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I'm 15 and he's 20...is this ok??

Q.   Hi, Im 15 atm and I met a fantastic guy in the summer. He is 20. We have both had feelings for each other for about 10 months now and he wants us to have a relationship. He is a good person and he wont do anything with me until im 16 in feb 08 but ...

A.   25 January 2008: Sorry but i completely dissagree with sexi, i have been in a relationship with a 20yr old and iv only recently turned 16, as long as u both like each other then there is no need to worry about the age gap. age is just a number at the end of the day ... (read in full...)

Does it hurt a guy when he loses his virginity?

Q.   ok something has been bothering me or annoying me for some time now my friend was asking me when guys loose the viginity does it hurt please tell me ...

A.   17 January 2008: To clear things up it can hurt a man when they have sex as their foreskin is not used to being pushed back that far. however after a few times you should be fine. Hope that helped x... (read in full...)

Sex with underaged - why is this case exceptional regarding punishment?

Q.   i have an 18 yr old mate who has just been to court for sex with a girl 13. now take in mind that he is 18. he says hes not on the sex offenders register has no sex offenders programme to go on and is allowed to carry on seeing this child. i al...

A.   11 January 2008: Hey, u never mentioned how long these relationships were going on??? and u didnt say if any complaints had been made by the girls....this is wrong however when i was 13 i was seein a 17 year old....i dont think it is wrong to be with someone ... (read in full...)

Why is he stringing me along? Is he using me or just being a player?

Q.   ok i really like this boy put it all on paper we are a perfect match but he likes this other girl he put in his msn addie "u can search th world but you can never find a girl like mine" i am heatbroken. but the thing is he says i am good looking ...

A.   11 January 2008: People can think you're really gud looking but not feel 'that way' for you. i think you need to move on and find someone who does like you more then a friend and also thinks you're pretty. good luck xx... (read in full...)

I'm 13, he's 18. We have a 4 1/2 year age difference... Too much?

Q.   Im 13 and my boyfriend is 18. We live at least 8 states apart. We knew each other when he lived here, but he had to move away because his dad was relocated. I know that it's illegal for us to be going out, but we're not having sex or anything. My ...

A.   2 January 2008: Hey, Age gaps arnt so bad when you get older however at your age you should be thinking about having fun with your friends, shopping, whats the latest music you can download....not moving in with a lad who is five years older then you. when you... (read in full...)

Is he messing with my head?

Q.   I really need help! I have been seeing a guy, with a girlfriend for the last year. It all started up about two yrs ago with just texting eachother then it got to other levels. The guy im seein is someone i work with and is 20years old. he says he ...

A.   2 January 2008: Thank you both, but what can i do to get over him??? i was gunna change jobs but i get on so well with the people their as i have worked there five years and their like a second family to me. i really do love him but i dont wanna keep waiting around ... (read in full...)

Is he playin head games with me, or does he really have feelings for me?

Q.   I have this guy that i work with...i really think i'm in love with him and i know he's got feeling for me too. whenever i talk to him on the phone, or see him at work my stomach feels like it's knotting up. my hands sweat whenever i get close to ...

A.   2 January 2008: Hes selfish, when i started reading this i thought it was gunna be hard to answer as i thought he was gunna be telling you that he loved you. however nowhere in your story do you say he has even said he likes you in that way. dont settle for him, he ... (read in full...)

Legal in England for a 17 yr old girl to live with her bf, aged 21?

Q.   HIYA, IS IT LEGAL IN ENGLAND FOR A 17 YEAR OLD GIRL TO LIVE WITH HER 21 YEAR OLD BOYFRIEND WITHOUT HER PARENTAL permission? [Note: caps off pls]...

A.   21 November 2007: u cant leave home without ur parents premission till your 18 x... (read in full...)

Is this discharge an STD?

Q.   Gel-like clearish discharge from vagina, more so when I'm aroused. What is this? I'm a virgin, so I don't think it could be STD, but I'm still worried. Is there any other way to get STD?? I've only been with one guy, and he was a virgin too, but ...

A.   21 November 2007: This just sounds like discharge nothing to be worried about. If you have only been touched by someone who doesnt have any sexual past either dont be worried you dont have an STD. if you are still worried though go to your doctor and have it checked ... (read in full...)

It got worse after a while and he started cutting me and raping me!!

Q.   I'm 16 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. At first he was really nice and treated me really well. A few weeks into our relationship he started asking me if I wanted to have sex with him, I wasn't ready at ...

A.   16 September 2007: this is wrong in all ways! u do not deserve this. get help from the people who r there to help u, the cops! u cannot bring a baby into the world with a father like this, if he is doin this to you, then god nos what he will do to the baby! pleas... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to lose his virginity to me, but I dont want to be known as the 'bad first'

Q.   I am 16 and lost my virginty along time ago in the not the best circumstance , my boyf is 19 and is stil a virgin, it took him courage to tell me this and i respect it , now he says hes ready to loose it , but ive never been in this situtation ...

A.   28 August 2007: Dont think too much bout this, its called lovemaking for a reason hunni, and if its between u and ur fella who trusts u enough to lose it with u shud trust him enough to respect you. no he doesnt no what hes doin but jsut because u have lose ur ... (read in full...)

I'm 17 and friends with a 14 year old girl. Others are saying this is wrong. What do you think?

Q.   okay well im 17 and there's a kid who is very special to me (lets call her hannah) well she is 14 going on 15. I've known her since the day she was born and our families are very close. I have grown up with her and always looked out for her like an ...

A.   28 August 2007: I dont think u have done anything wrong. As you said you and this girl are really close friends and i have many of older lads who would do the same for me. The person who said that this 14 yr old girl is blaitenly inlove with you, she is not a ... (read in full...)

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