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Hi, I am an 18 year young bi-curious male :) I am friendly and I am fun,I am also very kind but don't take my sweetness for weakness because I can kick your ass as well :) I don't mind speaking about anything because I myself am open to any and everything.I am always here for anyone who is in need of a friend,brother father or just plain advise giver,I give some of the best adivse to everyone,it may not be anything to die over but I can assure you that when I do give advise, it comes from my heart and I am sure it will be very usefull to you! If you wanna know more about me,feel free to hit me up,the name's Jyles by the way, and I am a Charmed Cupid ;)

I am single I live England I do not get angry easily nor do I judge people,I hate racism and I know a little M.A. :) xx

Thinking about proposing to gf, Not sure what to do.

Q.   So, I have been with my girlfriend for the past 3 years this month and I am wondering If/How/When to propose to her. We have been really happy together, and I am wondering if proposing will scare her off. I just want to be with her. AS for when, I ...

A.   7 October 2010: Well,I am a guy,and I know your a woman asking another woman,and some people think that just because I've never asked,means I don't know,but I can tell you that I may be able to help if you give me a chance,so here goes. Well,I can clearly tell that... (read in full...)

Just the thought of it excites her that much?

Q.   I have a rather large dick, 9 1/4 inches long and about as big around as the bottom of a beer bottle. Is it normal for my girlfriend to orgasm JUST by me dangling it over her crotch when naked? She says its just the thought of the size that ...

A.   16 September 2010: Umm,dude...........that's freaking huge! try not to hurt her and it may be possible,or she could just be faking it? Due to her actually getting that inside of her lol... (read in full...)

Why do I like having sex with him when I find girls attractive?

Q.   I have a friend who visits me weekly and we kiss, suck each other and had sex. I find girls attractive, not guys, but i love having sex with him? Am i gay or bi?...

A.   14 September 2010: Well I agree with the both of them,seeing I myself am Bi-curious If you enjoy what you do with who you do it with and they enjoy it too,then no one is to stop you,you make sure and be happy because in the end,all that matters is what you think,I ... (read in full...)

How do you forget about someone?

Q.   I like this guy a lot, but i know he doesn't like me. I need to forget about him, but i don't know how...anyone know how to forget about someone? It hurts so much to think about him, and I've literally been up crying at night. I remember just a...

A.   9 September 2010: My dear,I am sorry to say,forgetting a person like that is........impossible,unless you moved far away and had no :')contact with him at all.....But I am afraid to say,forgetting him is impossble,but the good side is,you don't have to forget about ... (read in full...)

I'm in awe of this guy... Helpppp!!!

Q.   Omg, now I need help lol!! I'm the one that gives awesome advise!! I'm scared now, see I just started college, and I'm in love with a girl, but she has a bf, and she thinks of us as just friends, but recently...I met this guy, he is in my class, ...

A.   8 September 2010: LOL!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

I'm in awe of this guy... Helpppp!!!

Q.   Omg, now I need help lol!! I'm the one that gives awesome advise!! I'm scared now, see I just started college, and I'm in love with a girl, but she has a bf, and she thinks of us as just friends, but recently...I met this guy, he is in my class, ...

A.   7 September 2010: I know but,she always flirts with me,even though she has a bf,she flirts allot during and not during class,I've never felt this way for ANY boy before,and the thing is,I'm NOT gay =/ I don't think I'm bisexual...... He just has this smile that ... (read in full...)

Ho do I get my ex back with his family?

Q.   Hi, I will try keeps this short. The beginning of last year I was very ill with Glandular fever. I had it for a very long time which made me become depressed and a different person. This took its toll on mine and my ex’s relationship whi...

A.   6 September 2010: Yeah,I do believe people are meant to be together,and I know nothing about you,but I have a gift you see,I can tell when two people are in love,I can tell how their heart beat is,I can tell most things about love,and wanna know something else too? ... (read in full...)

He tells me about other girls but I'm not supposed to talk about other guys?

Q.   ok so i have a boyfriend and we been dating for a month now and be is always telling me about his ex and girls that texy him and expects me not to get mad but when i tell him about a friend he gets all defence with me. also he is always telling me i ...

A.   5 September 2010: Well to be honest,I am 100% with CaringGuy But anyways,tell him you don't wanna hear about them,you be in controll for once,woman up and tell him;say Ugh,I dont wanna hear about them,and if he gets pissed off,you get pissed off too,tell him what... (read in full...)

Getting over commitment problems?

Q.   I've got commitment problems. Well maybe not just that. When ever my bf starts to speak about us moving in together I start to freak out. I know that marriage and moving in together doesn't mean that I'm not free, but I start to panic, to doubt ...

A.   5 September 2010: Well,hi there. I suggest you sit down and think it over,there is nothing to worry about,you just gotta keep in mind; I have someone that loves me enough to move in with,he loves me dearly and he chose me out of everyone and I love him back. Just... (read in full...)

Shaky leg problem!!!

Q.   well. I have something to ask. I was having sex with my boyfriend the other day for the first time. He started fingering me and then we were on the bed. Before I know it, his clothes and mine are on the floor. He entered me and then my legs starting ...

A.   5 September 2010: its just probably your reflexes,your body is adjusting to his size so your leg shakes,or your toes go numb or you climax quicker,i dont think its permanent. if it continues for a longer time,go see a doctor.... (read in full...)

