing big problems in our relationship

Q.   My boyfriend and I love one another very much, but we have communication/understanding problems due to cultural differences. My parents and I are both Korean American, and he is a Korean international student from Korea. Although my parents and I ...

A.   15 April 2012:  This sounds very similar to my last relationship. I'm a Canadian and I was dating a Korean woman here on a working visa. We had so many issues, we probably had an arguement once a week. She thought I treated her poorly, I thought she was disres... (read in full...)

Why am I think of a guy who treated me horribly in the end?

Q.   I sort of saw this lad for about six months and we sometimes got on great but other times he'd treat me really badly. It ended badly and he was pretty horrid. I got a new boyfriend about six months later. It's been three years since and I have been ...

A.   15 April 2012:  I've been here, and I actually ran into the ex that treated me badly. I would say you feel like this because you want something he didn't give you, at least thats how I felt. When I ran into my ex I tried to rekindle things, bad idea. She wa... (read in full...)

She stops to chat with people but never introduces me?

Q.   my girlfriend has a habit of stopping in stores to talk to people she knows, this would seem fine and all but she treats me like a stranger the minute she see's them. Weather it's a man or woman she never introduces me and normally steps to another ...

A.   15 April 2012:  That would drive me nuts. I would bring it up with her.... (read in full...)

Why after 3 months won't he sign his divorce papers?

Q.   I have been with a man for three years now, we knew each other since teenagers, we were to date than but my best freind wasjealous and stoll him and got pregnat by another man but convinced him it was his. after 20 years our paths crossed and he ...

A.   15 April 2012: I agree with Cerberus. His marriageis over, he's with you now. I'd say he's in quite a bit of pain based on the historyof his marriage. He will sign in due time, but has to get there on his own.... (read in full...)

Dealing with a break up..

Q.   My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. I'm not looking for advice just maybe a forum to chat and cope. I will explain briefly what has happened: A few weeks ago I asked to take a break, my gf got really mad at me on her birthday. I was sick...

A.   7 February 2012:  I wonder if I will ever hear from her again. She came back from Korea to be with me in December and extended her visa to stay here for another year. Her best friend and roommate went back yesterday. So I wonder what she will do know. I'm stayi... (read in full...)

Dealing with a break up..

Q.   My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. I'm not looking for advice just maybe a forum to chat and cope. I will explain briefly what has happened: A few weeks ago I asked to take a break, my gf got really mad at me on her birthday. I was sick...

A.   7 February 2012:  Lol, I meant finally managed to dial the phone with my knuckles! Fail!!... (read in full...)

Dealing with a break up..

Q.   My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. I'm not looking for advice just maybe a forum to chat and cope. I will explain briefly what has happened: A few weeks ago I asked to take a break, my gf got really mad at me on her birthday. I was sick...

A.   7 February 2012: Hey all, thank you for the responses. I don't know if break up is the right way to describe these events, if she got angry with me she would walk off an not talk to me for days. Yes, there was lots of communication problems. English is her s... (read in full...)

Dealing with a break up..

Q.   My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. I'm not looking for advice just maybe a forum to chat and cope. I will explain briefly what has happened: A few weeks ago I asked to take a break, my gf got really mad at me on her birthday. I was sick...

A.   7 February 2012:  Ya, I know she just doesn't feel the same anymore. This is the fourth time she has broken up with me. It's ok she would flip out on me once a week for some reason or an other... I'm tired of feeling like a punching bag, I've been too nice. It ... (read in full...)

How can I learn to more secure and trusting?

Q.   I've posted questions here many times for help with my relationship and past... I've had some problems with my current girlfriend, and we recently took a break. I've always been suspicious of her, have issues with trust, but I realize now that I...

A.   1 February 2012: Thank you both for your advice. As of today, my girlfriend has stopped talking to me. We were texting back and forth, until I asked her if she would like to meet up on Thursday. She had a rough day at work yesterday and said she wanted to be... (read in full...)

I want my ex to take me back again!

Q.   So I dated this girl for 4 months and I was really in love with her, we went back and forth a few times, we had our problems, we got into fights, i would get really jealous about other guys and her (turned out i had nothing to worry about atleast on ...

