What advice/information do you have about a nooner?
Q. My long time boyfriend and I are interested in having a nooner. What advice/information do you have about them? Could we have it in an office or is it better to come home for it? ...
A. 28 August 2008: My dear Big Sis, once a Gooner always a Gooner, for my heart beats red. I fear yours is filled with the blood of that other red menace for which you have my deepest sympathies. I feel truy sorry for you as you have obviously been lead astray in ... (read in full...)
Any chance I could have sex with her on the night of the reunion?
Q. My situation involves my old high school sweetheart. In jr. high school I met her and thought she was cute. We became friends and had a lot fun. In high school we dated. I went to the high school prom with her and we had a fun time. We wanted to ...
A. 24 August 2008: Hi,
seeing as sex seems to be your main concern , I doubt you have much chance at all, unless she fancies a quickie with an old high school sweetheart.
But from what you say I think your intentions lean more towards sex than a relation... (read in full...)
What advice/information do you have about a nooner?
Q. My long time boyfriend and I are interested in having a nooner. What advice/information do you have about them? Could we have it in an office or is it better to come home for it? ...
A. 24 August 2008: I'm curious , what on earth is a nooner?... (read in full...)
With all I saw I am almost certain she was cheating, what do you think? Our relationship is now over.
Q. I met my girlfriend via a dating site in early 08. We really clicked. Soon after we started having a relationship and were both very smitten. After six months some cracks appeared and I suspected her though dismissed this to prior relationships goin...
A. 24 August 2008: Hi,
well you say your relationship is over so I'm not sure what you mean when you ask what should you do.
I guess the answer is nothing, it's pretty obvious she was with this guy and she was deceiving you, so put it down to experience and move on,... (read in full...)
I do not understand my husband's obsession with me adding his name to my will, I am not going to, is he trying to get over on me or what?
Q. My husband stoped showing me love and affection once he realized that I was't going to put his name on a Will that I had before we got married. I have some special people in my life that were there for me when times were tough and I will always be ...
A. 21 August 2008: Hi,
I can understand your frustration. But I can also understand your husband's. After all he is the man you have taken vows with for better or worse for richer or poorer etc, yet you seem to place him down the list of priorities of those who matt... (read in full...)
My son is bullying his pregnant girlfriend!
Q. my son is bullying his pregnant girlfriend, she is always upset because of what he is doing, i dont know what to do, i was with his abusive father for 2o years and my own head is messed up. my son always said he would never be like his father but it ...
A. 20 August 2008: Hi,
he is lucky he has a mother like you. But his father's influence is there for all to see. This just demonstrates why women should never expose their children to abuse.
But you can't change the past, he can however change the future.
He is 18 ... (read in full...)
I want to be a companion for lonely women. Any advice on finding clients?
Q. I'm 19 and I want to become a companion for lonely women. I've heard that older women want more than sex (they want someone to have fun with, talk to). Well I'm good at that and I'm reasonably attractive too. Money is not an issue...if women pay me ...
A. 20 August 2008: I understand there are some women who like a bit of young totty, but they also prefer their lads to have the equipment to match their egos. If you are driving a mini you may find they are looking for a turbo charged Ferrari my friend.
So unless you ... (read in full...)
My wife cheated on me while I was in Iraq... Is she always going to be a cheater?
Q. 5 years ago while i was in Iraq My wife (18years old) cheated on me and had a guy live with her while I was away. I too cheated out of resentment when I got back but have learned from my mistakes and never want to hurt her again (I admit I have ...
A. 20 August 2008: Hi mate,
your time apart when she was so young must have been a very lonely time for her.. and you of course!
So I guess she sought out the company of other men to fill the gap that was missing by your departure. It's a hard habit to break, a... (read in full...)
How do I give away my identity to a mature, strong lady?
Q. I'm 19 and I want to give away my identity to mature, strong lady. How do I find that kind of woman and signify my willingness?...
A. 20 August 2008: Hi,
I am wondering what on earth you mean?
Your indentity?... (read in full...)
Does your boyfriend watch endless hours of tv?
Q. Does your boyfriend watch endless hours of tv? I am so sick of it! It is on from the minute he gets home, until he finally falls asleep! We used to have fun together, but now I stay in the living room, on my computer and he stays in the bedroom ...
