Please help, I feel that our relationship is disintegrating.
Q. My fiance is a truck driver and is gone except on weekends which means home Friday night or early Saturday morning and leaves on Sunday. We have had some problems in the last year but I thought we had worked our way through them but now he is ...
A. 8 January 2009: What an ass. He should understand your feelings and control himself. However, you also have to understand that he has sexual desires. It is unfortunate that he is away from you for so long, which is probably what stemmed this all. Perhaps ... (read in full...)
Was this mean or well deserved?
Q. In high school I used to be teased because I was overweight, wore glasses, and quiet. As I went to college I started to go to the gym and is a ripped 200 pound running back. When I came back home from college one of the girls that teased me now ...
A. 7 January 2009: WELL DESERVED! You were teased and you only showed them what they showed to you!
Good job!!!! Damn, good for you, man!... (read in full...)
Will the love come back? Will I want to be intimate with my hubby again?
Q. I am 38 years old. I have been married to my husband for 4 years, we have two beautiful children, they are the loves of my life. However, I feel like I don't love my husband anymore and I am not physically or sexually attracted to him. Not sure ...
A. 6 January 2009: You have no reason to feel bad. I do not think you are being shallow at all. You just want back the man you married. Nothing is wrong with that. Now, if you were wishing he were younger, etc. that would be a bit shallow considering everyone gets ... (read in full...)
I treat girls so well and yet they treat me so badly!
Q. Im 16, and all i have is problems when it comes to dating. girls always make guys out to be the evil ones. but my world is completely up side down. i have been in a few relationships. every girl has dumped me. all but 1 have cheated on me...at least ...
A. 1 January 2009: YOU'RE WAY TOO NICE! STOP!
Don't buy them things so early on. Wait it out until you know for sure you can trust them to actually stay with you.
Sometimes you need to be a jerk, like don't always be a pushover, you know?
I'm sorry that ... (read in full...)
Why does he degrade me so much when we once had a life and family together?
Q. Why is he treating me like this? My ex hates me. We have three young children together who he sees every fortnight. He has asked to see them every weekend but I said no as my he had this option in the past and decided that it was too much for him as ...
A. 27 December 2008: What an ass. If he is being that horrible to you, while you are doing nothing, I would say just get a restraining order.
My mom did that following her divorce because my dad was threatening her life. It was better in the long run. Gave him time... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend likes someone else...
Q. Hi, I am 13 years old and my name is Narda! Well I have been having some problems because I have a boyfriend and I think he likes another girl which I am very mad about! I need some advice because I really like him and I don't want to break up...
A. 5 December 2008: If you think he does, ask him. I don't think he would tell you the truth, but at least he'd know you are sort of on to him? I don't really know what else to recommend, but if you really feel he does, there's nothing wrong with asking. If he... (read in full...)
Should I break up with her before I go to the university?
Q. Hi me and my girlfriend have been going out for 1 year now and i'm going to university in 2 years time. I keep thinking i want to break up with her when i'm at uni. I know its a long time off but i'm gunna be miles away and i'm always thinking ...
A. 28 November 2008: Wow... You don't love her at all 0_0
Please do her a favor and break up with her. Let her find someone who will actually love her and cherish her as a person.
I can't understand how people can be so cruel as to toy with someone's emotio... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is constantly being told by this girl in his class, very sexually oriented things, what can I do?
Q. my bf has a female friend at collage and she is wildly innapropriate. This is some of what she does: asked my bf what his tongue technique is like she details about how she gives head she always talks about how big her boobs are she tells him...
A. 27 November 2008: WTF DUMP HIM! What a douche bag!
How could he allow some slut to talk that sort of trash with him with you in his life? NO! DUMP HIM!
This is sick. This makes me feel so angry. Please, for your own good, forget this guy and find someone who... (read in full...)
He lied about watching porn for 3 years. Should I dump him??
Q. My boyfriend have been together for nearly three years. The topic of porn is something that has come up in our conversations before and he knows it is something I really do not approve of. I found out back in June that he has been watching porn ...
A. 22 November 2008: I'm in the same boat as you.
It's so freaking confusing and hurts so much. :-( I see him differently now too & I constantly walk on egg shells hoping I don't push him away with how angry I randomly get now because of what he did. He lied to me fo... (read in full...)
My husband is married to porn!
Q. Hi! My husband doesn't have a big sex drive to start. I will catch him sneaking around, watching nasty porn while I am at work and he is babysitting our daughter(she could be sleeping)=( I call it sneaking, because he will erase the history and ...
A. 21 November 2008: You know, I agree with you 100%.
Though, I'm still kind of confused about porn... But you are right in how you feel - what you think. Your husband is not doing good by you at all.
