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| | *arrieMagdelene's profile:I'm Carrie, and...
I love fruit.
I love giving massages.
I love preppy clothes.
I hate lots of layered clothing.
I don't see skin color.
I love animals.
The song 'I'm on Fire' by Bruce Springsteen turns me on for some reason.
I hate Bruce Springsteen.
Bruce Springsteen has a sexy voice.
I have a sensitive stomach.
I like bald people.
I like beavers.
I love to give advice!
I'm pretty easy to get along with.
I'm flexible.
I have a fantabulous boyfriend of over a year. We're in a physical relationship, and we've had our ups and downs. Our relationship is strong and we bend but we never break. I've been there, done that in most areas.
Before my current boyfriend, I went out with a guy who is, erm, well, to say it honestly, he's not very stable. Really unstable, actually. Suicide attemps and everything these past two years or so. After that it was a guy who kept putting our school on lock-down because of his anger-management issues. He scared me a lot, but I'm glad I finally found a guy with all his screws intact, lol. My boyfriend treasures me like I treasure him. He's my light on a foggy night.
I live in the middle of no where. Let's leave it at that.
I've had every untrue rumor hurled at me in the book. I've actually been pregnant for a year and a half. Imagine that, y'all?
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Just engaged and now he's planning a for an extended holiday with buddies. Im' hurt! Any advice?
Q. I just got engaged last month, and I always knew that my fiance was planning on going to Florida with his friends in the month of March, but now it is extended to Feb. also because he's buying a golf cart to drive around. I'm coming to visit him on ...
A. 22 January 2007: No, no! You're not crazy! lol, it's natural to be a little confused when this happens. You're getting married, and I congratulate you. :) It must be a happy time for you! Just remember that your fiancee` is getting married, too...And he probably ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and 6 months pregnant and I'm worried coz we don't live together yet!
Q. I am sixteen years old and pregnant...my boyfriend is 15. I am sixth months and i am really starting to worry about the fact we dont live together. What do you think I should do? I dont want to move away from my mom and his mom says i can move in ...
A. 19 January 2007: Hey, good question! I think you should talk things over with your mother and your boyfriend and discuss moving in with him. If he has a job, he can support you a little, but that doesn't mean completely. :) You'll have to discuss expenses and ... (read in full...)
My brother and I was a new sibling! Is it wrong to ask our mum or dad to make one?
Q. hey all, heres my question. i really want a baby brother or sis. i have one bro whos 12, and its only me and him, im 15....... i think dat a baby sis/bro would be really awesome but i dont think my dad would be to into the idea, my mother loves kids ...
A. 17 January 2007: Good question! I went through it myself. I asked my mother if I ever asked for a baby sister when I was younger (I knew I wanted one when I was 10-14), and she said when I was four and five I kept asking for 'Jessica', the baby sister I wanted. ... (read in full...)
How long should a guy last on his first time?
Q. Hi i was wodering how long men norally last on there first time...
A. 17 January 2007: Wow, lol, this brings back memories. For my guy, like five minutes. Seriously, he was so nervous that when he did get it up he lasted 3-5 minutes. Just relax, be cool, and don't worry about how long you'll last. If she loves you and cares for you ... (read in full...)
Why didn't he get an erection when he kissed me? Don't all guys do this?
Q. hi i was hugging my new bf for the first time today and then we kissed (just a normal kiss but for quite a long time. anyway i heard ages ago that normally when boys are hugging and kissing their gf's they get an erection. well why do you think ...
A. 17 January 2007: Hey hey! This is a common misconception (guys getting boners (erections) because of a hug or kiss). Maybe if they are not mentally mature enough to suppress the urges, that is when his penis will perhaps become erect. It is possible, as the others ... (read in full...)
What's a stellar smooch?
Q. What is a Stellar Smooch?, and how to you give/do one?...
A. 16 January 2007: I agree. After some research, all the searches came up with was being a good kisser or giving a really good kiss. Hope this helps! -Carrie... (read in full...)
Any tips for increasing libido? I don't feel any sexual urges... at all!
Q. Can anyone suggest ways of increasing my labido? Im 21 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, he's great, affectinate and passionate but I havent had sex with him for 6 months. I feel clostraphobic when he gets close to me. I love spending ...
