How do I find out if this guy is cheating on me?
Q. How do I find out if this guy is cheating on me? Lately this guy im seein does not want to spend time with me and does not return my txts most of the time, so one night I had a feeling he was with someone else and I had to go past his place to the ...
A. 12 December 2011: Hi Sunshine8508,
This woman gives you dirty look because she doesn't like you. I know you don't even know her, and you haven't done anything to her. She wants what you have.... Your boyfriend........ (read in full...)
My Gf got pissed that I dropped some rice in her bowl of soup, that I was angry at her and that I didn't call her, and now we shouldn't see each other till the end of the year! How trivial is that!!
Q. My gf and I are mad at each other. We’ve dated for about 16 months. I’m 27 and she’s 26. We’re each other's first gf/bf. We were eating at a buffet along with her sister. My gf returned to the table with a small bowl of soup and placed it on the...
A. 5 December 2011: Hi Stuckguy,
Now I understand her behavior, and why her sister defended her. It's her dad to blame. " an apple don't fall too far from the tree"....
1st it's in her genes.
2nd it's her character.
3rd she grew up watching her dad being so rud... (read in full...)
My wife's ex-boyfriend contacted her after 20 years of no contact. I am not sure what to think about this.
Q. My wife's ex-boyfriend (the one prior to me) contacted her after 20 years of no contact. I have been with my wife for 19 years. My wife did not tell me about this. I discovered it when I saw a strange number on her cell phone bill. I confront...
A. 5 December 2011: Hi,
My boyfriends ex (the one prior to me) contact him 2 mos ago after 10 years? He told me 1mo later, she still single so I know her motives. It made me upset, but I laughed afterwards because, what a "desperate looser"! Now, I feel sorry for her.... (read in full...)
I don't know what to think, should I bother with my long distance boyfriend or not? Is he just playing games?
Q. Hi all, I am a bit confused. My long-distance guy was being distant, and sometimes I wouldn't hear from him for weeks. I took the hint that he just wasn't that interested, and even though I love him with all my heart, I distanced myself and didn't ...
A. 5 December 2011: Hi,
I am glad you are feeling better....
Like i said before, nobody is perfect and we all make mistakes.. Just make sure that this time he communicates with you better and don't make you wait for him to contact you...
Have a nice holidays
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My partner wont let me meet his new friend saying "it is MY friend, not yours". Reason to be suspicious?
Q. Relationship dilemma. I have been in a 19 month relationship and things were excellent until a month ago. My partner decided to make friends with a bloke in his class and since this has occurred he has been very distant to me and weird acting. ...
A. 4 December 2011: Hi,
Sorry to say, but his behavior makes me believe that something is going on between them. Also, when someone is defensive is a clear sign of dishonesty. He's my friend not yours? What's that all about? He has no right to be angry at you. Trus... (read in full...)
My husband is a true conflict phobic, is never assertive and its causing a lot of problems for us
Q. My husband is a very gentle guy, and does not like to argue with anybody. He hates conflicts, and whenever he can ,he trying to avoid them. He is a true conflict phobic. I love him, and it makes him a very kind father, and husband. But sadly it ...
A. 4 December 2011: Hi,
You need to sit down and talk to your husband, and make him understand how you feel. Explain that you love him, he's a kind father and husband. Tell him that you agree and respect him for not wanted to argue with people. But, sometimes in life... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a guy to have flings after a 2 year relationship?
Q. Hi everybody, my name is Jess and I'm having a bit of trouble with a friend of mine. Well, I have a crush on my friend, and I need an answer: Is it normal for a guy to have flings after a 2 year relationship? Here's the issue. I asked him to go ...
A. 4 December 2011: Hi Jess,
You are over thinking the situation. It's quite easy, he was in a relationship for 2 years, he was single for a while for obvious reasons, by the summer he had 2 casual flings. Nothing wrong with that. To me, he seems like a nice, no... (read in full...)
The big question ... What do girls think when ....
Q. What do girls think when they see a decent-looking guy with a fat, ugly girlfriend? What do they assume about him? I'm pretty sure that if a guy is seen with a hot girl, people think he must be something special. So is it the opposite if he's...
A. 4 December 2011: Hi,
I think your question is funny.
In my opinion people that are intelligent, and good would never judge a couple by their looks. It shows their level of character, and their opinion should not matter at all.
Good luck... (read in full...)
