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Could I be pregnant after a drunken fumble in a toilet?

Q.   Could I be pregnant or am I being stupid I AM NOT ON THE PILL OF ANY FORM OF CONTRACEPTION I am normally a very sensible person but I was out on friday night and my best friend got me very very drunk, I was dancing with this really nice gu...

A.   5 May 2010: "therple", along with "kc" and many others on this site, we know that sperm cannot penetrate underwear, so if her knickers were still in place, she is safe - this time! The OP needs to be more careful in future, though, but with all of the admo... (read in full...)

Wanting to watch the girl I love have sex with another man, since I can't.

Q.   I met this girl online that I really liked and we fell for each other and it is all completely amazing, we are pretty both always searching for a way to talk to each other and I am soon gonna move to where she lives so we can be together. But ...

A.   4 May 2010: You want to watch while some random bloke acts as a "locum" for you? And you are of a jealous nature? You are thinking with your lower brain, my friend!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant after a drunken fumble in a toilet?

Q.   Could I be pregnant or am I being stupid I AM NOT ON THE PILL OF ANY FORM OF CONTRACEPTION I am normally a very sensible person but I was out on friday night and my best friend got me very very drunk, I was dancing with this really nice gu...

A.   4 May 2010: You are safe from pregnancy, almost certainly, but what about STDs? If you can't or won't go on the pill, at least always carry condoms with you - it doesn't make you "easy", just prepared!... (read in full...)

I want to have sex with a grown man

Q.   One of my adult friend's won't have sex with her husband unless he has the snip. I talk to him often and we get into conversations about sex. It is becoming increasingly obvious that there is a lot of sexual tension building up in him. We talk about ...

A.   4 May 2010: Firstly, for the American contributers, 16 is the age of consent in the the UK, and at 17 the OP is almost an adult, legally and otherwise. Technically, therefore, she is a free agent to do whatever she chooses. OP, if you share these fantasies and ... (read in full...)

I lost my virginity to someone I barely know and I don't know why I did it!

Q.   I lost my virginity to someone I barely know, I'm 23 and I dont know why I did it. i was always a good girl with muslim values, good parents. I always wanted to wait for my husband to do it. But I had done everything else including oral, with ...

A.   4 May 2010: Only YOU know that you are no longer a virgin.......... (read in full...)

Is my sex drive normal for a girl my age?

Q.   Hi all. Im a 20 year old girl and think my sex drive is abnormal! Im always horny and always thinking about sex, maybe more than men do. This started like maybe 3 months back. My boyfriend of 24 even asked why I loved sex so much lately, I said I...

A.   3 May 2010: No, there is nothoing wrong with you. All people are different, so don't try to compare yourself with others. I love sex just as much as any man, and always have done, so both of you enjoy it whilst you can and keep that big grin on his face!... (read in full...)

He had a sly errection ..what did I do ??

Q.   Hi everyone , Im a little confused over an incident that occured recently . There was a group of us going out for dinner and my boyfriend was driving ..we were one seat short , and seeing Im the smallest I jumped onto a male friends lap in th...

A.   1 May 2010: You were wearing a short skirt and sat on a man's lap? What did you expect? Surely not surprise at the ensuing erection! You felt flattered, and carried on th see what further effect you could have, which IS cheating, so you are right to feel guil... (read in full...)

I'm very attractive and always being hit on!

Q.   i am a very actrive female and all my friends boyfriends and husbands try to hit on me. I dont come around and that is the reason. It makes me feel good that i am beautiful, but i dont like the people who i get it from. I have modeled some in the ...

A.   1 May 2010: You are obviously so far up yourself that only the soles of your shoes are visible, but please don't worry - time and gravity will cure the problem for you soon and then you will miss all of the attention.... (read in full...)

Acai berry scam.. how to get out of it?! please help!

Q.   hi! i am totally aware that this isnt a relationship question, but i didnt know who else to ask! i ordered the acai berry pills online for a free trial.. which ironically is actually legit, but the trick is that in the small print, it says that ...

A.   1 May 2010: All good advice and I agree. I fell foul of such a scam some time ago and told my card company about it. They stopped payment immediately. I didn't get any monies back, unfortunately, but neither did I hear from the scammers at all. They know wha... (read in full...)

Am I still a virgin? Could I be pregnant?

Q.   I'm 15 years old, female, and I think still a virgin. My boyfriend and I we're fooling around today like we normally do, 1st, 2nd, and 3rd base all covered. We we're getting really into it and he got on top of me, I was wearing a skirt. He fingered ...

A.   30 April 2010: You say that you were wearing a skirt but didn't mention panties. If you WERE wearing them, you have no problem; sperm cannot penetrate them. However, if you were naked under your skirt and his penis tip so much as touched your vagina lips you coul... (read in full...)

