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... Send *ruce lee a private message | | | *ruce lee's profile:i am not really qualified to help people but I like to give advice. if anyone wants to send me a private message, feel free. not many people know where to find the right advice when they are going through a hard emotional time. when we feel inside us that something is not right, we must reach out and talk about it with someone.
the yin and yang symbol represents my even-handed approach to situations. there is good and bad in everything. that's the way i look at it.
no-one in this world is going to back you up if you have a big argument with someone, whether you're in the right or the wrong. so being right is not always important. getting your own way is what counts.
and at the end of the day, nothing in life is certain. whether that's good or bad, it's just the way it is i guess. we live in the present moment. We do not dwell on past regrets and we don't worry about future concerns. a good marriage is a lot like a novel. it is fun.
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26 April 2010: Do women like men who are a bit cocky and arrogant? Or do they prefer snesitive new age guys? Some women, I've heard, like men who exude confidence. Is this a dumb question? Help me out here. I want to get women on side, so they stop pulling faces ...
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Fed up with life - and I'm only 16
Q. I'm so sick of my life, I'm 16 and it's Friday night and I'm sat inside which is what I'll be doing all weekend. How can I gain confidence to get myself out there? I feel like I'm missing out on so much and feel there's nothing I can do about it....
A. 23 April 2010: Why don't you buy a can of beer somewhere and drink it? Just get your dad to buy it for you. If that sounds like a boring idea, go for a walk around the block and feel sorry for yourself. Sometimes, it's good to indulge in self-pity.
When I wa... (read in full...)
I'm tired of playing games with women
Q. Is it a good idea for me to isolate myself from women forever? I don't think anything good can come out of a relationship for me, and I often worry about catching STDs. I have had it off with prostitutes before. I don't think I have any STDs...
A. 23 April 2010: There's this Parish Priest who walks up to the Pope, gets down on his knees, and says "Your holiness. I don't know what to do. I see so much suffering in the world and I do not belive in God any more."
And you know what the Pope says?
"F... (read in full...)
Is visiting a live porn room with cameras the same as watching porn videos?
Q. How do I interpret the fact that my boyfriend of over 10 years visits live porn rooms? I found out about the online porn videos and live rooms 5 o 6 years into our relationship and found it in my heart to get past it after he agreed not to visit ...
A. 23 April 2010: Well, I don't know how to break this to you but he's a guy. Boys will be boys. It's an old saying.
The thrill of looking at porn is something a lot of people can't resist. I doubt that he's going to change. You either dump him or learn to live... (read in full...)
Closeted lesbian, homophobic society and loveless relationship, please help!
Q. I am a 30yr old lesbian from a small town in India. I have a problem which is weighing my heart down because ending my 5 yr relationship seems to be the only solution, i can formulate. I hope you will be patient in reading my letter and giving me ...
A. 23 April 2010: I think you should speak to a counsellor or Psychiatrist. I am not saying that what you are doing is disgusting. I am saying that you obviously have some issues that need to be sorted out. You seem like a nice person. I don't know what your ... (read in full...)
What's the best way of telling my parents I am pregnant?
Q. hi guys, ive just found out that im pregnant and i want to tell my parents but am scared that they will be dissapointed in me. How can i help them understand that its what i want to do. ...
A. 23 April 2010: There is no easy way around this. Maybe you should wait till they are in a good mood, and then blurt it out. Make a few jokes about it. Get them laughing, then you will laugh, then you will all live happily ever after.
They are going to find... (read in full...)
I'm tired of playing games with women
Q. Is it a good idea for me to isolate myself from women forever? I don't think anything good can come out of a relationship for me, and I often worry about catching STDs. I have had it off with prostitutes before. I don't think I have any STDs...
A. 23 April 2010: Well, I've thought about it now for a few hours. And not much has changed in how I feel. But yes, the Asperger's Syndrome could have something to do with this. My friends treat me like dirt sometimes though, and I can't stand some of my family ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of playing games with women
Q. Is it a good idea for me to isolate myself from women forever? I don't think anything good can come out of a relationship for me, and I often worry about catching STDs. I have had it off with prostitutes before. I don't think I have any STDs...