A. 20 August 2008: Hi,
i am surprised we dont get more questions like this.
The idiot box is a real relationship wrecker.
I think when couples get settled with each other, it is easy to be lazy and forget about spending quality time with together.
Here'... (read in full...)
Made a bad decision while drunk, will she give me another chance?
Q. I met this girl at work, we got on like house on fire...After knowing her for 2 weeks i took her out and it went well,really well. The following week my cousins were going out so i invited her to come with us and she brought a freind along. Again we ...
A. 19 August 2008: Hi,
I dont think you have too much to be apologetic for mate.
She was pretty rude herself by sodding off for an hour . Askoldersister is right, he was around there at 3am for a bit of nookie.. nothing else. And maybe her after spending one hour wit... (read in full...)
Why does my less attractive friend get all the girls?
Q. Why is it that everytime we go out clubbin, my less atrractive overweight friend gets the girls at the end? Sure he settles for lesser than what I would but its not my standards thats the problem. Its happening continually. Im not a bad looking guy ...
A. 19 August 2008: Hi,
Girls like a guy with a sense of humour and a bloke who can be himself and act naturally. If you can make a girl laugh, you are infinitely more desirable than the rest of the guys out there hitting on girls.
So your friend undoubtedly is able ... (read in full...)
Getting kicked in the balls - worse than rape?!
Q. K so on youtube today there was a guy who was convinced that getting kicked in the balls is worse (in both pain and adverse side effects) someone getting raped.. I dunno I just thought it's be interesting to get some opinions on this Also, ho...
A. 19 August 2008: any man who says this deserves a kick in the balls.
You need to start to develop your argumentative skills to put down such nonsense, just because some intellectually deficient pimple head thinks something doesnt make it so.
... (read in full...)
Should I try and stay friends with my abusive ex?
Q. Hello, I recently have left my boyfriend of 2 years. It has been 1 month. I ignored him for about 3 weeks because the last day i saw him, he hit me. this is not the first time it had happened. he has been hitting me on and off for about 18months. he ...
A. 19 August 2008: I dont think you want to be friends with him again I think you want to be with him again.
You find yourself attracted to the power he has over you, the way he can control you.
I suggest you seek urgent counselling as I imagine you will come und... (read in full...)
I feel like my choices are to settle for a man I don't love, or be alone forever. Any advice?
Q. I am a 30-year-old professional woman and I am devasted because it's been a very long time since I have had any tangible dating prospects. I'd like any advice or feedback on how to best handle this incredibly and increasingly painful situation. A...
A. 19 August 2008: Hi,
I guess the one thing you dont mention is what type of men are attractive to you. You place importance on your career, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. But is it also a priority for the men you date?
What about your friends... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hit me, but now threatens to kill himself if I leave him. Help!
Q. My bf and I get on good normally bt when we argue.. WE ARGUE.. we shout scream evrything but today he punched me.. I was in complete hysterics and tried to leave but he locked me in and I eventually managed to leave when his mate came in. He phoned ...
A. 18 August 2008: Hi,
Everyone will tell you the same thing, this is just the start of the beatings. He will make you feel like it is your fault that he does it and soon you will be covering bruises and your parents will wonder why you are so accident prone.
Leave... (read in full...)
My friend with whom several times I (just) shared the bed does not want to start a relationship until he's made a decision about his life...
Q. I spent last night in my friend's bed, for about the fifth time since we met. We have a close friendship but he has relationship issues as he is divorced, is struggling financially and trying to change his life somewhat, but seems to have put the ...
A. 18 August 2008: Hi,
I am sure he just doesnt want to take advantage of you.
Also that he is afraid if you two make love he will move the relationship to the next level, which he just isnt ready for yet.
You have to admire this as he obviously thinks very highly ... (read in full...)
His ex was a glamour model I can't compete with; why is he dating me...?
Q. I have recently started seeing this really fit bloke and I am really happy but I have just found out that he used to date a glamour model and it ended badly between them, anyway, my situation is that I am the most flat chested female ever, and I am ...
A. 18 August 2008: Hi,
the lads mags are a bit of titilation, nothing else.