Unaware of feelings and career/girl
Q. Hello! I have two questions and I will try to keep them brief: 1. Most people who fall in love seem to be unaware they have feelings for the other person. However, with me, I over analyze things to death. Is there a way to stop thinking all the...
A. 4 December 2011: Hi alwayswondering,
Over thinking is a quality, means you are a responsible person. However, for everything in life, needs to have limitations. If you over due anything in life, or over think will only make you too exhausted.
You might mis... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband that I was raped when I was 16 years old or bury the secret?
Q. I need someone's advice. I'm 26 yo and just recently I got married, me and my husband have together 10 years he's the only guy in my life and love him more anything and I never lie to him no matter what. but during this time I had a secret that I n...
A. 4 December 2011: Hi,
First of all, I am really sorry that you had such a horrific experience in such a young age. You are a survivor, and very strong person for keeping this secret for so many years. I admire your strengh.... I am sure you are a beautiful pers... (read in full...)
Why do married men lie and tell you there are separated, when they not?
Q. Why do married men lie and tell you there are separated, when they not? ...
A. 4 December 2011: Hi sexy babe1980,
Because they have no character, integrity, honor, immature, selfish... They are pathetic, have self esteem issues, narcissistic, compulsive liars. Who knows why they are this way? Something happened in his childhood, past rel... (read in full...)
Does the ex ever wonder, 'what if?' 'How can some ex's finish the relationship so easily?
Q. I still don't understand how someone who was supposed to love you, can just up and leave you and never look back. I'm talking about relationships where everything's fine, but then one person does a 180 degree turn and leaves for no apparent reas...
A. 4 December 2011: Hi meccamega,
I have to agree with "cindycares"... This didn't happen overnight. The truth is that he was not honest with you. I don't know how long you you've been together, how well you know each other, or how close, but I can tell you for sure... (read in full...)
I don't know what to think, should I bother with my long distance boyfriend or not? Is he just playing games?
Q. Hi all, I am a bit confused. My long-distance guy was being distant, and sometimes I wouldn't hear from him for weeks. I took the hint that he just wasn't that interested, and even though I love him with all my heart, I distanced myself and didn't ...
A. 4 December 2011: Hi,
LDR takes a lot of patience, effort, devotion, and loyalty. It's hard to be in a relationship without having physical contact in somewhat regular bases. Being in a relationship with someone means, getting to know each other, spend quality ... (read in full...)
How do I find out if this guy is cheating on me?
Q. How do I find out if this guy is cheating on me? Lately this guy im seein does not want to spend time with me and does not return my txts most of the time, so one night I had a feeling he was with someone else and I had to go past his place to the ...
A. 4 December 2011: Hi sunshine8508,
Sorry that are feeling this way....
How long have you been seeing him?
Are you guys officially a couple?
Reading your short post I can tell for sure that he's not being honest with you. The unknown car in his driveway coul... (read in full...)
Does she want to date him? How do I deal with her? Or what can I do to stop her being so mean?
Q. Okay so I really dont know how to start this off, so I'll start from the very beginning. Ive been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. Back when we were dating for about a three months he had to move to a different city. We decided that we werent goin...
A. 4 December 2011: Hi,
Like you mentioned every relationship have it's problems. We are not perfect, and sometimes we make mistakes. I understand that your boyfriend was trying to date one if your friends, it must have been very difficult for you, because you stil... (read in full...)
My Gf got pissed that I dropped some rice in her bowl of soup, that I was angry at her and that I didn't call her, and now we shouldn't see each other till the end of the year! How trivial is that!!
Q. My gf and I are mad at each other. We’ve dated for about 16 months. I’m 27 and she’s 26. We’re each other's first gf/bf. We were eating at a buffet along with her sister. My gf returned to the table with a small bowl of soup and placed it on the...
A. 4 December 2011: Hi,
I know you are upset, but this is kind of funny?... I don't understand why you would argue over this?
You mentioned that this is the 5x that something like this has happened? And her sister defended her? I guess this is how she is? Just a s... (read in full...)
I feel awkward as hell. If I hurt my friend's feelings, it was COMPLETELY unintentional. What do I do now?
Q. I have an awkward little situation... A friend of mine was going through a breakup and to make her feel better I asked her if she'd like to come with me to a ballet show on a specific date. She said "you just have to remind me"...and that was it. ...