He gets offended when I cannot cum!

Q.   My boyfriend and i have a great relationship. We do have sex, a lot. He has had many other partners, where as i have only had one other. My problem is that i cannot cum! He gets really offended and things it's his fault, but he does turn me on- i ...

A.   5 September 2010: First off......are you seriously 13-15? Second,if you cannot cum in time then its no ones fault just your body's procedure,no sex for 1 week,means no masterbating too!! and then try sex and see might work =/... (read in full...)

Tired of getting hurt...

Q.   So i have a boyfriend and out of nowhere he says we need a break, im his first girlfriend because he is bi-sexual and only had boyfriends... before we started our relationship i asked if he was ready for a girlfriend he said "yes" but no he is ...

A.   5 September 2010: Sorry t say,your boyfriend has done the right thing. I tink he found a guy he wants to do stuff with and thought it would be the MOST POLITE thing and ask for a break,so its not cheating. Don't worry. Just play it cool and let things run its course ... (read in full...)

Shaved, trimmed or natural?

Q.   What do guys prefer? Shaved, trimmed or natural? ...

A.   4 September 2010: Well,it depends to be honest,men like women with a bit of furr,but not enough to grow a forest,though some prefer shaved.... What really matters is,what do you want?... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to date my former teacher?

Q.   I am 19 years old, I graduated high school last year. There has always been a very strong attraction between a teacher at my school (30 years old) and me. My friends would always bug me about how he liked me, but I never told them that I was in ...

A.   4 September 2010: Well,being strictly prefessional,I do believe that it is not wise to date him. Although I do not know you nor do I know him,I am still against it,but if for some unknown reason you feel happy with him,I do do employ you to see reason,the age ... (read in full...)

Ho do I get my ex back with his family?

Q.   Hi, I will try keeps this short. The beginning of last year I was very ill with Glandular fever. I had it for a very long time which made me become depressed and a different person. This took its toll on mine and my ex’s relationship whi...

A.   4 September 2010: Well,yeah,try it over the phone,but make sure his girlfriend is not there or that will cause some serious problems. You still gotta try rite? And I am no specialist when it comes to these kind of things but everyone always asks for my opinions and ... (read in full...)

Husband lost all interest in me as a sexual being the last 5 years

Q.   Would you stay with your husband,if he can;t explain,why he is not sexually attracted to you,and stops looking at you as a sexual being? He is good to me,but 5 years ago he suddenly dropped sex with me,and he does not know why....I just want to ...

A.   4 September 2010: Well,ask him why,don't argue,don't shout and don't pick a fight.Tell him what you want,tell him you want it,if he says no,ask him why. I'm not saying do anything "slutty" and I do mean all respect when I say that. but if he does not have a reas... (read in full...)

Have I caused her to lose interest?

Q.   The girl I have been texting a lot lately has not been texting me back the past 2 or 3 days. This started the day after she told me that things weren't really clear for her without telling me what she really meant by it. I really like her and I have ...

A.   4 September 2010: Well,I think that she likes you too,but is a bit scared to admit it.....don't let her get away!!! Go tell her personally,not over text,dude be "the man" go and tell her how you feel and tell her you love her!! Don't be a jerk and try to act cool... (read in full...)

If I'm obsessed should I talk to him or leave him alone?

Q.   Dear Cupid ive just got to High school and im already starstruck by this guy I really like. Im obsessed and I go this phone number every time i walk into the cafeteria I try very hard not to look in his direction. That never works I basicall...

A.   4 September 2010: awwhhh,a what a weird love story lol. Well my dear,go for him,what are you waiting for? You might miss out!!! Someone else could come and sweep him up if your not carefull. Btw,who are you? xD xxx... (read in full...)

Is he lying about mobile games?

Q.   My boyfriend of 2 years takes his phone to the loo..had no problems with this until I thought id send him a text to ask him to bring my watch down out the loo and it ever made a noise? yet when he came down he answered my question and said my watch ...

A.   4 September 2010: Well,let's not jump to conclusions,you need to watch out for the signs,this si going to sound rather mean but I think it's precautionary. When he's off for a shower,or sleeping and your up,see if you can get his phone,look thorugh his messages and ... (read in full...)

I'm searching for my gorgeous ex in new guys!

Q.   I went out with a man that I met online last nite. Weve been chatting quite a while got lots in common. I liked the look of him.got the same ideas bout life what we want etc. And I felt so comfortable when I met him last nite, but when I met him I ...

A.   4 September 2010: hahaha,well,See,what you should do,is sit down and sort ourself out,there is no harm is talking to yourself (Just remember to use your inside voice) because if people heard you....haha well you can imagine. Anyways,Wrinkles are a sweetspot,it's what ... (read in full...)

Ho do I get my ex back with his family?

Q.   Hi, I will try keeps this short. The beginning of last year I was very ill with Glandular fever. I had it for a very long time which made me become depressed and a different person. This took its toll on mine and my ex’s relationship whi...

A.   4 September 2010: Well my dear,I am dearly sorry to hear this between you and him. I am also truely sorry that this happened to him as you explained; seeing he loved his family dearly. Now,what you can do,is if at some point in time,you run into him,get in contact ... (read in full...)

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