A. 16 January 2007: It's good that your relationship is not based on just sex. Hey, lady! This is a good question, and in one of my herbal remedy books, it said Tongkat Ali, Maca, and (seriously) Horny Goat Weed. Yea, that last one sound funny, right? Look these up ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but she is too loose. Why? This is a real problem for me, it takes me ages to reach orgasm.
Q. Good Day everyone. I have a problem..this is linked to my sex life.. Most of the time, when ever I have sex with my gf, I could hardly feel her. It is so loose that I dont know what to do and due to that, it takes me ages to get an orgasm.....
A. 16 January 2007: Hey hey! What kind of condoms are you using, buckaroo? If you're using lubed condoms, that's probably your problem. Try Trojan Unlubricated condoms. Too much lube can make it TOO slippery! Also, mention kegals casually to your girlfriend. This is ... (read in full...)
What is meant by multiple orgasm?
Q. What is meant by the term multiple orgasm? How can a guy cum multiple times? I thought it was just all at once? I'm a little confused...........
A. 16 January 2007: Hey hey! It's most likely that a woman would experience multiple orgasms if the man has not ejaculated yet. Say he can go for 45 minutes with you on top, okay? If that position stimulates you more than any other position, and you reach orgasm or ... (read in full...)
How can I make "down there" smell nicer?
Q. as my previous question "i want to do oral sex but im scared of what i luk like.."..i want to do it now, but i kind ov have a smell, nd i dnt think its attractive, iv used saop nd everything but it doesnt work..wat can i do to stop smellin..i feel ...
A. 16 January 2007: Hey! A lot of women, (like 98% percent, even if they don't admit some odor of an unpleasant kind), experience this. Change your soap if you smell fishy or if you have cheesy discharge. Also, if you have clumpy discarge from your vagina, and around ... (read in full...)
He's a virgin and loses his erection when we try to have sex. What can be done?
Q. i am trying to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time, he is a virgin and whenever we try to have sex he loses his erection, and it will not come back, he is nervous and scared that it will keep happening and he will not be able to become ...
A. 16 January 2007: Hey! This happens a lot to inexperienced guys, so let him know that because it's his first time, some anxiety is probably going to present itself. I agree wwith this others-FOREPLAY! This helps you to get to know each others bodies, and all of the ... (read in full...)
My child seems spoiled. She needs to be picked up all the time. Help?
Q. my child is a spoiled brat, i cant do anything without her crying to be picked up all the time. help....
A. 15 January 2007: Hey! Lots of times younger children can seem very spoiled...but it also depends greatly on the age, because children mature at different rates and times. If your child is one or two, this is especially common, and is natural. Your child seeks ... (read in full...)
We are a gay couple together 5 years but she doesn't want anything sexual anymore!
Q. Im so lost. My partner and I have been together going on 5 years now. I love her so deeply I find it hard to think of liveing without her and our son. We are lesbians and yes I say our son as we have been together since he was 13 months old and ...
A. 15 January 2007: Good question! Alas, time for the answer even I hate...Eeeek! Dun dun dunnnnnnnnnnnn: You have to ask her what's up. *thunder cracks, a wolf howls, and a sheep bleats*
I know it'll be hard...It's hard confronting you partner about anything... (read in full...)
How do I tactfully tell my girlfriend... "please don't dress like such a slut"
Q. This is driving me nuts! My girlfriend dresses like a complete slut! I like a girl dressing confidently and showing some skin but this is over the top. Even her own friends make comments! I find it totally unattractive and its making me doubt ...
A. 15 January 2007: Hey, hey! Just wanted to say that I used to be the same way: I had no taste in clothes that covered me up anymore than neccesary, but I still love baring a lot of skin sometimes: Feels so natural and good, and I'm not trying to catch anyone's ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend to shave off his pubes?
Q. GUYS! do you shave your pubes? whenever i give my boyfriend a bj i get a lot of hairs in my mouth. i said he should shave but i was kidding. should i tell him to for real? i just want to know if he is just extra hairy or what?...
A. 15 January 2007: Hey-howdy-hi! Good question, because I understand your delima. Been there once or twice, but never said anything. I kinda liked the fuzzzzz, hehe, because it reminded me I was with a man...Not a pre-pubescent boy, lol. Still, speak up! I've ... (read in full...)
Will I look like a floozy for approaching someone I met, while I was previously dating someone else?
