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Older attached man keeps flirting with me

Q.   Hi, agony aunts. I don't have a huge relationship problem or...anything. But I think this older man likes me but I Don't like him. I find him a womanizer and likes young women and teens. Well, he has a girlfriend and a child with her...

A.   15 March 2018: My mom said's ignore him, just like you all did and....she said i'm a grown man. I don't need to answer to him'' I'm with my parents all the time and I don't interact with him really...just a hello and goodbye sort of thing. I don't really live in a... (read in full...)

Older attached man keeps flirting with me

Q.   Hi, agony aunts. I don't have a huge relationship problem or...anything. But I think this older man likes me but I Don't like him. I find him a womanizer and likes young women and teens. Well, he has a girlfriend and a child with her...

A.   14 March 2018: Yes, hes been bothering me for 8 years. ... (read in full...)

Older attached man keeps flirting with me

Q.   Hi, agony aunts. I don't have a huge relationship problem or...anything. But I think this older man likes me but I Don't like him. I find him a womanizer and likes young women and teens. Well, he has a girlfriend and a child with her...

A.   14 March 2018: And he also said go with a older man to me. ... (read in full...)

My family wants me to forgive our dying father for the abuse but I can't!

Q.   Am I a demon for not caring that my dad is dying from cancer and i want nothin to do with it or him or those who care about it. I've posted about my dad with other accounts which I have deactivated. So I would just give a summary of what he did. ...

A.   31 January 2018: It's all mumble jumbo in being there for your dad before he passes away after he punch the lights out of you and your family. It seems like.... they are doing it for the wrong reasons in just being there when he does leave this earth. So, whatever ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is mad that I've kept my old wedding dress but he keeps Instagram posts from his exes

Q.   Dear agony aunts and uncles I need some opinions please. My bf got upset that I’m saving my old wedding dress but he has tons of posts and lovey dovey comments on his Instagram from 3 ex gfs. Im keeping my dress because it was expensive and pe...

A.   31 January 2018:  Everyone is right on this one. He's a controlling ass. It's unfair for him to tell you to remove something that bothers him, but doesn't want to remove something that bothers you. He has no right to be jealous of a wedding dress that was used or ... (read in full...)

We've been together for 4 years but I now I'm torn

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 years now and are living together.Now I've kinda hit a point where I'm torn.I need help as to what am i doing wrong or how should I take this.Every now and then my boyfriend hits these points where ...

A.   31 January 2018: Leave now, because he is trying to hint to you, He doesn't love you he just puts up with you there's the difference. Don't give all your feelings and attention to someone who don't give a damn about you. It's time to go and I don't think you need ... (read in full...)

Should I call it quits and move on?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I think my relationship might be over, or it as been for a long time now...or maybe it’s not? Anyway... Myself (24/25 this year) and partner (23/24 this year) have been together for almost three and a half years and I/we are h...

A.   31 January 2018: Call it quits and move on, Yes. He doesn't want kids in the future and you d, You're both are not sexually satisfied with each other so there's you're answer. I personally think you cannot get angry when someone doesn't prefer the same sexual ... (read in full...)

Should I try online dating to get dating experience or is it better for me to continue waiting to find the right guy?

Q.   I am 22 and never had a boyfriend before. Sometimes I get really sad and depressed, especially when I see women on social media with their bfs and dating while I am always alone and single. I don't really receive a lot of male attention/intere...

A.   24 January 2018: OP, Wiseowl made a good point and you should follow his advise and mine. Visibility is a step forward to make yourself known to the world and volunteering with different things because you're only aim is getting a boyfriend but I don't think you ... (read in full...)

Do I mean anything to him? Why is he with me if he doesn't see a future with us?

Q.   Some background: I (27 years old) have been seeing this man (33 years old) for four months now. We get along incredibly well and always have fun together. It is very comfortable when we are around each other and we naturally give off an impressi...

A.   24 January 2018: Every partner should know that no one would travel far away from their hoping to be potential boyfriends away to go to work in a further away area. I think he's uncertain if you would be his potential partner in the long term future, But d... (read in full...)

Should I try online dating to get dating experience or is it better for me to continue waiting to find the right guy?

Q.   I am 22 and never had a boyfriend before. Sometimes I get really sad and depressed, especially when I see women on social media with their bfs and dating while I am always alone and single. I don't really receive a lot of male attention/intere...

A.   23 January 2018: Sure, you could try going on the singles night out websites just to meet people and...finding social groups on the internet...of meeting up and doing outdoor activities but then it comes down to travelling and money and that be not so worth ... (read in full...)

Should I try online dating to get dating experience or is it better for me to continue waiting to find the right guy?

