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- I'm 23. Which scares me. I swear I was 17 yesterday!!
- My family are completely disfunctional and I wouldnt have it any other way.
- I work in a nursing home. Yep - bathing old people, taking them to the toilet and playing bingo all afternoon. Ok its not the most glamorous of jobs but i absolutely LOVE it and cant see myself ever doing anything else. I'd rather do a job which is a bit on the disgusting side but someone could not live without me doing for them than sit at a checkout all day saying "would you like a hand to pack?"
- I think I'm a little bit psychic. No really, stop laughing. Sometimes i just "get feelings" about things and then it happens. its weird.
- I fall in love very quickly. Not easily - I have a lot of boxes that need to be ticked before i'll want him, but if i meet someone special who does tick all those boxes, i'm in love in a matter of days.
- Relationships and the thought of being in love terrifies me right now.
- On 4 July 2007 I almost died - it wasnt my time. someone was looking out for me. Thank you.
- I have a big heart and it gets bruised easily.
- I can see things clearer when i'm not involved. situations seem very obvious to me when its happening to someone else, but when its me its a different matter. Basically, i should take my own advice sometimes.
- i love socks
- If all goes to plan, 2008 is gonna be a big one for me! Not much happened in 2007 really and I can only blame myself for not getting off my big fat butt and making stuff happen. So in 08 I'm planning to work in Zante, Greece for 6 months and also hoping to do Volunteer work in Ghana in November.
- i'd rather be told to F**k off than ignored
- I sing into my hairbrush and dance around in my underwear
- Someone on here (i forget who) recommended a book called The Secret to me. It completely changed my life.
- I hate drama. But i have so much drama. If it can happen to someone, it will almost certainly happen to me!
- I dont like being called pretty. Its not a compliment. Tell me i'm nice / important to you / did something that made you feel good or smile. I dont care if i got lucky in the DNA department or not, its not something i've done or achieved.
- Music is my life
- im a big big big believer in fate and destiny and i truly believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason.
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His ex wont leave him alone
Q. I have been with my boyfriend just under a year. His ex is like a thorn in my side - she won't go away! Every time she crops up, it causes conflict in our relationship. We'll forget about her, then the next thing youknow she's textigm or c...
A. 17 December 2007: are you sure hes ignoring her? because after all this time, i dont think she would still contact him if she wasnt getting some sort of hope he still interested in her (im not saying its warranted, it could be something as simple as she misses him ... (read in full...)
Looking for an MSN relationship. How do I get into one? Please advise.
Q. im looking to meet someone over the internet then talk over msn. i dont want to meet them, im just looking to get some reationship exp, does anyone know any good places to meet people on the net?...
A. 23 October 2007: Be careful on the internet and I dont know if its a good idea to go LOOKING for an msn relationship but i understand what you mean.
Try www.faceparty.com, or www.bebo.com, i'm on both of them and they're pretty fun. just have a little look thr... (read in full...)
How does a person reclaim her dignity in a situation like this? He says I'm not mature enough to be friends with him after the break up...
Q. Hope someone can help. My boyfriend and I split about three months ago. The reason was that he was seeing someone else on and off. I could not handle it. I had wanted to meet to clear the air but he did not want to. That mean't that much of the ...
A. 20 October 2007: Ignore him completely. Its the only way really. If you contact him or keep trying to push the friends thing he'll think you still have feelings for him and still want him but hes moving on which does the exact opposite of give you your dignity ... (read in full...)
Women, on a date for coffee, what questions would annoy you?
Q. Girls, if you met a guy and went for a coffee, would you be annoyed if he asks about you, such as what do you usually do in your spare time? what colours do you like? what kind of music do you listen? whats your hobbies?,etc.....What questions will ...
A. 20 October 2007: they're all fine but be careful how you put them across. personally i dont like being asked outright "so what are your hobbies?" i just think its a cheesey question and it feels a bit awkward and like being interviewed. but maybe thats just me. keep ... (read in full...)
