Why did he suddenly stop texting?
Q. I've been dating a guy for about a month now, he works away Monday to Friday and comes home on Fridays. For the first two weeks we would text constantly and they would be sweet and I'd be smiling constantly. Last Sunday he left early coz I had ...
A. 4 October 2011: Hi,
Thanks for the follow up. Ok, I have no idea what is his intensions? Clearly he tells you good things, that he doesn't want to loose you and all, but his actions tells differently. To be honest with you, no matter how busy he's, doesn't have... (read in full...)
We have clicked as soul mates. She's married but doesn't like her spouse. Do I tell her I have feelings for her?
Q. Well it's a hard situation. I work with this amazing girl and we talk all the time and can tell each other anything about anything. We hang out alot outside of work, text each other and can talk for hours. Unfortunately she is married and has been ...
A. 21 September 2011: Hi,
Thank you for letting me know how things are going. I just want to let you know that you are a gentleman. For the first time, I want you (the other man) to be happy, together with her. Hope you have a lovely time.
Best wishes ... (read in full...)
We have clicked as soul mates. She's married but doesn't like her spouse. Do I tell her I have feelings for her?
Q. Well it's a hard situation. I work with this amazing girl and we talk all the time and can tell each other anything about anything. We hang out alot outside of work, text each other and can talk for hours. Unfortunately she is married and has been ...
A. 20 September 2011: Hi,
I am glad you finally had the chance to talk to her, and things went well. Very good!!! Whatever you both decide, if you feel this will lead to something else, please you, and her make sure that her husband is ok... Always respect, and cons... (read in full...)
We have clicked as soul mates. She's married but doesn't like her spouse. Do I tell her I have feelings for her?
Q. Well it's a hard situation. I work with this amazing girl and we talk all the time and can tell each other anything about anything. We hang out alot outside of work, text each other and can talk for hours. Unfortunately she is married and has been ...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, Thank you for keeping us post in your situation. I really don't know what to say, it's really confusing... I don't blame you to feel this way. I can't tell either if she's into you as romantic partner or friend? Whatever you do, do the right... (read in full...)
Wife got drunk and molested in her sleep at a party. How to put back together the pieces?
Q. I trust my wife, and I truly believe her when she told me it was a mistake. My wife went to a party and drank. She felt too drunk to drive and didn't want to wake me and our child up to come get her. She texted me that she was staying the nigh...
A. 14 September 2011: Hi, Sorry to hear about your wife. I know you are hurting, I know how it feels, I was with my ex 10 years, so no need to explain the pain, words cannot describe enough. I don't want to upset you more, but it's hard to understand that she was ... (read in full...)
Does it seem from this conversation that my ex FWB wants to cheat on his girlfriend with me?
Q. I was on Skype the other day and he came online. We were FWB before but now he has a girlfriend: Him: So why did you get into bed with me? Him: The first time? Me: it wasn't the drink is all i'm saying Him: So what was it? Him: I know it w...
A. 14 September 2011: Hi,
I have go agree with you. It's not appropriate of him to talk this way when he's taking. I don't know what's his intensions, but whatever it's don't sleep with him anymore. Before, you were FWB, I guess you were both single, so that was ok, but ... (read in full...)
We have clicked as soul mates. She's married but doesn't like her spouse. Do I tell her I have feelings for her?
Q. Well it's a hard situation. I work with this amazing girl and we talk all the time and can tell each other anything about anything. We hang out alot outside of work, text each other and can talk for hours. Unfortunately she is married and has been ...
A. 14 September 2011: Hi,
So far you are handling the situation well, like a honorable man. Just make sure to talk about her and her husband first. I am sure she needs your support and advice. She's sad, confused, scared to make any decisions. Its important to make sure... (read in full...)
Do I talk to my boyfriend or wait until I have proof?
Q. Well, not sure how to start but .... there's this girl that likes my boyfriend and everybody knows it, she doesn't keep it quiet. Last night when i was at my boyfriend's house I saw two texts on his phone while he went to the bathroom. I checked ...
A. 14 September 2011: Hi, Don't call her.... This girl have no class and she's going to be rude to you, don't give her the pleasure to hurt you. Anyways, let's not assume anything, because you don't know for sure. If you accuse your boyfriend without any proof, will onl... (read in full...)
Boyfriend talking and texting with his ex
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months and now live together. I was bad one night and looked on his phone and saw lots of texts from his ex and even some naked pictures that she sent him. They have 2 children together and she lives 1...