Can I trust this man to take photos of my girlfriend and her friend?

Q.   First of all I should start by saying that I have trust issues to begin with that I'm not proud of, but they're hard to get rid of. Basically the story is this, my girlfriend told me she was bisexual and we decided that it would be a nice way to ...

A.   29 April 2010: A stiff cock has no conscience.......... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wants me to get rid of all my pictures and letters from my former girlfriend who died in my arms, is she in the wrong here?

Q.   I have been dating a young woman for a few months. She is very sweet and I care very much for her. She came over to my apartment when I wasn't home yesterday and my room mate let her in. She went into my room and found an old year book I had ...

A.   28 April 2010: NEVER get rid of them, you can not get them back once you do. I promise you that if you do, you will surely regret doing it for the rest of your life. Precious memories like these fade in your head despite your best efforts to retain them, so you w... (read in full...)

I want to make this relationship work, but he admitted to molesting his sister

Q.   My boyfriend just recently told me he had a dark secret. It took me hours to convince him to tell me. After I broke through to him he told me he molested his sister when he was about 11 or 12 and she was 8. He paid her money to give him blowjobs and ...

A.   28 April 2010: I bet I will get flamed for this, but with respect most answers seem like an over-reaction. Think about what was said; he PAID his sister to do these things, not forced her, at an age when he was young and inquisitive. Not a big crime, and I'm sorr... (read in full...)

Me and my girlfriend are both 15 years old and we BOTH want to have sex. But how do we know if we're both ready?

Q.   I need help on a desicion. Me and my girlfriend are both 15 years old and we have been together for about 3 months. But we've known each other for a little less then a year. I asked her just recently if she wanted to have sex with me over the...

A.   28 April 2010: You are asking this question because you have doubts in your mind: therefore you aren't ready and shouldn't do it. Wait.... (read in full...)

I am self conscious about my breasts!

Q.   my breasts are sagging. is there a simple way to prevent it from sagging and get it to the previous normal shape. i used to have firm breast. is there sone exercise that can help me make it to good shape. i am really concerned about it. please ...

A.   26 April 2010: People that live in hilly areas and walk rather than take the car usually have magnificent, firm breasts. If you have no local hills, repeatedly climbing stairs should help firm you up!... (read in full...)

Are his looks lustful or appreciative?

Q.   what kind of looks indicate that a man is looking at a women lustfully..? if he finds a girl pretty and looks back to her several times does it show he s lusting her or just attracted to her beauty..? please help.....

A.   23 April 2010: A woman can look at another woman "appreciatively", but it's likely that a man has other things on his mind - not his fault, it's the way nature intended it!... (read in full...)

Am I a normal size?

Q.   I'm going to be 15 in August and I am an adult 34A. I've always been really self conscious about my little breasts, I was flat chested until I was 14. I'm not saying I want double D's, a friend the same age as me has them (not fun) she hates them. ...

A.   12 April 2010: "ravencake", there is also a further benefit to small - they won't turn into belly-warmers later on in life!... (read in full...)

He makes me feel good but he's my cousin

Q.   My cousin and I have been making out for about a year and now he want me to have oral sex with him I am only 14 and I can't tell my parents everytime we make out i feel fine till I am alone I know it so wrong but when we are kissing all my problems ...

A.   12 April 2010: Not sure about the law in the States, but in the UK it's legal as a result of recent research into genetics: there is no greater incidence of birth problems with cousins than any other pairings. The problems stem from biths to siblings, and sex is i... (read in full...)

Which do women prefer?

Q.   I have a question for sexually exspearinced woman...Do woman prefer an uncircumsized male or circumsized? To those woman who have encountered a foreskin, why do most woman pull it all the way down and pretend its not there, is it because you think ...

A.   10 April 2010: What else, "happy140"? Try this: when you are slowly stroking his shaft up and down, suddenly grip a little more firmly and plunge right down, rolling his foreskin right back completely, holding it for a few seconds before returning it and cont... (read in full...)

B/f accused me of saying he's a player and now doesn't want to see me!

Q.   I am a bit confused and need some advice. I am in along distance exclusive relationship. I was talking to my boyfriend during the day .he stated he was just going to go home from work and clean up the house a little. Later that nite i texted him ...

A.   9 April 2010: Oh, he is SO definitely a player - guilt is written all over this! What innocent person would ever react in that way? You have had a lucky escape so take the money and run........ (read in full...)

Tips on controlling ejaculation?

Q.   Hi, I'm 17 years old and I'm a senior in high school. My girlfriend and I have just recently started pleasuring each other. I'm a virgin and I've never gotten further than feeling a girl's breasts until now. She says I'm good at fingering her and ...

