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Q.   i have done something really bad and am regretting it deeply. my cousin wanted to create a fake profile on facebook so she could see what the profile of a guy she liked. but so it wouldnt seem too fake - we made 4 profile - she made 2 i made 2....

A.   9 August 2008: Well in the first place I would be honest and just tell him it takes 50 lies to cover the one wrong so you will be continuing to play these games... gee you are continuing already. You need to stop now before someone gets really hurt!... (read in full...)

We have a wonderful relationship, and I love him, but he's married!

Q.   Hi, I am 32 and totally in love with a 50 year old unhappily married man. We fell in love completely by mistake and I would have prevented it, but it just happened without my realizing and then I tried to deny it for a long time. I have been sep...

A.   2 August 2008: Hi there how are you doing? How's it going? Well my situation is still the same flirting all the time talking about what we would do. He teases an awful lot and then pulls back every time thinking I would talk or I would fall in love with him or ... (read in full...)

What could anyone recommend for a man who is miserable in marriage and staying in it for the kids sake?

Q.   What could anyone recommend for a man who is miserable in marriage and staying in it for the kids sake? I have been with my wife for 7 years (married 6) and for the last year or two I have been insanely unhappy. I'm in no way perfect, so I won'...

A.   30 July 2008: Well taking from experience wouldn't you know if you were in love with her? Love changes over time, however, if you are staying for the sake of the kids get out!!! I stayed after leaving came back for an additional 2 years and it was worse. It ... (read in full...)

How do you know a married man is sincerely in love and not pursuing an affair?

Q.   My question is how do you know if a married man has fallen for you and whether his love is honest and not just looking for an affair? with an age gap Good advice needed and alot of advice needed...

A.   29 July 2008: Well I am unsure. I am having this problem too. I work with him this has been going on a year and we have not become intimate but he claims I am his best friend. calls me 5 times a day and seems as if he expects me to be his girlfriend. If you ... (read in full...)

We have a wonderful relationship, and I love him, but he's married!

Q.   Hi, I am 32 and totally in love with a 50 year old unhappily married man. We fell in love completely by mistake and I would have prevented it, but it just happened without my realizing and then I tried to deny it for a long time. I have been sep...

A.   8 July 2008: Hey I am in the same boat... it stinks doesn't it... he calls and says he misses me calls me 5 times a day says all the things flirtatous but gets scared. This has been going on a year and I am well getting real tired. I have actually met someone ... (read in full...)

I've really fallen for my boss!! What do I do??

Q.   I've really fallen for my boss, however, if we get together it will result in him losing his job. He's quite a lot older than me, however, i really really like him, i'm infatuated with him and he's in my head all the time. He'll make comments to...

A.   3 July 2008: Wow sounds like we are in almost the same situation are you still going through this. The thing is I get all these comments also we are almost the same age he just became my boss and is married with children. We should correspond I don't think ... (read in full...)

I've really fallen for my boss!! What do I do??

Q.   I've really fallen for my boss, however, if we get together it will result in him losing his job. He's quite a lot older than me, however, i really really like him, i'm infatuated with him and he's in my head all the time. He'll make comments to...

A.   9 June 2008: HI what is your age difference? I am in the very same situation so maybe we can chat about it... it is becoming very hard and yes I am getting the comments too. We are 2 years apart but it is 24/7 for me as well thinking about him. write back ... (read in full...)

I'm still in love with him but now he's married! The pain is unbearable...

Q.   I have been in love with my ex boyfriend for 7 years, we broke up 7 years ago. I cant explain how he made me feel, this is true love, I have thought about him almost every day since we broke up, I have been in another relationship that lasted 5 ...

A.   4 May 2008: I just wanted to say "no" I don't believe you can control who you fall in love with. I am starting to fall for someone married myself and he is starting to make comments back to me. I was married to but not to the right person. He has told me it ... (read in full...)

I kissed my married boss!! Am I awful?

Q.   Oh my god!! ive just got back from the pub and i feel so so so bad. ive never felt guilt like this before. im quite drunk, god il tell you what happened please help/ i love my boy friend so so so so much so much he's amazung to me and he ...

A.   7 April 2008: Well if it is any consolation a manager and myself have been very attracted to each other. he is married and we have been to several lunches together. Many comments have been made and I know what he wants. I was up for promotion and they put the ... (read in full...)

I don't want to leave my boyfriend but I am finding myself attracted to a girl! What do you think?

Q.   This is a hard question to ask . Please don't judge me by this ok . I have the most amazing boyfriend anyone can ever ask for! He's the very best ! I would never ever want us to seperate I love him soooo much! He loves me too. But recently I have ...

A.   25 March 2008: Maybe you are just very very close with this person and have never had that feeling before you have to ask yourself who you are attracted to? Who do you want to spend your time with? ... (read in full...)

I found out he is married with 2 kids, should I go there?

Q.   I started in a job about 9 months ago. The first day I started he is a manager in another office I noticed the chemistry day one. Every few weeks I saw him and it was evident. I found out he is married with 2 children. He took me to lunch for 2 ...

A.   8 March 2008: I just wanted to thank everyone and I can control my feelings I know it is a dangerous road. This is why I am not talking with him other than hi and by! My fried went through this and she waited for him for 2 years and he got a divorce then they ... (read in full...)

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