A. 13 September 2011: Hi,
I know they have 2 children together, so they have to be in touch rather they like it or not. But, the conversations that they have, sending naked pictures, it's really unappropriated. I know that he cannot stop, control her sending text mess... (read in full...)
Will I be able to handle the fact that my GF cheated?
Q. We met when I was 19 and she was 17. I was in College at the time, her just finishing Highschool. We have been dating for 3 years. In Sept. 2010 she began attending University located 45 minutes away from where I our hometown was in which I attended ...
A. 13 September 2011: Hi,
I am sorry that you had to go through this horrible experience. I know how you feel. I've been there... My ex and I were together for 10 years, 2 years ago he started seeing another woman, and i just caught & found out 1 year ago. He deni... (read in full...)
Is a relationship worth the risk of being cheated on?
Q. I have always had a fear of relationships but what really scares me is if I ever fell in "Love" that I would be cheated on. Ive heard and read stories of people that are in happy relationships and then one day they wake up and realize their partner ...
A. 13 September 2011: Hi,
That's a good question, but if you don't take the change you will never know. If you worry about these things now, you might miss so many opportunities of meeting great people, great experiences, and the love of your life.
Some people are l... (read in full...)
My husband has affairs and takes my love for granted. What should I do?
Q. I am 27 yrs and have been married for 4yrs and we have a daugher 3yrs. My husband started having affairs out of marriage on and of 3months after i gave birth. I have tried talking to him, my mum and his mum but he stays calm just for short will then ...
A. 13 September 2011: Hi, You've been having problems with your husband for the last 2-3 years? He hasn't change, and I don't think he will. You even try professional help, didn't work. I know you've been with your husband a long time, have a new baby, but sometime... (read in full...)
Husband Doesn't Give Me Access to Any Money
Q. I am a stay-home mother to a two year old daughter and a one month old son. Before our first child was born I worked full time but my husband and I felt it was important for one of us to be around while our kids are little. He makes more money than ...
A. 13 September 2011: Hi, Sorry that your husband is so controlling. You sound like a great person, amazing mom, and the things you want is so little, basic stuff, and shocks me to hear that your husband gets mad at you for spending 200? The only solution here is to... (read in full...)
I feel used and lied to
Q. So I recently asked for advice on a question of mine. It was regarding my ex telling me she was pregnant with my child and then not talking to me for a week. I can now extend this problem of mine by saying that it's now been almost 4 weeks. She come...
A. 13 September 2011: Hi, All I can say is that I am glad that you are aware of what kind of person she is. I know it's difficult, because you love her so much, but you know well she's not good for you. It must be difficult for her to go through a difficult situ... (read in full...)
Husband has been acting really shady lately
Q. I need some advice... My husband has been acting real shady lately... He'll be on his phone in another room, and then jumps when I walk in the door. He carries his phone into the bathroom with him, won't go anywhere, even in the house, without his ...
A. 13 September 2011: Hi,
Been there, so you are in the right here. Believe your instincts, your gut feeling. The way you describe the situation, and his behavior, he's lying, hiding something from you. Funny, how man behave when they are not honest, almost like they... (read in full...)
How can I change the way he sees me?
Q. I've got a crush on someone and i've made a real rookie error. Basically I've liked this guy for a while but never had the guts to talk to him properly. We know each other through work. Last week we had a work social, and with the booze flowin...
A. 13 September 2011: Hi,
I don't think you did anything wrong. You like this man, were attractive to him, had a good time, end up in his place. The next time you see him, look your best, get a nice all fit, do your hair make up, be yourself and enjoy. I am sure he like... (read in full...)
Husband says he lies to me because he doesn't want problems!
Q. dearcupid, i'm married for 5 years now, and we have a 7 months old child.but my husband and i always quarrels because of her ex girlfriend and her 2nd cousin too.I get angry everytime i discover something , lastly i discover he has a sim card for...
A. 13 September 2011: Hi,
Your husband is a liar, and he won't change. He said he lies because he doesn't want to have problems with you? That's just an excuse. He knows that you don't approve him being in contact with his ex, 2nd cousin, but he still does?
You are n... (read in full...)
Boyfriend hasn't contacted me since he's been on vacation - should I be worried? What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months. He went on vacation for a week to FL and has been updating his Facebook with pictures and statuses, but has not contacted me (no calls/texts). It literally takes 10 seconds to send a text ...
A. 13 September 2011: Hi, You have the right to feel this way. I agree with what you are saying here. Ok, he's on vacation, wants to relax, have a good time, etc. But, a text or phone call don't take much. Don't make any conclusions until you see or talk to him. Who ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to deal with my feelings after sleeping with my old coach.