A.   31 January 2012:  Been here man, and it sucks, I however didn't leave my girlfriend for another girl. If you really want her back you're going to have to work at it. By her flowers, surprise her at work (that works with some girls, others it will just piss them off)... (read in full...)

Does she just want to break up?

Q.   So once again I'm in trouble with girlfriend. We made plans to go for dinner on Friday. She texted me at 545 when I wanted her to drop by. I texted 615. No response. I text her "???" At 605, still no response. Earlier I told her was hungry. So a...

A.   15 September 2011: So she texted me. She can't stop thinking about what happened it really bothers her. I can't believe she's still whining and complaining about this shit. She's being such a child. I didn't respond, I'm sick of this. I don't even care about th... (read in full...)

Does she just want to break up?

Q.   So once again I'm in trouble with girlfriend. We made plans to go for dinner on Friday. She texted me at 545 when I wanted her to drop by. I texted 615. No response. I text her "???" At 605, still no response. Earlier I told her was hungry. So a...

A.   14 September 2011: Thank you, that's good advice. Honestly, I don't think she used me for money. She has paid for her share of things. The day she was suppose to come over she picked up somethings from the grocery store for me and she has surprised me many times with ... (read in full...)

Does she just want to break up?

Q.   So once again I'm in trouble with girlfriend. We made plans to go for dinner on Friday. She texted me at 545 when I wanted her to drop by. I texted 615. No response. I text her "???" At 605, still no response. Earlier I told her was hungry. So a...

A.   14 September 2011: You're right, I have no backbone. I'm going to ignore whatever it is she is doing now. More melodramatic games obviously intended on getting my attention. I'm tired of it. I'm embarrassed for giving her the flowers. Feel like I lost face. If she ... (read in full...)

Does she just want to break up?

Q.   So once again I'm in trouble with girlfriend. We made plans to go for dinner on Friday. She texted me at 545 when I wanted her to drop by. I texted 615. No response. I text her "???" At 605, still no response. Earlier I told her was hungry. So a...

A.   14 September 2011: Well she took a picture of the flowers I gave her and put it as her profile pic on the chat app we use. On her status she put "between". Her english sucks, I don't what she means by that. So vague, but... Is she trying to tell me she's breaking up ... (read in full...)

Does she just want to break up?

Q.   So once again I'm in trouble with girlfriend. We made plans to go for dinner on Friday. She texted me at 545 when I wanted her to drop by. I texted 615. No response. I text her "???" At 605, still no response. Earlier I told her was hungry. So a...

A.   14 September 2011: I think I tried to hard and was too apologetic. A korean friend of mine suggested to wait for her and give her flowers. Now I feel a bit of fool for having done so. I'm not doing anymore. We just came back from a trip to Mexico together last week. ... (read in full...)

Does she just want to break up?

Q.   So once again I'm in trouble with girlfriend. We made plans to go for dinner on Friday. She texted me at 545 when I wanted her to drop by. I texted 615. No response. I text her "???" At 605, still no response. Earlier I told her was hungry. So a...

A.   13 September 2011: When I texted her what time to meet, on the chat app we use, it showed she didn't read it. It only showed as being read after she showed up and we got into an argument at 650. So I I left having known she didn't read the message. BUT, she asked me ... (read in full...)

Does she just want to break up?

Q.   So once again I'm in trouble with girlfriend. We made plans to go for dinner on Friday. She texted me at 545 when I wanted her to drop by. I texted 615. No response. I text her "???" At 605, still no response. Earlier I told her was hungry. So a...

A.   13 September 2011: Well I left without telling her, but I didn't when she was going to show up. She said that I knew she was coming over and should have waited or at least called her. She was suppose to spend the night. The fact that she didn't tell me when she was ... (read in full...)

I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me, but don't know for sure, and I have no really way of finding out.

Q.   I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me, but don't know for sure, and I have no really way of finding out. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months. She is Korean, speaks korean, and I do not. Well the reason I suspect she is c...

A.   8 September 2011: Hi all, Thanks for your responses. We just came back from a short trip to Mexico, it went pretty well. Her phone was practically dead and she didn't bring her charger so she never used it. She did turn her phone on at the airport to use W... (read in full...)

Korean girlfriend ends things just when I'm ready to tell her I'll go to Korea with her!

