We have clicked as soul mates. She's married but doesn't like her spouse. Do I tell her I have feelings for her?
Q. Well it's a hard situation. I work with this amazing girl and we talk all the time and can tell each other anything about anything. We hang out alot outside of work, text each other and can talk for hours. Unfortunately she is married and has been ...
A. 21 September 2011: Hi,
Thank you for letting me know how things are going. I just want to let you know that you are a gentleman. For the first time, I want you (the other man) to be happy, together with her. Hope you have a lovely time.
Best wishes ... (read in full...)
We have clicked as soul mates. She's married but doesn't like her spouse. Do I tell her I have feelings for her?
Q. Well it's a hard situation. I work with this amazing girl and we talk all the time and can tell each other anything about anything. We hang out alot outside of work, text each other and can talk for hours. Unfortunately she is married and has been ...
A. 20 September 2011: Hi,
I am glad you finally had the chance to talk to her, and things went well. Very good!!! Whatever you both decide, if you feel this will lead to something else, please you, and her make sure that her husband is ok... Always respect, and cons... (read in full...)
Did he ever care? How can I move on from all this ?
Q. Three years ago my now ex and I broke up. we were from different cultures and religions and he decided that his family would disown him and things could not go further after three and a half years and the best part of our younger days together. Fo...
A. 19 September 2011: Hi, Sorry that you are in pain for so many years. Let me start by saying that I was in a 10 years relationship with a man with different culture, background, and religion. Like any other relationship, started as friends, and I never imagine that... (read in full...)
Acts like he likes me. But never asks me out. Is "Friend" all I can hope for?
Q. I really like this guy, I thought he liked me too, we text and or phone every single day all day from good morning to night night texts etc, at least 20 texts a day!! It was my birthday two weeks ago and he hasn't even mentioned it, I did tell h...
A. 19 September 2011: Hi, Sorry that he didn't remember your birthday. I hope you had a nice day on your birthday. Well, I have to agree that you both are very good friends, and it's obvious by the number of times you both text, call each other daily. You mentione... (read in full...)
Should I worry? I can't stop thinking that my boyfriend still talks with his ex.
Q. I've never been to a long term relationship like the one i'm having right now. I was always insecure that the guys are cheaters and they will hurt me, so casual sex was pretty much what i was doing. When i men the guy i'm seeing right now i felt v...
A. 19 September 2011: Hi, I am sorry that you are going through this nonsense. I am happy that you found a nice guy, that truly loves you, and care about you. So far, things seems to be going well, for the fact that both parents were introduce to each other. That sho... (read in full...)
Should I trust my partner? Found photos of his ex locked up
Q. Hi, i'v been with my boyfriend for 8 years now and have 4 children together. When we moved house my 4 year old at the time pulled an envelope out and inside were pictures of his ex. I questioned him he said he didn't now he still had them and he ...
A. 19 September 2011: Hi I don't get it? What's the point of him keeping these stuff locked after so many years? I don't think he's cheating, nor have any intentions, but I don't understand? Best thing to do is to show your findings, everything, and ask him why he stil... (read in full...)
Do I confront her about this guy? Or is it just harmless flirting?
Q. Hello, hopefully you can help me with this problem I've been having. I've been in a relationship with this girl for over 4 years and we love one another a lot. I have been hurt very badly in the past and as such put up some barriers with th...
A. 19 September 2011: Hi, You've been together with your girlfriend the past 4 years. You've been there for her, supported, etc. I think you have the right to ask her if something is bothering you. I don't blame you for feeling a little uncomfortable about the situ... (read in full...)
I like this guy but I'm afraid to show all my feelings as I have been hurt int he past. What to do??
Q. This is going to be a little confusing, so bear with me. I think I like a guy friend of mine. He and I haven't known each other that long, so I can't be sure, and truth be told I haven't hung out with him all that much. When I finally admitted...
A. 19 September 2011: Hi, Well, this is a new friendship in early stages. Don't make any conclusions until you know for sure. He's a single guy, so it's fair game. As fir the movie? I don't think he was rejecting you, I truly believe he wasn't feeling well, and he told ... (read in full...)
He's blocked for a reason. Should I confront him, for seeking info about me ?
Q. I fell out with my best friend, who was a guy, around five or six weeks ago, blocked him from contacting me, so that he wouldn't be able to contact me and would leave me alone from then on. I do not want anything to do with him anymore. I have just ...