I bet he hated every waking moment with the glamour model, she was most likely a self interested walking nightmare. I went with a leggy beautiful girl once and she was so self absorbed... (read in full...)
Is my Boyfriend on the Downlow? (secretly gay).
Q. Hello My name is Natasha and i wanted to know if my boyfriend was on the Downlow? We dated for six months and he waited until i was ready to have sex. Which is Rare in men but we had sex and it was good. What makes me think hes on a Downlow hes ...
A. 15 August 2008: Hi,
I thought this was probably a joke post. But we do see quite a lot of these ( especially from our American friends) , so yes he is gay, and most likely needs a girlfriend for social acceptance with family/work etc.
It's your choice, are... (read in full...)
How can I show my boyfriend that I am committed and faithful?
Q. well my boyfriend and i live together, and we are talking about getting married. of course i am so happy but he told me he was "uncertain about my commitment". how can i show him that i love him and will be faithful to him?...
A. 15 August 2008: Hi,
first off, is there anything you havent told us which would give him reason to believe you won't be faithful and committed?
I only ask this because if there isnt, then you should be a little bit worried. This sounds like controlling behaviou... (read in full...)
The guy I'm seeing tells me that hes not happy with his wife and the marriage is only on paper to him and she is just a roommate?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months now. He is married and i knew that the day i met him. Ive known him longer than ive been seeing him. I am in love with him and i know for sure he is my future. He was the one to say I love you first and ...
A. 14 August 2008: Hi there,
well there may be a chance he is genuinely interested in you.
But I think the reality of the situation is apparent even from the few sentences you have written.
You are young and and to him easily manipulated. He said he told his wif... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and no longer want to feel like I'm in line for him!
Q. Ok, i have been happily married for a year now. My husband is about the most wonderful thing that has ever happend in my life. But now im pregnant. Not really a shocker. We have been unprotected for about two years now. But the thing is, we have ...
A. 14 August 2008: Hi,
The one thing that needs to happen is your husband has to grow up and realise he is a married man not a kid in a candy store. If he is as young as you this may be harder than it sounds, as he has had the life of Riley up till now.
But you are ... (read in full...)
I mean do all guys do this, and it's no big deal, or is it totally sleazy?
Q. I sent a very pretty girlfriend of mine to go work at my boyfriend's office as his secretary. She's 21, cute and little. At the time I didn't think much of it, I just knew he needed help. I can't work there b/c I have a FT job, and I was proud to be ...
A. 14 August 2008: Hi,
I am still wondering why on earth you sent this girl to him in the first place. What on earth were you thinking?
Now it should never be a problem if you trust him, but you obviously have some doubts or else you wouldnt be writing in.
It is tot... (read in full...)
My long distance lover wants me to move in with him, but I'm worried, what should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we have been long distance the entire time. I live in Indianapolis, IN and he lives in Nashville, TN. I know that we both love each other dearly but lately things have gotten so crazy. We fight ...
A. 13 August 2008: Hi,
aside from the rather tumultuous relationship you already have, I would suggest it is crazy to move interstate with a man who will hardly ever be with you. You will be in a strange place by yourself for the most part. You will get very lone... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of emigrating to Australia, is this a fantasy or..?
Q. Please help. I went to Melbourne Oz for a couple of months earlier this year and I loved it so much now I'm back in England I feel so depressed and the idea of emigrating there is building up in my head. I am excited by this but think its such a ...
A. 13 August 2008: Hi,
I have emigrated many times.. From New Zealand to Australia, then Australia to the U.K then the U.K back to Australia....Australia is definitely the best: warm weather, good job opportunities and it's not crowded like the northern hemi... (read in full...)
Should I take a chance and move with him, or stay and finish college?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is on a visa and in 11 months he must find a waiver job somewhere in the U.S. or he must go back to his home country. He has asked if I would move with him, but his options are limited.It is ...
A. 13 August 2008: Hi,
they say love conquers all. But maybe that worked in the middle ages but its much harder today.
My opinion is if you are already umming and ahhing about it then don't do it. There are simply too many variables involved. You will both be under... (read in full...)
All the ups and downs of a good relationship, but no marriage proposal yet -I'm depressed!