He's over me and I wish I could say the same about him
Q. Me and my ex have been broken up for about 3 months now, from our 2 year long relationship. I believe he's currently back with his ex, but I'm still feeling a sense of longing for him even though most of the pain has subsided. I still love and want ...
A. 20 October 2007: its natural to miss someone after spending two years together. its good that most of the pain has subsided in just a few months - i've seen break ups where thats taken up to a year. so you're doing really well and you're over the worst of it. keep ... (read in full...)
I lied to her and lost her trust, what can I do? I still love her and want to marry her
Q. I messed up really bad recently in my 3-year relationship. During those 3 years, we took a break for 4 months and I had a little bit more fun then I led her to believe. She asked me over and over again if I had done anything at all and I denied it ...
A. 20 October 2007: ok. i have been in this EXACT situation this year. exactly..except i'm your girlfriend.
my boyfriend and i went on a break and he told me he was texting another girl to stop him from being lonely but it wasnt really anything. turns out he was spen... (read in full...)
He jacked off earlier and told me during sex why he was taking so long. It made me angry!
Q. Recently my bf and i were having sex and he was taking a really long time... so I started to feel self-concsious that I was doing something wrong. Then he said "Don't worry... it's not your fault... I "jacked off" today." I was so mad and hurt by...
A. 19 October 2007: Don't overreact to it. Its ok if you dont want to know but at the same time, wouldnt you rather know thats why it was taking so long than worry he wasnt attracted to you anymore or that you werent any good? He didnt say it because he was trying to ... (read in full...)
How do you win back a lost love?
Q. I would like to open a topic of conversation for anyone with knowledge about what it takes to win back a lost love. Especially one who seems to still be interested but trying to act cool so it isn't showing or at least he doens't think it is. Cause ...
A. 18 October 2007: i think the biggest thing here is to give the person space. let them miss you, if you give them a few days or weeks however long feels right then back off completely for a while then lay it all out on the table and tell them exactly how you feel. ... (read in full...)
Something's wrong with me cuz I dumped a loser?
Q. What do you guys think of a 29 year old guy thta lives with his mom and dad, doesn't lift a finger to help his mom around the house who works midnights in a nursing home and is in her 60's, does not work and has not worked in 1.5 years, says ...
A. 18 October 2007: oh my days what a loser. he is obviously a very sad little man and you need to just completely ignore him. hopefully he will get bored and find someone else to stalk! i think the problem is that he doesnt have a life. he doesnt have a job doesnt go ... (read in full...)
Should I have kids with my boyfriend when I can see an example of what our kids will be like?
Q. I'm 24 years old and my boyfriend is 26. We have been dating for 2 years now. We are planning to move in soon. I was just thinking the other day I don't think I want to have a kid with him. I love him dearly, but I don't know if I can stand for my ...
A. 18 October 2007: i think a lot of it depends how the child is raised. you're boyfriends daughter was raised by him so its natural for her to be like him. she has been taught by his example. i do think that personality is somewhat affected by nature but most of it is ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and shy. I'm too young for bars, so can anyone recommend where I can got to meet women?
Q. Hi there i'm 17 year old male looking for a raltionship... the problem is as i'm only 17 i can't go to bars to meet women. I'm a really shy guy so i was wondering if anyone could recommend any places i can meet girls? also i have a full time job wo...
A. 17 October 2007: you can meet women any time you want. we're everywhere! its just getting into a scenario where you can approach one. the biggest advice i can give you is us girls love a compliment! if you approach a girl and tell her you just wanted to introduce ... (read in full...)
I went to Japan to vist my gf for our anniversary and her parents say I'm stalking her and will call the police!! I can't even speak w/ her now b/c of them!
Q. im a 17 yr old guy,me and this girl have been together for a year and a half,she went to japan with a couple people from her shcool and 2 teachers,before she went to japan she grabbed me by the hands and said that she wanted to celebrate our 2 years ...