Q.   I met this Korean girl a little over a month ago. We started dating, everything was going great. After a couple of weeks she mentioned that she will have to return to Korea in October because her Visa will expire. I thought it over quite a bit...

A.   5 July 2011: No response, think it's over. What crappy way to end things. Man this hurts...... (read in full...)

Korean girlfriend ends things just when I'm ready to tell her I'll go to Korea with her!

Q.   I met this Korean girl a little over a month ago. We started dating, everything was going great. After a couple of weeks she mentioned that she will have to return to Korea in October because her Visa will expire. I thought it over quite a bit...

A.   5 July 2011: Could be over, and it might be a cultural thing, she is very conservative and traditional. I've done all I can. Maybe she'll let me add her to facebook and we can keep in touch and see what happens. I was planning to move to Hong Kong in February... (read in full...)

Korean girlfriend ends things just when I'm ready to tell her I'll go to Korea with her!

Q.   I met this Korean girl a little over a month ago. We started dating, everything was going great. After a couple of weeks she mentioned that she will have to return to Korea in October because her Visa will expire. I thought it over quite a bit...

A.   5 July 2011:  Well I just texted her this: "Hi, I though about what you said last night, and I respect how you feel, but I would like to talk to you about it. Could you call me when you get a chance?" Ball is in her court. Keep you all posted ;)... (read in full...)

Korean girlfriend ends things just when I'm ready to tell her I'll go to Korea with her!

Q.   I met this Korean girl a little over a month ago. We started dating, everything was going great. After a couple of weeks she mentioned that she will have to return to Korea in October because her Visa will expire. I thought it over quite a bit...

A.   4 July 2011: She did basically drunk dial me then dumped me via text. Not very cool at all. Why should I chase her then?... (read in full...)

Korean girlfriend ends things just when I'm ready to tell her I'll go to Korea with her!

Q.   I met this Korean girl a little over a month ago. We started dating, everything was going great. After a couple of weeks she mentioned that she will have to return to Korea in October because her Visa will expire. I thought it over quite a bit...

A.   4 July 2011:  I'm going to call her tonight and see what she says. A month isn't very long to move to a different country for someone, but I've wanted to live abroad for quite sometime now. my gut tells me I won't see her ever again. It's gonna hurt like a S... (read in full...)

Korean girlfriend ends things just when I'm ready to tell her I'll go to Korea with her!

Q.   I met this Korean girl a little over a month ago. We started dating, everything was going great. After a couple of weeks she mentioned that she will have to return to Korea in October because her Visa will expire. I thought it over quite a bit...

A.   4 July 2011: No, she hasn't tried to contact me yet today, but it's only noon here. This is so unlike her, she's really quite nice, and, she would always contact me and ask me what I'm doing. I want to give her some space, but I also want to fight for her.... (read in full...)

Korean girlfriend ends things just when I'm ready to tell her I'll go to Korea with her!

Q.   I met this Korean girl a little over a month ago. We started dating, everything was going great. After a couple of weeks she mentioned that she will have to return to Korea in October because her Visa will expire. I thought it over quite a bit...

A.   4 July 2011:  She seemed to be really into me. So the general consensus is that I can't do anything? She is a really sweet girl, I think she either regrets what she said or finally had the courage to say what's on her mind. I guess she is really having a har... (read in full...)

I kissed her goodnight and she said that Koreans don't act that way. I'm confused!

Q.   I'm going to try to keep this brief as possible. I asked out this Korean girl at a restaurant I frequent for lunch while working. We went out, she was pretty nervous because her english isn't that great. We walked around, talked, had dinner a...

A.   15 June 2011: How do I go about apologizing? She won't answer my calls. I could text her, but I'd rather speak to her in person. I was thinking this Friday I would go down to the restaurant around the time she gets off and ask to speak to her. What do you think? ... (read in full...)

Invited to ex's wedding but I don't think I can handle going

Q.   I just found out that my ex-girlfriend recently got engaged. We dated roughly 6 years ago, and for some reason this recent news I find ver upsetting. A little history: When we met she was studying english in Canada. She was my first and onl...

A.   15 March 2011: Thank you for your sound advice. This recent news of her engagement is hitting my harder than I expected. I was planning on going down in September to visit her. I wanted to find out if her and I were meant to be toghether. She knew I was going to ... (read in full...)