Q. so i feel like a little lost puppy. i have been with my man for a little over a year now and i travelled to another country to be with him. the relationship is good. we have our ups and downs. our arguments here and there but for the most part we ...
A. 13 August 2008: o.k.. yeah sure, but read your post again, I was exaggerating perhaps, but the tone of your post suggest exactly what I said.
If you dont like the answers then I suggest you dont ask.
People take time out of their day to read your problem and give... (read in full...)
All the ups and downs of a good relationship, but no marriage proposal yet -I'm depressed!
Q. so i feel like a little lost puppy. i have been with my man for a little over a year now and i travelled to another country to be with him. the relationship is good. we have our ups and downs. our arguments here and there but for the most part we ...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi there,
i think one of the big problems here is you comparing your new man to your ex husband. In fact half the post is about your ex husband. It seems you havent really got him out of your head yet, and your current beau must be aware of this... (read in full...)
I can't make sense of why a man could be so loving but not want to take the relationship any further. Help!
Q. Feeling confused after having sex with a colleague who I have been friends with for nearly 3 years. We never got together before, since both in long-term relationships but have always got on really well and there was chemistry. In brief, had wond...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi there,
I cant figure it out either, but we see so many cases like this on DC. I think it is commitment phobia.
It seems that a lot of guys just cannot go for any sort of relationship without going into panic mode. Who knows why? But what you... (read in full...)
It hurts me when I see my ex talking to other guys, how do I get over this jealousy?
Q. I have just sort of ended a relationship with my girlfriend of 3 years and I am only 18! Yeah I know pretty young right...but how can you put an age or love. Well any way we took a break sort of, and right now it makes so mad when she talks to other ...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi mate,
well you ended the relationship so you have to accept that your ex girlfriend is not going to put her life on hold for you. That may sound tough, but it is the reality of the situation. You chose to break up with her, what do you real... (read in full...)
I've fallen for a girl, but she continues to stay with her controlling boyfriend. What to do?
Q. I need some advice I've fallen for a girl who I work with. For the past couple weeks we've been going out and having a good time but she already has a boyfriend. They keep arguing especially when he's had a drink and when he's had a drink he treats ...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi,
oh dear.. sad stories like this are a dime a dozen unfortunately - they come under the "nice guys finish last" column.
Unfortunately controlling arseholes always seem to have a girl on their arm as some women regretably are attracted to men w... (read in full...)
I once suggested a threesome which we did,but how do I tell my bf it's now a turn off for me?
Q. My fantasy has always been to have a threesome with two guys. The thought of pleasuring 2 penises always turned me on. Well, my bf and I finally followed through with it with mutual friend. Unfortunately, I didn't enjoy it like I thought I would. ...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi,
well just because you thought of it, doesnt mean you have to continue doing it. If it's not for you it's not for you - end of story.
As Tremor said, just tell your boyfriend what you have told us.
You decided to experiment and you didnt like i... (read in full...)
My sister probably seduced my fiancee, which may have caused him to have a breakdown, he is being treated, he also has an aclohol problem, I love him, I think he loves me, he wants to work this out, should I try to mend the relationship or what?
Q. My fiance just told me he cheated on me with my older sister. I have been betryed by 2 people I loved and trusted. She wont admit it but he told me the truth. He had a brakdown after that and is in couseling at a hospital right now. He also has...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi,
maybe your sister did make a move on him, but nobody forced him to have sex with her, and certainly nobody forced him to get an erection. So you simply cannot lay all the blame on your sister - that is just not fair.
But that aside, it looks li... (read in full...)
We had anal sex, and I hurt her, now she is too afraid to try it again, how do I regain her trust and assure her that I will not hurt her again, if we have anal sex??
Q. How do i earn my fiances trust to do anal again? My fiance always loved it when i toyed with her from behind, and when we finnially did anal it went well and she loved it but i accidentally went to deep and hurt her. I felt absolutely terrible that ...
A. 12 August 2008: I cant understand the current obsession with anal myself, I'm curious, why do you feel the need to go anal? Don't you like her vagina? That is where you are supposed to put the love wand my friend.
Stick with that and she will be a happy girl.... (read in full...)
Was it my fault? And is it ever O.K. for a man to hit, push, and rough-house a woman?