A. 17 October 2007: wow. if everything is as straight forward as you say, her parents have completely overreacted. providing there is nothing else thats happened beforehand to make them think you should stay away from her (im not saying there is but there are two sides ... (read in full...)
I took her off my top friends list, now she won't ask me out,
Q. hi i wrote a post on hear last week because my gf(ex) had dumped me and was needin some help\advice getting over her but today she came online and said that she was goin 2 ask me 2 go out with her againbut had decided not to because i had took her ...
A. 15 October 2007: i'm with tommy7. that isnt why she won't ask you out, shes playing games with you and being mean. i dont know why she wont get back with you but i do know that nobody would not be with someone they wanted because of a myspace top friends list. its ... (read in full...)
She got violently raped and beaten 8 months ago. Since then I try to make her feel loved and comfortable but it's getting so difficult I am thinking of leaving her. What can I do? She does go counsellig.
Q. Ive been with my girlfriend for 4 years we have lived together for about 2 years as well and we are very in love. Everything was great until she got violently raped and beaten badly about 8 months ago. She ended up in the hospital for about 4 ...
A. 13 October 2007: wow. this question really touched me and i feel like i wanna do anything i can to help you and your girlfriend get through this tough time. but theres not a lot i can do to help her - which is probably exactly how you feel too.
it sounds to me li... (read in full...)
I'm jealous that my ex hasn't invited me to their party. Am I just being immature?
Q. My ex is havin a party tonight and for some stupid reason Im upset that I havent been invited - even though we broke up a month ago. Everyone is goin, even my friends, and I cant be angry with them for goin as its not their business that me and him ...
A. 13 October 2007: i dont think you're overreacting. its only been a month since you split up and it is a bit of a kick in the teeth that he's not invited you. but maybe its just that he thought it would be awkward if he did invite you or that you would've said no.
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How to tell my boyfriend I'm in love with his best friend.
Q. SO THERE ARE THESE TWO GUYS. WHOM ARE BEST FRIENDS. AND IM DATING ONE OF THEM BUT I REALLY WANT THE OTHER. THEY ARE BOTH SOOO SWEET BUT I THINK IM IN LOVE WITH THE ONE IM NOT DATING. I HAVE NO CLUE WAT TO DO OR HOW TO TELL MY BF IM IN LOVE WITH HIS ...
A. 11 October 2007: you need to split up with your boyfriend regardless of what happens with his friend. its not fair on him to be with someone who wants his mate and its not fair on you to be with someone you dont really want. that relationship is already over, you ... (read in full...)
Do I need to move on? Does he still love me?
Q. I'm still in love with my ex. We were only together for 10 months but i've never loved anyone as much as i love him. Everyone said how perfect we were together, we were so alike but at the same time we were so different. We lived 144 miles apart an...
A. 11 October 2007: I think if he is saying you need time, he means you both need time to move on. which tells me he doesnt want to get back together. you need to look at the reasons for the break up. it just wasnt working and the distance was too much and too ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my mom my period has just started when I'm only 10 years old??
Q. HELP! I'm 10 years old and today I started my period in school today for the first time! I didn't tell my mom or the nurse. So so far no one knows except me of course. But I don't know how to tell my mom. She told me one of her freind's daughter is ...
A. 11 October 2007: you just have to tell her. 10 is young but thats all the more reason for you to have your mum supporting you - its a big change and its kinda scary. i promise you your mum will be supportive, maybe a little surprised but not disappointed or upset.
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Where can I find information about having periods? I'm 10 and very new to it. Please help me.
Q. Hi, I just recently put up a question about how to talk to my mom about my period just starting since I'm 10 years old. DOn't give me any advice on that now plese. I have a bunch of questions about periods. Like, how long does the bleeding last? Or ...
A. 11 October 2007: hi i did a quick google search for you. try this website out
http://www.avert.org/puberty2.htm
basically, the bleeding lasts about 5 - 7 days roughly, there is usually more blood in the first couple of days then it gets lighter near the end. an... (read in full...)
