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She's 14. I'm 16. Are the two years too much?

Q.   Well. There is a girl of 14 who I fancy and am not sure she fancies me back. But anyway I am 16 and have left school, and my mate keeps taking the mick because I want to go out with a younger girl who is the same age as my sister. But I don't know ...

A.   12 July 2006: I would just go for it as well loads of lads go out with lass's a lot younger dont worry about what your friends think I would just ignore them they are jealous cause your doing your best to get a lass. good luck ... (read in full...)

He's always too busy for me. What should I do?

Q.   hi i am 13 and i dont know where i stand wiv my boyfriend. he doesnt go to the same school, i met him at the park and we both go there every week. recently i keep phoning him and he always says he is busy, then i say what about sunday? monday, ...

A.   9 May 2006: hi there do you not think he could be two timing you with another lass cause thats what lads say there two busy but instead hes with another lass do you not think. do you even no were he lives cause if you dont girl I dont even think theres any ... (read in full...)

I like my ex wifes half sister...can I do anything about this?

Q.   Im feeling confused,i have a female friend who i spend alot of time with as we both have a lot in common,the problem is ,1- she is 23 and im 36,2-she is my exwifes half sister.How do i find out if she wants to be more than mates with out upsetting ...

A.   9 May 2006: Guy if you like her why dont you make a move on her or ask her if she want to be more than friends. people say age does'nt matter its the thing that love them is'nt it... (read in full...)

I want to call her house and talk to her...what do you think?

Q.   i want to phone my previous girlfriends' house. i have thought on no one but her for the last 2 years and dream of her a few times per week. both of us are shy and we don't talk to each other in school but when we went out a couple of years ago we ...

A.   9 May 2006: Hey man I would hust get over her there are more babes in the world you know . or if you see her by herself why dont you ask to come friends again and after a while why dont you ask her out again If she does'nt want too just be friends and find ... (read in full...)

How do you know a boy likes you?

Q.   how do you know a boy likes you?...

A.   28 April 2006: I think that know that a boy likes you when hes always flirting and spending lots of time talking to you. one thing I think that most boys do is slap your ass and ask you louds of questions and they stick up for you when your getting picked on.... (read in full...)

Can I get my fiance back into my and our son's lives?

Q.   My ex-fiance and I broke up about 2 months ago. He blames me for our relationship ending, but he's the one who broke it off. I'm still in love with him but he wants nothing to do with me besides discussing our son, and it's probably because he's ...

A.   14 March 2006: Why don,t you say that your son is missing him and what you to come back or say If ya don,t come back you cant see your son any more and also say your son or your new life and then see what happen... (read in full...)

I feel if I don't succeed in school, others will be disappointed in me! What can I do?

Q.   hi people, just wondering if you could help me with this little problem i have. thing is, i've always liked school and have always had lots of friends and found it easy, but recently i've been struggling. because i did well in my sats in yr6 and i'm ...

A.   28 February 2006: girl just try your best thats the only key to sucess I am a failer but you are so brainy I know you will do well and I hope my pridition are correct all I can say is just keep on reviseing I dont revise at all and I am in bottom set please tell me ... (read in full...)

I think he's unattractive, but for some reason when he asked me out, I said OK...

Q.   Hey, this boy really fancies me and although I don't like him back I still flirt with him. On Valentines Day I got off with him! I don't know why as I don't see him as attractive and think that he is ugly, but he has asked me out and I don't want ...

A.   17 February 2006: If ya got of with him you must like him or else you would,nt get of with him and you don,t go for looks you go for personality I hope everything goes well and I think it will go well... (read in full...)

I feel like every guy I like is just going to use me..why can't I trust?

Q.   Help! I have this classmate and he's real annoying, but last night, after i cried to him over the phone about my boyfriend, he texted me and asked if he could court me. Was he waiting for me to break up with my boyfriend? Coz i think he was... Does ...

A.   10 February 2006: well think to yourself is it worth risking are friendship for love I think it is really up top you and ask yourself as well has he used someone before you know and there were friends before hey girl I know what it is like but some guys can be really ... (read in full...)

I'm shy and need lots of advice for when my boy's parents take us both out for dinner!

