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If she liked me so much then why push me away?

Q.   Hey there everyone! Hope you all are well. I need some advice about a girl i met just over a month ago. So ill tell you abit about the situation. So i met this girl on a dating site and we basically hit it off quick. I mean like we both talked l...

A.   4 November 2016: For starters thanks to who have replied and who may still comment! So yeah the biggest thing that bothers me is really not knowing for sure whats up. Like im kinda confused about it. Seems like we have been telling the truth to eachother and st... (read in full...)

I discovered she doesn't shave her legs and it bothers me!

Q.   Hello! Well I kinda have a problem. I met this girl online about 3 weeks ago and we've hung out a lot. We decided lastnight that we would be together. Today she ran a marathon and she wore shorts which she hasn't at all since I've known her but I ...

A.   6 May 2013: I'm not sure if she waxes or not but she doesn't seem to be one who does that. I just feel that if you don't shave on a day your gonna run a marathon with thousands and thousands of ppl the you probably don't at all.... (read in full...)

I discovered she doesn't shave her legs and it bothers me!

Q.   Hello! Well I kinda have a problem. I met this girl online about 3 weeks ago and we've hung out a lot. We decided lastnight that we would be together. Today she ran a marathon and she wore shorts which she hasn't at all since I've known her but I ...

A.   6 May 2013: I did congradulate her on running a marathon! I'm just afraid of hurting her feelings cause she isn't too confident right now cause of past relationships I think. She also doesn't hang out with friends much cause she has a 1in a half year old. She ... (read in full...)

Why did she say I could call but then not answers? Reluctance? Or family life needed her time?

Q.   Ok so I met this girl a few years ago on a dating site and went out for a couple weeks then I kinda pushed her away and stopped talking. However a few weeks ago I came across her again on the site and said hi and apologized how I acted back then. S...

A.   16 August 2012: I guess her girl friend got dumped last night and that's why she didn't answer when I called her. So when should I ask her again to go out?... (read in full...)

Why did she say I could call but then not answers? Reluctance? Or family life needed her time?

Q.   Ok so I met this girl a few years ago on a dating site and went out for a couple weeks then I kinda pushed her away and stopped talking. However a few weeks ago I came across her again on the site and said hi and apologized how I acted back then. S...

A.   16 August 2012: I didn't treat her bad back then we only were hanging out for a few weeks then she told me her mom and best friend said she should also see other guys. So I kinda took that bad and basically pushed her away. I'm a nice guy and treat ppl good so it ... (read in full...)

The girl I'm seeing isnt sure if she has feelings for her friend, how should I handle this?

Q.   Hello I've been seeing this girl for a couple weeks now but not officially together. So she has a guy friend she's known for about 15 years and he just told her he had feelings about the same time me and her started talking. She seemed like she ...

A.   5 August 2012: So I get the give her space thing and I will it's just I'm used to us messaging each other everyday all day basically. She said her feelings have never changed about me like she still thinks in great. I just can't believe how I kept pushing the ... (read in full...)

The girl I'm seeing isnt sure if she has feelings for her friend, how should I handle this?

Q.   Hello I've been seeing this girl for a couple weeks now but not officially together. So she has a guy friend she's known for about 15 years and he just told her he had feelings about the same time me and her started talking. She seemed like she ...

A.   4 August 2012: Yeah she said she liked him. I think I pushed her into his arms even more cause of how I acted the last couple days. Now she is ignoring me it seems right now cause I kept pushing I also acted a bit insecure. I regret how I acted and just want to ... (read in full...)

Why do girls say they want to see me and don't try to?

Q.   Ok so I've been talking to a couple girls lately even one of my ex's. One of the girls I'm talking to is a girl I met on a dating site awhile back and we've been facebook friends. I've never met her in person and have never talked to her on the ...

A.   10 June 2012: Yeah I feel like I'm wasting my life like I feel like I've never accomplished anything. I haven't even went to college yet. I feel like I've lost the will to improve myself which I need to get it back. I do need to keep myself busy so I don't over ... (read in full...)

Why do girls say they want to see me and don't try to?

Q.   Ok so I've been talking to a couple girls lately even one of my ex's. One of the girls I'm talking to is a girl I met on a dating site awhile back and we've been facebook friends. I've never met her in person and have never talked to her on the ...

A.   10 June 2012: Thanks to you both for the replies. Ive just been depressed for awhile and that doesn't help with thinks. I guess I want things to happen now so I can have fun and not be depressed. I guess I just want to be part of a girls life. I'm 25 and have ... (read in full...)

Why do girls say they want to see me and don't try to?

Q.   Ok so I've been talking to a couple girls lately even one of my ex's. One of the girls I'm talking to is a girl I met on a dating site awhile back and we've been facebook friends. I've never met her in person and have never talked to her on the ...

A.   9 June 2012: I know I can push sometimes which is hard to control. I'm sure its cause I haven't kept busy lately so I have time to over think things and push with girls. I know I can't completely judge her on not calling me cause I don't know how busy she is. I ... (read in full...)