A. 19 September 2011: Hi, I like you. You are a young lady, but very confident, strong person. That's a great quality. He knows what he's done to you, he knows you don't want him to contact you anymore, but I guess whatever he did, he still cares about you. I know bs"... (read in full...)
I'm going to visit friends in the town where I went to university, but I'm worried about running in to my ex. What should I do?
Q. I'm going to visit friends back in the town where I went to university, but I'm worried about running in to my ex. Mine and my ex's relationship was short term, but we got on incredibly well with each other and formed a strong, loving relations...
A. 19 September 2011: Hi, I don't blame you for feeling this way, after all you both had a good relationship, and just ended to circumstances that wouldn't allow you both to be together. It's hard to move on when you still have feelings for her. Also, you must be heart... (read in full...)
He disappears on the weekends..
Q. have been talking seriously with this spanish man on fb..who seemes too good to be true..is the most charming , sensistive man i have ever spoken to....he say's he's fallen for me and would like to meet me in London , as i'm from the uk and he's ...
A. 19 September 2011: Hi, I think you are getting stress for no reason. Why don't you give him a chance, believe him when he says he's working on weekends? Also, he might be spending time with family, and friends. People need fo relax on weekends, and him working,... (read in full...)
Insecure about my lips! How do I learn to accept myself as I am?
Q. I'm mixed race (black and white) but I inherited more physical features from my dad's side, including rather full lips. I've always been very insecure about them, to the point that I've even considered cosmetic surgery to reduce my pout a bit. I ...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, Beauty is within... The looks doesn't matter, and don't last, fade away. You are unique, and should always be proud of yourself. We all have different qualities, nobody is perfect, and we all have something that we don't like about ourselve... (read in full...)
I'm in a relationship with my ex GF's cousin, just to take revenge from my ex for dumping me!
Q. Dear Cupid, Over the last six months, guys I have been in a relationship with my ex-girlfriend’s first cousin and pretending to love her but actually I am using her to settle score with my Ex who dumped for no reason almost one year ago afte...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, I know how you feel... I just ended a 10 years relationship a year ago. I know it's so painful to be hurt by the one you love. You feel pain, hurt, shock, betrayal, anger, etc. I know, words cannot describe, it's overwhelming, specially when it ... (read in full...)
Should I have a baby with this married man?
Q. I have a serious question that I know will ruffle A LOT of feathers but I'm sorry, I really need advice, I've been seeing a married man for a while and were very close, best friends more than lovers. Recently I have been getting urges to have a ...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, It's your life, so you can live the way you want I was just wondering though? As you know this man is married? I guess since he hasn't left the wife for you, he has no plans of having a future together, nor being a committed relationship wit... (read in full...)
What went wrong here? How did things change so suddenly?
Q. Hello to anyone who reads this. I have heard this is a good site for advice so here goes... Met someone and hit off big time. Always recieving texts and asking to meet them. Saw each other everyday and spent most nights at their house. Met f...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, You are a nice person to be friends with people with so many problems? I get stress, depress, tired just reading your post. I feel bad for these people. I am sure they are good people, that unfortunately life was not too kind. I am confuse... (read in full...)
How can I get over my ex-girlfriend and her cheating on me?
Q. I am 22 years old and I just got out of my first serious relationship with my ex. We went out for 6 months. Rumors were going around that she was having one night stands with random guys. I broke up with not because she cheated on me (although she ...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, Just because you had a bad apple doesn't mean all the apples you will have in the future will be bad. Common, you are very young, this is only your first serious relationship. You will have many more, rather you want or not. About you being we... (read in full...)
I'm 28 and never had a girlfriend! Now since I finished school and bought a BMW, girls are talking to me now?
Q. Should i welcome each girl that is now trying to talk to me with caution? I'm very skeptical and always have been skeptical regarding women in my life. Now girls are now coming out of the woods all of a sudden asking for things? I got a whole new ...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, Funny... As sad as it sounds, it's true. I am older than you, live in different country, but it's the same thing here. When I was in high school, college, I noticed that the pretty girls were popular, and guys, not so much about good looking,... (read in full...)
Should I tell my girlfriend about this incident?
Q. Hello there, alright this is serious so please I don't want people telling me about the age of legal sex, I know thank you. I found this girl, she is just like me in almost everyway and we have started dating, and we are really close now, I have no ...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, I like you. You are smart guy for your age, mature, I like the fact that you are very straight forward in your post, and also like your advance comment; "I know thank you" You made a mistake to put yourself in this situation. Why did you ... (read in full...)