A. 4 December 2011: Hi,
I am going to be honest with you. You are making this a big deal. In my opinion, you should've ask her if she still wanted to come with you. Anyways, it's past and done, but if you feel so bad about it, you should just talk to her. Explain that... (read in full...)
Should I wait for the right one to lose my virginity or find a complete stranger on Craigslist?
Q. I am a 21 yr old male and I am a virgin. I am thinking about using Craigslist and having sex with a complete stranger to lose it. I know craigslist isn't the best place to go. . . My question is should I have sex with a stranger or wait until I ...
A. 3 December 2011: Hi,
I know that you are a young man, and have needs... However is better to wait for a nice girl... Instead looking for craiglist, why don't you go out with friends and try to meet nice girls??? So much better... I think that your 1st time sho... (read in full...)
How can I bear this relationship when my boyfriend cheated on me 7 months ago?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years. During our 5 years, he has kissed another girl while drinking. This happened a few months ago in May. The girl he kissed was his cousin's girlfriend. His cousin was very mean to her, and she alw...
A. 3 December 2011: Hi, I am sorry you feel this way. Nothing can changed what has happened, but what matters now is that your boyfriend is regretful, he's nice to you, and he loves you.... It was just a stupid kiss... Understand that we all make mistakes once. I am... (read in full...)
I forgave him so many times but now he cant even forgive me once! I feel like I'm being punished!
Q. Hi guys this might sound like a stupid question, but a week ago my ex boyfriend, we were potentially going to get back togther as we both still love one another but things have been very complicated over the last few months ( well i assume he loves ...
A. 3 December 2011: Hi,
I am going to be honest with you. I am not sure how long you've been together, or how well you know each other. But, reading your ex-boyfriend text message makes me believe that he's not punishing you at all. I think he has a lot of pers... (read in full...)
Does his silence mean he is over me? Should I try to contact him again next week?
Q. Hi all, After 3 weeks of no contact with my ex boyfriend, I texted him this afternoon: Me: Hey how are you? Ex: Im chill and u? Me: Im good, long time no speak! It's now 2 AM over here and he still hasn't replied to my last txt message. It...
A. 3 December 2011: Dear friend,
I am going to be honest with you.... If he has not contact you in 3 weeks, it's pretty much over?....
Now, what happened 3 weeks ago? Is there any reason why he hasn't contact you? How long have you been together?
I am sorry that y... (read in full...)
Why would a guy throw it all away for a random one night hook up?
Q. This may be a brad question, but it just doesn't make sense to me why a guy would cheat on a good girl that hes been with for a few years. I was absolutely good to him. Im as sincere as they get. Im honestly the type of girlfriend most guys are ...
A. 1 December 2011: Hi,
He's young, immature, and selfish. Some people go through life without making these kind of mistakes, but some get weak... We are only humans, it doens't make it ok, and it's never an acceptable excuse, but it's the truth.
Hopefully... (read in full...)
Do not connect to new husband..
Q. I am in love with my boss who is married and loves me too. I recently married a guy as per my parents wishes knowingly he is not my type but didnt had any options. I cannot leave the job because it pays me well with other benefits and has ample ...
A. 1 December 2011: Hi,
You are still young and if you are not happy you should get a divorce. Talk to your parents about the marriage, explain the situation, that you are not happy, and you need their support on making a decision.
If you are not happy, feel ... (read in full...)
Went through his phone. Not sure what to make of findings
Q. Huge problem. I went through my boyfriend's phone almost a year ago, found nothing, but he got really pissed and I promised never to again. But I did tonight. And I'm freaking out a little because his friend (a girl) texted him saying if she didn't ...
A. 1 December 2011: Hi,
It's horrible to live this way. Feeling doubts, and unfortunelty you start becoming paranoid about everything. So exhausting....
Before you start accusing him, and making any decisions get to the bottom... Ask all the questions you want, an... (read in full...)
I was lied to about my husband and now I don't think I love him
Q. hi .... dear all .... i desperately need soem advice......... I am 29 years old married since 1 year 4 months.... i feel i have lost that love for my husband from the first few month itself.......because from the very first month i found the man ...
A. 1 December 2011: Hi,
I am asian, so I am familiar with the traditions. It's very different mind to understand. Your traditions are very similar to mine, so I understand the exchange of gifts, the duties each side of the family have. It's not about money, value, but ... (read in full...)