Q. I was dating a man for a year and we broke up, then 6 months later got back together. While we were back together, we visited his family in another state. While there, I met a friend of his brother's and we really hit it off. But I ignored that, ...
A. 15 January 2007: Hey, good question! I say go for it! If you know the man you want to meet very well, go for it...Your old boyfriend has no say in the matter unless you let him. :) If you are scared of coming across as a floozy (great term!), dress a little ... (read in full...)
I'm an 18 year old virgin and I freak out and stop whenever I'm about to lose it!
Q. im nearly 18! and still a virgin and every1 thinks that i am not cause of the way i come over (but i havnt told them i am a virgin 2 be honest) anywayss i have been in the situation many times!! but some how it always doesnt happen! i always stop! ...
A. 15 January 2007: Hey hey! I lost my virginity, completely sober, at age 15. I'm proud of it because I made my decision on my own. We didn't rush. We talked about it for months and months before it happened. There were set backs to our hokey-pokey, but we waited none ... (read in full...)
Im only 15 but there are lots of girls that ask me to have sex with them... What should I do ??
Q. i am 15 years old and there are alot of girls that ask me if i want to have sex with them should i just not pay atention to them or wat should i do? ...
A. 15 January 2007: Howdy! Just because girls ask you or offer you, you don't have to take them up on it if you don't want to. :) If this constant asking or pestering bothers you/makes you uncomfy, just pay them never-no-mind and ignore them (politely if possible).
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What is a smear test? What happens? Does it hurt?
Q. Hiya just a quick one. Could anyone please explain to me what a 'smear test' is, as i have have to have one in a weeks time.....what do they do.....and does it hurt? Thanks... ...
A. 13 January 2007: Heya! This can be scary the first time, but it's really important to relax; it can sting a little. This first time I had a smear, the assistant recommended the 'smaller size because I'm a smaller girl. My doctor put a little (almost too little!) ... (read in full...)
Last boyfriend broke up with me because I had pubic hair. What should I do?
Q. i was in a relationship recently and the guy broke up with me because i have pubic hair. it has downed my confidence. what should i do? how do i get rid of the hair without it coming in a rash. do guys hate pubic hair that much? please help me! i ...
A. 8 January 2007: Hey, what an interesting question! Most boys your age are TOTALLY immature...Pubic hair is a beautiful, natural, protective thing. My boyfriend does not like it at all, so I shave it. Do NOT use hair-removal creams like Nair around your pubic region ... (read in full...)
I keep getting waves of sickness and dizziness, could this mean i am pregnant?
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend and the condom split...its way too late for emergency contraception now and we both tried our hardest top get some but we were refused and the doctors had no free appointments. We always use condoms but this time it ...
A. 8 January 2007: Hey, writer! Remember that a woman who is pregant does not usually feel morning sickness until 6 to 8 weeks after conception. But it is important that you get a pregnancy test RIGHT AWAY. Go to another town to remain anonymous if you must, but it's ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and not confident about my size 34A breasts! What can I do about this?
Q. hi im 13 , 14 in February and i really want to wear tops but im not confident about my breasts. there 34a and i just want to go out with a top and not a jumper to cover up . I would find myself more attractive by not covering up as much. What ...
A. 8 January 2007: Great question! Don't panic, really. I'm over 18 and only a 34B. My mother is a DD, my grandmother was a D, and look at me! I'm done growing! If you're very thin (like me), you just don't have a lot of fat tissue in your breasts. One breast may be ... (read in full...)
Am I actually 'coming' or...these odd feelings just leading up to one good orgasm? Help!
Q. am i getting an orgasm or are these feelings just steps up to one?! i dont think it could be a g-spot orgasm cause i dont go in "the hole" but i mean it is like a build up,.... my muscles in my legs, arms, stomach, everywhere tenses up th...
A. 8 January 2007: Hey, writer! Sounds like a series of climaxes leading up to either an orgasm or female ejaculation (which is associated with orgasm. A certain way to see if you have orgasmed is by placing a finger (pinky finger if you're a virgin and are afraid to ... (read in full...)
Can I give him cold sores if I kiss him?
Q. well i just found out that cold sores can be transmited by kissing. i would like to figure out if i kiss my boyfriend on the cheek will he get a blister or a cold sore on his lip?...
A. 8 January 2007: Good advice Lilly, and good question, writer! Cold sores are technically a herpes simplex, and can be spread all the time, no matter what the season, and if I recall correctly, never go away completly, just heal over. We had an outbreak when I was ... (read in full...)
