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Is there anything I can do to increase my chances of getting pregnant?

Q.   me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for the last 2 years and i still haven't concived. i came of the pill just over two years ago and although my periods have returned to normal its still difficult to get pregant. i had a misscarrige ...

A.   25 January 2008: I have heard it takes an AVERAGE of 2 years (so that means sometimes more) once you quit the pill to get pregnant. But if you're worried, I would seek medical advice. Sorry I can't tell you what exactly to do. But a doctor will be able to. Hope ... (read in full...)

Can you break a penis?

Q.   I know this sounds totally ridiculous, but can you break a penis? Is this possible? Just seen as you can break an arm or a leg, why shouldn't you be able to break a penis?...

A.   25 January 2008: you can't break it in the sense of breaking a bone. But I have heard of a man sustaining an injury to an erect penis that left it crooked (also known as 'breaking' it). However, I would not worry about this. Just be nice to the little guy and no ... (read in full...)

Could he epidural have anything to do with the pain she gets after I finger her??

Q.   Hello everybody, my girlfriend and I have been going out for about a year now and everything has been going amazing. At about six months we started to mess around more. I have always respected her and she is the person who always tells me when she...

A.   25 January 2008: It's not you. She should seek medical advice. Not to scare you, but this sounds like a problem that needs to be addressed. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants me to give him oral sex but I don't want to...what should I do??

Q.   My boyfriend wants me to preform oral sex but I don't want to. What should I do?...

A.   25 January 2008: When you're ready to do it, do it. But just remember that you can't expect it from him if you're not doing it. That isn't fair and he may feel hurt by always giving you pleasure without you returning the favor. I used to find it kinda gross and ... (read in full...)

What shall I do?? I can't have him because his family won't permit it but I can't be without him.

Q.   hello. I'm a 22 years old Muslim Asian girl (i'm a Malays). I'm studying in one private college in my country and it is the same place that i have met my bf. My bf is a foreign student from Arabs. We have been together almost 3 years. He is fro...

A.   25 January 2008: I know cultural differences and religion sometimes rule our lives. But I also believe you should be with the one you truly love. If you are both willing to make sacrifices (religion, culture, maybe family) to be together and be happy, then do it. ... (read in full...)

Deep down I am not ready for this type of relationship...but could letting him go be a big mistake??

Q.   For over two years i have been dating the same guy. He is great, funny, nice, loving... But lately, especially over the last few months i have been questioning our relationship. Our families have different religions and he will never agree with min...

A.   25 January 2008: It sounds like you already know, but are just afraid to make the move. I have this problem right now, where my guy says the same thing... I'm just not 'the one.' and I love him like crazy. People keep telling me that if he really loves me, he will ... (read in full...)

Is cyber sex cheating??

Q.   Is cyber sex cheating? I have a bf but i ended up having cyber sex just once with one of my friends i met online. Should i tell my bf? My bf and i have been together for 2 months now, we havent told eachother we loved eachother, so it hasent g...

A.   25 January 2008: Think of it this way, would you want him doing this to you? If it would bother you, then perhaps you should rethink what you are doing. If it wouldn't bother you, then perhaps you should discuss your relationship and be honest. If he feels the ... (read in full...)

I am 19 and surrounded by women I feel I can't communicate with.

Q.   I need help, i am a 19 year old guy who has problems approaching women. I am a pretty good looking guy but i just can't build up the nerve to do it. I plan on what i will do then i chicken out. I am in college and surrounded by women that i f...

A.   25 January 2008: Women love complements, so there's a good start. Tell her you like her hair or her t-shirt (ask where she got it). It doesn't have to come across like a pick up line. Just say it and carry on for the day. The next day, ask her something like ... (read in full...)

Can you Persuade an ex, that you should be together, and give it another go?

Q.   My boyfriend and I were together for a year and just split up recently. I am in my late twenties; ten years younger than him. In the beginning, he pursued me strongly. I wanted to start slow. When we were together, we were great and got along ...

A.   25 January 2008: last night's exercise class we talked, perhaps too much. I put on my best 'I'm okay' face, and he appeared happy too. I said 'so how have things been going? I haven't talked to you in a week and we used to talk every night.' He replied that it ... (read in full...)

13 and havent had my period...is this normal??

Q.   Hi i'm 13 and i haven't had my period yet. Is this bad? also even if i haven't had my period masturbation is still ok right?...

