My boss gave me the green light... what can I do to ask him?
Q. Hello, My boss, whom I am very close with, and I took a young unmarried man and his colleague to lunch today to introduce our company to his. It was a very good lunch, lots of laughs and conversation unrelated to business flowed easily. I though...
A. 20 November 2008: I guess I should clarify, I very much want to go for it, but I just dont know *how.* What would be the most tactful and spare me embarassment if he has a girlfriend already?... (read in full...)
We are on a break - do you think he will take me back?
Q. My partner of 6 months and i had real problems last week, we were both ill and very stressed out and it got too much for him and he said he needed some space. This really hurt as the day before he said we were ok. I went round to his house the day ...
A. 1 September 2008: I had a boyfriend for over 3 years where we would break up and make up with eachother because of those exact reasons. Every time it happened our relationship was severely challenged, and consequentially grew stronger. But in the end, it was just ... (read in full...)
She wants to marry me eventually, but wants to date other guys now. What should I do?
Q. Im 21 now I started dating my girlfriend when we were 14. Last year we took a break, b/c she said she did not feel the same anymore. And I felt like our love was dying down. After about 7 months we started seeing each other and after 5 years we ...
A. 1 September 2008: Ah-ha is totally right. I was there and faced the same situation. My guy got super upset and it was tough, but it was mecessary. I believe he has found a new girlfriend,and although I am single, I am glad I made that decision. I would not change a ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him to give me space without hurting him?
Q. My boyfriend is loving and caring but he can't leave me alone for 5 minuits! I need some space without him asking if i need anything. When I tell him I don't need anything he asks am i sure which I am! Its so frustrating! I've talked to him about ...
A. 1 September 2008: Tell him that retaining some of your individual identities is really importat to you becauses without them, there is less to be strongly attracted to. They become less of the person you fell for. So in order to preserve that, you need time to do ... (read in full...)
Will I ever feel the way I felt about my ex about anyone else? Will Mr.Right ever come along?
Q. dear cupid, i need your help. my boyfriend left me a couple weeks ago and im not quite over it. im in college and loving it but i really want a relationship ... i don't even think its to get over him because i am ... i was mad at him but im not ...
A. 1 September 2008: I believe that there are many Mr. Rights out there for us, as in there is a Mr. Right for first love, a Mr. Right for mature love, a Mr. Right for Married and Raising Kids love. They may not all be in the same person, and very often they are not. ... (read in full...)
How do I get my girfriend, to have a different attitude about sex?
Q. hi. i am just getting back into the motion of things with my ex girlfriend who i dated to almost 3 years. we have beenbroken up for 9 months and we both still love eachother and want to slowly try again. now i know sex arguements really make guy...
A. 25 August 2008: Honestly, I would tell her exactly that: that you think sex is an important part of a young healthy relationship and that you dont want to pressure her into anything, so is there anything wrong sweetie? that sort of a line. dont approach it as "i ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to develop feelings for my co-worker's roommate. Advice please.
Q. I have been seeing my coworker's roommate for a few months now, and by "seeing" I mean seeing eachother at events and parties we both attend and then sleeping together on occasion. We saw a lot more of each other when he wasnt working two jobs, but ...
A. 15 July 2008: Ask oldersister, you're very sharp. I can see my footing slip, and am making every effort to reposition myself to an equal or upper hand. Truthfully, I feel like I am investing in a low stock in anticipation of a bull market. In september, his ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to develop feelings for my co-worker's roommate. Advice please.
Q. I have been seeing my coworker's roommate for a few months now, and by "seeing" I mean seeing eachother at events and parties we both attend and then sleeping together on occasion. We saw a lot more of each other when he wasnt working two jobs, but ...
A. 15 July 2008: Bingo-no response.... (read in full...)
What should I do next? Have I royally screwed it up?
Q. So, I havent seen or really heard from a guy I've recently been seeing in a week, save for a Happy Fourth! text message. After calling once and leaving a message on Sunday, I sent the following: "So, should I go through your secretary to schedule a ...
A. 9 July 2008: hey so I apologized to him, mentioned that i thought it was a witty little quip, oops? and he responded that its a bit hard to translate that wite through texts, that he was sorry for snapping, that people just want a lot from him nowadays and hes ... (read in full...)
Smitten with the Bartender...
Q. Last night, Sunday, I went on a bruiser of a first date and ended up hitting it off with the bartender much more so than my date. The joint was almost empty so we were all able to make good conversation about music, movies, books, school, the works. ...
A. 2 April 2008: Thanks for the replies, but I got antsy and text messaged him ("I have a proposition for you, and it doesnt involve harvesting your organs or starting a boy band. I swear.") and haven't heard back...so it looks like he wasnt all that interested. Or ... (read in full...)
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