I have Bulimia and I need help. I think I might be killing myself.
Q. I'm 19 and I've suffered from bulimia since i was 11 years old but now although i acknowledge there’s a problem I’m terrified to get help. I’m also highly worried about what i have done to my body and the irreversible damage I may have caused, I’m ...
A. 7 October 2007: hey you,
first of all congratulations on realising you have a problem with food and it is something you WANT to stop. Thats the hardest part done.
from what you said your height and weight are, i calculated your BMI on http://www.nhlbi... (read in full...)
I am in love with my sisters husband
Q. i am 18yrs old, i m in luv wth 39yrs old man(my sisters husband) and he love me too. but he is married and has a kid. the worst part of it is that we live in the same house. He is nice and lovely. He respects me a lot, but sometimes when we are ...
A. 4 October 2007: you are being incredibly selfish. all you are thinking about is yourself and how much of a problem it is for you that this man has a wife and a child...the wife and child in question are your family! why on earth would you do something so cruel and ... (read in full...)
His ex wont leave him alone
Q. I have been with my boyfriend just under a year. His ex is like a thorn in my side - she won't go away! Every time she crops up, it causes conflict in our relationship. We'll forget about her, then the next thing youknow she's textigm or c...
A. 4 October 2007: I'm with you. I would find it hard too. Why hasnt she moved on? She's with someone else, and he is too. She ruined the relationship now she needs to deal with what she did and p off.
your boyfriend is also responsible for you feeling like this tho... (read in full...)
I have pain in my hip and stomache. Any idea what it could be?
Q. hey for the past 3 days ive had really bad pains by my right hip and stomach and they wont go does anyone have any ideas what it could be ...
A. 4 October 2007: it could be any number of things from a pulled muscle to chlamydia. you need to see your doctor to find out what it is
brooke
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SITE NEWS: Wanted, your ideas for features and improvements!
Q. Hi I'm looking to get some input from everyone on what you'd like to see on the site. How can I make it easier to use? What new features would you like to see? Any annoyances or bugs you'd like to fix? Can I make the moderati...
A. 2 October 2007: that sounds like a great idea!... (read in full...)
My long distance boyfriend is back with his ex. Do you think he still has feelings for me?
Q. Ok..So here's my story... I have been in an online relationship for about 2 months now. We live a few states away from eachother. We got to a point where we would talk everyday on the phone for hours or text eachother. We would tell eachother how ...
A. 2 October 2007: hiya,
first of all i'm sorry for what you're going through. it sounds like a painful one. i'm sure you'll get replies saying online relationships arent real and you didnt really know him etc etc....none of that helps when the pain is real enough t... (read in full...)
Anonymously received photos of me giving oral to my bf in a public place. We're worried...
Q. ok, this is a little embarassing im sorry. me and my boyfriend went on a day trip recently.when we arrived we parked the car in a quiet side street.we started kissing an one thing lead to another (i gave him oral sex) but there was nobodya around so ...
A. 2 October 2007: i can definitely see why that freaked you out! its scary dont worry though, i think if anyone was going to go to the police they would've just done it and wouldnt have told you they saw it first. i think it was just someone trying to embarrass you. ... (read in full...)
I find myself feeling pathetic and depressed because of her changeful ways. Her mood changes so easily without explanations.
Q. hi, ive been with my girlfriend for 15 months. i love her very much but her mood towards me can change soo easily, i dont even have to do anything. one day she can be passionate towards me then the next day she can be incredibly distant like i ...
A. 1 October 2007: you cant change other people, all you can do is tell her that it upsets you and tell her what needs to be changed in order for you to be happy and hope she'll try to change her behaviour herself. you cant do it for her. sit her down and be open and ... (read in full...)
I find myself feeling pathetic and depressed because of her changeful ways. Her mood changes so easily without explanations.
