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During intercourse she doesn't seem to be able to last very long.

Q.   Hello there I'm 22 year old male, I'm engaged to my partner of five years. My problem is that during intercourse she doesn't seem to be able to last very long, by this I mean she ejaculates long before I'm ready to and there is a lot of fluid. ...

A.   9 January 2009: Sorry the question seems to have been misunderstood or misinterprated, I know obviously about the female body and the matter of fluid, what I didn't explain proprly is that she can ejaculate within 2 minutes of full intercourse, for instance hardly ... (read in full...)

I'm more interested in sex than he is

Q.   I'm a 21 year old very slim, very attractive girl. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a lil over a year and as far as the average arguments between couples we seem to be doing Great. The problem ly's within our sex life. I can get him hard for ...

A.   5 January 2009: you are certainly in a very awkward position maybe the first thing you could try is natural substances vitamins and minerals make sure his body is getting a balanced diet. The only thing after that i know of is viagra, whatthis does is increases ... (read in full...)

Take the lead and ask him out?

Q.   dear,anyone i really like this guy and i think he likes me to but im not sure.we've been friends for about a year.we both have never been in a relationship and im scared to ask him out and he has not even tried. should i take the lead...

A.   5 January 2009: if ofcourse you are attracted to a person that person will never know unless you tell the there for you have to ask him explain what you feel for him and discover does he feel the same way ... (read in full...)

Throwing in the towel

Q.   hello all! so ive decided to throw in the towel with this guy finally.I have had it with the mixed feelings thing.So my question is do you think it would be to stupid or childish if i wrote him a letter explaining why im doing what im doing ? when i ...

A.   5 January 2009: if you feel that you can only express how youve been made to feel by writing it in a letter then so be it. He has to know and you have to let him know and so if you really feel you struggle to tell him then go ahead write it down and hand it to him ... (read in full...)

I'm scared I'm pregnant!!

Q.   Okay, so I've been on the pill for almost 2 months now and I haven't missed a pill. Just last month my boyfriend and I had sex about 4 different times in like 2 weeks... without a condom but he pulled out about 10 seconds before he came. This month ...

A.   5 January 2009: no i dont thik your pregnant to start with your a young girl so monthly cycle can differ a little anyway from month to month. The pill is what i think is causing this ive heard of this before the pill upsets your hormones basically and thats why ... (read in full...)

How do you masturbate to make it feel good?

Q.   How do u finger yourself to make it feel "good" i guess? xoxo *thanks* ...

A.   5 January 2009: im male but i seem to think that everybodys preference is different there for nobody can tell you what feels good but can advise you on how to find what makes you feel good. What i would suggest is run yourself a nice hot bath a few salts and ... (read in full...)

Dating, Relationships and overprotective parents!

Q.   heyy, Im 15, an only child and my mum is over protective. I have a 14yr old boyfriend who is trustful, treats me well and knows enough about sex. My boyfriend wants sex with me,, i think im ready too, my mum wont let me have sex, she thin...

A.   5 January 2009: your mum is right sweetheart maybe you should listen to your mum and then maybe one day you might not think so now, but maybe one day youll be thankin her lookin back and thinkin yeah mum was right shes older wiser seen the world trust me mum knows ... (read in full...)

Do condoms affect man's performance?

Q.   When my boyfriend and I are having sex, he will cum within a few minutes and I am usually left wanting more, whereas he is tired. I'm not sure if his age affects it, but he is 19. Sometimes he wants to try to cum again, after already cumming,...

A.   5 January 2009: and sorry i missed that yes you can get different size condoms ... (read in full...)

Do condoms affect man's performance?

Q.   When my boyfriend and I are having sex, he will cum within a few minutes and I am usually left wanting more, whereas he is tired. I'm not sure if his age affects it, but he is 19. Sometimes he wants to try to cum again, after already cumming,...

A.   5 January 2009: and sorry i missed that yes you can get different size condoms ... (read in full...)

Do condoms affect man's performance?

Q.   When my boyfriend and I are having sex, he will cum within a few minutes and I am usually left wanting more, whereas he is tired. I'm not sure if his age affects it, but he is 19. Sometimes he wants to try to cum again, after already cumming,...

A.   5 January 2009: the problem you are experiencing is quite common. Condoms do make a difference in the sense that for a man the sensation is not as good but you make up for that mentally because you know you are safe to cum. However after you have cum the first time ... (read in full...)

We tongue kissed could I be pregnant?

Q.   hi im 13 turning 14 but i havnt had my perios 4 a long time...i had it like in october and now it 2009 january 4 and i havnt had sex im still a virgin..im kind of worried bcz i have aboyfriend and all i ever did wuz just kiss him..yea it wuz tounge ...

A.   5 January 2009: theres absolutely now way a kiss could possibly get you pregnant and missing november period and since is almost three months would make you around 14 weeks pregnant you would have noticed changes in your body not just shape but attitude tiredness, ... (read in full...)

