I don't know wut to do wit this girl can sum1 help
Q. my gf doesnt wanna hang out wit me wut turned into 2 days wound up to be almost week and a half then she tell me that it dont feel like we go out and when i think of her i get butterflys and my heart hurts sum1 help me plz...
A. 22 November 2008: May I please know why is she angry with you in the first place?... (read in full...)
What do I do when a girl puts her head on my lap?
Q. I need to know what to do when the following things happens because they have happened to me and at that moment I have no idea what to do. When friends/crushes: 1) put their head on my shoulder 2) when they put it on my knee 3) when they hug ...
A. 22 November 2008: put their head on your shoulder-I am tired.You shoulder should serve as a pillow for a while
put their head on your knee-My neck is getting a crick as you are taller than me.I would like to sleep comfortably.I am really sleepy
when they hug... (read in full...)
Why is he so huggy to my friends all the time?
Q. I have a boyfirnd and he has a lot of friends that are girls. When I am standing talking to him and one of them comes up he stops listening and talking to me to give them a hug. But if I come up when he is talking to one of them I have to wait. He ...
A. 22 November 2008: I think this is the reason in India we are not allowed to hug or touch other guys.
To the poster:
you boyfriend is not that into you.You need to be with someone who respects you.Believe me, with the right guy you will not feel jealous.He w... (read in full...)
Girl tells me "a secret code" then says I am going to have to find out its meaning. What does this mean?
Q. Hi, There's this girl that I know of, and lately, when smsing her, she'll write "iahfadlfahkl" on her messages, and she says it means something and I'm going to have to find out. It could be something innocent (my guess... I'll think pessimis...
A. 22 November 2008: Invite her out for a coffee as AskOlderSister said.In my opinion "iahfadlfahkl" are games played by teenagers.At your age you don't need to play games.If you like her,go for it.What have you got to lose any way?The worst thing that will happen is ... (read in full...)
I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. We have both cheated, and now we are living apart. Where did we go wrong ?
Q. I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. The issues releted to bad very infrequent sex. Discussed this with my wife many times but she did not change. She just did not care for me and was always more engrossed in her ...
A. 22 November 2008: Mr.Anonymous can you please send me a PM?... (read in full...)
How do I get her to come to my place?
Q. i took a girl i like on a date. i want her to come to my place. what must i do to achieve this feat.help me....
A. 21 November 2008: Its really a feat alright.If she is smart and identifies jerks,it would be impossible to achieve this "feat".... (read in full...)
Anyone know about any home remedy for breast enlargement?
Q. best home remedy for breast enlargement.i m 19 years old.i really feel shy in wearing tops....
A. 21 November 2008: Neha,fenugreek is really good for uterus.When you are having cramps during periods you can soak a tea spoon in water and chew them and drink them with water.Its very bitter though.Methi(fenugreek leaves) is good for uterus too.It strengthens the ... (read in full...)
I am in a long distance and age difference relationship. (Continued)
Q. i just asked a question about 15 minutes ago about my long distance relationship and wanted to add that i have been reading on many therapist websites that 1 out of 10 straight men have sex with other men...
A. 21 November 2008: Now how did this one get through??... (read in full...)
We've been flirting non-verbally... when is the right time to get verbal?
Q. Hi all, I like a bloke in class and he likes me. We haven't spoken yet, we dont see each other very often, since he doesnt come to classes regularly. We have had eye contact so far, but the first couple days I knew he liked me (him flirting with me ...
A. 21 November 2008: you are in the age range of 22-25 and still in college or school?... (read in full...)
He keeps looking at me and catching my eye, is he interested and if so what can I do about it?
Q. I'm not very good at this... but there's this guy I don't know anything about him other than that he's in one of my classes, lives in the same dorm as me, and I pass him Monday, Wednesday, and Friday on my way to class. It seems like he's interested ...
A. 21 November 2008: Maybe he is wondering whether you are interested too.Positive signs are definitely there.If he is from old school he would prefer to do the pursuing.So wait to understand him before you ask him out.You can start responding by smiling at him.A smile ... (read in full...)
Should I just keep hanging around hoping that he might come back?
Q. There's this guy that used to like me a lot and he was really serious about me but I wasn't ready for him. I just got out from a relationship and I was trying to move on. I wasn't ready but he convinced me to give him a chance. So after a month...
A. 21 November 2008: Tell him that you want him back and this time you are here to stay.He is scared of being hurt again.If you love someone let them free if they come back they are yours or else they were never yours to come back-in the first place.All the best.... (read in full...)
Should I let my friend ask this boy out for me?