Q. I'm 26 and I slept with my sports coach back in April. I've known him from when I was about 13/14 because I used to go to the sports camps and socials and when I was about 14/15 I started to develop a bit of a crush. I didn't know him well, he was ...
A. 13 September 2011: Hi, I am sorry that you are feeling this way. Well, it happened, it was a mistake, now move on. I know you want to clear things out, need answers, but he refuses to talk to you, explain, and even ignore you when you contact him. What happene... (read in full...)
If its over then why does he stay in touch
Q. please help me i am in a real mess ,i have been with my partner for over 2 years and up until 3 weeks ago we had a amazing loving relatioship. The last 3 weeks have been very difficult, my partner was seving in afghan when he had to come home early ...
A. 13 September 2011: Hi,
You've been with him for 2 years, had good times, and I am sure he loves you too. I guess, right now with his physical problems, he's not feeling well, both physically, mentally, and emotionally. He's still in touch with you because he stil... (read in full...)
My g/f doesn't have good legs and I'm not sexually attracted to her!
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend for 5 years. Unfortunately, try as I might, I haven't found her sexually attractive for some time. We have marriage plans, and I'm sure she would be a good life partner, mother, etc., but I don't know if this can work ...
A. 12 September 2011: Hi,
I agree with some of the responses here, after 5 years, only now you see & decide you are not attracted to your girlfriend because she doesn't have nice legs? If you have doubts now, getting married won't solve your girlfriends legs issues, it w... (read in full...)
Was the holding hands at the bar and flirting just because we were having a good night or does it sound like he's a little interested in me?
Q. I went out for a night of fun with some of my girl friends and met a guy at the bar. He seemed really nice and genuine..he knew some of my friends that I was with that night so we met through them. That evening him and I talked a lot and flirted a ...
A. 12 September 2011: Hi,
Sounds like he's interested in you definitely, but I think he's just shy, or taking his time. I am sure he didn't ask you out yet, cause he's insecure about your feelings towards him, and he's probably afraid of being rejected. Just like you ... (read in full...)
Am I right to be angry at my parents' relationship with my ex?
Q. I split with my ex of 9 years 16 months ago. It was, as far as it can be, amicable and fortunately there were no other people involved, nor did we have kids. My ex bought me out of our house and I have my own flat and she has, just last week, sold ...
A. 12 September 2011: Hi,
Only you and your ex know the reason why both of you end up on divorce. I know that doesn't make sense that your parents, and your ex need to be in contact at all. But, I think in your parents eyes, they are just being respectful to her, afte... (read in full...)
Why did he suddenly stop texting?
Q. I've been dating a guy for about a month now, he works away Monday to Friday and comes home on Fridays. For the first two weeks we would text constantly and they would be sweet and I'd be smiling constantly. Last Sunday he left early coz I had ...
A. 12 September 2011: Hi,
I agree with the previous answer.
Don't stress yourself with minor things, seems like the relationship is going pretty well, I really think he's interested in you, and have real feelings for you.
Good luck... (read in full...)
Why do I have problems establishing true friendships?
Q. I am wondering whether it was my childhood that has caused me to have difficulty establishing good friends. I know in life we are lucky to have 5 really good life long friends but I do not appear to have any and I feel really lonely. I current...
A. 12 September 2011: Hi, I am sorry to hear about your childhood. I think in your case, how you develop as an adult has a lot to do with your childhood experiences. I guess, because of the tthings that has happened to you in the past, made you feel insecure about yo... (read in full...)
He has me confused! Is he only messing with me?
Q. I have been on 3 dates with this reserved man ,but have known him for 1 year .The dates went very well ,but lately he asked me if i wanted to go away for the week ,i said yes and then he changed his mind and said we should go back to being friends ...
A. 12 September 2011: Hi, I don't know if he's messing with you, but he's not being honest with you. You know him 1 year, during that year only 3 dates? He asked you to go away, then changed his mind? Answer: wants go take things slowly? Well, it's very slow already.... (read in full...)
Should I continue with my 'affair'?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now, I love him so much. The thought of him not being by my side just makes me feel so depressed. During out first 6-8 month, he was cheating on me with this guy, I saw plenty of emails. I don't know if ...
A. 12 September 2011: Hi, I know you love your boyfriend, but clearly something is missing in this relationship that force you to do something against your own morals. I think you should have a talk with your boyfriend and try to solve all the issues you have with him... (read in full...)
Would u have sex with someone if they promised a job?
