I felt neglected, I cheated, confessed, and now b/f doesn't know if we can get back what we had
Q. I have been seeing a guy for a while now, and i love him. He will have a baby in less then a month with a women that i know he does not want to be with. He has been staying over at her place for around 3 weeks, and i never get any calls from him or ...
A. 6 October 2009: Although things are difficult when one partner cheats in a relationship, its not insurmountable. The "Anon" poster who states:
"Once you cheat you can NEVER go back to what you had. Let the poor guy find a decent, loyal girl."
is probably a... (read in full...)
How does a guy get that kind of attention?
Q. I'm a guy and I'm 24. The thing is I'm still a virgin and at this point it really feels like I'll never have a girlfriend. Is that wrong? I'm more likely to believe that I've got a better chance at ending world hunger rather than landing a date. ...
A. 4 October 2009: The way you start your posting it appears that it's only an issue with yourself.
As already stated - if you are looking for sex, it is obvious. Just be yourself, dont be pushy... on the contrary let the lucky ladies come to you, you have very muc... (read in full...)
How long are you supposed to help your adult children?
Q. I wonder how long you are suppose to help your adult children? My children are all over 20, but they don't seem to make it out there. We are keep helping them, but they don't seem to get stronger from this.I know people who are supporting their 50...
A. 2 October 2009: Just be there for them emotionally and physically, financially u would need to be careful as fiscal stimulus has a tendency to rebound on you - you get treated as a savour by getting taken for granted.
I do very little to financially support ... (read in full...)
If he was going to feel something for me wouldn't he have by now?
Q. I am going crazy. Just had to go to Dr. yesterday and got Rx for Xanax. I have lost 13 pounds in the last two weeks. This is why: I met a guy who really felt like my soul mate. We met July 31 and have gone out every Fri and Sat since then. The ...
A. 2 October 2009: So the Honeymoon period is over... I'm afraid the intensity does tend to die off after a period. However, I have to say, it does seem a little severe!
If life seems to be rather pressed for him at the moment - give him time, just keep monitori... (read in full...)
I felt neglected, I cheated, confessed, and now b/f doesn't know if we can get back what we had
Q. I have been seeing a guy for a while now, and i love him. He will have a baby in less then a month with a women that i know he does not want to be with. He has been staying over at her place for around 3 weeks, and i never get any calls from him or ...
A. 2 October 2009: One phrase springs to mind: "You dont realise what you have until it's gone" So - dont you go feeling bad about having a knee trembler one night, he got what was coming eventually and that something is pretty much nothing. You ought to mo... (read in full...)
She lives so far away what can I do?
Q. i meat a girl over the internet. We got talking and the next thing u know were in love. But she lives sooo far away i dont know what to do were only teenagers andi cant stop thinking about her. What should i do.????...
A. 30 September 2009: People say all manner of things on the Int. yeah Ur feelins r good and it luks like u mean a lot to each other.. but!!!
It seems like ur graspin at straws cos ur sayin the same things an its easy 2 get drawn in2 summin like this yeah?
U dont ... (read in full...)
New and improved boyfriend or more limbo land?
Q. Okay, so I told my boyfriend of 5 years that I wanted a break. He just didn't seem that into me. We are both 48 and he just wasn't popping the question. He kept saying when the house is finished that he is building, he'll figure the rest of the ...
A. 30 September 2009: Yes I've been there - I feel like I'm there now...
I married and the situation id different but we both need to make a crucial decision - talking helps!
Talk to loads of people and from all that information you will take from it little key's... (read in full...)
If you were me you can forgive a cheater? Do you think cheater will repent and stop hurting others?
Q. We married 23 years and have 3 lovely children. He is 56 and me 43. I am a teacher at school and I am a nice woman. We have a happy marriage and he never intended to leave me. We are French and live in US. One day I found out he cheated on me wi...
A. 30 September 2009: Whether you can forgive and forget is irrelevant...
Do you want to forgive - truly? If so, you will... eventually. It wont be an overnight thing - it'll keep ressurecting itself for years... do you want to, or can you deal with that?
Those a... (read in full...)
The man I love wont leave his wife for me and I feel so lonely!
Q. The man I'm in love with never told me that he would leave his wife.He pays all my bills,rent and still gives me extra money but,I'm just so lonely.He doesn't spend time with me like he use to in the beginning.He has keys to my house so he comes ...