I'm worried about my ex's partying ways.

Q.   The love of my life (6 years) broke up with me a month ago. Apparently she had been cheating on me with one of her friends, and decided to be with the friend. She had also started ignoring me and cancelling our dates to go to wild parties and bars ...

A.   4 January 2011: This is a really unfortunate turn of events for you my friend. I'm very sorry, this must be very difficult to deal with. As the ex you're in an awkward position. I know you would like to help your ex out, but if you guys aren't really speaking to ... (read in full...)

Does her "Merry Christmas" mean anything?

Q.   About 6 weeks weeks ago my ex and I split up, her decision. The last thing she said to me was that she didn't feel comfortable talking to me anymore and I should forget about her. So I haven't spoken with her since. On Christmas Eve I get a text...

A.   27 December 2010: It would appear that it's just a friendly text, but she REALLY didn't want to talk to me at all anymore. She even said "You should just forget me, good luck". Either way I'm not going to do anything about, I just think she has an alternat... (read in full...)

Should I be supportive and let him work out what he wants by himself? Or should I just walk away?

Q.   I'm in a very strange situation - I met a guy a few weeks ago, went on a date with him, had a great time. since meeting him, he's called me every day, and we went out a couple of more times, and ended the dates with a kiss and a hug. He then got ...

A.   19 December 2010: I think you're over thinking this too much. Who knows what he wants, but I think you should take a step back and not be so readily available to him. Don't rush anything take it slow, and if he really wants to persuit you he will let you know. ... (read in full...)

Need a good honest opinion of what to do now.

Q.   My girlfriend of 9 months told me from the beginning of the relationship to never ask her about her past sexual experiences and it bothered me having to be so mysterious.... last night she was extremely drunk and we were having sex and I asked her ...

A.   27 November 2010: 570? Come on? I'm sure it's a lot but not 570. I would be wondering if I could trust her if she has slept around that much. Maybe it's a drunk thing. Does she drink often?... (read in full...)

When does a man know when he's found 'the one'?

Q.   When does a man know when he's found 'the one'? What makes him so sure? Why do guys sometime wait years upon years to propose and others after only a few months? I'm waiting for my boyfriend to finish up school (about another 2 years) and though w...

A.   9 November 2010: I can't honestly say I know when it is that you know you've found the one, but my stepfather told me something once that always stuck with me: "When you were a kid was there a cool sports car you've always wanted? Then one day years down the road... (read in full...)

I'm worried that this guy that I'm seeing is getting too attached too soon.

Q.   In short, I'm worried that this guy that I'm seeing is getting too attached too soon. When we met, we spent a few weeks working closely together, during which time I deflected his advances, but we became firm friends. But when he left, I started ...

A.   4 November 2010: Sounds to me like he's just a convenience for you, to fill a gap that was otherwise not there, until he came a long. If you think you actually like him tell him that you don't need that much attention, and see if he changes. It's the weekdays apart ... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A.   4 November 2010: Yeah, I couldn't keep to the no contact rule. This is the way I looked at it: She walked away because she thought I didn't care about her and she couldn't trust me, so if I just let her walk away without trying, than that would reaffirm everythi... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A.   2 November 2010: So it's been a while since I've posted anything here, but I thought I would update you all on what has happened. So about a week and a half ago I sent her an email, saying how much I like her, that I would never cheat on her etc. You get the ... (read in full...)

He asked me why I broke up with him. Should I tell him?

Q.   I've been seeing a man for just 7 weeks. After spending more and more time with him, I realized that he makes rude comments, says condescending things, interrupts conversations to be self-promoting, and is generally more antagonizing than ...

A.   30 October 2010: I think you should, he's going to resent you if you don't. Just be polite about it... (read in full...)

I broke up with my girlfriend 4 years ago but now I feel regret.

Q.   I don't know if this is a really stupid question or not but here goes: I broke up with my girlfriend about 4 years ago, she was quite jealous and it drove me nuts. In the end I didn't treat her very well, I started to ignore her. Until one day sh...

A.   29 October 2010: I was planning on just telling her that I regret what I did, and tell her that I wondered what would have become of us if we did stay together. I really just want to get that off my chest. I'd like to be friends with her. ... (read in full...)

