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Need help with an English guy

Q.   i'm an asian expat in china. i broke up with my ex 7months ago but we have a 1year old kid so we still talk but everything is just about our kid. now here's the prob. i met this english guy in a social networking site and we had been talking ...

A.   1 December 2009: I just tell you please do not believe in on line relationship till you meet him in real life and you visit UK and see where he lives. I met a cheater and lier from Rochester NY throught internet. He told me he was so much in love with me and visi... (read in full...)

Are all the men on the internet cheaters?

Q.   I met a French man who lives in Rochester NY, in a dating website. He is a CEO and chairman one of big company is NY. He told me that he separated with his wife 5 years and had an unhappy marriage and already sent divorce dox to the court just ...

A.   26 October 2009: I do not know what happend between them and I really want to forget everything about that bad man. God gave into his hand what he deserved. I feel so sorry his wife. I wish all the best for her and God will bless her to get overcome this difficult ... (read in full...)

4 years affair and I don't think he's ever going to leave his wife

Q.   first of all im begging you all not to pass moral judgment however tempting it might me,, heres my problem ive been seeing a married man for 4 years..and hes been giving me hopes..that we could be together as his wife had an affair and hes n...

A.   10 October 2009: Do you know his wife called me told me I knew him married,(in fact I have no idea of this) his husband blamed all in me. My coward bf told his wife that I knew him married. and she chosen believe and stay with cheater. Only the woman, who no self ... (read in full...)

Should I just go on with my life or stay and work it out?

Q.   i've been married to my husband for 2 years. we've known each other for over 11 years. we have our share of problems almost everyday. we'll for start he cheated on me and it was going on for the 2 years we was separated. we decide to go into a ...

A.   3 October 2009: I can see your husband did not want this marriage, so he does not care your feeling. He does not respect you and does love you anymore. Life still continues my friend. I know you are in pain and you are hurt. You have past and long time with hi... (read in full...)

4 years affair and I don't think he's ever going to leave his wife

Q.   first of all im begging you all not to pass moral judgment however tempting it might me,, heres my problem ive been seeing a married man for 4 years..and hes been giving me hopes..that we could be together as his wife had an affair and hes n...

A.   3 October 2009: Do not go with married man. He lied and cheated both his wife and you. Do not believe him. HE will never leave his wife for you. If he can leave his wife for you, one day he will do the same for you. I move on with my life when I found him ma... (read in full...)

9 years of marriage, husband had affair while I was pregnant and I can't get over it

Q.   I am 'recovering' from my husbands affair. When I say recovering, what I actually mean is making very slow progress, which seems to relapse alot. We were married 9 years, I fell pregnant last year. I had the perfect pregnancy , my husband was s...

A.   3 October 2009: I am so sorry you are in pain and hurt of your husband affair. Anyway if he repent what he has done and try to get back your relationship, you should give him a second chance. Think about yourself and your baby. I know you are hurt but time wil... (read in full...)

Are all the men on the internet cheaters?

Q.   I met a French man who lives in Rochester NY, in a dating website. He is a CEO and chairman one of big company is NY. He told me that he separated with his wife 5 years and had an unhappy marriage and already sent divorce dox to the court just ...

A.   3 October 2009: I wonder how many men like this cheater went to dating websites to cheat? I hate cheaters and liars very much. In my work I am always far away from married men, but I met him. He thought he would have his cake and eat it and he got caught. He never ... (read in full...)

I'm finding it so hard to let her go, but if she wants to live her life like this should I just accept it and move on?

Q.   I have been married for 19 years, I am 64 my wife is 48. We have a son aged 15. It has been a happy marriage, we were both in love and have a wonderful life, great house, great cars, health, great holidays. My wife also has a great stable ...

A.   28 September 2009: Sorry for your unhappy marriage. You are so much in love with, but she does not love you. You have only one life and you deserve better. You are already 64. It is difficult to restart again. I do not know you but I never accept lie and cheat. I do ... (read in full...)

8 years chatting with a man almost 30 years older than me!

Q.   Hi, Aged 16 (just) I began going on internet chat rooms, it was a phase that lasted only a few months however, I began chatting with a man aged 48. We have continued chatting over the past 8 years(!) though have both long since abandoned going ...

A.   27 September 2009: Please lock your chat account and stop to chat with him. He is too old for you, you are too young. You can find someone better to be your bf. Do not continue to chat with him. Move on with your life.... (read in full...)

My husband's 3rd affair and I feel nothing

Q.   I am at a cross roads, I confirmed on Friday, what I knew in my mind for a couple of months, that my husband is having another affair. This will be the third affair I know of, and in the very early days he had a few one night stands. We have been ...

A.   27 September 2009: Dear My friend, Please leave him and never look back. Once cheater always cheater and will not be change. He will going to do this again and you no need to try again. Life still is beautiful w/o him. Live happy and forget about him.... (read in full...)

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