I suggest you find someone who values you and wants to have se... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is addicted to World Of War Craft
Q. I have a problem It all started when my boyfriend's friend died. After he died my boyfriend has been trying to hack his world of war craft account to sell it because he owed him money (harsh I know) but whatever, he hasn't succeeded (a...
A. 20 November 2008: Damn. I didn't know it was like THAT. In that case, he really needs help.
Yeah, you definitely shouldn't play, unless you really want to. Wow...
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My boyfriend is addicted to World Of War Craft
Q. I have a problem It all started when my boyfriend's friend died. After he died my boyfriend has been trying to hack his world of war craft account to sell it because he owed him money (harsh I know) but whatever, he hasn't succeeded (a...
A. 7 November 2008: OMG!!!! World of Warcraft is awesome! I have never ever played video games & thought they were so stupid/boring/weird & I love it!
You will solve a lot of issues if you just buy the game & start playing with them.
Seriously. I was having probl... (read in full...)
I still want him in my life, but he has hurt me so much.
Q. My boyfriend of almost 3 years who I had complete trust in broke up with me 4 weeks ago after meeting a another girl in a night club a few days before, she is from Lithuania. I thought we had a good relationship and a fantastic friendship and this ...
A. 6 November 2008: Don't be his friend. Screw him. You get out there & meet some wonderful guy & please don't waste your time with this jerk.
I'm sorry you were with him so long & that he did this to you, but he's not the guy for you. You deserve a whole heck of ... (read in full...)
Are we just great friends with the passion gone?
Q. Hi all, My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years, although we only live together part time due to his work at the moment. I always knew he liked porn and we were very active in the bedroom initially, although this was short lived after the ...
A. 29 October 2008: Dump him.
You don't want someone like him in your life. Seriously, dump him.... (read in full...)
Does my ex husband really want to try again?
Q. I really need advice on whether you think that my ex-husband genuinely wants to try again or is just using me. We seperated a year ago and have not seen each other since, but he has kept in contact with my sister and I have had contact through ...
A. 25 October 2008: If you don't mind me asking, why'd you two split in the first place?
He clearly wants to work things out with you and I don't think he's simply trying to use you. You two have a child together and you two clearly love one another still.
If you ... (read in full...)
I resent that he slept with a prostitute, 5 years before he met me!
Q. I cannot get over the fact that my husband-to-be slept with a prostitute 5 years before he met me. I did the wrong thing and asked for all the details, but he did too when he told me about it when I didn't ask. After three years of living with this ...
A. 25 October 2008: If you can't let it go, it won't work. PLEASE go to counseling, get your feelings out and try to work on why it affects you so much. You said yourself that you've had sex before, so why shouldn't he? I mean, who cares who he did it with, right? ... (read in full...)
Sexless Marriage
Q. My husband and I are in our early 30's. We've only been married one year (exactly). We've only had sex 3 times in our year of marriage. All three times we were drunk. We have no romance in our marriage, we barely touch or hang out, and it seems like ...
A. 20 October 2008: Wow, what advice, lol.
I think you two should sit down and really talk about your lack of sex. Perhaps even seek professional help - counselors tend to help a lot what with sorting out underlying issues & what not.
Do you both truly love one a... (read in full...)
As her fiance, am I wrong in asking her to break ties with him?
Q. My fiancee (we're getting married next spring), and I have been dating almost 3 years now. My problem is, she insists on keeping in touch with an ex-boyfriend that she dated for about 4 years. I believe that people (even married ones) can have ...
A. 20 October 2008: Seriously, your fiancee is messed up. It's bad enough that she talks to him, but goes out with him too when you're at work??!!? Wtf? If she goes to see him, YOU should be going with her - she should ask you to come out of courtesy for your feelings. ... (read in full...)
Girls... -what are your views on male virginity?
Q. A question for females only, what are your views on male virginity?...
A. 18 October 2008: Girls like virgins. We don't care about a guy's "experience," and all that other bs you hear. That's just a guy thing. Another way to be all macho. Seriously, you being a virgin is a million more times appealing to girls than guys who've been arou... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has cheated again with my so called friend. I need your advice!
Q. My boyfriend of a year keeps cheatin on me. I found it in my heart to forgive him but he has cheated again with a my so called "friend". I love him dearly. He is the only boy I really loved. We are broken up but somethin inside of me wants him back. ...
A. 18 October 2008: This is the thing: You love who you thought he was, what he used to be. This is why you took him back and now currently want him.
He is not that special guy you fell in love with anymore. He has hurt you real bad & you shouldn't just take that.
... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and worried she has too high expectations of me, sexually! Any ideas?
Q. ok well i think ive found the rite girl that i want to lose my virginity to...the only problem is she thinks im going 2 b real great durin our 1st time. Can u help me out? Ur advice could help me out alot...
A. 18 October 2008: Omg, finish high school!
Why would she expect that from you? Has she already had sex? 0_0? Do you really want to have sex with someone who is already, at such a young age, no longer even a virgin?
