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Whats the difference between these quotes?

Q.   I'd like to ask, are there any differences in meaning when you say " I don't feel I have a right to give you advice" and "I feel I have no right to give you an advice"? ...

A.   22 March 2010: The second sentence is bad English - "feel I have no right" - but otherwise no difference in perceived meaning. It's bad because you are saying that you feel something which doesn't exist, i.e. "no right". A very nice distinction, but you did ask!... (read in full...)

My Boyfriend wants only sex, and wont do anything for me. Help!

Q.   My boyfriend and I only have sex! He won't do anything for me, he won't finger me, or go down on me, when we have sex we keep the top half of our clothes on, and when we're done, he rolls over...every time. What should I do? I want to stay with him, ...

A.   22 March 2010: Two choices here - train him in how to pleasure a woman properly (I don't need to explain how, you already know!) or go and find an older, more mature man who already knows how. You need a man, not a boy.......... (read in full...)

Are smaller sized condoms available for regular purchase?

Q.   Yeah, so I've tried using a bunch of the regular/average condoms but they're kinda too loose for me and obviously magnum/large ones wouldn't be any better lmao. Are there smaller sized condoms available for purchase? ;x I've already tried loo...

A.   13 March 2010: Extra small condoms for boys as young as 12 are going on sale in Switzerland. Called the Hotshot, the condom has been produced after government research showed 12 to14-year-olds did not use sufficient protection when having sex. The study, co... (read in full...)

My teacher treats me different and its embarrassing me...does anyone have any tips?

Q.   Hi. I have an enormous crush on my teacher. Yeah I know this is completely normal, but he's... I'll just say he's in his early fifties. I have never heard of anyone liking someone nearly forty years older than themselves... I feel so awkward ...

A.   12 March 2010: Is it normal for pupils to make comments like that? In my day, such irrelevant and personal comments would have resulted in a detention, at least! Why did you not silence her? A sharp elbow in her ribs would have been effective. As far as your sit... (read in full...)

Is my erection normal even although we're just holding hands???

Q.   Okay, i have dated a few girls now in my life and every time we go out and we hold hands or just cuddle or just kiss i get an erection that will last the whole date if we continue on at least holding hands. is this normal? and after the date is over ...

A.   11 March 2010: Be careful if your erection is solid for more than 4 hours: this condition is known as "Priapism" (Google it) and is potentially harmful. It's worth a trip to your local clinic or doctor, especially if it doesn't go down spontaneously when you thin... (read in full...)

Had sex with my step brother then he got mad when he found out I was a virgin!

Q.   Ok I am not here so people can say rude things I am just need a little advice form OPEN MINDED people. My step brother is 10 yrs older then me. (We have the same dad). I am 18 and he is 28. He recently moved back home because him and his gf broke up...

A.   11 March 2010: His anger wasn't really directed at you, but himself and his guilt for what he did, both for doing it to you, his half-sister and for taking your virginity. Your posting does not give your country, so I cannot be sure if it was even legal: in the ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend forced me to swallow.... what to do?

Q.   I love my boyfriend very much; however, he did something very mean last night. He knows I do not swallow, I HATE it! Makes me want to gag, not really the taste, but the feel alone. Anyhow, I let him do other stuff to me, facials, pearl n...

A.   11 March 2010: In view of the fact that you are compliant in every other way with his wishes and he KNEW that you hated to swallow, this is a very serious breach of trust. I totally sympathise with your position on this: sex should be what you both want in the w... (read in full...)

Is lesbian sex sexual intercourse???

Q.   Is lesbian sex sexual intercourse? That is, can a women still be a virgin after 'having sex' with another woman?...

A.   10 March 2010: How do you define sex? Ask Bill Clinton, he seems to have a definition of his very own! However, most people regard having penetrative sex with a penis as the only way to lose virginity, technically. Why do you care? In our age and moral climat... (read in full...)

Sex drive help needed

Q.   ok people, what im saying is i never go more than 3 days. MY QUESTION IS can you slow down a sex drive?I have a problem i need it every day. Is that normal? PS only with my fiance...

A.   9 March 2010: Nature will slow you down soon enough; don't anticipate the event, just enjoy what you have whilst you still have it!... (read in full...)

Any ways to get rid of stretch marks?

Q.   hey everyone do anyone kno how to get rid of stretch marks plz let me know thanks........b...

A.   9 March 2010: I am sorry to have to tell you that nothing REALLY works - a fortune to the first person that have a remedy for this. All methods reported here are just palliatives at best and snake oil at worst!... (read in full...)

Ideas for a sex bucket list?

Q.   Me and my wife are looking for ideas for a sex "bucket list". We have tried sex on a beach, in a mall, a restraunt, parking garage, park , elevator , public restroom. We are looking for more things opposed to places but all ideas are welcome ...

A.   7 March 2010: Wonderful, "marriedlady" - takes me back to when reading to the children. Not sure I had THAT in mind, though!... (read in full...)