Q. hey. this is my first question on this website. so i hope i don't mess it up. well here goes. my problem is that i like my friend nathan. well, today my friend told me that nathan liked me back. and that tomorrow she's gonna ask him out for me and ...
A. 21 November 2008: Two is company.Three is a crowd.Never let another person into your relationship.For that matter any kind of relationship.Tell her that if he wishes he can ask you out yourself or you would prefer asking him out yourself.All the best.Take care.... (read in full...)
What would be the best movie to watch with a guy you love and hope it sets to mood to see if he has similar feelings?
Q. What would be the best movie to watch with a guy you love and hope it sets to mood to see if he has similar feelings? And, in watching a movie, which would make him more comfortable: watching a movie in a theater or at his house? He's a very shy ...
A. 21 November 2008: There's this movie "While you were sleeping" with Bill Pullman and Sandra Bullock.Its one of my all time favorites.I cry every time I see it.
There's a scene in this movie where Sandra proclaims her love for Bill in a church filled with peop... (read in full...)
What to get my boyfriend for our first Christmas together?
Q. I have been dating Mr. Wonderful for approximately 8 months, and I am just wondering what to get him for Christmas! We are both pretty shorthanded, cash-wise, so I am desperate for inexpensive, yet clever or romantic ideas for gifts! Help please! ...
A. 21 November 2008: How about dressing up as Mrs.Santa Claus and giving him the best night of his life.The room should be decorated with holly and mistletoe.Have a mistletoe in every part of the bed.Let your imagination free and go wild.
That's the best gift a guy ... (read in full...)
Do I text him back again and tell him it was a mistake... again?
Q. I really liked this friend of mine, so I asked him to a girls choice dance. Everything went perfectly! He even kissed me goodnight. I figured after that night I should tell him how I feel, so I did. Apparently that was a big mistake! He was ...
A. 21 November 2008: If some person doesn't feel the same way about you you cannot force them to feel that way about you.Love is not pressured or forced.If he has told it very clearly to your friend he probably meant it.
How many ever times you ask the guy is goin... (read in full...)
How do I get over this teacher of mine?
Q. I've just transfered to a new school, because my school closed down. I am still very upset about it, and there's not a day that goes by when I am dressing in my uniform thinking about what school I am going to, and how the uniform I'm wearing isn't ...
A. 20 November 2008: Hey aren't you the same girl who didn't want to report her teacher?... (read in full...)
I want to tell her I love her but don't know how.
Q. I want to tell the girl i love that i love her but i am finding it hard,what do i do.pls help...
A. 20 November 2008: Dial her number Now.Its better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all.... (read in full...)
I like a guy who is younger than me soooo much.
Q. I like this guy who is younger than me. Whenever I waken up I always have a smile on my face because I know I am going to see him and whenever he talks to me or gives me a hug I get butterflies. The other week, he and I had a couple of drinks a...
A. 19 November 2008: Age has nothing to do with in a relationship.until otherwise he is below the legal age in your country.... (read in full...)
Would you call it cheating on his partner when we are only phoning?
Q. Guys:- Why does a guy say he'll ring on a certain day or time and then not? I am keeping in touch with a guy I adore(who has a partner who he says he doesn't get along with) so he only rings me as and when. For obvious reasons I can't re...
A. 19 November 2008: Call him and ask his partner.you will see the true colors of the guy then.He is trouble with a capital T.My humble advice would be to cut connections totally with the guy... (read in full...)
My girl doesn't like to be touched!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly a year. We both love eachother very much and have no plans to break up. However, she has an unnoticable case of ADHD to the human eye, and I think it's from this I have my problem. She doesn't like ...
A. 19 November 2008: is She Asian.Some Asian cultures make sure the girls are brought up in such a way that they hate to be touched before marriage.... (read in full...)
After sports showering shows guys with bigger packages than me, am I normal?
Q. I'll just cut to the chase.. I have a small penis erect i think its roughly 3-4 inches. Is the small or around average. Im 16 so im still growing but i'm a bit concerned. This is gonna sound really perverted but I play rugby so we shower together ...
A. 19 November 2008: Mr.Everoth you have just joined the site.Trust me when we say we receive mails that don't seem true at all.When we block mails we get another 3 false friend requests from the same person.Calling another person names makes the person who is calling ... (read in full...)
My F-I-L harrassed me, and said he won't stop until he gets what he wants.
Q. I am 32 years old and married my husband 5 months ago. My husband's father had been very close to me, really helping me be accepted in the family. Its a big family with 5 kids, all of whom are married, my husband being the youngest of the children. ...