A. 23 April 2010: What made me give up? Someone asks what made me give up? I'm not really giving up. I'm cutting my losses. My first kiss was with a prostitute. Yuk!
I have never been kissed by a woman without having to pay her money, so it's all quite depr... (read in full...)
How can we make kissing more fun?
Q. Okay so my boyfriend and i are getting more used to each other.. Lifes not so complacted right now.. Everytime we make out we dont really move much we dont make it fun.. its like we just sit there.. i need help on how to make kissing him more fun...
A. 23 April 2010: I think you should take him to the beach, and kiss him there. The crashing of the waves might make it more romantic. And you can kiss him on the neck sometimes. That might make him more frisky.
Make sure you don't do anything you don't want... (read in full...)
Will any man love an ashamed ex-prostitute?
Q. I am from an abusive family and at the age of 16 I ran away from home. I am ashamed to admit this but I turned to prostitution. I did this for a few months. It is a dark depressing period in my life. I eventually moved in with a friend from ...
A. 22 April 2010: Well, this is a good question. I am just guessing here but I think most decent guys would understand. As an adult, I can say that we don't live in the perfect world.
We live in a terrible world. But there are good guys out there who will unde... (read in full...)
Believeable or Just Another Lie?
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend going on 3yrs. and he use to tell me about his exes and the sexual experiences he's had even once said one of them gave better head than me but this third year in our relationship we got into an extreme argument, you ...
A. 22 April 2010: This is just my opinion but I'm not sure if you have been 100 percent honest with your story. Unless this guy is just a low-life pathetic loser, he might be embarrassed about having been a virgin for a long period of time. It's a fifty-fifty ... (read in full...)
They're acting like they're still in high school!
Q. I love my boyfriend, but can't stand his friends. I know I have no right to interfere with his friendships, but I feel incredibly uncomfortable and would love an objective opinion of how to handle this situation. My boyfriend of over a year went...
A. 22 April 2010: Now now, you could say to your boyfriend that he needs to clean up his act. Use simple language, get straight to the point, and explain that if all this nonsense doesn't stop...you are leaving.
Repeat this to him in these exact word... (read in full...)
I've been offered to appear in an adult film. Any advice as to what goes on behind the scenes?
Q. I have been with my partner for 8 years and we have a solid relationship, in the past we have had threesomes with single men/woman and couples, it's never been something we do all of the time, just on the odd occasion, I have recently been offered ...
A. 22 April 2010: It's not a good idea. In ten or fifteen years time, you might see it as the biggest mistake of your life. But I guess you have to do what you think is right at the time. And it's a question of what you're willing to live with.
That's what I al... (read in full...)
Should I write my crush a letter expressing how I feel?
Q. I have had a thing for my teacher for a while now, but he doesn't teach me and never has he just works at my school.. I don't want advise on how to get him or anything like that but I just want to know peoples opinions on me writing him a letter ...
A. 22 April 2010: Ah, no.
Once when I was 28, I wrote a crush letter to a woman who was about 26, and someone else got hold of the letter and showed it to other people. It was embarrassing and I ended up verbally abusing the person who opened the enve... (read in full...)
Is it the right thing to do to warn a partner we might not look so great when naked?
Q. I think as we get older, we become a bit less selfish. But even though that is a good thing, it is a shame that we start to put on a bit of weight. Then when we strip naked before having sex, we have to warn the other person that we might not look ...
A. 22 April 2010: Sorry. I was just illustrating that guys prefer to be seen as heterosexual rather than bi or gay. I was a bit tired this morning as I had slept badly the night before. That's why I overreacted to @leastimtrying's comment. Or I misread it.
So t... (read in full...)
Is it the right thing to do to warn a partner we might not look so great when naked?
Q. I think as we get older, we become a bit less selfish. But even though that is a good thing, it is a shame that we start to put on a bit of weight. Then when we strip naked before having sex, we have to warn the other person that we might not look ...