A.   8 April 2010: Pop into the toilet and deal with things for yourself first, it will take the edge off - then think of the forthcoming election and all the politicians lying their heads of - oops, you are from the States, so you wouldn't know about our elections, ... (read in full...)

How can I squirt without peeing?

Q.   Everytime i masturbate with a sex toy i got to pee after iam done. I been trying to practice female ejaculation. I happened to do it today. But it smell like pee but it didn't look like pee. How can i squirt without peeing if it is pee? Or is it FE...

A.   7 April 2010: "almasdp", urine and female ejaculate share the same exit duct, the urethra, in the same way as male sperm and urine do. Female ejaculate builds up in the urethra sponge, just behind the g-spot: feel for it when aroused, it will be on your fron... (read in full...)

How can I squirt without peeing?

Q.   Everytime i masturbate with a sex toy i got to pee after iam done. I been trying to practice female ejaculation. I happened to do it today. But it smell like pee but it didn't look like pee. How can i squirt without peeing if it is pee? Or is it FE...

A.   7 April 2010: "Not My Name", I think it was unlikely to be pee, because our pee ducts are closed during arousal so that any sperm finding their way in don't get contaminated and/or killed by the urine - nature wants pregnancy!... (read in full...)

Casual sex with a stranger.

Q.   Lately I have been having fantasies about random sexual encounters, and it is something I really want to try. But I have no idea how to go about this. I have been in relationships for so long and I find all these men that just want to fall in love ...

A.   7 April 2010: If you are in a relationship, why not let your partner role-play the casual pick-up? Could be fun and at least it will be safe!... (read in full...)

Boyfriend makes fun of my boobs

Q.   My boyfriend has this obsession with boobs. He is constantly grabbing mine. In the beginning, when we were first dating.. he grabbed mine and said "These are D cups". He claimed to be an "expert" in boobs. The last woman he was with before me ...

A.   7 April 2010: If he wants "udders", let him date a cow! If he disparages your boobs, make snide comments about his manhood and how it doesn't match up to those porn stars you see - rhen dump him........ (read in full...)

He doesn't believe I was a virgin!

Q.   Alrite so theres this guy .. we've been dating about 7 mnths now... and we had sex for the first time ... he was a virgin and so was i !... i've never been physical with any guy in my life expect him. then after the sex he tells me that he does...

A.   7 April 2010: If after reading all his you still want to be with him, show him this page and try to educate him; otherwise close the door as you leave!... (read in full...)

Should I just ask him bluntly if he wants to go further?

Q.   So me and my best friend and I have been messing around, like I've been giving him handjobs and he's been touching me. The first time I saw him after the first time it happened he acted awkward and we didn't do it again, so I texted him and told him ...

A.   5 April 2010: Simply say "I've got some condoms in my bag"........... (read in full...)

I want to have sex with him, but am not sure how to go about it.

Q.   So I met this guy about a year and a half ago on a TV Show forum. I first started talking to him when he gave me guy advice. And we've talked ever since then, and we've grown really close, we've done video chat, IMVU, MySpace, all sorts of stuff to ...

A.   5 April 2010: Will he want to have sex with you? Er, what do you think? Young girl, just turned 18 and a virgin, willing to stay over alone for a few days..... Unless the Earth has suddenly become flat, he WILL!... (read in full...)

I lied to him about my breasts, but if I tell him the truth I'm scared he'll think I'm deformed!

Q.   Hi all, I recently ran into a problem with my boyfriend. When we first started having sex I would always wear my shirt, and he always wondered why. Well, one night we started drinking pretty heavily, and my inhibitions flew out the window, and he ...

A.   4 April 2010: You are NOT deformed! Have you any idea how many ladies have inverted nipples? Just Google it and you will be amazed - and reassured. You are not alone and not damaged in any way; it just happens. As long as you get pleasure from what he does with... (read in full...)

The sex is too intense!

Q.   I have an INTENSE attraction for someone, and he has the same feelings for me. When we kiss it feels like my whole body is vibrating and I have literally had an orgasm just "dry humping." We do have sex sometimes but it's almost too much, the ...

A.   4 April 2010: As everybody has said, what's the problem! Seriously, why not masturbate each other to completion first - shouldn't take long - then get more intimate. My guess is that, having taken the edge off your immediate desires you will last longer and cum ... (read in full...)

Is a 7.5 year age difference a big deal?

Q.   Is a 7.5 year age difference a big deal? I met a guy who is currently 26 (27 in December) and I'm about to turn 19 in less than a week. He's a very, very nice guy and a bit shy... I was actually introduced to him by one of my best friends who is 2...