Q.   I am 22 and never had a boyfriend before. Sometimes I get really sad and depressed, especially when I see women on social media with their bfs and dating while I am always alone and single. I don't really receive a lot of male attention/intere...

A.   23 January 2018: I feel you, I really do. I'm 22 and I have kissed only two people who aren't really my type but I never slept with anybody and i'm not looking for a boyfriend. I never had a proper relationship with someone I liked. I don't even have any crushes on ... (read in full...)

He is very confused, should I give up?

Q.   Hello everyone, I'm 25 years old homosexual guy. two months ago I met a guy on Skype (who lives not so away from me). At first we talked like friends, but then we started flirting and now it seems that we like each other very much. we talk on Skype...

A.   23 January 2018: It's not easy but think about it...if you cut contact now instead of chatting to him to see what he's got up too then the missing won't be there and the feelings of wanting something with this fellow, Will go. You may remember him once you cut him ... (read in full...)

Married and seriously falling for my doctor

Q.   I am head over heels for my surgeon. I have been seeing him for about 4-5 months and my feelings keep getting stronger. There was only one time when I thought he might be interested. He told me I had a nice smile and put his hand on my thigh. Since ...

A.   23 January 2018: OP, You're Doctor has to be friendly to obtain his job. He's not going to...say ''Can you please cut the cutesy look and GROW UP'' because...he knows hes got to be professional and keep you as a patient. OP it's time to sort your life out and get ... (read in full...)

Do I mean anything to him? Why is he with me if he doesn't see a future with us?

Q.   Some background: I (27 years old) have been seeing this man (33 years old) for four months now. We get along incredibly well and always have fun together. It is very comfortable when we are around each other and we naturally give off an impressi...

A.   23 January 2018: This man seems to make up excuses and still keeping his options open for someone more older possibly and whose already has a career to come along. So, he can settle down with that person...instead...of someone having to rely on his money from work ... (read in full...)

How do I convince my parents that I'm an adult? They have my entire college schedule mapped out and a GPS on my phone!

Q.   I'm new in here and I've tried to help others and so far I hope I'm doing a good job. But now, I need some advice on how to convince my parents that I am an adult and deserve more privacy and freedom. I'm a college student and to be honest, I'...

A.   13 January 2018: Yeah, live with your friends in a apartment and also try looking for a job. You shouldn't put up with this. It seems...so ridiculous. You shouldn't let them control you like that. You need to stand your ground with them. This is a disaster. You got ... (read in full...)

My question is should I follow my heart and keep seeing her because I feel great in her company or should I cut my losses now?

Q.   So I've been living in Spain for a few months and I met a local girl and we really hit it off the first night. I tried to meet up with her again but she said she just wanted to be friends because she liked a German guy she met a few weeks ago but he ...

A.   4 January 2018: Your just a second option to her. When you try to get to know her, She rejected you because she said she likes another man...and how do you know the probability is that she could only be talking to you because trying to get hold of German..... (read in full...)

The ex is bad mouthing me to another man. Why would he do this?

Q.   Around five months ago for God knows why the guy I was currently going out with ended the relationship with me saying it was too much and the break up was not mutual. I still have him on social media and he has supposedly assumed I've moved on with ...

A.   3 January 2018: I am gauge to judge on this but it doesn't mean I'm right but I'm guessing He could want you back and changed his mind about breaking up with you ever since he saw you moved on. That's why he was spiteful, He fustigated about you to your boyfrien... (read in full...)

Why can’t they leave me alone and enjoy my visit?

Q.   Am visiting family interstate for 2 days,staying overnight then leaving. Staying with my parents and will visit my younger sister and her family also, as they live in the same town. I have to stay with parents as sister has 2 kids (17...

A.   30 December 2017: ''You're approaching 50, which means your parents are in their 70's or older. That doesn't give you a lot of time left to savor their presence on this earth; and to nurture or demonstrate your affection for them'' Agreed! Ask your sister why she ... (read in full...)

Could he be ashamed of me?

Q.   Hi everyone. I’m in a new relationship (few months) with a man about 6 years older than me. I adore him and he’s a sweetheart but I am finding that we tend to argue a bit too much over silly things , we never fall out though and we make up with each ...

A.   30 December 2017: Get out and never ever contact this predator again. He's great for charity but not good as a lover. instead of valuing you...he's going on dirty websites looking at tits. Your young...and you don't need to waste it on him. He must of had a relati... (read in full...)

Should I pursue this man?

Q.   Hi, I've been having this strange "relationship" with this man over a year now. We met through common friends. Since then he's been chasing me. He was very charming and we really got along, always had something to talk about and there is tons of ...

A.   28 December 2017: To me he just sounded like he designated you for sexual intercourse I mean it's a big give away that he is a frivolous, inflexible 31 year old who he previously had relationships that were only casual and not even one serious relationship. So, why ... (read in full...)