I am worried that my relationship is stagnating sexually! Any good advice?
Q. I am worried that my relationship is stagnating sexually because we are both so exhausted from overwork and job and family stress. I don't want us to evolve into a cozy, sexless beer drinking friendliness. Ugh! Please help! I barely have t...
A. 7 January 2007: Hey-howdy-hi! What's up? This is a common problem that a lot of couples go through...And erm, drinking is not exactly the answer to relieve stress. Perhaps Sunday is a good time to be together, or Saturday. Friday night, you'll probably be too ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and going out with my ex-teacher, age 34...
Q. Ok so heres my story, im 16 nearly 17 and im going out with a guy who is 33 nearly 34, we've been together almost 9 months now and things are great..its also a long distance relationship, he lives in another country but i plan to move there with him ...
A. 7 January 2007: Oh my...I'm sorry I made it seem as if I was trying to tear this down instead of build it up. What I said was truly meant to help you. I was merely trying to help you to read and think further into decisions you are making at such a young age. :) I ... (read in full...)
Im only 13 and watching porn sites. Is this normal?
Q. I need some help. I've been looking at porn sites, but i'm only 13. i do it almost everyday, but a few weeks ago i stopped. Just last week i' starting to view them again. is this normal?...
A. 7 January 2007: Hey, girly! Don't worry, a lot of girls (myself included) have viewed pornography eiter on purpose or on accident. It's completely normal and natural to be curious about sex. I viewed it to get a grasp on what it really looks like and what it might ... (read in full...)
Do the labia grow during puberty? Concerned parent.
Q. I'm a little concerned: my 8 yr old daughter told me she had a rash on her thighs and asked me to look. It simply looked like a heat rash to me, but I noticed that she doesn't seem to have labia. Will these grow during puberty? ...
A. 7 January 2007: Good question! Remember that your daughter is only 8 years old? Has she started her period. I didn't have my menarche (fist menstrual period) until about a month after my 14th birthday. However, body hair, sweat, growth spurts, they all happened ... (read in full...)
Am I getting an orgasm or steps leading up to one?
Q. ok so sry if this gets a bit in detailed but im not sure if i get an orgasm or if its just a little thing before i reach orgasm. so after a little while i will start to shake (writhe) and my breathing will increase and i will get really wet then ...
A. 7 January 2007: Hey! I agree with the rest--It's very difficult for some women to tell. Likely, if you keep at it, even though you think you've had an orgasm, maybe you'll experience a more deep, vivid, and more powerful pleasure. If this occurs, you know that the ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and pregnant! My bf wants to keep the baby, but I don't know if I'm ready.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have only been together for 4 months and im 16 and pregnet! I dont no if im ready to have a baby but he rele wants one he is 18 and has lived his teen life and mine has just started but i no that i want to be with him but im ...
A. 6 January 2007: Hey, girl! Don't panic, whatever you do! Teen pregnancy is TOTALLY scary, and happened to one of my friends. She went through with the pregnancy at age sixteen with her boyfriend (17), and now they have a beautiful, GORGEOUS baby boy named Jaimy. ... (read in full...)
Our arguments really scare me and I get so hurt...am I over sensitive here?
Q. Two weeks ago, I finally got together with the guy that I've been in love with for the last year. We've been close friends for two years and even though I told him how I felt six months ago, it's not been until recently that he's realised that he's ...
A. 6 January 2007: Hey, what's up! Although the arguments I get into with my boyfriend are generally healthy, he does cross the line, and I feel very hurt and like I'm just making a big deal out of it. I know that it's not the case, that it's not my fault for feeling ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and going out with my ex-teacher, age 34...
Q. Ok so heres my story, im 16 nearly 17 and im going out with a guy who is 33 nearly 34, we've been together almost 9 months now and things are great..its also a long distance relationship, he lives in another country but i plan to move there with him ...
A. 6 January 2007: Hey, girl! Great question! I have to bring this up to you, because you may not have thought of it...When you're twenty-five and want to go to cancun...He's going to be a much older man. As you get older, you're going to want to go places, and ... (read in full...)
Too embarrassed to hold his hand or show affection in front of other people. Why am I this way?
Q. hi. this boy just asked me out a few days ago an i said yes. he goes to my school and im too embarressed to hold his hand or kiss or hug or anything infront of people like my friends and just people from my school. i can do all those things not infr...