Suggestions for lube?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been enjoying tit wanks for a while now and she's really good at them but was wondering about maybe using some lube in the future but are unsure what type to use. Any suggestions?...

A.   7 March 2010: K-Y jelly is readily available in Poundland and the 99p shops, so it won't cost you a fortune and being water based will be fine with condoms if you go that far!... (read in full...)

I don't understand many things about sex yet.

Q.   im 13 and i dont understand many things about sex yet. i havent had the talk yet and i really dont wanna have it. i would rather ask on the internet so i am. 1st question is it normal for someone my age to masturbate? because i do all the tim...

A.   7 March 2010: Oh yes, it is perfectly normal for someone of your age (almost any age, actually!) to masturbate. At your age, any stimulus will do mit for you and it doesn't mean that you are gay, just experimenting. Relax: the harder you try and the more you... (read in full...)

He wants to have a baby and forced me to have unprotected sex

Q.   hello, im writing here because i have a problem with my boyfriend. i am about to turn 16 in a few weeks and he will be 20 in a few months. everything started off great,we`ve been together 4 months, but last night we were talking about our futures ...

A.   7 March 2010: As everyone else says, this IS rape. Apart from always being rape at your age, the moment sex ceases to be consensual it becomes rape, no matter if you wanted to do it to start with, and you had already made it clear you didn't want a baby. You ... (read in full...)

Tips on controlling my outburst during an orgasm

Q.   okay, so here it goes. i am 13 and have recently started masturbating. i have orgasms every single time and its hard not to moan or sometimes scream with pleasure! i usually do it when my parents are asleep or when im by myself. do you know any...

A.   6 March 2010: The last time I used this technique, my legs were actually shaking. That’s how strong the orgasm was! I take off all my clothes and I go into the bathroom. I masturbate in the bathroom whenever I can, so there’s a smaller chance of getting caught. ... (read in full...)

I'm still a virgin and waiting for the 'right guy'. But does he even exist?

Q.   Hey guys how are you doing? I do not really have a serious problem but it is sometimes socially inconvenient. I am an 18year old girl, I am kind of attractive (guys have told me so in various ways), I am a sophomore in college and I am still a ...

A.   5 March 2010: Don't give in to pressure: it should be totally what you want and when you want it. You can't re-do your first time and you owe it to yourself to make it as special as possible. At 18, you are not alone or even unusual at being a virgin. I know loa... (read in full...)

Why are parents happy when a son loses his virginity, but not the daughter?

Q.   why when a son lose his virginity, the parents are so happy and proud? But when a daughter lose her virginity, the parents are so upset and mad?...

A.   5 March 2010: Double standards! Always has been - it shows that the boy is now a "man", and the girl has let herself down. These views are, of course, out of date but they still persist here in the UK and it seems over there too. Don't fret it, just get on with ... (read in full...)

Is my penis too small to have sex?

Q.   hey me and my girlfriend have planned to have sex next weekend but my penis is only 5.5 inches long what should i do ...

A.   5 March 2010: Unless you are a new member (no pun intended!), you will have seen enough questions on exactly this issue by now; and enough answers telling you that 5.5" is exactly the average length. You are fine, just stop worrying and learn how to please a woma... (read in full...)

She's too clingy! How can I tell her this relationship is NOT what I want?

Q.   I've just started going out with this girl. I met her out one night and after about a week we got together and now we're seeing each other. Apparently she's never had a boyfriend before and because of this she is super grippy!!! I mean the 2 day o...

A.   4 March 2010: Don't dump her, that will do more damage than you know. Just do as the anonymous answerer suggested and explain carefully (and gently) that you need your own space and not to be crowded. You can agree to have your together time and your "mates" time... (read in full...)

Text kisses!

Q.   Is there any difference in someone putting xXx at the end of a text compared to x, or xx or xxx? I just wondered because, well my situation is kinda complicated and this guy never tends to put any kisses on texts ever! But this time after we'd been ...

A.   4 March 2010: As "Columbo" would say, if someone does something unusual or out of character, look for the hidden meaning! Oh, and just one more thing....does he ever put kisses on anything else? Cards, etc?... (read in full...)

Just got married, flirtatious friend of wife, I think I want to have sex with her, what should I do??

Q.   Help, i got married last year and i love my wife to bits. The problum is when we go out with her friends one of them flirts with me all night. At first i didnt mind but now i really want to have sex with her. I dont know if its because i know i cant ...

A.   4 March 2010: My husband has this expression, "a stiff cock has no conscience". It seems you have just proved it!... (read in full...)

I am new to sex and troubled by his requests

Q.   Hi Guys, I have been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of months, and we decided to have sex recently. I was a virgin until then, but completely happy to give myself to him. The only problem is, I guess I'm still a little nervous or shy. ...

A.   4 March 2010: I know what you mean; it took me a long time to get used to being on top and I'm ok with it now, but I still prefer him to do all the work. Take it slowly, there is no rush.... (read in full...)

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