I can't seem to sort my feelings out for this guy!

Q.   there is this guy i know and i don't know if i'm interested in him, he's 2 years older than me and he seems to have a lot of friends ( girls included). sometimes i have feelings when i see him hanging out with other girls but sometimes i feel ...

A.   28 December 2017: The two answers are pertinent. Maybe you are a little bit attracted to him, maybe there is something about him you want to know allot about. You should spend time with him as friends and see if the novelty would wear off or your still being attached ... (read in full...)

Worried my girlfriend will cheat while out of town on NYE.

Q.   My girlfriend of seven years is going to spend New Years Eve with a friend of hers who lives in another state. This is the first NYE we will spend apart since we've gotten together. My girlfriend (and her friend, who has been her best friend ...

A.   28 December 2017: It's nice to have ignorance but at the same time the possibility of her cheating makes you obsessed about it. There really isn't anything you can do except to...trust her like she trusts you. I mean I do agree that men are more prone to do the chea... (read in full...)

No Christmas gift from him!

Q.   I have a December birthday and my boyfriend of 9months got me a gift for my birthday but today on Chritsmas no gift. He got one from me. After his family left I asked if he had a gift for me, he said no he ran out of money and hopes to take me...

A.   27 December 2017: Honestly, This guy seems like a oaf. He expects you to buy dinners, gifts etc on him and he doesn't feel bad for it? You can't get anymore insensitive than that. Don't designate in buying him anything even if you expect him to buy you some... (read in full...)

Wil he realise what he had?

Q.   Well I’m 24 and his 26. he's had relationships before but not very decent people I’m trying to belittle his ex's or I don’t see my self higher up its just a fact that he brought up many times and I know for my self. The type of girls he dated were ...

A.   25 December 2017: How do you know in 24 hours your beau is cheating on you? Being sozzled and not answering your text..He made you feel deflated and that doesn't seem like he will change in the future for you. He's a piss cutter. You think he's going to be exce... (read in full...)

Could it be my social anxiety or am I right to feel left out?

Q.   Hey guys I need your help with something. About a month ago I went out with my boyfriend and a few of his friends, two of them being a girl and her boyfriend. My boyfriend still has a big friend group from when he was at school (girls and guys)...

A.   24 December 2017: Like I said they should have worded it better. They probably didn't intentionally mean to make you feel unwanted in their group knowing you have anxiety that's reasons why they said it's better if you stay at home. Since you said you already have ... (read in full...)

Playing truth or dare .... I didnt like his answer.

Q.   I’ve been talking to this boy he’s in the same year as me but in a different school and tonight we were playing truth or dare I asked him what the most he had done with a girl is and he said he wants to take it back but he’s fingered someone.Ohhh ...

A.   22 December 2017: It's natural for teenagers to talk about sex because come on who hasn't at that age. Just because your still a child doesn't mean your not allowed to be curious about it. You are underage and your still too young to even worry about sex and...the ... (read in full...)

I feel my boyfried obsesses over petty tips!

Q.   Hello I'd like every one's opinion on this : My boyfriend is very big on tips. He worked as a waiter at a small restaurant for a few years and currently an Uber driver. Every day he would tell me how this rider or that rider promised to tip ...

A.   22 December 2017: Being with someone shouldn't be about the value of the dollar spent on each other.. but in this case, I see red flags. My answer to this is don't post this to us if you don't have a problem with it. Your man is a cheapskate, untrustworthy freeload... (read in full...)

1st date, he touched my butt

Q.   So i was texting my coworker for almost 2 months and sometimes we were flirting and sometimes we were talking about work or trying to get to know each other. He has no girls, he does not drink like me, and he does not go out so often.Finally 2 ...

A.   22 December 2017: It's good he's not texting you and he's clearing away. No man should ever get away with groping a woman when the kiss is consented or not. You don't want levity to take over your work when all this conflict happens with your co-worker. Good f... (read in full...)

Could it be my social anxiety or am I right to feel left out?

Q.   Hey guys I need your help with something. About a month ago I went out with my boyfriend and a few of his friends, two of them being a girl and her boyfriend. My boyfriend still has a big friend group from when he was at school (girls and guys)...

A.   19 December 2017:  What do you all think about this? I think your blowing things out of proportion and anxiety can do that. even so, why would you want to go out with bitchy ladies anyway...if you heard it from your boyfriends mom? You probably had the luckiest... (read in full...)

My wife wants an open relationship, I don't

Q.   My wife insists on a open relationship for her but not for me. I am very resentful about this but she says its this or nothing. I love her but I am going nuts....