A. 21 April 2010: Do not imply that I am bi or gay. When you suggest that a guy might be gay it is not funny, and you will receive a lower rating than what you would if you were polite. So @leastimtrying, keep that in mind.
Also, I would never imply that a woma... (read in full...)
Is it the right thing to do to warn a partner we might not look so great when naked?
Q. I think as we get older, we become a bit less selfish. But even though that is a good thing, it is a shame that we start to put on a bit of weight. Then when we strip naked before having sex, we have to warn the other person that we might not look ...
A. 21 April 2010: You know something? You are all very smart and your answers make sense. But I'm just saying that it wouldn't hurt to lose a bit of weight. And I have scars from an operation I had years ago.
I apologize for using the expression "have it off.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my teacher but he shows no interest in me!
Q. hi. please help me i have had hhe same Health and Physical Education teacher for the past 3 years. I am 15 turning 16 at the end of the year. I have completely fallen for him. He is 30 with a wife and two adorable children. I dream about him ...
A. 21 April 2010: Well, this is tough one. When I was 14, I had a crush on a female teacher but I never seriously thought of taking it a step further. It's kind of normal for someone your age to feel this way. But I don't think you should act on these thoughts ... (read in full...)
Best friends, or not?
Q. Ok, honestly, by best friend was a guy, but I never liked him more than a friend, I just want to make that clear. Here's my problem though, I had told him something that I didn't want anyone else to know, because it was REALLY private, then one day ...
A. 21 April 2010: I guess you have to do what you think is right at the time. And it's question of what you're willing to live with. I would give him one last chance. It depends on the situation, what he blurted out, but we all make mistakes.
The other ques... (read in full...)
My boyfriend simply will not satisfy me in bed.
Q. Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We have been reasonably happy except for in one regard: sex. He always wants a blowjob, but he never wants to go down on me or even manually stimulate me. He has only gone down on me 3-4 times ...
A. 20 April 2010: Well, I think you should do what you think is right at the time. And it's also a question of whether you can find a better guy somewhere else. It's quite simple.
He is a real loser by the sounds of it. If I was in a relationship with a woma... (read in full...)
Men don't really accept me for who I am!
Q. I have noticed a pattern in my relationships---the men don't seem to really accept me for who I am. I have a recent ex who did accept me, and does care for me, but due to our differences, decided that it would be best that we remain friends. ...
A. 20 April 2010: That men don't accept you for who you are even though you seem like a nice person is distubing. But the main thing is that at the end of the day, you know in your own heart that you've got class.
I don't think you are beneath anyone.
Yo... (read in full...)
Is it bad to masturbate so much?
Q. I am 14 years old and i watch porno. i watch the type of porno that is called hentai or animations "mangas" because they usally have stories. everytime i watch it after im done i go and masturbate. i done it a lot lately. at least 3 times a day. is ...
A. 18 April 2010: You are a naughty boy, aren't you? I suggest you don't tell anyone about this in person because once I told my mum about something like this, and she was disgusted.
Maybe you should go for a walk when you feel the urge, rather than seek... (read in full...)
Is this true about the black rose?
Q. I was told along time ago that there were a group of people like a club or a gang, that would sleep with you then send you a black rose or some flower that would say some thing like you have aids now welcome to the club is this true? and if it is ...
A. 18 April 2010: You can't wave a magic wand and make the world a better place. I have not heard of a club like this but it wouldn't surprise me if there was one. Some people are disgusting. There's no nice way of saying it.
Personally, I think anyone who send... (read in full...)
Afraid to be pregnant
Q. Hello to everyone! I am writing here because I wanted to hear your thoughts on this personal issue. I am a person who loves and adores kids. I always wanted to have children - to be a mom. I couldn't wait till I would be a mother to my children a...
A. 18 April 2010: You are very smart but you need to ask yourself the obvious question. What good will come out of having kids?
Only you can answer that for yourself. If you can come up with some good answers, you should go for it and have them. If you can'... (read in full...)
I am having a very hard time maintaining interest in other men. What should I do?