A. 19 November 2008: To explain natural language processing would take more than 6 hours.I would dearly love to though.
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.Those words are worth their weight in gold.
Dear I know you are very lonely,probably hurting inside.I... (read in full...)
She's said she's in love with me but it's not working... she's terrified of committing here. WHY?
Q. To all you girls out there, I have a question/scenario. Here is your chance to give some good advice to a confused man. I had been dating this girl for about 4 months. Everything thing was going FANTASTIC! I played it cool - didn’t rush anything - ...
A. 19 November 2008: If you really love someone let them free.If they come back to you they are yours.If they don't they were never yours or loved you in the first place.... (read in full...)
My F-I-L harrassed me, and said he won't stop until he gets what he wants.
Q. I am 32 years old and married my husband 5 months ago. My husband's father had been very close to me, really helping me be accepted in the family. Its a big family with 5 kids, all of whom are married, my husband being the youngest of the children. ...
A. 19 November 2008: My dear friends check this link out.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-wifes-dad-is-sexually-harassing-me-and.html
The similarities are a little too much for it to be coincidental.If these things are false posts you are a sick sick per... (read in full...)
Should a girl talk to a guy and if so, what should I say?
Q. hey! ok so, i know im too old to be asking this but here i am, thinking about it. i feel like a school girl. theres this guy at college, we have conversations with our eyes, everyone around me can see it, i.e my friends. its the feeling nervous ...
A. 19 November 2008: There was this very shy guy at college.Through out our final year I supplied his pencils,erasers,pens,rulers,paper,stapler.you name a stationery and I have supplied him.It went so far that I had an extra piece always ready for him.
If assi... (read in full...)
My F-I-L harrassed me, and said he won't stop until he gets what he wants.
Q. I am 32 years old and married my husband 5 months ago. My husband's father had been very close to me, really helping me be accepted in the family. Its a big family with 5 kids, all of whom are married, my husband being the youngest of the children. ...
A. 19 November 2008: Dear Poster,
I am singing along with Birdy now.
I read guilt from your post on wearing such dresses.Perverts like that jackass give that as an excuse to hit on women.Trust me when I say this:Even if you are dressed in sack cloth and ashes he... (read in full...)
Is she testing me? I receive mixed signals.
Q. Hi Everyone, I have been dating this girl (# 1) (28 years old) for 8 months. Months ago she basically said only friend status. Days later from that she went on vacation and I met another women. I dated her (lets call her # 2) for a couple months ...
A. 19 November 2008: Goodness Gracious!
I completely agree with Pepper.What would she need to test you for?
If I read the post right, she is not giving you any signals at all.
She is just enjoying her life and having fun.
Conquer seems such a chauvinis... (read in full...)
I've made my life again and I'm terrified to go back with him in case he hurts me...
Q. well people hello. I'm a 16 years old and need advice from you people. It's just 3 days since my ex and I got in touch. We are friends for now..!! met hi yesterday.. talked lots.. do you people think that I should get back into this relationship ...
A. 18 November 2008: Bryanz...Hmmm where did I hear that?
Isn't the same Bryanz who yesterday asked advice about his girl friend having sex with him when she walked in and erm...caught him redhanded?
Isn't it the same Bryanz who asked us females to stay away from his... (read in full...)
I've made my life again and I'm terrified to go back with him in case he hurts me...
Q. well people hello. I'm a 16 years old and need advice from you people. It's just 3 days since my ex and I got in touch. We are friends for now..!! met hi yesterday.. talked lots.. do you people think that I should get back into this relationship ...
A. 18 November 2008: Dear May I please say if a guy ditches you,you don't become a total loser.In India where everyone's IQ almost breaks the meter you need to be pretty competitive.If you study well you become successful.That makes you a total winner.
At your age ... (read in full...)
My brothers are driving me insane!
Q. My brothers are driving me insane. I (im 27) have two older brothers. Well one of them decided to cheat on his girlfriend (call him David) she threw him out. David lived with our other brother, Jeremey (not he's real name). David slept with Jerem...
A. 18 November 2008: I have to go with qcumbr here.something doesn't ring true.
But if this is indeed a genuine post,You don't get to select the people you are born with.You can at least lend an ear for your other brother.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a man to stare at pretty, young teenagers?
Q. is it normal for a man to look at pretty young teenagers? yes of course it is but he really stares, when out shopping or going for a meal i can see him as he examines them from head to foot when he thinks i am not looking, this year when we were ...