A. 5 January 2007: Hey, reader! This is a common issue with high school students, believe you me...But it's important to know where PDA draws the line and is acceptable in certain situations. Hold hands and kissing a little is fine in front of friends, and hugging is ... (read in full...)
My husband pre-ejaculates - what could be the problem?
Q. Thank you to everyone who answered my last Q. Maybe you can help me with another. My husband always pre-ejaculates and doesn't know why. what would his problem be. Maybe then he wouldn't be so insecure when it came to loving me....
A. 5 January 2007: Hey! Good question! It can be caused by a lot of things, like nervousness, fear, and just by being overly-turned on by the situation. But it's also a medical issue that should be taken up with a doctor if it continues for a long time. I agree with ... (read in full...)
Got pregnant. Going to terminate. Should I tell him I had an abortion while he's on holiday... or wait until he returns?
Q. I have just find out I am pregnant. My boyfriend is away on holiday on the other side of the world for another month and I am going to terminate the pregnancy, which I am happy to do. I was wondering whether I should tell him while he is on holiday, ...
A. 5 January 2007: Hey writer! While I'm against abortion, I do think that it's a personal choice. But the father DOES have a say in it. Wait until he gets back from holiday. Definately. Otherwise, he'll feel cheated, lied to, worthless, and like you don't care for ... (read in full...)
How do I approach my husband again about this delicate matter?
Q. when my husband and i first talk about anal sex, we both agreed we were not interested. its been about a year now, and i think i want to try. what is the best way to approch him about trying anal sex? ...
A. 5 January 2007: Good question. I've faced it a time or two with my boyfriend of a year, but I decided against asking about it because I realized I was not as into it as I thought. Perhaps you might casually ask him sometime (not in bed or durin vaginal intercourse ... (read in full...)
Should I start a relationship with my school sweetheart?
Q. Ok, So my elementary school sweetheart pops back into my life about every 5 years. When we were kids we had a crush on each other but we did the usual kid things, he picked on me and I was mean in return. Both of our mothers are close friends so ...
A. 5 January 2007: Hey! It sounds like you two are meant to be if you ask me! This is a super question, because I can imagine how torn you're feeling. If you two were meant to be, and you both are truly in love, perhaps you might feel it's apropriate to get married ... (read in full...)
We've dated a few times and he's telling me to change my hair! Should I be wary and do I need to change for him?
Q. Iv been seeing this man a few times and we get on really well,he told me that he found me very attractive and intelligent.Now my problem is this,a couple of times he has said that i would look better without my fringe and to cut my hair shorter and ...
A. 5 January 2007: Dear writer, Hm...That's indeed mind boggling. But my advice is to deal with your hair as you please. Inform him that you really like your hair and that you'd rather leave it be. Trust me on this. After seeing my current boyfriend for a few weeks, ... (read in full...)
Really unhappy because he likes doing it the "un-natural" way... can I fix this problem?
Q. My boyfriend is really into anal sex and I am fed-up with it. We've been going out for over a year now so it is not as if I haven't tried. I am prepared to do it to please him on occasion but do not want to accept this as a function of our everyday ...
A. 5 January 2007: Good question! One thing that definately needs to be discussed with your partner is mutual stimulation. Now, try to understand where he is coming from (no pun intended); he pleasures you, and you pleasure him. But when I say 'mutual stimulation', I ... (read in full...)
Why do they always shoot their load so soon? Is it me?
Q. Why is it that everytime i have sex with a man they always ejaculate too quickly? Is it me or what? Im getting rather frustrated over this....
A. 5 January 2007: Howdy! Pre-mature ejaculation occurs for many reasons. Perhaps you are just really good at sex, hehe. Other reasons could be that your partner is nervous. From my own experience, men talk a real good game, but unless they're scripted porn-stars, ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my negative boyfriend?
Q. Ok. I have been seeing someone who I see good in but all I ever get back is negativity. He never tells me how he feels but when I ask he says ' well, I am with you aren't I?'. I am a very positive person and I came out of a very long and controll...
A. 5 January 2007: Hey, writer! Gosh, a negative guy can really, really be a downer and a total turn off. I know first hand, trust me. 0.O But you've got to stick with it for a good while and tell him over and over that you're there for him to open up to and to come ... (read in full...)
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