Q. Late last year I was approached by a man in a pub and he offered to buy me a drink. I initially declined but my friends pushed me to accept so I did; at the end of the night we exchanged numbers (he asked, I gave). We began to text, then spend some ...
A. 17 April 2010: Well, maybe you should ask God for help. And if that doesn't work, you can only do what you think is right at the time. And hope that he asks you out. Let him make the first move.
You are under no obligation to ask him out because he stuf... (read in full...)
Believeable or Just Another Lie?
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend going on 3yrs. and he use to tell me about his exes and the sexual experiences he's had even once said one of them gave better head than me but this third year in our relationship we got into an extreme argument, you ...
A. 16 April 2010: Well, this is weird. What I can't understand is why you have turned against him over something like this? Is it the lie that bothers you, or the head issue? This is a bit confusing for me as well. Maybe you should just tell him that if he wants head ... (read in full...)
My parents will not approve of the love of my life... help !
Q. Hi,, I am in love with the most amazing guy ever. We started off as friends but our feelings both grew until we eventually confessed our love to each other and decided to go for it. we are both muslims but from different cultural tribes. Most ...
A. 16 April 2010: The fact is your father will never approve of this relationship even though your mother might. You should think about it for a few more weeks before doing anything. Is money the issue here? That's the feeling I'm getting. If money is the issue, you ... (read in full...)
Lost my virginity and I just wanna cry...
Q. im 16 and i lost my virginity few days ago, i knew the guy who i done it with wasnt my boyfriend, but since he hasnt spoke to me, i know i was just a bootycall or whatever but now i feel like crapp, i jus wanna cry, i just dunnooooooo :(...
A. 15 April 2010: I'm not sure what prompts you to ask complete strangers a question like this. Maybe you should speak about it to someone you know. Enjoy the day though.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for considering abortion over bringing a child in to an unstable environment?
Q. Well, I been dating a guy for about seven months. I notice that he had several woman friends. I have issue with trusting him. I went by his house and notice a car park in his driveway, next to his. I knocked on the door several times he didnt answer ...
A. 15 April 2010: You have to do what you think is right at the time. And I guess it's a question of what you're willing to live with. But it's a tough one to call. I think whatever decision you make, you will have regrets.
Whether you have the abortion or not,... (read in full...)
Should I call it quits?
Q. I am a 21 year old female and I've been dating this guy who is older than me for 10 months. We have broken up a couple of times and gotten back together. We will be fine for a few weeks and then he disappears, doesn't call or answer phone calls from ...
A. 15 April 2010: Ask him if he ever thinks about other people, and if he gives you a sarcastic answer, tell him that the relationship will be finished unless he starts to show some respect.
That will get a response from him. Do it over the phone so he can'... (read in full...)
Should I just isolate myself from women forever?
Q. I unfortunately lost my virginity at the age of 30 to a prostitute, and I have gone through a lot of mixed emotions since. Does this mean I am abnormal? I feel disgusted with myself. Can someone say something to put my mind at ease? I am still 30 ...
A. 13 April 2010: I am a very proud man. I take things seriously and the experience of losing my virginity to a prostitute is something I will have to live with for the rest of my days. I must accept full responsibility and advise other young men who might feel ... (read in full...)
Should I just isolate myself from women forever?
Q. I unfortunately lost my virginity at the age of 30 to a prostitute, and I have gone through a lot of mixed emotions since. Does this mean I am abnormal? I feel disgusted with myself. Can someone say something to put my mind at ease? I am still 30 ...
A. 13 April 2010: Well, there are some interesting answers here. Some of you said "what's done is done" which is true. And yes, the answers were helpful. It is hard to know whether or not to just give up. But most of you are saying not to. It is easy to become ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to a prostitute. Is this common?
Q. I lost my virginity to a prostitute. Is this common?...
A. 12 April 2010: There is a strong side and a vulnerable side to everyone. If you listen to the strong side of your mind... you can say to yourself that it's no big deal. Or nothing to be ashamed of. But if you listen to the vulnerable side of yourself, you can ... (read in full...)
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