No orgasm during sex

Q.   I'm very interested in hearing from both females who actually have or have had this issue, or males who have known a female in my situation. I'm 17, have been sexually active for about three years, and have had two partners (within relation...

A.   5 January 2009: this might sound weird coming from a male but, i think youre right in saying that its a psychological problem. It seems from your description that when you r alone u manage to orgasm quite easily, this gives me the impression that when you have male ... (read in full...)

I want more from my boyfriend, any suggestions?

Q.   my boyfriend and i are juniors in highschool and started going out september 19 of last year. we really are in deep love. we have gone to second base but parents are always home. 1) he can't drive me until february so how can we get some privacy?...

A.   5 January 2009: getting privacy can be a problem. It seems you just have to persevere, its much worse if your parents have young children to look after just because they are less likely to go out to dinner or stay at a friends house late or even go for a drink. ... (read in full...)

14 pregnant don't want to tell my mum!

Q.   Ok so i'm 14, and i just found out im pregnant. No body knows yet i definatly don't want to get rid of it but i know my mum she will try and make me if i tell her! And i can't tell my boy friend because i don't know how he will react i'm not sayin ...

A.   5 January 2009: im 22 have 1 daughter and find it hard. it is hard but right now if your confident you would like to keep this child then what you need is support. You need to be fair to yourself and everybody else around you and tell the people close to you, ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend can't orgasm and complains of having no labido. What to do next?

Q.   Girlfriend can't orgasm and complains of having no labido. What to do next? We've been dating for two years. We are very much in love and very close. To me she is the most beautiful and special person i've ever met. We are both attractive fit p...

A.   5 January 2009: you understand that the medication your partner is using does have an affect on her sex drive although i would seem to think that once she is in the mood for sex there would be no problem. Ofcourse in your case there obviously is so i would suggest ... (read in full...)

Do girls have female sperm

Q.   im really curious.. you no how in the porn movies,, the guys starts having sex with the girl and all of a sudden a bucnh of watery fluids squirt out of the girls vagina.. what are those fluids?? why does that happen?? and do girls hav...

A.   5 January 2009: just the same as a guy ejaculates (cums) so does a woman when a man reaches orgasm he ejaculates just the same for a woman just like men the first man might have a tablespoon of cum the second man might have a teaspoon of cum, just the same with ... (read in full...)

Normal for different guys to ejaculate differently?

Q.   I have been going out with my boy friend for about a year. We are both in college. About two months ago we broke up for about a month and then got back together. During the breakup time I went out with another guy for a while and sometimes I ...

A.   4 January 2009: i do believe that it does have a lot to do with your diet also. From the view of a man i also believe that it has a lot to do with not how turned on you are but how relaxed you are, if your man has something on his mind he doesnt have to be thinkin ... (read in full...)

I think my body is unattractive and it's holding me back from sex.

Q.   I find my body very un-attractive i am an english size 12-14 a 36C bust size. I have a boyfriend and am afraid to further the relationship into a sexual one because my body holds me back, please can someone help me?...

A.   4 January 2009:  you just need to relax let your boyfriend take control just take things one step at a time but one of the most unattractive things about sex to a bloke is a woman who refuses to get naked its a real turn off and can actually have an adverse affect ... (read in full...)

Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?

Q.   Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?...

A.   4 January 2009: im a 22yr old male and i love pleasing a woman orally and think foreplay is important too. A man should be very considerate of what a woman wants and needs. As a personal preference i get more out of giving a woman oral than receiving it, it makes ... (read in full...)

When is the right time to have sex?

Q.   Hey.. just a random question. When is it the right time to have sex? people say its when you feel ready But is it okay to do it when you feel ready after just a day or so?? or wrong to do it when your not with someone?? i personally think people ...

A.   4 January 2009: your situation is an awkward one for you. You will definitely know when the time is right. Most commonly you might think your ready in your mind or even question your ability, but if you think youve found mr right the feeling will be totally ... (read in full...)

I discovered that my mother masturbates, what should I do?

Q.   i discovered that my mother masturbates herself , what should i do?...

A.   4 January 2009: masturbating is very common in both men and women OK its nnot the sort of thing you want to discover your parents doing although, you may/may not do it yourself its your mums personal preference you shouldn't let it bother your relationship with ... (read in full...)

How can I make my girlfriend feel more confident about herself?

Q.   me and my gf have been together for a year and 2months now. We have known each other all our lives and have always been close friends. We started having sex about 7 months now but when we do she will never take her bra off, sometimes she doesnt like ...

A.   3 January 2009: hi there maybe if you make a big thing of the situation in ur mind but dont let her know this. If your desperate to make her feel the same way as yourself then i think i may have the solution. one day keep promisimg her a surprisingly good night, ... (read in full...)

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