How do I let go of the bitterness towards my husband's affair?
Q. My husband of 6 years told me 2 years ago that he never loved me,this is when i discovered he was having an affair. he said so many times that i forced myself on him. Somehow we got out of the situation, but he never apologised to me. I am still ...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi,
I know how you feel. Just ended a 10 years relationship a year ago (cheating). So I know your pain, anger, shock, betrayal, etc. No words need to explain how you feel, because I have experienced myself.
It's takes time to heal, specially wh... (read in full...)
Does boyfriend love me or what I do for him?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend of 10 years. life is good as long as its about him and no one else. recently my adopted son came back into my life and i needed to build a bound there. my question is does my boyfriend love me for me or what i can do ...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, I know you don't have a full time job. Well, time to find one, immediately. I am 38 years myself. My boyfriend is same age, he pays everything, including my car, clothes, food, everything!! We are almost same age, and I cannot believe how our ... (read in full...)
Is she still interested or just playing?
Q. So here's the deal. I was going out with this girl for a while (about 2 years) and things didn't end so well. It has been 3 years now since we have seen each other. The odd thing though is that we have talked about every other month or so since ...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, I am confused too, only she has the answers to your questions. It's has been 3 years since you broken up. Forget her!!! If you want to continue being "friends" it's up to you. But, I would never trust her again. First of all, you ende... (read in full...)
My husband admitted he married me to get into Canada!
Q. I've been married to my husband for 13 years now. We first met when I was on holiday in Edinburgh, Scotland back in 1995 - it was a great holiday, I'd always wanted to visit Britain, in fact I still go every so often, to this day. Our marriage...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi Melissa, I don't blame you for feeling this way. Imagine, the man you love, got married, shared a life for the last 13 years, comes to you now, and confess about something so serious? I could only imagine, this man, not only you truly love, bu... (read in full...)
I cheated on my wife. Should I tell her?
Q. I cheated on my wife 14 years ago. I didn't have an affair. It was just one day in a motel room with an ex-girlfriend. I felt terrible about it even as it was happening. My wife does suspect something may have happened. In fact, I think she susp...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi,
Of couse, honesty is the best way, but I think that it has been too long ago, and if it's what you said? One night? Then, I would suggest to not tell your wife. This opinion, is totally against my morals, but I am confused?
Why do you want ... (read in full...)
How can my boyfriend have major mood swings and not realize it?
Q. Please can anyone help me. I have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, and living together for just over 1 year. We have always been so very happy and made lots of plans for our life together. The last 3 weeks he has been really down one ...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, You've been together with your boyfriend 2 years now. You know him well, and knows that this is not his typical, normal behavior. For now, since it has been only 3 weeks, let him just have his time. I am sure nothing serious, he might be stres... (read in full...)
Is this from a bad break up, or do I have depression??
Q. Hello! to start with, there was a guy i met somewhere around march this year, at first it was all casuall, but later we both started to seriously like each other. all was well utill one day i pissed him off with something i said, and he just left...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, No, I don't think you have depression. What you have is a broken heart. I know all the symptom you describe are similar to depression, but how you are feeling right now is perfectly normal after having broken up with you boyfriend. We all been... (read in full...)
My wife has started telling lots of lies. She I confront her about it?
Q. I always believed my wife to be a very honest person. She would never steal, cheat, or otherwise be unethical. She works with large amounts of money as part of her job. I have never really caught her in a lie to me and we have been together...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, It's silly. I don't think you should worry so much about her lies. I know, if she lies about little things? If she lies to her co-workers? What if, and why? From what you describe, I don't think she has an answer, to me she's just being lazy... ... (read in full...)
Did I do anything wrong by not contacting him?
Q. I dated a guy for 4-5 months a while ago. After a lot of mess he ended it with me. He wasn't always nice to me, said bad things and made me feel bad about myself. But we had great chemistry in many ways, and I was very much in love, but everything ...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, You did the right thing not contacting him after all that has happened. I don't blame you for hooking up with him at the party, after all you were both a couple, recently ended, and I guess you both still had feelings for each other. Even tho... (read in full...)
How do I break off contact with him so we can still be friendly?