A. 18 November 2008: Mr.Anon I should have written Most of the men look.I work in a male dominated field.I have seen almost all the guys I know ogle.I am glad to know there are some exceptions out there.I am sorry still tough to believe though.... (read in full...)
What makes a guy attractive?
Q. Hello, I just have a quick question, sorry if it sounds ignorant. I have tried to figure this out, but I have failed. What makes a guy physically attractive? I know that it's really the personality and all, but being attractive doesn't hurt, so I ...
A. 18 November 2008: Wash your hair.Keep it clean.Comb it.As long as it doesn't look like a sparrow's nest its fine.No one would ask you to look like a model for the shampoo ad.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a man to stare at pretty, young teenagers?
Q. is it normal for a man to look at pretty young teenagers? yes of course it is but he really stares, when out shopping or going for a meal i can see him as he examines them from head to foot when he thinks i am not looking, this year when we were ...
A. 17 November 2008: Sad News on Dear Cupid Channel at 5:00 AM India Time.
Every Man looks.The ones who are sensitive to our feelings and loves us are discreet about it.
The ones that aren't sensitive and don't care about us do it openly.Its very embarras... (read in full...)
Some of his friends are telling me he fancies me, should I show interest or what, I'm not sure?
Q. Hiya, there is this guy that I've met a few times at parties because he is friends with some guys I know - I've always been slightly attracted to him but not in a way that I'd give it a second thought unless I saw him. Lately our mutual friends (...
A. 17 November 2008: I rely strictly on my instincts.They have served me well.Saved me from many a heart break.Helped me understand people much better.
I have a feeling that they are playing a practical joke but not on you.on him.
Since you think he is a nice per... (read in full...)
It was a genuine accident and now she won't talk to me!
Q. I was skate boarding with my girlfriend yesterday . She was wearing a tube top. I kept offering my hoodie to her top cause her looked like it going to fall down. Well I trip on something and I grabbed the first thing I could her tube top. It came ...
A. 17 November 2008: Did you understand us at all?All of us are telling you the same thing.you deserve to get dumped.If I were the girl I wouldn't even want to look at you again.... (read in full...)
Do all men picture women they fancy naked in their minds eye?
Q. Okay so here is something I have come across that I'm quite perplexed about. My ex claims that all men picture women naked at the least the one's that are attractive anyway. What happens when it's a co-worker? and the guy is in a relationship tha...
A. 17 November 2008: I have a feeling all men do this.They are programmed that way.If you find a man who is not going to tell this to you, he would probably be fantasizing in private with out telling you.Honesty is much better.I do think he should have been sensitive to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is not ready for sex... what can I do?
Q. I want to have sex with my girlfriend as we are living with each other since last 3 yrs i told her i can use condom while doing sex but yet she is not ready for doing sex wht should i do?...
A. 17 November 2008: If you guys are in the age range of 18-21 you must still be at college.Are your parents fine with this?Living together story doesn't strike true.... (read in full...)
Any tips on writing adverts for dating sites?
Q. Has anyone got any tips on writing a good advert to be put on sites like plentyoffish.com? Also, I'm not very good at replying to adverts? Anyone got any hints for replies?...
A. 17 November 2008: Be yourself.Do not try to pretend.Let people who reply to your adverts see the real you.The relationship holds a much better chance to last out that way.All the best.... (read in full...)
How do I get over feeling down about my girlfriend being so much better than me at everything?
Q. I'm in a relationship with a wonderful woman. Lately however, she and I are both kinda down. The relationship is great but the rest of both our lives isn't going as well as we'd like it to. Lately I've been feeling ridiculously down on myself. I ...
A. 17 November 2008: If you love someone you will feel proud that they are better at things than you.you definitely don't love her.These problems can turn menacing later.May I please suggest that you see a counselor.There are things in you character that would be best ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he will cheat on me like he did on his ex gf with me, what should I do?
Q. hey guys i need some help... rite this weekend i organised a romantic weekend away for me and my boyfriend ... i decorated the room with candles and petals and i know he really apprieciated the gesture... when we did get back to the hotel for this ...
A. 17 November 2008: This is the problem of being the other woman.we are human beings after all.The question "Is he going to cheat me the way he did with his ex" is never going to leave your mind.If trust is not there then there is no love.If love is not there there is ... (read in full...)
Some of his friends are telling me he fancies me, should I show interest or what, I'm not sure?
Q. Hiya, there is this guy that I've met a few times at parties because he is friends with some guys I know - I've always been slightly attracted to him but not in a way that I'd give it a second thought unless I saw him. Lately our mutual friends (...
