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Fiance's ex forbids him seeing his children if I do something she doesn't like!

Q.   im going to make this short and simple. im with my fiance who has 2 kids by his ex-wife, what should i do, everytime i do something she does not like she tells him he cant see his kids. its not fair to him, what should i do ?...

A.   3 January 2011: Hi smileyface I'm gonna say some pretty random things - things I just learnt as i am in a similar situation The baby mamma/ex isnt going anywhere...she's in your life for as long as youre in his life. She obviously still loves him or why... (read in full...)

He wants to keep things casual and now I'm pregnant!

Q.   I am a hormonal emotional wreck. The man I hv been with for many years just informed me he wants to keep things the way they are at the moment. We live in separate homes . The twist in this I am 3 months pregnant . He wants things to remain...

A.   3 January 2011: Hi anonymous There are many things at play here...the most important factors being (firstly) the baby's wellbeing and then yours. May I highlight that men arent like women. We (women) want commitment, men seldomly volunteer it. Generally so... (read in full...)

Struggling with whether or not to leave my wife

Q.   I am 40 and married to a 53 year old woman. I love her. She has since the beginning of our marriage... roughly seven years ago... never really accepted my love for her...held herself back from me... been distant... and this last year i became ...

A.   3 January 2011: Hi nate2051 Well, where do I begin? Firstly Im also Christian, and can somewhat relate to the question you ask - from the "other womens" perspective. I think the first question to ask is - are you happy in your marriage, minus the new love/oth... (read in full...)

My boyfriend cheated on me with another women. Now I think I have a STD. What should I do?

Q.   my b/f recently cheated on me with another woman. Yet we have had unprotected sex two times since he cheated. The last time was the day before my period came. Now my period is finished and my vagina feels different. He didn't tell me until like ...

A.   1 January 2011: Hi This is a serious one. A very serious matter. Not the cheating as such (no doubt that that is unacceptable), but cheating without protection. That's plain dangerous. Im from South Africa, we have one of the highest HIV-AIDS infection rates ... (read in full...)

We seem to have grown apart, is there a way back or should I go it alone?

Q.   Good evening to all and happy new year! Ive been asking myself why am i visiting this site? How did i came upon it, what led me to being here and the answer hit me - i know who i am, i know what ive achieved in life regarding work and studies and ...

A.   1 January 2011: Hi and happy new year to you too I can totally understand that you're scared, scared of being more alone than you already are, of loosing him. The two questions that you might be afraid to ask him may be: 1. Is he cheating/seeing some... (read in full...)

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