How do I help my girl friend?. We're loyal and faithful to each other. But in the past she was promiscuous and was sexually abused
Q. I'm 26 Male. She is 24 Female. Dated for 9 months. She's been with 18 men and has had a very promiscuous past. She told me she had been wild, but I had no idea how wild. She admitted to dating someone when she started talking to me, but I blame ...
A. 1 December 2011: Hi Sexting_Love,
I think what really matters is how she's with you right now. Everybody have a past... Just know that your girlfriend had a horrible past, I guess being sexually abuse have a lot to do with her behavior. See, casual sex is far deep... (read in full...)
Am I reading the signs correctly?
Q. okok so ive been chatting online for 2 weeks with a lovely girl - shes 26..gorgeous. funny. intelligent. etc... after a week, she confided that she had a bf.. i was super chilled. said wow he must be awesome. i hope he appreciates what he has... she ...
A. 1 December 2011: Hi,
You are a nice guy, I like the fact that you are not too aggressive, give her space, and specially after knowing that she had a bf, you were very respectful.
Nobody knows the real reason why she didn't give you her number? To me, I think ... (read in full...)
I feel so used and don't understand what is going on
Q. So to make a long story short. Met one night 7 months ago. Been talking and hanging out ever since. One day, he just stopped talking to me. For two weeks I tried to pretend I didn't care, but one night, my emotions got the best of me and I contacted ...
A. 1 December 2011: Hi, Yes, you should confront him about it. I understand that you both were never officially a couple, however after 7 months of seeing him, I think you have the right to ask, and know his intensions. Sorry to say, but during the 7 months, if ... (read in full...)
Am I freaking out by thinking the worst?
Q. So I've been seeing this guy for a while. We aren't "boyfriend and girlfriend", so to speak, but we talked abut moving on to that stage. He travels a lot for work and doesn't own his own cellphone (in this day and age... I know). when we met and ...
A. 1 December 2011: Hi, He's the only person in the world who does not own a cell phone? Lol After reading your post I don't feel good about this guy. Something is not right. Ok, let's say he doesn't own a phone, why can't he use a pay phone, it only cost $.25 I thin... (read in full...)
Am I being cold-hearted?
Q. I have been married for over ten years and have 2 kids. For the last two years I have been unhappy in the marriage. When I started thinking about divorce, I went to my wife and would tell her things that were bothering me and that i would like to ...
A. 30 November 2011: Hi,
You are a really nice person, and I hope you can find happiness and peace. You were honest with your wife in regards to your marriage for years, shows you do care, you are responsible, and shows you have character, and integrity. I guess yo... (read in full...)
He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?
Q. I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...
A. 30 November 2011: Hi,
I know he will change. He's with you this long, so he does care about you and your children. There's hope... As long as he's not physically, and emotionally abuse to you and the children, everything is possible. Be strong, be calm, be plea... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him?
Q. Should i break up witih him? We met on the internet. He tried to have sex with me on the first date. we've been together for 1 and 1/2 yrs 1) He cheated on me. a) with a girl he met on the bus, he told me its because he thinks i am unfaithful...
A. 28 November 2011: Hi Lively,
I know you've been together for 1 1/2 years, but seems like he's not ready to be committed to you? He cheats on you, when you guys fight, he goes to dating site immediately? I know you love him, and you want to stay with him, but he's... (read in full...)
Totally and Utterly Love him. But, how do I get over someone I love if it wont work?
Q. Hi there just a quick question which i hope you all can help me with. I am totally and utterly in love with this guy, he may or may not like me but i know deep down it would never work as we just dont match. so my question is how do i get over som...
A. 28 November 2011: Hi Mally,
Some people are attracted to each other immediately, so they pursue a relationship. Some people become friends, and they never think of the person in any romantic way. I think this might be your case. I understand that you are afraid o... (read in full...)
This guy should come with a warning label!!!
Q. So I've been dating this guy for about 3 weeks. He's 55, I'm 42. I got divorced a year ago after 15 years of marriage and haven't dated or had sex with anyone at all during this mourning period. The guy I'm dating at first claimed he had just broken ...
A. 27 November 2011: Hi,
First of all, thank God you are safe, and well. Lesson learned, never walk in isolated areas alone at night. God was watching over you...
Crazy story, it's almost hard to believe that there are people like him in the world. Young teenagers, o... (read in full...)