A. 17 November 2008: In order to answer your question lil sis,I need to know a few things from you.
1)Are you the nerdy type of girl who is more into books than lipstick?
2)or Are you the girl who guys always keep staring at and turn to give a second look?
3)In sch... (read in full...)
It was a genuine accident and now she won't talk to me!
Q. I was skate boarding with my girlfriend yesterday . She was wearing a tube top. I kept offering my hoodie to her top cause her looked like it going to fall down. Well I trip on something and I grabbed the first thing I could her tube top. It came ...
A. 16 November 2008: Goodness Emily!What a fantastic answer!!
If you hadn't laughed at her and hugged her to cover her up from your friends eyes it would have been a different story.It would take her a long time to get over this traumatic incident.If I were you I wo... (read in full...)
What makes a guy attractive?
Q. Hello, I just have a quick question, sorry if it sounds ignorant. I have tried to figure this out, but I have failed. What makes a guy physically attractive? I know that it's really the personality and all, but being attractive doesn't hurt, so I ...
A. 16 November 2008: Oh my goodness I forgot to add uncut fingernails are a definite No No.As you can see everyone's taste of who a hot guy is differs.Being clean and fairly well turned out everyday according to the dictates of fashion help.... (read in full...)
What makes a guy attractive?
Q. Hello, I just have a quick question, sorry if it sounds ignorant. I have tried to figure this out, but I have failed. What makes a guy physically attractive? I know that it's really the personality and all, but being attractive doesn't hurt, so I ...
A. 16 November 2008: Eyes are the windows to a man's soul.I have always loved Honey brown eyes and tasty looking lips.A killer smile.Little Mannerisms that guys don't seem to know that they have.If they wear a full sleeved shirt some guys try to adjust it by bringing ... (read in full...)
Anyone know about any home remedy for breast enlargement?
Q. best home remedy for breast enlargement.i m 19 years old.i really feel shy in wearing tops....
A. 15 November 2008: Nope.No home remedies.Try visiting a Kerala Kottakal Arya Vaidya Sala.They have branches all over India.Their Ayurvedic doctors might help you.Give it a chance.
I understand in India other girls might put you down for having small brea... (read in full...)
I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. We have both cheated, and now we are living apart. Where did we go wrong ?
Q. I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. The issues releted to bad very infrequent sex. Discussed this with my wife many times but she did not change. She just did not care for me and was always more engrossed in her ...
A. 7 November 2008: "After reading your responses I had made up my mind to break the thread - you have your views I have mine - and it seems the two shall never meet - I only wish i could have come face to face with you - spoken for a few hours - conveyed what I cannot ... (read in full...)
I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. We have both cheated, and now we are living apart. Where did we go wrong ?
Q. I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. The issues releted to bad very infrequent sex. Discussed this with my wife many times but she did not change. She just did not care for me and was always more engrossed in her ...
A. 6 November 2008: I have been brought up in India.So a very sheltered upbringing.Heck my bro once bashed up a guy who tried to come close to me.
I am married now.So I can safely say in order to have kids you need to have sex.
Am telling you the backgrou... (read in full...)
I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. We have both cheated, and now we are living apart. Where did we go wrong ?
Q. I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. The issues releted to bad very infrequent sex. Discussed this with my wife many times but she did not change. She just did not care for me and was always more engrossed in her ...
A. 6 November 2008: I have been brought up in India.So a very sheltered upbringing.Heck my bro once bashed up a guy who tried to come close to me.
I am married now.So I can safely say in order to have kids you need to have sex.
Am telling you the backgrou... (read in full...)
I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. We have both cheated, and now we are living apart. Where did we go wrong ?
Q. I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. The issues releted to bad very infrequent sex. Discussed this with my wife many times but she did not change. She just did not care for me and was always more engrossed in her ...
A. 30 October 2008: First and foremost don't ever call me Dear.you give me the creeps."Sleep was paramount or her schoolwork"??When on earth did anyone ever call Lawyer's work as schoolwork in India?Maybe your wife has a totally new story to tell.A person who cannot ... (read in full...)
I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. We have both cheated, and now we are living apart. Where did we go wrong ?
Q. I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. The issues releted to bad very infrequent sex. Discussed this with my wife many times but she did not change. She just did not care for me and was always more engrossed in her ...
A. 25 October 2008: Talk about Double standards.I understand and agree she was not right in not telling you about an affair she had before marriage.But hey you are having an affair right now during your marriage.Have you told her about it.Does that sound fair to you.In ... (read in full...)
| Bugs's friends
These are mutual friends, so Bugs has
added them and they have added Bugs!
|