Why do girls say they want to see me and don't try to?

Q.   Ok so I've been talking to a couple girls lately even one of my ex's. One of the girls I'm talking to is a girl I met on a dating site awhile back and we've been facebook friends. I've never met her in person and have never talked to her on the ...

A.   9 June 2012: I try calling 2 times today but no answers. I think her dad was just getting shots in his back. She was supposed to call me before to let me know what the plan was. When we were together she didn't try to much and when she broke up with me she ... (read in full...)

Should I give her some time or what? How do I handle this?

Q.   My girlfriend was ignoring me a couple weeks ago for a couple weeks cause she thought I was hiding things from her and was on my phone a lot. Well we got back together last week and spent like 3 days with her total last week. She said she was really ...

A.   31 May 2012: I'm not sure if she's coming back this time. Like I said I love her but tired of her not really talking to me about stuff. It's all through text which I suck at texting. Now she's ignoring me again which last time she didnt remove me from face book ... (read in full...)

Should I give her some time or what? How do I handle this?

Q.   My girlfriend was ignoring me a couple weeks ago for a couple weeks cause she thought I was hiding things from her and was on my phone a lot. Well we got back together last week and spent like 3 days with her total last week. She said she was really ...

A.   30 May 2012: She removed me from Facebook so I'm guessing she broke up with me. The one the I like is communicating. It's just very bad communication. He personality was great until she ignores me. How are we supposed to work things out if she ignores me. Like ... (read in full...)

Is it bad if my girlfriend and I don't talk every day?

Q.   Hey is it bad if me and my girlfriend don't talk everyday? She only likes to text. I like talking to her a lot but maybe too much I'm not sure. We just recently said I love yous and she said she's is gonna make up for how she has treated me the last ...

A.   27 May 2012: Im mean no contact at all for a couple days is that fine or should I think she doesn't care too much? I stayed at her house a couple days this last week. She has said she really cares for me. She was the first one to say I love you and that was last ... (read in full...)

I thought everything was fine, why hasn't she gotten back to me?

Q.   Hello so me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and it's been great and we have a lot in common. She's been really cool but we had an argument a couple days ago but made up that night. I went over to her place and stayed the night and ...

A.   19 May 2012: She text got back to me and said she missed my laugh, kiss and stuff. So I guess we're good. I over think things and get anxiety attacks well I aunt thinks so at least. She called me babe so I'm not sure if we are back together or not. Thanks for ... (read in full...)

I thought everything was fine, why hasn't she gotten back to me?

Q.   Hello so me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and it's been great and we have a lot in common. She's been really cool but we had an argument a couple days ago but made up that night. I went over to her place and stayed the night and ...

A.   19 May 2012: Ok I know Im probably over thinking things but lastnight we were texting and I asked if I could come see her but she said shed say yes if she didn't have to get up really early. So I asked If I could see see her the next day which was today and she ... (read in full...)

I thought everything was fine, why hasn't she gotten back to me?

Q.   Hello so me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and it's been great and we have a lot in common. She's been really cool but we had an argument a couple days ago but made up that night. I went over to her place and stayed the night and ...

A.   18 May 2012: Yeah I am a over thinker for sure and it sucks. I might get to see her today :) thank you for your advice... (read in full...)

I thought everything was fine, why hasn't she gotten back to me?

Q.   Hello so me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and it's been great and we have a lot in common. She's been really cool but we had an argument a couple days ago but made up that night. I went over to her place and stayed the night and ...

A.   18 May 2012: Lol I guess I was in panic mode. She got back to me. How long should I wait to talk about us if we're gonna get back together or not?... (read in full...)

I thought everything was fine, why hasn't she gotten back to me?

Q.   Hello so me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and it's been great and we have a lot in common. She's been really cool but we had an argument a couple days ago but made up that night. I went over to her place and stayed the night and ...

A.   18 May 2012: Well I text her hope your having a good day. So I should only text once a day or should I ask later tonight how's she doing? Also if she replies back and doesn't say anything about us hanging out should I bring it back up?... (read in full...)

I thought everything was fine, why hasn't she gotten back to me?

Q.   Hello so me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and it's been great and we have a lot in common. She's been really cool but we had an argument a couple days ago but made up that night. I went over to her place and stayed the night and ...

A.   17 May 2012: I asked her last night after her last text asking what I was doing. How long should I wait till text her back if she doesn't replie to that text? Lol im sorry if I sound like I don't know anything but I really don't want to mess this up anymore. ... (read in full...)

I thought everything was fine, why hasn't she gotten back to me?

Q.   Hello so me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and it's been great and we have a lot in common. She's been really cool but we had an argument a couple days ago but made up that night. I went over to her place and stayed the night and ...

A.   17 May 2012: Yeah I agree I was rude and didn't realize it. She also said i would Make every conversion a joke which Did realize either. I'm just not sure how to handle her right now since she's going through a lot. Like i said she said she missed me and still ... (read in full...)

