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Why does he lie?

Q.   My boyfriend lies to me about everything. From what time he got off of work to when he turned on his cell phone. It's driving me crazy. When I bring up an inconsistency that I noticed, he tells me that I'm blowing things out of proportion. I ...

A.   9 August 2010: Maybe he's just a compulsive liar, maybe he had a crappy marriage because he was doing the same thing and you know how there are three sides to every story.(His, Her, and the truth). If this is more than you can deal with then you should always do ... (read in full...)

I can't just be her friend, I need to move on

Q.   Hello. I am going thru a really bad breakup. I was in a relationship for 3 years and it ended about 4 months now. I have try everything to get her back, i even told her i wanted to be her friend just to have her close and work on my strategy...

A.   9 August 2010: I'm really sorry that you're going through this however, you have to think about what your saying. Please realize what you are doing, yes everyone wants and deserves to be happy. But, you have included someone else into your drama filled life. ... (read in full...)

I am seriously stuck between a rock and a hard place right now!

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and I really do love him! I am just worried about the fact that he isn't ready to settle down and may never be! We have had our ups and downs just like any relationship ever does! He actually ...

A.   4 August 2010: If you already have trust issues there is really no way that your going to go into another relationship and not bring these issues along with you. As for this other guy living in another state, how would you expect to be fully trusting in that ... (read in full...)

Where are all the real women???

Q.   I was what is called a player in my early 20's. Now I am 36 and a single Father to my amazing 5 yr old boy. I haven't dated since his mom left 5 years ago. I tried a couple of times but it seems like games. Most women are not interested once they ...

A.   4 August 2010: I love the fact that your a single proud father holding things down, that's what being a real man is all about. Sometimes people are afraid of things they dont understand, like why does this guy have custody of his son, and others just arent ... (read in full...)

Should I wait for my husband to do his time in prison?

Q.   I have been with my husband for 6 years. Hes been in prison for the past 2 years. I am struggling with whether i should go out on my own or stay here waiting for him. He was not always the nicest guy he called me and my kids names and he hit me a ...

A.   4 August 2010: This is really a situation that requires alot of thought. However, these children should not be miss treated and should never be denied a decent meal for any reason. As far as you moving in with another guy be very aware of what your getting into. ... (read in full...)

How to move on after a long relationship?

Q.   want to move on after a10 years relationship he dumped me so badly. He just want to stay friends with me. 2 years i tried not to love him and acting like a hell. Its a vary hard time for me being with him as a friend and nothing els. please somebod...

A.   7 July 2010: Make everything about you, do what you want to do, it's time to learn how to dance in the rain and believe that the sun will shine. You said he broke up with you badly, which means that you are very hurt by this. So, look at it like this now he ... (read in full...)

My 18 year old son is dating someone my age!!

Q.   My 18 year old son has started dating a 35 year old woman, which is my age, I am having alot of different feeings, from near break down to breaking her in half. I don't want to do the wrong thing and push him closer to her. I can't imagine dating ...

A.   7 July 2010: As you may very well know, their relationship is based strickly on sex, he is just her boy toy until she finds something else to do. I really hope he does get hurt by this, hopefully this little game will get old soon. I'm the mother of a 17 year ... (read in full...)

Should I try to stay with my boyfriend who is lovely but just kicked me???

Q.   Dear cupid, my partner and I have been together for over a year, and me moved in together after only a few months, partly due to money. Were now relocating, together, accross the country, but I am settled in the new place and he has to work out his ...

A.   29 June 2010: Why would you stay??????????????? he has already showed you who he really is, now except it at face value and dont make excuses for him. We all have bad days but what gives him the right to cause you pain? He doesnt know how to direct his anger so ... (read in full...)

He's keeping his distance after two years of dating

Q.   We've been dating for two years and he's still pushing me away. He never calls me up to spend time with him. Whenever I'd like to see him, I have to ask him and I only get to see him about 50% of the times I ask. I only see him about once a week. ...

A.   29 June 2010: I never ever like to tell someone to leave someone. However, after reading your story the first thing that it sounded like to me was he's just not that into you. I'm really sorry but, Im all for the empowerment of women everywhere. If you ever ... (read in full...)

How long before we can become exclusive?

Q.   I am 36 and was divorced a few years ago. Since my divorce I have had a few relationships (one lasted over a year)and lots of dates. All of the women I met and dated were smart, funny, generally fine and for the most part they like me much more ...

A.   29 June 2010: There isnt an amount of time to become exculsive, its whenever two consenting adults are on the same accord. As long as you two have mutual feelings about being exculsive then enjoy each other, dance in the rain, and love like you have never been ... (read in full...)

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