5 days ago I said something to my boyfriend that I regret and he hasn't contacted me since

Q.   A week last sunday I said something to my boyfriend which I really regret and I didnt mean. Everyone gets wound up sometimes and for me I blew and blurted it out. Well since then hes not spoken to me, ive text a few times, called and last night ...

A.   28 October 2010: I have to agree with Odds on this one. When you accuse us of this, it's like everything we have done for you in the past didn't matter at all. It really hurts, and yes it feels like nothing we did was good enough. I would say give him some more ... (read in full...)

Women and songs?

Q.   Do women like it when you write them songs? I play guitar and record my own music, but don't sing. ...

A.   26 October 2010: Thanks everyone for the responses. Unfortunately I don't sing, but I do play guitar very well. I'm not much of poet though. ... (read in full...)

I miss her so much! Can I try to get her back again? Can't even imagine my life without her...

Q.   My girlfriend and I were together for close to five years. About 3 years in, after living together for a year, she broke up with me and decided to move out. She said she'd lost that spark and felt like I was taking her for granted. It comp...

A.   24 October 2010: Hi there, I'm dealing with something sorta similar to this. I was told that she knows that I care about her, but that I don't act like it. She won't talk to me anymore. I'm not quite sure what you can do. Like you I'm doing everything I can to not ... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A.   18 October 2010: To make matters worse, I was just laid off today. I have about 2 maybe 3 months to find another job. When it rains it pours I guess. I really didn't like my job but at least it paid the bills! ... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A.   18 October 2010:  I'm starting think that she might be a bit narcissistic. Heres just a couple of reasons why I think so: 1) If I went out with my friends more then once a week, she would get angry and ask me why. 2) Once she claimed we made plans to do ... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A.   17 October 2010: Sorry to rehash this again but something just dawned on me today. Her behaviour over the two weeks before it ended: 1) constant accusations I was seeing someone else 2) She drops off my clothes at my house about 1.5 weeks later 3) I go to my... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A.   17 October 2010:  She is from Vietnam, She`s live in the Canada and the states for the past 10 years, and yes we have been seeing eacthother quite often. Roughly 2 times a week maybe more. Before I left for my brother`s wedding we saw eachother almost everyday for ... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A.   16 October 2010: I know that if she does try and contact me, unless she has changed, this will all happen again and I can't deal with it. I feel like a fool for investing so much into her, but can't help the way I feel. I'd like nothing more than to delete h... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A.   16 October 2010: Ok, so what should I do if she does come around again? I'm not sure how likely that is, but I think it would be pretty hard for me to turn away.... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A.   15 October 2010: Thanks Maria for your response, it is very insightful. It's amazing how emotions can cloud your judgment and make even the simplest task seem impossible. You're right I have put her on a pedastel but, understand that in the beginning it was amazing. ... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A.   14 October 2010: Thanks everyone for your advice. Last night I slept through the entire night for the first time in a month :) At the moment I feel like reaching out to her and comforting her, even though I know nothing I do will make things better, it will pro... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A.   14 October 2010: Thank you very much for your response. What you have said is exactly what all of my friends have been telling me. I'd really like things to work out but I have to let go. I'm not going to chase her anymore, in fact as you can see I stated at that I ... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A.   13 October 2010: So I called her, and she texted me back. This is the entire conversation. I need some help to figure out this out. Girl: “Thanks for the flowers, just don’t understand why do that, you said goodbye to me. I’m confused. But yeah, you don’t need t... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A.   13 October 2010: So the flowers were delivered at 8 pm, but she wasn't home. She`s not much of a night owl so she should be home soon... We would usually talk every night around 10-1030. Should I still call tonight?... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A.   13 October 2010: Well the flowers were delivered, but she wasn't home. Do you think I should still call her tonight? She's not much of a night owl, so she should be home tonight...... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A.   12 October 2010: Thanks very much for your advice. So here is the game plan. I have no idea what kind of flowers she likes but I know she really likes the colour white, so I'm going to get her a dozen white roses. I'm going to use your letter, not mine. I think ... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A.   12 October 2010: Thank you for your response. I believe you are right a phone call would have been better. She has told me that she doesn't like texting. I tried calling her on Saturday, two days ago, with no answer. I'm not sure if she is going to answer another ... (read in full...)

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