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I want to love her without being disgusted at her past and where she has been.

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been together for a few months now however we have known each other and been close for 3 years. She has had 4 claimed sexual partners including me, I have had 3. Were both 23. She had sexual relations with her much older ...

A.   2 August 2010: I wish I had a positive response to this, but I have dealt with this kind of girl on 4 occasions that I can recall, and each one of them weren't to be trusted. The first two I got hurt on, the second two I knew exactly what I was getting in to and ... (read in full...)

I found a message on her cell phone from a guy getting straight to the point...cheating!

Q.   I am a father of a one year old, and I think my girlfriend, the mother of my child, is cheating on me. Why? Because I found a text message on her phone, from some guy I've never met, that went as follows: "Do you want to f*ck?". Seems pretty ...

A.   2 August 2010: Did you write the phone number down? If you did, you can call him and say that "name" is in the hospital and gave this number as a contact, then ask who are you speaking with, are you her husband, brother, relative, etc. ... (read in full...)

We wants to bring another man into the bedroom! I don't know what to think of this!

Q.   I have been Married for 12 years and with my husband for 14 years. we have 4 wonderful children together. Friday night in the midst of our sexcapade in the bedroom out of the blue he asked if i would be ok with him bringing his male friend into the ...

A.   2 August 2010: This is a mistake, I promise. There is no way a man can look at his wife the same way after being with another man or woman. The loyalty and trust is gone after this and he will always be questioning you, where you are, what your motives are, if you ... (read in full...)

My cousin proposed to me, I want to say yes, but what will my family say?

Q.   When i was 17 my cousin came down to Texas from Georgia for a family reunion and when she got there she came up to me asked me to go for a walk down one of the trails that led to the river. Somehow she knew exactly where she was going and we stopped ...

A.   2 August 2010: You have been together for 5 years, doesn't your family know that you two are together now? I would say go for it, my father has been with his 1st cousin for 15 years, and married for 3. They work well together and she is a great mom and ... (read in full...)

I am falling in love with my cousin, what should I do next?

Q.   ok im 18 and i am falling in love with my cousin i want to be with her and dont know what to do.... she and i are close we tell each other stuff we wouldnt tell anyone else what do i do i want to be with her so could someone help me...

A.   2 August 2010: If she feels the same way and your family is ok with it, then I say go for it. I believe you love who you love, but if you are going to risk it, then you better make sure she feels the same way and it truly is love.... (read in full...)

Need ideas on what I can do to drive him crazy?

Q.   Hi, my boyfriend and myself have alot of sex - we even joke and say that we are nymphos because no matter where we are we can't keep our hands off of each other. At a BBQ we went into the bathroom for a good (and loud) ten minutes much to the ...

A.   2 August 2010: I have to believe if you are an exhibitionist that you are typically pretty wet, one thing that drives me nuts is the scent of my girl, especially her fun parts. Next time you are out and about, shopping or whatever, touch yourself, make sure your ... (read in full...)

What are some good girl-on-top positions for women with big men?

Q.   My BF likes me to go on top, which I do not mind at all. My only problem, however, is the fact that he's a big boy. When I'm on top of him, my knees barely reach the bed, and on those occasions he slips out, I practically have to squat back onto ...

A.   2 August 2010: Reverse cowgirl is good, although you may consider it disconnected, meaning that you don't get to look at him or kiss him. However, for a big fellow, he gives him full access, deep penetration for you, and you shouldn't have an issue in the mount.... (read in full...)

Do we keep this relationship going or stop it??

Q.   I have been with my husband for almost 11 years. He is 17 years my senior. We have been married 2 years. About 7 years ago, he had a stroke. Our joint sex life stopped. Since then, he wants me to perform on him, with no regard to me. It all has to ...

A.   2 August 2010: This is a great question, and one that tugs at my heart strings. It's far to often you see a couple where one of the partners is sick and can't perform their half of the bedroom duties and the other just up and leaves. I love to hear that you love ... (read in full...)

Best friend's boyfriend won't stop staring at me!

Q.   My best friend's boyfriend, whom i dated for over 8 months, won't stop staring at me, I don't know what to do?? any help or advice is appreciatd :/...

A.   2 August 2010: A couple of things you can do here, I would ask him to stop, and be direct about it, especially if you have no interest, and/or you can kind of pull her aside and let her know that you are uncomfortable being around him and without saying you think ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend isn't interested in sex anymore!

Q.   I’m 29 years old been with my boyfriend for the past 2 years we have an awesome relationship until recently he’s not interested in having sex anymore. Everything else in our relationship is fine but when it comes to being intimate he’s always too ...

A.   2 August 2010: This is an interesting topic, because I have the exact same thing going on in reverse. I would suggest that you keep an eye out for changes in behavior, work schedule, privacty with his phone, possible new texting habits, spending to much time on ... (read in full...)

Do you tell your husband when you have cheated?

Q.   I had an affair 3 years ago with a man I thought I loved. I was so messed up from it I slept with another man just to get over the man I was in love with. I have been married to my husband for over 20 years and have not slept with anyone else! It ...

A.   2 August 2010: Men are simple people, we are easily entertained and easily destroyed. I have to look at this at this as if I was in that situation, and I would not want to know. I love my wife who I have been married to for 13 years, and if I found out she cheated ... (read in full...)

Need some advice on relationships, flirting and such, please help?

Q.   Hi, advice on flirting/dating appreciated! I'm finally getting back on the dating scene 1 year after breaking up with my ex-bf of 9 years after he cheated on me. I've done my crying, my feeling bad about myself, and have at last found the ...

A.   2 August 2010: You have to be extremely careful when it comes to dating someone at the office. Obviously you can't go in to it thinking that something is going to go wrong, but you have to be objective to the possibility of it going wrong. If it does go wrong, now ... (read in full...)

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