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Do I let my bf suck my breasts??

Q.   my boyfriend wants to suck my breasts.do advice me.he is after my breasts....

A.   8 July 2008: see if you like it. i love it! but every girl is different.... (read in full...)

We're far apart. He gave me a teddy bear with his aftershave on it! What can I give him to help him remember me?

Q.   I have a boyfriend of 7 mouths who I met at University. We are both really happy and have a good strong relationship together. We are both on holiday from university for the summer (four months long). The hard thing is we both live very far apart ...

A.   8 July 2008: with my fiance being in the military and now in a police academy we are constantly apart. we send each other little things, one of my favorites, are the letters. i write him everyday. we send each other pictures. keep things interesting. never think ... (read in full...)

I'm really self conscious about my black facial hair, what can I do about it?

Q.   I'm 15 and I have quite abit of facial hair, and it is pretty obvious from up close because my hair is black, I jus recently got a boyfriend and I never get close enough incase he sees it, I'm really self-conscious about this, what can i do?...

A.   8 July 2008: there is nothing wrong with that. honey i have that same problem. it is normal everyone has hair there some are just darker than others. just have it waxed. its a little painful at first, but beauty is pain =D ... (read in full...)

Is everyone late on their period after the first time?

Q.   Ok, so.. The first time i had sex, my period was late about a week and a half. Of course i worried about being pregnant but then i got my period. But my friend just had sex for the first time, and her period was late for about two weeks. Is it no...

A.   8 July 2008: it is very normal. my first time i was about 2 months late. every girl is different. even now, if i have sex right before im supposed to get my period it will be at least a week late. every girl responds to sex differently. it is normal. just be ... (read in full...)

My fiance was telling his ex how much he missed her just 2/3 weeks before we met. I can't shake the feeling he would go back to her.

Q.   I was going through my fiance's profile on another site, and saw that about 2 or 3 weeks before my fiance and i met, he was telling his ex how much he loved and missed her. And days before we started dating (after we had already told eachother that ...

A.   8 July 2008: ok when you love someone you will never lose those loving feelings. he needs to be honest but you need to be understanding. i know my fiance still cares for his ex as much as i care about mine, but we love each other to death. there is a reason she ... (read in full...)

She gets text messages from an ex. I'm not comfortable wiht it. Should I feel this way?

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. The whole time, she would get these random text messages from an unsaved phone number. It turns out it is a person (an X for lack of a better term) she had a fling with (before me), and found ...

A.   8 July 2008: alright, my fiance had a problem with me being friends with my ex (my first love). trust is a very important part in any relationship. if you trust her then let her be friends. if something is going on it will eventually come out. it seems like you ... (read in full...)

How do you get rid of the memories?

Q.   Hi, I would just like to ask if anyone knows how to forget about someone, and get rid of memories of someone they onced cared about? About a year and a half ago I very nearly got with the most fantastic girl i ever met - asked her out and she...

A.   8 July 2008: i think you are giving this girl too much thought. she didnt even give you a chance, she just blew you off. theres nothing you can do to forget about someone who meant something to you. only time can heal the wounds of the heart. ... (read in full...)

When I was young, I touched my little sister...

Q.   I've done something really bad. When I was young I touched my little sister. She was sleeping. I know I did something real wrong. Is there anything I could do about this? I've made a lot of mistakes and I wish I would have never done...

A.   8 July 2008: you cant take things you regret back. talk to a professional about it. the hardest thing is to admit to something horrible you did. ... (read in full...)

Spit or swallow? Where should I spit?

Q.   If I want to give my boyfriend head what do I do with the sperm? People say spit or swallow but I don't want to swallow so where do I spit it?...

A.   7 July 2008: As it has been stated YOU ARE TOO YOUNG! Since you are going to do what you please, I always spit in a trash can. ... (read in full...)

If it is true that he never had sex before will it be painful for him and how should I treat him since I'm not a virgin?

Q.   i am with my boyfriend for almost 2 months and we talked about having sex.when i asked him he told me he'd never before done it.i am so confused because he says he had a lot of girlfriends.how can it be possible that he never had sex before?if i ask ...

A.   7 July 2008: I think 2 months is early to talk about sex, especially when you are so young. Ask yourself, am i ready for a baby? Everytime you have sex, even with protection and birth control, you have a chance of getting pregnant. Too many young teens out there ... (read in full...)

How can I make the next two weeks go faster when the one I love is on holidays?

Q.   my boyfriend has gone on holiday for two weeks. this is the longest we have een without each other. how can i make the next two weeks go really fast without the one i love?...

A.   7 July 2008: Im 20 years old and im in a 3 year relationship. Through this relationship we have been apart for most of it. We are actually apart now. He is in the Florida Highway Patrol Academy until December. He is also in the military. I find its easiest to ... (read in full...)

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