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My girlfriend won't swallow. Can I talk her around to seeing it my way?

Q.   hiya, I was just wondering. I have been going out with my gilfriend for 3 years and I really want her to swallow my cum. Are there any ways in whichI can get her to do this? Thanx...

A.   17 July 2005: aw, poor guy..his girlfriend won't swallow....have some respect for her. if she doesn't want to do it, don't force her to do it...if she wanted u to do something u didn't want to do you wouldn't do it would ya. ... (read in full...)

Even though he's an ex, we're still friends. What does it mean?

Q.   I'm a sixteen year old girl and there is this guy that I am best friends with. However we have dated off and on again. It's now been 10 months since our last 'relationship'. He's also had other relationships since then. Most people can't still be...

A.   17 July 2005: do u want to get back with him? you yourself don't sound too sure if you want to get back with him. unless it's hurting you being like this, i wouldn't worry too much about it - it's when he starts using you and hurting you or other way around that ... (read in full...)

So much pressure & stress in our lives that there's no energy for sex!

Q.   i am working long hours and my wife as just started back at college. we are both under a lot of pressure, plus we have 2 young chilldren. our sex life is zero and when we are together we argue a lot. we also are in a lot of debt but we have got...

A.   16 July 2005: One weekend, let the kids stay round a family member - like their own little holiday! cook your wife a romatic meal and sit down together and enjoy each other's company. With the kids gone for the weekend, you can sort out any problems you and your ... (read in full...)

From what I saw on her phone, my mum's having an affair. What should I do?

Q.   I heard my mum's phone go off the other day and she asked me to check it so I did and found texts from a work colleague. Based on what they were saying, I think I can safely assume they're having an affair - whether they are actually doing stuff or ...

A.   7 July 2005: just to answer questions put forward by agony aunt's / uncle's (!) my mum is married and they've been together for 27 years tomoro.... (read in full...)

All I can do is imagine us together, since he's in Coventry and I'm in Oxford...

Q.   I like to go on msn regulary and I have met a lovely guy on it. He is so lovely and I really want to be with him. But the only trouble is I live in Oxford and he lives in Coventry. I don't know what to do as his parents won't let him down to Oxfor...

A.   26 June 2005: can you call it love when you haven't even met yet?You might think you do, cos he has the same tastes, or you can talk to him...but you can't love him properly, just by instant messaging him!... (read in full...)

My best girl friend told me she fancies me, but I wish I didn't know!

Q.   My best friend, recently admitted to me that she fancies me. We are both 13 years old. I saw her crying, and I eventually dragged out of her what was wrong. Apparently she has fancied me for ages, and was worried I'd freak out when she told me. I...

A.   26 June 2005: tell her that you like her, but only as a really good friend, and that if you were to go out and then break up, it would probably ruin the relatinship you had in the first place.i was in the same position a year ago,and you learn to get over it, and ... (read in full...)

I feel ugly, even though my guy tells me I'm not...

Q.   Hi, I'm 15 and I am very self-confident about myself. I like this boy and he likes me but I hate him looking at me. I can't get close to a boy. I think I'm scared of what they might really see or think of me. It hurts so much, as this affects ...

A.   25 June 2005: It seems you don't have a lot of trust in anybody at the moment. My advice is to take it easy...go out with this boy and have fun. If he likes you for who you are then he'll realise how you're feeling and help you to overcome the lack of self ... (read in full...)

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