I thought everything was fine, why hasn't she gotten back to me?

Q.   Hello so me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and it's been great and we have a lot in common. She's been really cool but we had an argument a couple days ago but made up that night. I went over to her place and stayed the night and ...

A.   17 May 2012: Btw she did end up breaking up with me last week. She says she's been really depressed and stuff. ... (read in full...)

I thought everything was fine, why hasn't she gotten back to me?

Q.   Hello so me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and it's been great and we have a lot in common. She's been really cool but we had an argument a couple days ago but made up that night. I went over to her place and stayed the night and ...

A.   17 May 2012: Ok she started texting me again so we talked for a bit and she explained it all to me and it was my bad things I didn't realize I was doing like when I spent time with her I'd be on my phone a lot. But anyways she says she still cares for me and ... (read in full...)

She's amazing and is worth fighting for! Any advice?

Q.   Ok my ex girlfriend just broke up with me cause up mis understanding. She looked on my phone and seen I deleted texts and also thought I deleted pics of us. I did delete text but not to hide anything from her. I never deleted any pics of us. She ...

A.   14 May 2012: Thanks I've actually never missed or cared for anything more than her. It sucks all this happened through text . I would have liked to talk it out on the phone at least.... (read in full...)

She's amazing and is worth fighting for! Any advice?

Q.   Ok my ex girlfriend just broke up with me cause up mis understanding. She looked on my phone and seen I deleted texts and also thought I deleted pics of us. I did delete text but not to hide anything from her. I never deleted any pics of us. She ...

A.   13 May 2012: I know it's just so hard cause I've never met a girl I had so much in common with. Also it's hard cause of the misunderstandings. The last time I seen her we were fine. She said she still wanted to be with me and now it's so confusing. ... (read in full...)

I thought everything was fine, why hasn't she gotten back to me?

Q.   Hello so me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and it's been great and we have a lot in common. She's been really cool but we had an argument a couple days ago but made up that night. I went over to her place and stayed the night and ...

A.   13 May 2012: Thanks for your replies... (read in full...)

I thought everything was fine, why hasn't she gotten back to me?

Q.   Hello so me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and it's been great and we have a lot in common. She's been really cool but we had an argument a couple days ago but made up that night. I went over to her place and stayed the night and ...

A.   6 May 2012: Well she text me last night asking why I delete my texts. I already answered her but how should I handle this now?... (read in full...)

I thought everything was fine, why hasn't she gotten back to me?

Q.   Hello so me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and it's been great and we have a lot in common. She's been really cool but we had an argument a couple days ago but made up that night. I went over to her place and stayed the night and ...

A.   5 May 2012: Well I have called a couple times and have texted her. The thing is is she was fine when I last seen her so that's why I'm confused. One of my friends that she doesn't know called her to see if she would answer and then say they had the wrong number ... (read in full...)

We were going out, now she changed her Facebook status, what does this mean?

Q.   Ok I met this girl a couple weeks ago.I'm 25 and she's 26. We have been a multiple dates and she says she is interested in me and we have lots of fun together. She doesn't have a job and can't drive cause she doesn't have her licence. So i have to ...

A.   26 March 2012: Ok she went out Friday night for drinks with another Guy not sure if it was a date or if he was just a friend but I just found out on her Facebook she was in a bad car accident and is in icu now. She was thrown out of the car and was injured ... (read in full...)

We were going out, now she changed her Facebook status, what does this mean?

Q.   Ok I met this girl a couple weeks ago.I'm 25 and she's 26. We have been a multiple dates and she says she is interested in me and we have lots of fun together. She doesn't have a job and can't drive cause she doesn't have her licence. So i have to ...

A.   23 March 2012: I keep her around cause I do have lots of fun with her. She told me she put she was engaged cause a Guy wouldn't leave her alone. She doesn't have a job cause she needs a license and she can't get that for some reason I forget. I've talked to her ... (read in full...)

After a rocky start I have told her I am fine with being just friends

Q.   Ok im a male and 24 and this girl is 21. I dont know if this helps anything but I havent had alot of relationships with girls. so sometime I dont know how to act around them like when to make moves or stuff. Im a good looking guy so ive been told ...

A.   18 October 2010: that was a little bit after I stopped talking to her so maybe she was ready then but She said he is a charmer. How am I suppose to be a charmer? I also didnt make any moves the first time cause she was going through a divorce. so I guess i was being ... (read in full...)

After a rocky start I have told her I am fine with being just friends

Q.   Ok im a male and 24 and this girl is 21. I dont know if this helps anything but I havent had alot of relationships with girls. so sometime I dont know how to act around them like when to make moves or stuff. Im a good looking guy so ive been told ...

A.   17 October 2010: No she hasn't talked about her ex alot at all but that was the first period of time we hung out and shouldn't matter about the divorce now. We stopped hanging out in March and just a few weeks ago got back in contact with me. Why did she get back in ... (read in full...)

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