Q. hi, ive been with my girlfriend for 15 months. i love her very much but her mood towards me can change soo easily, i dont even have to do anything. one day she can be passionate towards me then the next day she can be incredibly distant like i ...
A. 30 September 2007: to be honest she sounds like shes not ready for a relationship and she doesnt know how to handle her own feelings.
her mother is obviously a big factor too. she's 22 years old she needs to be an adult and stop letting her mum control her life.
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SITE NEWS: Wanted, your ideas for features and improvements!
Q. Hi I'm looking to get some input from everyone on what you'd like to see on the site. How can I make it easier to use? What new features would you like to see? Any annoyances or bugs you'd like to fix? Can I make the moderati...
A. 30 September 2007: i dont really think its a good idea to refuse questions because they relate to self harm. i get that nobody here is a professional therapist (at least i dont think any of us are!) but if people are in that frame of mind i dont think its a good idea ... (read in full...)
We broke up! He said he got another girl pregnant but I think he's lying..advice?
Q. ok you kno what happend? okay im really angry! He broke up with me..I WANT 2 get over him!!!! ASAP!! he told me that he got another girl pregnate! but i thnk he is lying to make me feel bad..i kno that there is other guys in the world who will love ...
A. 30 September 2007: ok calm down first off. dont get into a state over him. hes not worth it. one of two things is going on here and both of them make him a creep. either:
- he did get someone else pregnant. hardly makes him prince charming does it?
- he didnt ge... (read in full...)
I'm getting married next week, do I tell my fiance I have slept with his best friend?
Q. me and my fiance are getting married next week but i have slept with his best friend, what do i do, ruin there friendship and my wedding or stay quiet...
A. 30 September 2007: i think you should tell him. chances are he will find out one day and look at it from his perspective. imagine it was the other way around and you found out he had slept with your best friend, then both of them had let you stand in church and marry ... (read in full...)
I find myself feeling pathetic and depressed because of her changeful ways. Her mood changes so easily without explanations.
Q. hi, ive been with my girlfriend for 15 months. i love her very much but her mood towards me can change soo easily, i dont even have to do anything. one day she can be passionate towards me then the next day she can be incredibly distant like i ...
A. 30 September 2007: i think you need to talk to her about it. im such a big believer in talking the hell out of relationships and i hate to see people keep their worries bottled up til it destroys the relationship when talking about it, letting each other know how you ... (read in full...)
I find guys attractive, only one girl caught my eye. Am I straight?
Q. it seems like all my life i have been attracted to guys and i still am. but about 3 weeks ago school started and this girl named --- caught my eye. i still consider my self as straight because i finad guys attractive and only one girl. so my ...
A. 30 September 2007: yes i think you are straight. everyone has a crush on a member of the same sex at some point and anyone who says they havent is a liar. i had a crush on a girl when i was about 12 or 13, it wasnt just that i thought she was pretty i was really ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Wanted, your ideas for features and improvements!
Q. Hi I'm looking to get some input from everyone on what you'd like to see on the site. How can I make it easier to use? What new features would you like to see? Any annoyances or bugs you'd like to fix? Can I make the moderati...
A. 30 September 2007: hold on a second, have we stopped approving questions and answers now? or is that just temporary. did i miss something?... (read in full...)
Ideas to look older? (make up, clothes, hairstyles)
Q. i am 14 years old i look a bit younger i want to look 14 or older but i still have a bit of a baby face i am about 5'2 so i am a bit small but i am still growing and i am thin too.my hair is longish but i want it longer.please can someone give me ...
A. 30 September 2007: cheek bones! its all in the cheek bones. and the way to fake them if you havent got them is to suck your cheeks in as if your making a fish face lol then brush bronzer lightly from the middle of your cheek upwards underneath your cheek bone to just ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Wanted, your ideas for features and improvements!
Q. Hi I'm looking to get some input from everyone on what you'd like to see on the site. How can I make it easier to use? What new features would you like to see? Any annoyances or bugs you'd like to fix? Can I make the moderati...
