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How do I become more confident?

Q.   I am in my last year of school. deep down, I know I can be a confident person. I want to be a confident person from the great deal of positive affirmation I've recieved from others. I have not found being confident with people easy for the mos...

A.   25 April 2012: thanks for your advice. I appreciate it greatly. Both really helpful answers. cheers.... (read in full...)

How do I get past my social awkwardness?

Q.   This is something that I have been wanting/trying to get past for a long time. I have been struggling with a lot of things i.e negative thoughts, what people think of me, percieved lack of confidence etc. This has lead me to isolate myself s...

A.   15 December 2011: Thanks for that guys. Especially you anonymous person :) it's nice to hear that there is someone like me (in a way), your answer was really helpful. I just want to try and put myself out there as soon as possible in anyway that I can, but I don't ... (read in full...)

How can I change to be a better me ?

Q.   I am a fairly confident person. I get on well with a lot of people. I am friendly, im sensitive, I feel I am genuine, nice etc. People have told me this on a number of occasions. However, I have lacked confidence for a fair while due to all...

A.   9 July 2011: Thanks alot guys. I think you have made me more clearly understand what I am doing and what I need to do. I really do appreciate it as this has troubled me for a fair while and I just hadnt gotten a grasp on things.... (read in full...)

How do I stop being so negative?

Q.   I'm so lost. I feel like I don't belong wherever I am mostly. I feel that whatever I do or whatever I say, people will tease me or laugh at me. I have trouble taking a joke/not taking things to heart and determining whether people think what I did ...

A.   25 June 2011: Thanks for the advice guys. no nonsense aiden, I could use any advice I can get at the moment, so any advice on how to talk to people easier would be much appreciated. cheers.... (read in full...)

I'm sick and tired of taking a back seat socially!

Q.   I've been bottling up so many thoughts and feelings for as long as I know. I just wanna tell someone,anyone, just to get all this stuff off my chest, but its knowing who and when the right time is is the problem. I have been seeing a counsellor ...

A.   16 March 2011: Thanks very much for the help guys. I will attempt to put the wise words you guys have given me into practice. thank you for the suggestion Dorothy Dix, I very much appreciate it :)... (read in full...)

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