A. 30 September 2009: The original poster came on this site looking for a way through a otherwise overgrown pathway... she asked us for or opinions or our guidance through the shrubbery!
I'm sure we could all calm down and concentrate on the question rather than res... (read in full...)
The man I love wont leave his wife for me and I feel so lonely!
Q. The man I'm in love with never told me that he would leave his wife.He pays all my bills,rent and still gives me extra money but,I'm just so lonely.He doesn't spend time with me like he use to in the beginning.He has keys to my house so he comes ...
A. 23 September 2009: I have always been a great advocate of the saying "we can't help who we fal in love with", but we can choose whether we want to continue in a relationship with that person...
On the face of it you sound superficial, false and a financial leach. B... (read in full...)
Why does he need to text other women?
Q. I have been married to my Hubby for 5 years, I met him when he was married but he left his wife, before the relationship became sexual.. He is everything a women could want and we have the best time and life together, we have now Bern blessed with a ...
A. 23 September 2009: Without actually knowing your husband, it sounds like he is in need of feeling desired. Not necessarily wanting sex or even friendship, simply just knowing someone fancies him would be enough. Maybe this is an area of your marriage which is lacking? ... (read in full...)
I can't handle my deadbeat husband.
Q. im married for 8yrs.me n hubby has 3 kids.until lst yr my husband decided he had enough of his job and quit.we have a sideline business that he then decided to do full time from home.the business is not doin that well n i decided to find a job.he ...
A. 23 September 2009: What Caringuy said is right - NO MORE MONEY!!!
He is seriously bleeding you dry, you dont need this around your neck if/when he leaves you. You need to be secure knowing you have independance and this guy is running you out of your own home... ... (read in full...)
Will my breasts be a turn-off for all men or is it just bad luck that I'm with a guy who doesn't like them!
Q. I had previously asked a question regarding the fact that my breasts have started sagging as a result of weight loss and my boyfriend hates them and wants me to have surgery. I want to know if d cup but saggy breasts will be a turn off for all men ...
A. 23 September 2009: So - from a male perspecive...
We hear what you say about what your boyfriend supposedly wants. But has he actually said he hates them? Has he actually said he wants you to have surgery - if he has dump him...
If not - is it you that feels a... (read in full...)
My girlfriend teases me about how small my penis is!
Q. my penis doenst erect properly it is only 4 inches while erecting my gf makes fun that it is very small in parties i cant speak out all make fun of me please give suggestion one of her friends told me why dont you use Viagra i am helpless ...
A. 23 September 2009: Whilst media (i.e. Porn) portrays having a massive penis satisfies woman, it doesn't mean having a small one doesn't!
The Clitoris and G-Stop are within easy reach of your fingers - so satisfaction is not too far is it?
By this girl accusi... (read in full...)
Emotional abuse?
Q. hi, i desperately need some advice, i have been with my partner for over 3 years now and then i found out that before i met him he used to download illegal porn and sell for money, as he said he needed the money. I found out that he lied on a few ...
A. 23 September 2009: Firstly - it's not you. He is playing you for a fool... emotionally and financially. Although you may not be the most favourite person in his families eyes... you are with him, not his family. Maybe you are trying to straighten him out - w... (read in full...)
But I want a relationship and not to be a f**k buddy.
Q. Ok so I like this guy, and I think he likes me too. We have been hanging out all summer, and recently we kissed. Then last monday I told him I liked him and his answer wasnt really informative. So I asked him if I was wasting my time and he said no. ...
A. 22 September 2009: Sounds like he prefers you as a friend and not in a sexual way - you have to respect him for that, surely!
Just back off a bit and let him do the running a little - you may be crowding him...
If it's not meant to be then it's not meant to be.... (read in full...)
I need your opinion here... AM I still a virgin?
Q. AM I still a virgin? Me and my boyfriend tried having sex but when he put it in alil it hurt really bad so i made him stop. But also he's had multiple partners and knew what he was doing. But I wanna know how to make the next time we try not hurt. ...
A. 22 September 2009: Sounds like you're really anxious... therefore not really ready.
Take your time, use protection and dont rush, rushing will be regretful later as you wont have enjoyed it so much...
Be careful...
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