I know you want to go ahead and do this, but... (read in full...)
Where do you draw the line???
Q. So I've been dating this girl for almost two months. As a little background to the situation, I met this girl about 5 months after the end of a previous pretty intense relationship. The ex in question here turned out to be NOTHING that I thought she ...
A. 17 October 2008: Good job logging her conversations, seriously. :-)
Okay, I don't think she's the right girl for you. I mean, she basically wants to go off with any guy who hits on her. That's not cool! Gf's don't flirt back & accept invites from other guys, wh... (read in full...)
I love my wife, I do not know what to do.
Q. I think my wife is going through a mid life crisis. She says she loves me, but is not in love with me. She is always in a bad mood, sometimes worse than others. She was having an on line and telephone affair until I found out and called his wife. ...
A. 17 October 2008: Menopause/ mid-life crisis doesn't explain why she has fallen for some other guy. It's kind of ridiculous to explain her promiscuous/ cheating behavior as a result of hormonal/ age changes.
Your wife isn't living up to her "I do's" and I don't un... (read in full...)
How can I change my feelings for this girl?
Q. I have loved the same girl for four years and she jus doesn't feel the same. I have tried asking her out several times on different occasions she said alright, but every time I set a date she was "busy". I took the hint and tried to move on. Now, ...
A. 17 October 2008: :-(
I don't think you can do anything. Maybe see if you can become interested in someone else? Really put an effort into trying to find a girl who likes you for you and won't ditch you on dates.
Just so you know, and I'm sorry to say it like t... (read in full...)
I tend to be 'too nice' to girls I like. How do I overcome this?
Q. Hi all, I have had a couple of relationships in the past due to mutual attraction. But, I also have a truckload of failures when I was the one who liked the girl first. I think I have figured out why I have always failed when I become attr...
A. 16 October 2008: I don't know, a lot of girls like guys who are agreeable and very nice. :-) What do you mean by sticky? Like, constantly calling, checking up, etc? But you know, even some girls like that too. You are going to have to figure out for yourself a m... (read in full...)
Is it possible that guys don't ask me out because they find me intimidating?
Q. This is merely a curiousity question. I'm not desparate for a boyfriend or anything. I've never thought much of it before, but people are always complimenting me on how pretty I am (nice hair, good figure, or whatever is what they say). I'm not ...
A. 15 October 2008: The answer to your question is yes. Of course they do. They probably think you wouldn't think twice about them considering your appearance. Oh, lol, and if you're shy, watch out. Shyness is translated as being a bitch for some reason. So you could ... (read in full...)
His fantasies about other girls bug me, but also kind of turm me on too....is this abnormal?
Q. Hi, I am 25 years old. Have been with my bf for over 5 years and we live together. We have a good sex lfe and he is so much into sex. He has strong sexual feelings about other girls too tho. He loves looking at photos of girls in the internet, not ...
A. 8 October 2008: Nope. You're normal. Same here, except we share the same kind of fantasy of girl on girl, but they're imaginary, you know? Not anyone we've seen or know.
I'm not comfortable with him like actually looking at girlie pics and getting off. It bothe... (read in full...)
I think she wants me and is interested but why then does she refuse to talk?
Q. hello, i just cant understand this girl. she looks at me everytime and also her freinds do that and play with her hair. so today i was walking and hit her quitely just for special flirt !! and i think she wanted that because she didnt move f...
A. 8 October 2008: Nah, she's just really shy. lol. I basically did the same thing when I first met my bf of 4 years :-).
Seriously, if you keep pushing it, she'll come around. She obviously likes you! Take my word for it. She's just so shy it's ridiculous.
Try ... (read in full...)
What did he mean by this comment? He would if he could?...
Q. Hello guys, quick question. There is this guy I liked but he has a gf. But we were talking about me and how guys don't really see me as thgf type. He text me back once saying "all I can say is I would if I could". I just said to him I do...
A. 8 October 2008: Why would you want to be with someone who already has a gf and is telling you that he'd get with you if he could? He'd probably do the same to you if you were his gf. Find the next piece of meat and flirt up and down with her.
Don't take him seri... (read in full...)
I have a feet fetish... and I want to get it out of my head!
Q. This is going to seem very weird and queer but I have this thing for female feet, but I don't like it and want to get it out of my mind. I just can't stop my atrraction to female feet can ou help....
A. 5 October 2008: I know you care, but seriously who cares! lol. :-) You could have a really creepy fetish, lol, you just like feet.
Women love foot massages, you love feet, there you go! This is actually really good. ... (read in full...)
I feel lonely, I am shy and always concerned about my looks! How can I surpass my shyness?
Q. My life is all messed up... My best friends are on other schools, I like a girl who I currently I just can talk with by phone, and I never feel happy... I hate to be lonely, but when I'm with friends I'm always smiling even tough I don't say many ...
