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I wantto contact the other woman!

Q.   Okay I think I am completely losing my mind now. For some crazy reason I am having urges to contact the other woman. And not in a mean way either. Maybe it is the whole "keep your friends close and your enemies closer thing"? He wrote her a ...

A.   21 January 2009: Resist the urges. Its your hurt emotions making you want to call her. I would say try to act on your good feelings. Your love. If she is gone from the relationship you will be able to tell. I'm sure you can see signs now when your husband ... (read in full...)

Which man does the woman go for in this theoretical situation?

Q.   Hello! I was just wondering how a woman might react in the following 'theoretical' situation. Imagine a woman has a powerful attraction to a married man who has children. Imagine that she is also attracted, but to a lesser extent, to another man, a ...

A.   18 January 2009: I have to agree with the women here with morals and self respect. She will choose the single man There are so many things wrong with her choosing the married man! And most women will choose the single man but only the low down dirty women ... (read in full...)

How do I find a virgin?

Q.   I don't know how to describe this, exactly, but here goes: it took a long time for me to come to grips with the fact that I, as a man who was raised in such a manner that I could not raise my hand in violence to a woman under any circumstances, was ...

A.   18 January 2009: When you meet a woman that you fall in love with and find out she isn't a virgin will you leave her? If you find someone that makes you want to spend forever with her can you give her up because she may have had sex before? if one in one thous... (read in full...)

I'd like some peace

Q.   How do I become a more peaceful person? As in having peace of mind? For most of last year and a little of this year has been stressful on me emotionally and physically as well as mentally. Alot has gone on. Please help me if you have any tips on how ...

A.   18 January 2009: Hi. I actually just started practicing this way of thinking as I to have been through a lot and been very down for the better part of last year. I believe you have to set small goals for yourself. Daily...weekly and monthly goals that you can achi... (read in full...)

I want to call her, but I also think if she really cared she would have called by now...

Q.   Hello Everyone, Thanks for taking the time to read this as I am completely lost right now and could really use some advice from an outside party other than my friends and family. I know this is a long post but please, if you have the time, read this ...

A.   17 January 2009: I don't know this woman so I can't say for sure what she is really thinking but here is a possibility Maybe she feels like she blew it with you and felt like she depended on you way too much. That would explain why she wanted to return the c... (read in full...)

In the middle of the act he withdraws saying he ejaculated, when he did not. This problem is minimising our sex life. Any ideas?

Q.   Guys here is a question 4 U women if its ever happened 2 U please please give advise. In the middle of sex all of a sudden he takes it out and says I came but there isn't anything there he didn't ejaculate but he says it feels like he did. Then it ...

A.   29 January 2008: Thanks again for the input. I am so confused and frustrated. I really think he has major issues. As I said before I know he masterbates every night right there in bed next to me and when I wake up he pretends he isn't doing anything but he is wide ... (read in full...)

I'm thinking we're better of friends than lovers

Q.   I really need advise. I have been with my boyfriend for two years. He is 26 I am 31. I am very sexual and had great self confidence in bed until now. He always had issue with sex from the begining. Couldn't get it up or keep it up. I don't ...

A.   28 January 2008: Thank you for answering! I am so confused. I know he has self esteem issues worse than anyone I ever met. I try to pump him up and complement him boost his ego. 2 years now and no luck.I try to give him pleasure but he won't just take it he trys... (read in full...)

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