A.   24 January 2008: NORMAL 100%! Some girls don't get it until they're 16. When you get it, you'll wish you didn't have it, so enjoy the maxipad-less freedom. And as for masturbation, it's perfectly okay. Do it and enjoy it. :)... (read in full...)

Do I stay with my partner just to keep my family together or risk giving everything up for this new guy?

Q.   ive been with my partner for 10 years now and we have 2 children together.he was my first love and we got together when i was only 16. things havent always been good but we recently moved house away from friends and family to make a fresh start bu...

A.   24 January 2008: Think long and hard about why you want out of the marriage, what's at stake, and what's to gain. If you absolutely cannot see yourself continuing a loving relationship with your husband, it might be best to part. Don't stay together just for the ... (read in full...)

I am scared to lose him!

Q.   me and this guy really like each other but were not going out at the moment because he is under massive stress having to do with a very, very bad childhood and now he is having to deal with some issues. but he has assurred me that he does like me ...

A.   24 January 2008: You know, I had a rough childhood too. My parents divorced, they used to fight horribly, and one of them had anger issues and a drinking problem. As a result, I had troubles dating throughout my teen years. I always picked the wrong guys and they ... (read in full...)

He slept with someone else and hurt me...is this a sign I need to run faraway??

Q.   Hello there, I was madly in love with my ex bf. We called it quits last month because he told me cheated and also because the long distance was too hard for him. So I let him go as he wanted. We continued to keep in touch via phone, talking a...

A.   24 January 2008: run far away. Even if he does convince you he's still worthy of your love, you will probably never fully trust him again and it will nag at your mind (speaking from past experience). Do you want that? You should not lie to him or play such min... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't like me if he doesn't call??

Q.   I met a great guy at a party on Saturday. He goes to my school but I really don't know much about him except that he's cute, funny, plays guitar and is flirty. I thought we hit it off and when I went home I couldn't sleep, because of him. I calle...

A.   24 January 2008: you've called him already... twice. the ball is now in his court to call back. if he likes you, he'll call you back within a week. the unwritten rules of dating...... (read in full...)

How can I get my ex back?

Q.   hi, this sounds really stupid but i need help on how to get an old boyfreind back we split late last year, he ended it, but i still have feelings for him, guess it was because he was my first. but ive still got his number and know where he lives but ...

A.   24 January 2008: It's a hard thing to do, but I usually choose the 'heart-on-my-sleeve' route. Just flat out tell him that you miss him, wish things could be more, and that you'd like to try to work things out between you and him. Tell him to think about it for a ... (read in full...)

Does anyone know any good sex games to play?

Q.   ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we get on so well, i want to try and improve our sex life slightly by bringing in games, does any one know any good sex games to play?...

A.   24 January 2008: I tried the game thing with guys in the past. I always felt that it was too planned. So I would try little things that were somewhat planned on my part, but that he was oblivious to at the time. One time my friend had a theme b-day party where we ... (read in full...)

Can you Persuade an ex, that you should be together, and give it another go?

Q.   My boyfriend and I were together for a year and just split up recently. I am in my late twenties; ten years younger than him. In the beginning, he pursued me strongly. I wanted to start slow. When we were together, we were great and got along ...

A.   23 January 2008: Update: He usually gives me a ride to our exercise class, with we both participate in together. But since we broke up, I went by myself to class. At class, he couldn't even look at me and never talked to me, even to say hi. I expected as much... (read in full...)

Why did the pic of my ex and his gf...bother me soo much?

Q.   I just saw a picture of my ex-boyfriend- we broke up (I did the breaking) THREE years ago. I was with another guy for two and a half years! Still hung up on him. So, why did the picture of my former boyfriend with his girlfriend upset me? It really ...

A.   22 January 2008: Perhaps you are feeling lost in your own life (or love life) right now and the picture made you reminisce about the times you and he had. So naturally, thinking of that, you'd be jealous of the other woman. But really, you're just wishing you had ... (read in full...)

Should I tell her I still love her?

Q.   MY girlfriend and i broke up in november 07, our break up was due to the distance and it was getting a bit difficult.I was still in college and she was starting to work. Our break up was a very calm one, we broke up over the phone. I havent seen her ...

A.   22 January 2008: You wanted to break up in the first place right? So ask yourself, is wanting to get back together a result of her being unavailable? That might be the case. People often want what they can't have. Maybe you feel you made a mistake. So get your ... (read in full...)

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