Q. would u have sex with someone if they promised you a job or if theyd support you but you were a virgin...
A. 12 September 2011: Hi,
I am surprise you even ask?
I know times are tuff, but it's your life and do what you want because nobody cares what you do with your life. So have some common sense... I could write a huge speech here, but really I rather not waste my time.
... (read in full...)
Do I talk to my boyfriend or wait until I have proof?
Q. Well, not sure how to start but .... there's this girl that likes my boyfriend and everybody knows it, she doesn't keep it quiet. Last night when i was at my boyfriend's house I saw two texts on his phone while he went to the bathroom. I checked ...
A. 12 September 2011: Hi, Did you know he was friends with this girl and they communicate with each other? If, he has told you that they are friends, then don't accuse him of anything yet. I will suggest to talk to him, wait for the right time, when he's in a good m... (read in full...)
I want to break free from him - How can I do this?
Q. Dear cupid...I am a married woman had a affair w/amarried man for 10 months...I have a daughter and he has a daughter and wife just had their 2nd child this wk...I broke up w/him 5times and ended up getting back together.I love him very much and so ...
A. 12 September 2011: Hi, When you started this affair, you knew he was married. If after 10 mos, he didn't leave his wife, we both know he won't, specially now that he has a new born, that means he's still very much into the marriage, and still having sex with ... (read in full...)
He blocked me, his friend blocked. Do I just ignore the situation?
Q. Am I suppose to do anything or wait? I knew him for four years. he was kind to me when I was a loner and looked different (I came from a culture where they wear shawls on the head). Turns out his dad was from that culture and I really began to...
A. 12 September 2011: Hi, Yes ignore him, and forget about him. Why are you still debating about him after 1 year that you didn't have contact at all. He was friends with you for 3 years before this happened, at the time he was rude to you for blocking you. Even if he ha... (read in full...)
I feel I'm being used!
Q. I have been involved with a guy on and off for about 3 years now! I was completely besotted with him and because I loved him I just let him treat me bad - like he only ever used me for money,sex now and then etc etc... Anyway one day last week I ...
A. 11 September 2011: Hi,
You are aware of your situation. You know he uses you for his own advantage, money, sex, etc. You shouldn't ask us " I feel he's using me" you are being used. Sorry, we both know it's true, so why are you still with him after 3 years? Not only... (read in full...)
I'm feeling hurt and let down, help me walk away!
Q. i been dating this man for five years and hes married he stop seeing and then he wants me back for a few days then he out looking for some one new his wife lives up north and he lives here its like he likes having his cake everything else i get ...
A. 11 September 2011: Hi,
I know you love this man, but he's not for you. You know his intensions, so why stay with him for 5 years? After all these years if things didn't change, I don't think it ever will. Don't you think you deserve someone that can be with you only... (read in full...)
I love her but my brain says run. I need help please to resolve serious reservations about this 'situation'.
Q. I am madly in love and constantly dream about this woman. I cannot get enough of her... But, my brain disagrees. There are real signs that something is really wrong with her... She can't manage money. She cries at the drop of a hat (we can be o...
A. 11 September 2011: Hi,
Follow your brain, not your heart. In a relationship, love is not enough, love don't conquer all. If you feel this way now, after 1 year? Things will only get worst. We all have problems, money issues, but we are strong, and carry on. Why cry ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong, should my feelings enter into this at all, or am I being selfish?
Q. Dear Cupid; I just ended a relationship with my boyfriend "Jeff" which lasted a little over a year. At the beginning he dumped me via an email saying he was going back to a previous girlfriend. He came back to me when that didn't work out, but it l...
A. 11 September 2011: Hi,
Previous people said it before, you are right to feel this way. His ex shouldn't be communicating with him daily, ask him to do things for her. Even though they are divorced, they are both acting like a couple. It's her fault to expect him to d... (read in full...)
We have clicked as soul mates. She's married but doesn't like her spouse. Do I tell her I have feelings for her?
Q. Well it's a hard situation. I work with this amazing girl and we talk all the time and can tell each other anything about anything. We hang out alot outside of work, text each other and can talk for hours. Unfortunately she is married and has been ...
A. 11 September 2011: Hi,
I am glad that you both didn't take the next step. I respect you for that.
You've been having these feelings for the past 2 years. You both are great friends. She is not happy with her marriage, but doesn't do anything about it. It must be ... (read in full...)
I still love my ex and know we will not re-unite as a couple. So how do I move on from still having feelings for him?
Q. I wanted to ask if it is normal to still be in love with your ex after being broken up 4 and a half years. I have tried to move on, but I feel like my ex was the love of my life and I can't bring myself to date anyone else, even though I know I ...