Q. Hi, Is it ever O.K. for a man to hit, push, and rough-house a woman? My boyfriend of three years bruised me up pretty bad a few weeks ago, but claims he had the right to do it, saying he was defending himself. What happened was, I ended up slap...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi,
get out now.... it doesnt matter what you did no man should ever hit a woman - ever.
Tell everyone you know about it, he deserves to be outed in the community as a man who should be avoided at all costs.Go to the police. Do anything, but leav... (read in full...)
I don't trust my boyfriend - what should I think about this...
Q. so, i met a great guy, or so I think, he tells me he loves me althought hasn't been that long, calls me constantly, emails, texts, talks about a future, the whole 9 yards. The problem is, last week I was with him and he got 2 messages from 2 other ...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi there,
well, i dont think you should confront him at all. First what you did was wrong, but you wouldnt have done it if you completely trusted him, so something must have been inside you to seed the doubts.
Secondly, he is obviously a ... (read in full...)
Am I right about my husband or not? Do I stay or go?
Q. Hi, I have a few questions, so hopefully I can put them all in one message. First off, we have only been married for less than a year and we have been fighting ever since we got married. My husband acts like a child, I have to tell him when to do EV...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi,
I guess it depends whether deep down you still truly love him. If you do, it is worth trying to salvage the relationship , the arguments dont sound violent just petty. Morevoer, he sounds like a Mummy's boy, someone who has always had his mumm... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to do anal again?
Q. My husband used to do anal, and I loved it! Now he thinks too hard about it and it grosses him out. I am bummed because it feels SOOOOO good. And I thought it feels good to men too. That's been my experience anyways. I've always known it to be very ...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi,
oh my I'm sure a lot of guys will be reading this thinking why cant i be married to you!.... But I have to admit that I am not a fan of anal at all. Though most guys do like it.. the reasons given usually is because it is a tighter fit, but for ... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and he's 24. He doesn't let me stay out past 9pm! Talk about Curfew!!
Q. I've lived with my boyfriend for 3 years. I'm 21 and hes 24. He doesn't let me stay out past 9pm. He says it NOT a curfew but it really is. He says he'd feel better if he was there with me and my friends. That we can ALL go out together. When I...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi,
I think you know what to do, you sound like you are already ready to jump ship.
Seriously, you only need a little push dont you? What on earth are you still doing with this boy. He is a boy, a little boy who has a little tantrum when he does... (read in full...)
What do men really mean when they say they "can't be in a relationship"?
Q. A question for men: What do you realy mean when you tell a woman you cant be in a "relationship"?...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi there,
i believe the modern term for it is : committment phobes. There seem to be an awful lot of men around you woo women with all sorts of promises then when the women finally reciprocate they go walkabouts. We see this on dear cupid al... (read in full...)
A question for men about younger ladies ??
Q. Ok, soooooo... Well, to begin, I kind of really like my teacher... I know there are lots of questions about teacher-crushes on here but mine is different. I know nothing is ever gonna happen, he's happily married and has a baby. I just want to kn...
A. 11 August 2008: Hi,
I was a high school teacher. We don't think the students are immature, we see them as young boys and girls who have been trusted by their parents to make sure they are educated. NOTHING ELSE. You have to understand that.
It is natural that tea... (read in full...)
Married, and thought I was over being bi. What's going on?
Q. Dear All A really strange thing happened to me...I used to be bi sexual . .. well umm not exactly. i was just influenced by some lesbian gfs and i got it on with a girl.. Also at that time my parents were very strict and i wasnt allowed to date ...
A. 11 August 2008: Hi ,
i think you are confusing your bi-sexuality ( which is obvious by the way) with a compulsion to cheat on your partner.
Your bi-sexuality has nothing to do with your feelings for this other girl. We all have ex girlfriends/boyfriends who we m... (read in full...)
What do men really mean when they say they "can't be in a relationship"?
Q. A question for men: What do you realy mean when you tell a woman you cant be in a "relationship"?...
A. 11 August 2008: Hi,
it can mean many things, but none of them are good especially if you want a relationship.
At best he has someone else and just wants no strings sex and companionship...at worst he doesnt want anything more to do with you.
none of them are goo... (read in full...)
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