Q.   My bf's parents want to take him and me out to ahve dinner and I'm so nervous. This will be my first one on one with them and I'm freaking out...I hate to admit I'm shy and I tried my best not to be that way around them and talk and be relaxed and I ...

A.   10 February 2006: hi there when ya go on the dinner before talking to them just breath carmly and then say thank you for talking us both out for dinner and then they will probaly say your welcome love and then just start having a conversation with them like ask them ... (read in full...)

We're in our 30's. Feel sick that he dated a 16 year old when in his late 20's... !

Q.   I'm in my 30's as is my boyfriend. I just found out he started seeing his last girlfriend when she was 16 (she'll be 18 now). He had previously told me she was 19 when they met. Really freaked out by this... feel that 16 is just a child. Should...

A.   10 February 2006: Hi there every girl nower days are going for older guy I don't think there's a problem with your boyfriend when he was going out with a 16 year old and he was 20 thats only 4 years different this will make you sick this lass I no is 14 nearly 15 she ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to never having any feelings for another person? I only seem drawn to females for physical reasons...help!

Q.   Is it normal to never having any feelings for another person? The only things that draw me to women are purely physical. I watch everybody around me being in love and doing certain things I could just never imagine myself doing. I've never felt ...

A.   9 December 2005: There must be a reasons for why you don't have interst in falling in love it would be different if it was sex I someone how is ready to have sex but there to scared Is there a reason in your head that tells you your not ready. it is up to you if ... (read in full...)

My husband just isn't affectionate. No cuddles, no sex... I feel so unloved!

Q.   My husband and I have been married 22 yrs. But, we have known each other since I was 13 and he was 15. We started having less and less sex about 2 yrs. ago. He was having problems keeping an erection. About 4 months ago he had to have a triple by...

A.   9 December 2005: Why don,t you tell him how you are feeling and just sit down and talk about your relastionship and ask is are relastionship going any where just tell him how you feel hope everything goes well good luck... (read in full...)

He got a suspicious phone call from his ex at 4 am- do you think I'm making a huge deal over this?

Q.   I was at my b/f's the other night and his ex called at 4am she was crying ...i pretended i was sleeping and he kept telling her he had to go when i got up he finally hung up on her...am i making a huge deal over nothing? or do you think it is ...

A.   6 December 2005: I am sorry to say this but I think you are making a big deal why don't you ask him what she was saying to him just try and sort it out between each other... (read in full...)

I'm 12 and I hardly get to see my gf anymore. What do I do?

Q.   im 12 and i hardly ever get to see her anymore and when i do rarly see her i can hardly talk even though shes my gf what do i do...

A.   6 December 2005: Tell her that you want to see more and if it does'nt work out tell her that it's over... (read in full...)

Can he love me if he kissed another girl?

Q.   Firstly,sorry for the long question. My bf of 3 years recently kissed another girl. He was always completely against cheating and would be really disgusted if any of his friends cheated on theiir gf. He's v embarassed and confused at mo because he...

A.   2 December 2005: What you should do is ingore him for awhile like you said he will come running back when he lonley and when he is bored. Don't be the soft one by you go running back. Let he do the running and instead you do the talking. Stand up to him but if he ... (read in full...)

I love my girlfriend...but very intrigued with her best friend

Q.   I am 16 years old and i love my girlfriend very much. But recently I'm feeling strange about her best friend. I think I might be in love with her too. What do I do? I feel like my girlfriend could be my soul mate but then I'm intrigued by the best ...

A.   29 November 2005: What you should do is tell one of your friend or tell your girlfriend one day it will come out some day if you don,t tell just face up to every thing... (read in full...)

Help! Things are moving too fast. I'm 12 and my boyfriend is 17...

Q.   Hi, I need some advice about my boyfriend. I'm 12 and he's 17, we've been together for 2 months I really love him but things are moving a bit fast for me. We haven't even told my parents yet and he's talking about having sex! He has had sex with...

A.   29 November 2005: One question are you ready for it all I can say is its up to you but you are commiting a crime and If the boy loves you so much he won,t force you into anything you don,t what to do. ask him a question saying things like I would have sex with you ... (read in full...)

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