Q. I really like this guy, but I think he just wants to be friends. In order for me to move on I want to end contact with him. The problem is we text and phone each other every day, if I don't text him, he gets really annoyed! To be honest I really ...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, You like him, but he just want to be friends? The only way you can move on is to end contact at all, even if this means not being friends at all. How can you get pass this, if you keep contacting him daily. I know you want to keep his friendsh... (read in full...)
I'm pretty sure my boyfriend cheated but I don't want to leave him!
Q. Hi, Just need some help with my cheating boyfriend. Im pretty sure he's been lying and cheating on me. I saw the girls facebook and his name is all over it. She talks about him a lot. I'm stuck right now. I was too upset to talk to him ...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, If you love him so much stay with him. There's no shame, you decide what's best for you. Nobody have the right to judge you, only you know him well, know your relationship, and only you can decide what you think is best for you. Ok, you saw ... (read in full...)
This morning I found a stash of ex's dirty panties in my boyfriend's dresser!
Q. Please help.My boyfriend and I have been dating exclusively for 7 months and are talking about building a life together. This morning I found a stash of exes dirty panties in his drawer next to our bed. What should I do?...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi,
Ugh?... I know some guys have fetish... It's their own preferences, and nobody have the right to judge.
The important thing right now is that he's with you. Of course, this upset you. It would upset anybody... It's only normal, and right to... (read in full...)
When I confronted boyfriend about cheating he didn't say anything which to me confirms that he's cheating. Now what?
Q. how do i get over this: I had my boyfriend, and he cheated on me and when I confronted him he said he didn't do anything, then he didn't want to talk about it, he left. That only tells me one thing, that is it true and I don't know how to cope...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, What's going on in this world? We are all different people living the same life!!! This is the time you cannot think effectively. Believe me, I know how you feel. I just ended a 10 years relationship a year ago. No need to explain how you ... (read in full...)
Does she even have an ounce of love for me? Or am I setting myself to be completely destroyed later on?
Q. My girlfriend of almost a year dumped me two days after my birthday (mid-august) completely out of the blue. That night, she texted me saying "I think I don't like you anymore" and our relationship to me ended at that moment. Mind you, not to make ...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, I am sorry that your girlfriend mistreated you. I am confused? You both been together 1 year? That's a long time, time enough to know each other well. What concerns me is how she behave the month she was part from you? Why her brother was so m... (read in full...)
I've been cheated on twice and now both my ex boyfriends want me back!
Q. i recently broke up with my long-time boyfriend of 20yrs because of the fact he was cheating on me. I then met another guy and we have been dating for 1yr now. I broke up with him within the last 2wks because i felt that there was someone else. It ...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, I know exactly how you feel. I have been in a 10 years relationship, just a year found out, still broken. The pain, disappointment, anger, I mean, no words cannot describe. But, you know all well. Cheating is devastating, but not all cases ar... (read in full...)
Is this girl flirting with me, or just being nice?
Q. I have a crush on a girl I work with. She has done a few things that make me think she might feel the same. I should highlight that she is very nice and friendly with everyone so I could be wrong. Anyway... She laughs at all my bad jokes, and r...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, Yeah, I think she has a crush on you. I do the same things she does to you without even knowing. I guess that's just the way she's, like me. I am also friendly, because I do care about people, and want them to like me. Also, I am shy around g... (read in full...)
We have clicked as soul mates. She's married but doesn't like her spouse. Do I tell her I have feelings for her?
Q. Well it's a hard situation. I work with this amazing girl and we talk all the time and can tell each other anything about anything. We hang out alot outside of work, text each other and can talk for hours. Unfortunately she is married and has been ...
A. 18 September 2011: Hi, Thank you for keeping us post in your situation. I really don't know what to say, it's really confusing... I don't blame you to feel this way. I can't tell either if she's into you as romantic partner or friend? Whatever you do, do the right... (read in full...)
How do you move on from past heart ache?
Q. How does a person move on from a past heartbreaking relationship? About five months ago the man I was involved with chose to abandon me after I went through what I consider to be the most heartbreaking excruciating time in my life, of which he was ...
A. 16 September 2011: Hi,
I know exactly how you feel. Just ended a 10 years relationship. I'm still in contact, mostly fighting, arguing. No chances of reconciliation, I just want to make him feel miresable.
I am a nice, calm, reasonable, stay away from drama, never... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with my wife's sexual past. What can I do to help myself?
Q. I want to preface this post by saying that I have read a lot of the retroactive jealousy threads both here and on other sites. I realize this is mostly my problem, not my wife's. I don't absolve her completely, because I think a smart, respecta...