A. 29 September 2007: to the female reader who wants to remain anonymous -
make an account, when you post a question it says "you are currently logged in as ..... check this box if you want to post this question anonymously"
so you have the option to post anonymou... (read in full...)
So miserable... My ex-girlfriend is all I want in the world. She cannot be mine, and it hurts. What do you think?
Q. Please help me. Today, I'm so, so miserable about everything. Call it an off-day if you must, but whatever it is, it's dragging me WAAAY down. It's just over 3 months since my girlfriend and first love broke up with me, due to (as she claims) ...
A. 28 September 2007: I remember breaking up with my first love and let me tell you i understand EXACTLY how you feel. You've never experienced a break up like this before and you've never known pain like this so you dont know how long it will last or how to deal with ... (read in full...)
My ex sent me a nasty poem. I have so much going on in life at the moment, I struggle to cope with it. Any advice please?
Q. umm...there's been alot going on in my life lately and its hard for me to keep track of sanity besides still beign in love with my best friend [who claims is not gay] really liking my best friends ex. [he told me he loved me and he kissed me and ...
A. 28 September 2007: first of all that dude will definitely not be winning any awards for his writing skills anytime soon. ignore him. if he sends you anything like that he is doing it for a reaction. dont give him one. just completely ignore anything like that and dont ... (read in full...)
She's 19, married, and wants to give her husband a 2nd chance.. But I want her to be mine
Q. Ever have this feeling, if so what'd you do? met a girl, she's everything i'd ever want... our chemistry is amazing, like we were meant for each other... we make each other happy... but she's 19, no kids, married and is gonna give him anot...
A. 28 September 2007: I think she is doing the right thing. She's married - she needs to give everything shes got into trying to make that work, or at the very least she needs to try so she can walk away from the marriage knowing there was nothing more she could do to ... (read in full...)
My bf and I are on break since last week. I've met a new, older man who is a family friend - should I spend the night with him?
Q. Im 18, and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (21) for nearly 18 months, i love him very much and i rely on him, as i am not close to anyone in my family, i havent got a job at the moment, as i finished my A-Levels in June and now am ...
A. 28 September 2007: Should you spend the night with him? NO! your only on a one week break with your boyfriend and you love him. sleeping with another man will hurt him and if he is not sure how he feels about you, you need to be working hard to remind him why he loves ... (read in full...)
I cry b/c I know I can't have him; if love is so great, then why do I feel pain and suffering?
Q. I know this might seem strange, but I think I'm in love, even though I'm 15. The guy that I love just turned 18. I like him for who he is, not because he's Mr. Whatever. I would take care of him; I would do whatever I could to help him. Every night, ...
A. 28 September 2007: It does hurt but ... now this might not make much sense to anyone but me...but love hurts so much because it feels so good.
it has the potential to feel amazing, you know how happy you would be if you were with him and you know that the feelings... (read in full...)
My partner doesn't love me, but I'm hoping his feelings will change. Am I being unrealistic? What should I do?
Q. I'm in a relationship with a guy who doesn't love me. He cares for me and how I feel, but he is not emotionally attached to me. This is my first relationship in 10 years, I am hoping that in time his feelings will change. Am I being unrealistic? ...
A. 28 September 2007: it depends. how long have you been in the relationship? if you mean that it is a brand new relationship and he is not in love yet then dont worry about it, these things take time. he may fall in love in time.
Or do you mean it is a relation... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Wanted, your ideas for features and improvements!
Q. Hi I'm looking to get some input from everyone on what you'd like to see on the site. How can I make it easier to use? What new features would you like to see? Any annoyances or bugs you'd like to fix? Can I make the moderati...
A. 27 September 2007: the only thing i can think is, you know where you have the option to rate an answer? would there be a way to make it so you can see what other ratings that particular answer has got? right now it just says "thanks for rating" and thats it but i ... (read in full...)
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