A. 11 September 2011: Hi,
How? You just do it, because you have to. If you cannot do it on your own, try to seek for professional help. It's not healthy for you to be stuck for 4 1/2 years. I know it's difficult, because I was also in a 10 years relationship, we just... (read in full...)
Attempts at online dating are hurting my self-esteem. Advice, please.
Q. I am newly single after a long-term relationship (19 years) ended and now back in the dating game. I have never been the most sought after guy at the party, but I've attracted attention of women in my time. I don't have classic good looks, but ...
A. 11 September 2011: Hi,
Sorry about your divorce. Hope you are doing well.
I just want to tell you that you are wrong to feel this way. I am sure they don't contact you for other reasons than your look. Understand that people have their own preferences, what one migh... (read in full...)
Does he sound like someone who could grow up and see me as the girl he could build a life with or should I just forget him altogether?
Q. Met an american man while I was traveling in africa (i am canadian), dated him for 3 months, "just to have fun". I was 27 and a virgin with a couple of serious past boyfriends, he was 23 and a non-virgin with lots of casual making out/fooling around ...
A. 10 September 2011: Hi, I think he likes you and care about you as a friend, but I don't think he's ready for a committed relationship. This has nothing to do with you, meaning "good enough?" "love me enough ", etc. He's a young man, and I just think he's not ready to... (read in full...)
Did I do wrong? He had broken up with her. Then we had sex. He went back to her. Now she is angry with me.
Q. So basically. I was seeing this guy, and we ended up sleeping together.. the problem is, he was an ex of an acquaintance, she wasn't a close friend or anything, but I did know her and we would be nice if we ever bumped into each other.. . I felt ...
A. 10 September 2011: Hi, I just want you to know that you have not done anything wrong. 1) he asked you out 2) you both decided to have sex, so it's not your fault 3) most importantly they were broken up, again you didn't do anything wrong. The truth is that thi... (read in full...)
Should I give it a try? And talk to my ex-friend who I was in love with?
Q. I lost a great friend four years ago. He wanted to be in a relationship with me and I am sure he knew how much I loved him despite the fact that I tried my hardest to hide my feelings. Then came the time when I had to move out of my home state for ...
A. 10 September 2011: Hi, I think you should just call him and get over with. It's has been so many years and you still think of him. You need to do this for yourself. Just be aware that it has been many years ago, so if you do contact him be prepare, because people chan... (read in full...)
We both have partners but I really like him, am I living in a fantasy world or should I make a move on this guy?
Q. I am in a relationship that is going nowhere. My partner, though a good father to our child is a non violent alcoholic whom is emotionally abusive. Though I love him, I don't believe I am in love with him anymore. A few months back I met a man ...
A. 10 September 2011: Hi, I am glad that you are fully aware of your situation, and is also considering his girlfriends feelings. So far, so good. If you feel you both have a connection, you should talk to him before you make any decision. Honesty is the best way. As... (read in full...)
Have you ever broken off a friendship because of things your friend did? I feel so guilty...
Q. This girl I have been friends with for 3 years were once close. We'd chat or talk every day. But then as I got to know her, I realized things about her I never knew. And I cut off the friendship for the final time a little time ago. One thing is I ...
A. 9 September 2011: Hi, Don't feel guilty. You did the right thing. A friend is someone you can trust and have the same morals and standards. At times, different opinions and point of view, but to me trust and honesty is the most important thing in a friendsh... (read in full...)
What do you think when you hear a guy has never had a relationship and he's now 30 years old?
Q. hi there. i only need advice from woman in order to get the right answers. im turning 30 next month and have never had a long term relationship. longest ever was 3 months. i have slept with probably 50 woman at least so getting a girl to date isnt ...
A. 9 September 2011: Hi,
Different people have different opinions. In my opinion, I don't see anything wrong, sometimes it's takes longer for some people to find the person that you feel comfortable, love unconditionally, compatible, etc. Relationships are hard, it's... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for taking my daughter away from this cheat or should I try and make it work?
Q. Long story short! I don't know if I can make my relationship work. I feel miserable!!! We have a daughter together she is 1 month and 1 week today, too be honest when I first found out I was pregnant I thought our relationship was going to change ...
A. 8 September 2011: Hi,
Congratulations on your new daughter!!!! Hope she's healthy...
I just want to tell you that you have the right to feel this way. I know when you don't have anybody to talk to, you get confused, specially when he makes you believe that you are ... (read in full...)
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