I broke up with my ex-boyfriend who cheated on me, but I'm having a hard time getting over him
Q. My ex bf and I have been broken up for about a month now. We were together for three years and I broke up with him because he cheated on me one night he was out at a party. I have not spoken to him since we broke up. I made it clear to him that we ...
A. 27 November 2011: Hi,
I am very proud of you for being so strong. I don't believe in closure.. I guess you want answers, but the truth is that he was weak... There's no excuse for cheating, and he should have never put himself in that situation. Nothing will, or can ... (read in full...)
Totally and Utterly Love him. But, how do I get over someone I love if it wont work?
Q. Hi there just a quick question which i hope you all can help me with. I am totally and utterly in love with this guy, he may or may not like me but i know deep down it would never work as we just dont match. so my question is how do i get over som...
A. 27 November 2011: Hi Malley,
It's difficult to give you any opinion, as you didn't explain why this might not work?
I guess, you don't choose who to love, and you cannot control your heart. But, if you truly believe this is an impossible situation, for whatever... (read in full...)
Boyfriend may be cheating on me. What is the best way to confront him and how do I deal when he's denying it or pretending that I made it all up?
Q. I recently discovered that my boyfriend may be caring a relationship with another girl long distance. He is texting a girl in another state and from the looks of the texts, they have some sort of relationship. They call each other baby and tell ...
A. 27 November 2011: Hi, As you know the situation well, he's just going to continue lying to you, and make more lies... I've been there, I did have enough proof, still he denied, and made me believe that I was being crazy. There's no win in this situation. He's a l... (read in full...)
I thought we were dating but he's still remaining active on his online dating account!
Q. Three weeks ago, I started dating a guy through on-line dating . I think we are a really good match for each other. He is exactly what I am looking for in a guy and seems really keen on me. He treats me really well and we have the same values, ...
A. 27 November 2011: Hi,
Best suggestion is to just ask him if he's still using the dating site? Be casual, and you will know... Easy as that... I know that the relationship still pretty new, and he has not made you any promises, and you both are not committed. But,... (read in full...)
What is my friend's problem? She seems to behave like she's competing with me!
Q. hi. my best friend thinks she's all that. she is 27 and works at a pharmacy with no real certificate while im 24 and a teacher at a high school. so she earns like a third of my salary and does not have a place of her own. she comes to my place every ...
A. 27 November 2011: Hi,
Whatever reasons she's behaving this way, bottom line is, she's not the friend she used to be. For whatever reasons she changed. I think it's best to distance yourself from her for a little while. She's negative person in your life.
Rea... (read in full...)
Please help me summon the courage to leave her
Q. Dear Experts, Ive finaly hit rock bottom in what is supposed to be called a relationship and i require some support to find the courage to leave, after 4 hard years with my soon to be ex partner i cant take anymore of her crap, november 2010 our...
A. 27 November 2011: Hi, I am very sorry for your loss. I am sorry you are going through this difficult time. You have been through so much in such a young age. Remember, you are still young, and have a full life ahead. You don't deserve to live this way, you get to l... (read in full...)
Should I continue to wait and see, or contact him?
Q. Not sure what I should do if I very much would like to get back together with my ex-fiance. My ex broke it off with me a little over a yr. ago. When he ended it his only reason at the time was that he was not happy. Yes, we did have our problems ...
A. 27 November 2011: Hi, Sorry that you are still having difficulties to let go of this man after more than 1 year being apart. I don't blame you, because you were together for 7 years, planned to get married... It's only normal to feel this way, you cannot control y... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him?
Q. Should i break up witih him? We met on the internet. He tried to have sex with me on the first date. we've been together for 1 and 1/2 yrs 1) He cheated on me. a) with a girl he met on the bus, he told me its because he thinks i am unfaithful...
A. 27 November 2011: Hi,
You should absolutely end with this guy!!!! No questions!!!
He's immature, selfish, and have self esteem problems. He's dishonest, and clearly he's not ready to be in a committed relationship. I know you have known him 11/2 years, but he shoul... (read in full...)
He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?
Q. I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...
A. 21 November 2011: Hi,
You are a very good mother. I am sure he will change, hopefully, and let's pray.... I have to agree with you when you made the comment about spending money on himself, but hesitant when it comes to the kids. it's strange to me that I pare... (read in full...)
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