A. 16 September 2011: Hi,
By reading your post, I can tell you are a smart, educated man. I am a little surprise though, by the way you think. You are in pain, and anger on your own.
First, you have to understand that everything that your wife did was in the past, wa... (read in full...)
I don't have friends and don't want any. Is that wrong?
Q. I am 38 years old and I don't have any friends other than my wife. I have one friend from high school I see once in a great while. He always wants to meet up and do something, but I have no interest. I get along with my colleagues at work, but work...
A. 16 September 2011: Hi,
I am the same age as you. I don't think there's anything wrong with you for not wanting people in your life. I guess you are anti-social, as people may call. I wonder, did anything happened to you in the past that made you feel this way, or are ... (read in full...)
I'm trying to not act desperate but I want to talk to him so bad. What should I do?
Q. So everyone, I used to be part of this online dating site. I was never active on it so therefore my profile was on "hiatus" meaning I couldn't really request, message, or talk to people. I could only just add them to my "favorites". I talked to this ...
A. 14 September 2011: Hi,
I know you feel connection in some levels, but you already sent him a message, now let him contact you first. I am not suggesting you to play games, or play hard to get. He knows you, saw your pictures, have all information, knows how to get ... (read in full...)
I did not know he had a girlfriend! Should I tell her he had sex with me?
Q. I never thought I would be the "other woman." I had broken up with a boyfriend after finding out about his infidelity. Since then I had gotten a new boyfriend and moved to a different city. However, my new boyfriend didn't work out, and my ex h...
A. 14 September 2011: Hi, Sorry that you had such a horrible experience with this man. I am glad to know that you have moved on, away from him, and hope you continue doing so. Please, don't even keep him as friend. He's a liar, cheater by blood, and will never ch... (read in full...)
He cheated on me and now I can't have sex with him because it is too painful for me
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for quite sometime now, but in the past he has cheated on me. Which affected the trust in our relationship, and sex is out of the question we never have sex anymore simply because when we do its so extremely painful! I ...
A. 14 September 2011: Hi, I know exactly how you feel. I just ended a 10 years relationship. I know your pain, how much this affect you mentally, emotionally, physically... Words cannot describe... You will never be the same, and will never forget. I am not sure how long... (read in full...)
We don't know how to tell our partners about us!
Q. im 24 and my fiancee is 23 we've been in a relationship for two years now and we're engaged too, but recently i met this other women while i was away on a lads weekend and we hit off straight away. we both had no intentions of finding someone new ...
A. 14 September 2011: You are cheating on your fiancé already, so rather you had intensions or not, doesn't matter. I don't know what you are waiting for to talk to your fiancé. There's no easy way, and waiting won't make any difference.
You don't deserve your fia... (read in full...)
Wife got drunk and molested in her sleep at a party. How to put back together the pieces?
Q. I trust my wife, and I truly believe her when she told me it was a mistake. My wife went to a party and drank. She felt too drunk to drive and didn't want to wake me and our child up to come get her. She texted me that she was staying the nigh...
A. 14 September 2011: Hi, Sorry to hear about your wife. I know you are hurting, I know how it feels, I was with my ex 10 years, so no need to explain the pain, words cannot describe enough. I don't want to upset you more, but it's hard to understand that she was ... (read in full...)
We have clicked as soul mates. She's married but doesn't like her spouse. Do I tell her I have feelings for her?
Q. Well it's a hard situation. I work with this amazing girl and we talk all the time and can tell each other anything about anything. We hang out alot outside of work, text each other and can talk for hours. Unfortunately she is married and has been ...
A. 14 September 2011: Hi,
So far you are handling the situation well, like a honorable man. Just make sure to talk about her and her husband first. I am sure she needs your support and advice. She's sad, confused, scared to make any decisions. Its important to make sure... (read in full...)
We have clicked as soul mates. She's married but doesn't like her spouse. Do I tell her I have feelings for her?
Q. Well it's a hard situation. I work with this amazing girl and we talk all the time and can tell each other anything about anything. We hang out alot outside of work, text each other and can talk for hours. Unfortunately she is married and has been ...
A. 11 September 2011: Hi,
I am glad that you both didn't take the next step. I respect you for that.
You've been having these feelings for the past 2 years. You both are great friends. She is not happy with her marriage, but doesn't do anything about it. It must be ... (read in full...)
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