A.   19 December 2017: Your letting her abdicate her responsibility of this marriage? Oh, as long as she doesn't come back home to nag you. Everything is fine. What world are you living in? You don't mind being a doormat? This is aberrant behavior when your pretending to ... (read in full...)

How do I form platonic friendships with women?

Q.   A little background it turns out im emotionally numb/unavailable to people. i have a difficult time making meaningful connections with them even if i want to. tv makes emotional unavailability seem like a big joke for men. its been like this for me ...

A.   18 December 2017: Looks, like your past has linger your way of thinking. You just need to really soul search your true feelings and thoughts of really wanting a sexual relationship or not. Your tentative about what you really want from this situation. So, you need... (read in full...)

Is there a chance my crush likes me back?

Q.   There is a guy nice guy at my church and I liked him the monent I saw him but he had a girlfriend and I back off which was a year ago and forgot about him. Me and him are in the same weekly church group but never really talked much Recently I had...

A.   17 December 2017: You should speak to him but don't do all the running all the time and if he's like abominable or..fickle then it was worth a shot. You needed to know if he would like you or not. Good luck. ... (read in full...)

My wife wants an open relationship, I don't

Q.   My wife insists on a open relationship for her but not for me. I am very resentful about this but she says its this or nothing. I love her but I am going nuts....

A.   17 December 2017: The fact that she brings this subject up...means she's made her decision anyway to cheat on you. She doesn't love you enough to control herself. The marriage use to be something special but...love on her side has...been demolished. Everyone said how ... (read in full...)

Is this my motherhood talking or would I have changed my mind as I grew older anyway?

Q.   I have a daughter who will soon become a teenager. (they grow up sooo fast!). My sister commented that we'll soon have some dating-drama in the house. Which made me think of my teenage and young adult years. What would I do as a mother if my dau...

A.   15 December 2017: It's your motherhood instinct speaking about your child. Of course your going to have these derivatives thoughts about the divination of your child who will be 19. Whenever if she will be just like you going out with a older man or...not. At that... (read in full...)

I'm having some trouble with my crushes

Q.   I'm having a lot of trouble with my crushes. Do you have any advice on what I should do? How should I deal with this? I'm dealing with a lot right now and I want to resolve all my crush problems first. Basically, around a year ago I started li...

A.   15 December 2017: These boys don't seem ready to like girls or...maybe they just don't have a crush on you back. Your not too young to have crushes. It's a temporarily love but doesn't really mean anything for so long. All you need to know is that you should enjoy ... (read in full...)

How do I get the power back in the relationship?

Q.   Hi, I started an affair with a guy from work around 1 year ago, who actively pursued me. The relationship I was in was physically and dometically abusive and around 5 months ago after police involvement I left him and moved out on my own, which was ...

A.   15 December 2017: Why buy a cow when you can get the milk for free. You need to show endearment towards yourself after the abusive domestically relationship you had with a brute. If there is a sign that something is wrong then it is. He's clearly not interested and ... (read in full...)

Still hurt over the break-up

Q.   I have 2 kids and one on the way. My bf and I have been together for 2 yrs, but were together 2 yrs prior, when we had our first child. Things didn't work then because I had self-esteem issues. After we broke up, he moved on to another relationship ...

A.   14 December 2017: So let's get this straight. 1. You been together with your boyfriend for 2 years, When you had your first child with him. 2. He broke up with you because of your low self esteem and went with another woman. 3. He was away from your child... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is being brutally honest and I can't cope with it.

Q.   Been dating for a year and it's the BEST relationship I've ever been in. However, he's starting to be brutally honest and I'm not liking it. I've told him how I felt, even cried and I try to avoid certain topics just because where it can lead to. He ...

A.   14 December 2017: If he's making criticism then that's just cruel. I agree with Honeypie. She said it all. ... (read in full...)

He wants me to change, I want him to love me as I am.

Q.   I'm feeling kind of hopeless in the relationship I'm in. We'e been together nearly 10 months, age gap between us is 15 years. We get a long great, there is so much chemistry. We love each other very much. There is however an issue that we find ...

A.   14 December 2017: he sounds like a idiot and a bully. Why on earth are you putting up with that? I get that you want him to love you for you but he doesn't love you if he's trying to change you. he is...acting selfish and...being too controlling. This is a red flag ... (read in full...)

I always seek validation, but I shouldn't really need it!

Q.   Why do I attract these men or better yet these people in my life? Hello aunts I am turning 32 next month and I am at a dead end with men . I have stoped daring and having sex for the last year an a half but I don’t jnow why I attract men that are ...

A.   14 December 2017: I really think your better off not seeking for a man. You know better than that and you know you keep going to one bad relationship to another. Denizen is right, you haven't learned from any of your mistakes of the men you been with. When you say ... (read in full...)

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