A.   4 April 2010: That age gap is NOTHING! Follow your heart and ignore silly, jealous people who envy your happiness. If he suits you and you suit him, what else matters?... (read in full...)

Should I go for lunch with my teacher?

Q.   Just to give you an insight: A principal I had in middle school agreed to go out to lunch with me when I asked him awhile back. We exchanged numbers and we’ve texted off and on these past couple of months. (Not like crazy, just to set up a day when ...

A.   4 April 2010: Honestly, it sounds fine to me. You have already explained that it's a "last meeting", so he has no future plans for the two of you, just a friendly goodbye. If anything were going to happen it would have done by now, in good time before you grad... (read in full...)

Would you be offended if someone put you in a situation like this?

Q.   Imagine this situation: you are walking down the street with a close friend, lets call her Jane, and the two of you run into an old friend of Jane's, whom you've never met before. The two of them start catching up and end up talking for half an ...

A.   1 April 2010: I would have gone to the nearest coffee shop and relaxed with a nice drink until they saw fit to realise you existed.... (read in full...)

Boyfriend gaga for Gaga!

Q.   Hi folks. This is a bit of a silly one but how do i get my stupid boyfriend from bringing up Lady Gaga every day? I had no problem with her apart from the idiotic and attention seeking things she does but obviously it doesn't affect me so it was ...

A.   1 April 2010: Who is lady gaga?... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to finger me!

Q.   Hi im 16 and my boyfriend really wants to finger me.oh im also a virgin and im not sure what to exoect?like do you bleed when he fingers you?What does he do after hes done?does he just go wash his fingers?or what?...

A.   31 March 2010: You do know that penetration by his finger(s) isn't necessary to give you great pleasure? He needs to know where your clit is and how to manipulate it (gently!) in order to bring you off best. The key here is to go slowly - no rush - and for him ... (read in full...)

My mum's dark secret...

Q.   I am very upset with my mother and I don't know how to handle this situation. My mother never gives me credit for what I remember. My dad was in the army and was being sent to vietnam. I was the oldest and my brother wasn't born yet. I remember ...

A.   30 March 2010: "Not My Name", you have hit it roght on the head once again. This situation is very difficult, but nothing is to be gained from upsetting your mother in her last year or so. She would have had her reasons for silence and it will do no good to spec... (read in full...)

What on earth is up with my teacher and the food?! please help

Q.   My teacher brought in cake/sweets for our class because it was end of term. He does this usually, it is really lovely of him he has brought in things like Krispy Kremes for our year 12 (like 11th grade?) sixth form class before, and only us not the ...

A.   28 March 2010: I did feel that when I read your OP. At least you are aware of the situation and its dangers; just keep monitoring it and make notes if you feel it helps. Confide in a good friend and/or trusted adult, too, so that you have a good case if it does... (read in full...)

Should I give him more?

Q.   i need some advice this is quite long but here goes I have gotton myself into a situation i am not very proud of. I am 27 female never had a boyfriend and lack confidence. I fell for someone at work who i know just wants a bit of 'fun' no strings, i ...

A.   28 March 2010: I understand your reluctance to do things you have never done before if you are shy, but I would advise you to go for it! Firstly though - be safe. Always have a condom handy when you start to play, even if you think you have no intention of havi... (read in full...)

What on earth is up with my teacher and the food?! please help

Q.   My teacher brought in cake/sweets for our class because it was end of term. He does this usually, it is really lovely of him he has brought in things like Krispy Kremes for our year 12 (like 11th grade?) sixth form class before, and only us not the ...

A.   28 March 2010: I am sort-of with "Not My Name" on this, but I wonder a little.... A couple of points here, OP: are you sure that you don't look underweight to him? Most anorexics are in denial and have an unrealistic impression of their body shape/size, so get ... (read in full...)

Is society right in thinking masturbation in mainly a male activity?

Q.   Heyy everyone, this is just a general wondering, mainly to our female readers... How often do you masturbate in a week? I was talking to my boyfriend the other night, and I said on top of the sex we have, I probably masturbate about 5 times a week.....

A.   23 March 2010: An orgasm a day keeps stress at bay! You are at least normal, if not a little under-stimulated, "pandabird".......... (read in full...)

Whats the difference between these quotes?

Q.   I'd like to ask, are there any differences in meaning when you say " I don't feel I have a right to give you advice" and "I feel I have no right to give you an advice"? ...

A.   22 March 2010: The second sentence is bad English - "feel I have no right" - but otherwise no difference in perceived meaning. It's bad because you are saying that you feel something which doesn't exist, i.e. "no right". A very nice distinction, but you did ask!... (read in full...)

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