A. 5 October 2008: So you were outgoing as a kid? And now you're not? Well, clearly you grew up, you are a different person. To be honest with you, this happens to just about everyone.
Do you think the only way you can be attractive is if you have a "kid expressi... (read in full...)
Is it weird for a 24-year-old to be dating me, an underage girl?
Q. i have a boyfriend thats 24 and am 13.....i need help dont know what to do is it wierd for him to love me ?or is he a rapist and am i stupid for dating him ?...
A. 5 October 2008: Well, is he having sex with you? If he is, then yes, it is weird and yes, he is a pedophile. Plus, it's illegal.
Do you have a dad or any brothers? Why haven't they kicked his butt yet?
You are only a child, he is an adult. He should realize t... (read in full...)
My ex best friend just so happens to be my boyfriend's best friend.
Q. so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6 mths now. His best friend just so happens to be the girl i grew up with, an used to be best friends with. we are no longer friends because she slept with alot of my boyfriends in the past an have ...
A. 4 October 2008: Why weren't they a reliable source?
Since you KNOW how that girl is, you should be worried. You seriously need to tell him about your history with her. Ask him if you are important enough to him to drop her and stop being his friend.
Serious... (read in full...)
Should I leave my wife or not?
Q. I'm not sure how far to push this, or if I should leave my wife or not. I'm really pissed off, not only at what she did, but her attitude that it was no big deal. That just makes me think she will do something like this again. We got married, and...
A. 1 October 2008: YOU NEED TO DROP HER! Seriously, get a divorce. Does she not have a brain or something? How can she think that her giving another man a hand job isn't a big deal? This is wrong! Wow, this actually makes me really mad.
Try to get a tape recordin... (read in full...)
What should I do when my husband cheats every six months?
Q. ok, so i've been married for almost 4 yrs, and my husband cheats on my about every six months it breaks my heart. we have talked and talked. he says he wants to keep our marriage. i beleive that there is hope for us but im tired of hurting. i dont ...
A. 1 October 2008: GET A DIVORCE! This is so messed up.
This isn't good for you at all. You need someone who will cherish you. Someone who will respect you. Someone who will love you right.
Besides which, you do know that STD's are prevalent now-a-days, righ... (read in full...)
I was right on the edge of orgasm, but she just couldn't bring all the way. Any advice for her out there, please?
Q. My girlfriend wants to give me a hand job. She was trying the other day and it felt really good but she just couldn't quite get me there before her she got tired. Now she feels bad because she couldn't do it and i've been able to get her to orgasm ...
A. 1 October 2008: Have her switch from hand job to oral. Or just stick to the one you like best.
I do both with my boyfriend, I use my hand while performing oral sex. He loves it.
Maybe also tell her to relax a bit? Like, maybe try to get into it more (that wa... (read in full...)
I get really jealous when other girls flirt with my best guy friend. Surely I can't like him?
Q. I'm really sorry this is so long but it requires a fair bit of explanation :D So a few years ago I was stranded in this class, in which I was the only girl. That sucked. Then this guy (then kinda funny/nerdy looking XD) sat next to me and was ju...
A. 1 October 2008: :-D You like him. Trust me, you definitely like him. Otherwise, you would not care if other girls were flirting with him in the least bit. You wouldn't even acknowledge that they were and if you did, you would make a joke of it with him. You ... (read in full...)
Why did he start pushing my head down?
Q. For the first time the other day i gave my boyfriend of 6 months a blow job... he started to hold my head and at times push my head down? when he pushes my head down what does this mean? is it because hes enjoying it? or is it because its not ...
A. 1 October 2008: Congrats! He loves it, don't worry! He's so into that he can't even help himself. GOOD JOB, GIRL! :-D
I don't think you need a tip, but this is something I do: While giving my bf head, I also use my hand, to massage. He loves it. Just somethin... (read in full...)
I'm the other woman. Your opinions?
Q. i dont know what my purpose is in asking other people's opinions because i know what what your opinions will be... i guess i want everyone to reiterate what i already know...that cheating's bad...blah blah blah.. anywhooo, here it goes: i current...
A. 1 October 2008: He can't be all that great, I mean he is cheating on his wife, right?
I think you should focus on your 8-month-old and try to find someone who is right for you. Someone who is not already taken. Someone who can value your love and want to be with ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my cousin that I really do like her?
Q. Me and my cousin liked each other since we were at least 10, but we never did anything. but now we are older and we still know that we like each other but sometimes i resist cause i know we are third cousins but i still have feelings for her should ...
A. 1 October 2008: Since you're only 13-15, I would say if you're family doesn't mind, then go ahead.
Just remember, there are other girls - at school, etc. I know you said you have liked her since you were 10, but you should also consider that there are other gi... (read in full...)
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