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- I'm 23. Which scares me. I swear I was 17 yesterday!!
- My family are completely disfunctional and I wouldnt have it any other way.
- I work in a nursing home. Yep - bathing old people, taking them to the toilet and playing bingo all afternoon. Ok its not the most glamorous of jobs but i absolutely LOVE it and cant see myself ever doing anything else. I'd rather do a job which is a bit on the disgusting side but someone could not live without me doing for them than sit at a checkout all day saying "would you like a hand to pack?"
- I think I'm a little bit psychic. No really, stop laughing. Sometimes i just "get feelings" about things and then it happens. its weird.
- I fall in love very quickly. Not easily - I have a lot of boxes that need to be ticked before i'll want him, but if i meet someone special who does tick all those boxes, i'm in love in a matter of days.
- Relationships and the thought of being in love terrifies me right now.
- On 4 July 2007 I almost died - it wasnt my time. someone was looking out for me. Thank you.
- I have a big heart and it gets bruised easily.
- I can see things clearer when i'm not involved. situations seem very obvious to me when its happening to someone else, but when its me its a different matter. Basically, i should take my own advice sometimes.
- i love socks
- If all goes to plan, 2008 is gonna be a big one for me! Not much happened in 2007 really and I can only blame myself for not getting off my big fat butt and making stuff happen. So in 08 I'm planning to work in Zante, Greece for 6 months and also hoping to do Volunteer work in Ghana in November.
- i'd rather be told to F**k off than ignored
- I sing into my hairbrush and dance around in my underwear
- Someone on here (i forget who) recommended a book called The Secret to me. It completely changed my life.
- I hate drama. But i have so much drama. If it can happen to someone, it will almost certainly happen to me!
- I dont like being called pretty. Its not a compliment. Tell me i'm nice / important to you / did something that made you feel good or smile. I dont care if i got lucky in the DNA department or not, its not something i've done or achieved.
- Music is my life
- im a big big big believer in fate and destiny and i truly believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason.
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What do I do when time doesn't help me get over my first love?
Q. Hello all, I am writing to get some advice on how to move on with my life after a very bad break up. I am now at the worse state in my life. I cant concentrate for even a second, my mind always wonder to thinking what if things were dif...
A. 6 April 2008: I remember that pain only too well and wouldnt wish it on my worst enemy. I genuinely feel terrible for you, you just have to be strong and go through it. It might take a few more months but dont look at pictures of her, keep as busy as possible. It ... (read in full...)
My friend who introduced me to my ex made me believe my ex was the ideal person, when in reality he only tried to use me for sex! Your ideas?
Q. I am wondering if my ex bf was trying to use me for sex. On the first date he said to me at the end of the night "do you want to take things to the next level" and I said no, assuming he meant sex. I must have appeared freaked out cause i was. He ...
A. 6 April 2008: You want him back because he broke up with you. Its human nature to want what you cant have. But please dont take him back. This man sounds dangerous! God only knows what he has done to girls before you or will do to girls after you. He is vile and ... (read in full...)
What do I do when time doesn't help me get over my first love?
Q. Hello all, I am writing to get some advice on how to move on with my life after a very bad break up. I am now at the worse state in my life. I cant concentrate for even a second, my mind always wonder to thinking what if things were dif...
A. 6 April 2008: I've been there. It sucks so much. But seriously, even though you dont believe it, it really does get better in time. You wont be like 85 years old and still feel this way. One day you'll be over it.
Until then really try to keep busy, join a g... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 6 April 2008: lol you guys are silly x... (read in full...)
I think I have a crush on anonmous phone caller, do I tell him?
Q. I don't know how to explain my situation but I'll try my best.Well a couple of months ago I received a call on my cell phone from a private caller I answered it and the guy asked me "how was your day?" and I responded "who is this" he wouldn't ...
A. 6 April 2008: That kinda freaks me out. Why wont he tell you who he is? How did he get your number? If he really DID get it from one of your friends (which i dont think he did) then why cant he tell you or why hasnt the friend told you they gave your number to ... (read in full...)
What would you do if you wanted an abortion, but your partner didn't?
Q. If you are pregnant and dont want to have the baby for a lot of reasons and know in your heart the best thing would be to not have the baby, but your boyfriend really does want to have the baby, how should you decide if you keep the baby or not? ...
A. 6 April 2008: I cant believe some idiot has just described a person considering an abortion as a selfish little bitch. First of all I clearly stated "for a lot of reason" but didnt say what they were so you deciding the reason is purely selfish is astonishing.
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Why do I still get sweat marks, even though I use deoderant?
Q. I wear loads of deodrant and sometimes don't even feel that hot, but I seem to always get sweat marks!! I hate it, no one else gets it! What can I do? x...
A. 5 April 2008: look at your deodorant can and make sure its one that says "anti-perspirant" on it.... (read in full...)
He teaches at a different school, so does that still make it illegal?
Q. Hey everyone, i just need a little bit of advice, so here is my problem: I am 16 and the guy i like is 27, and my friend told me that he likes me too (i met him through her). I found out that he's a teacher, and i know that it is illegal for ...
A. 5 April 2008: thats a big age gap. He'll be 30 before you're even out of your teens. You're at totally different stages in life so be careful with it but to answer your question, the only reason teacher-student relationships are not allowed is because the teacher ... (read in full...)
I've got an addiction to butt plugs, how do I stop?
Q. i have been using butt plugs for fun during sex and on my own for over four years now. Recently I have started using larger and larger ones as I haven't been satisfyed with the regular ones I used to use. I get a buzz from using bigger and bigger ...
A. 5 April 2008: I think its more to do with how long they are kept in but if it is a particularly large one and is being kept in for a while on a regular basis, then yes you probably will cause muscle strain and stretch your anus. if you wanna stop then its best to ... (read in full...)
After just 2 dates, he's saying he loves me, I find this a bit alarming. Would you???
Q. I met a guy online on RSVP and we went on 2 dates. it turns out we actually have some mutual friends and have been to a lot of the same parties so were not complete strangers after all. The thing that bothers me is that after only 2 dates he has s...
A. 5 April 2008: I wouldnt say mentally unwell but he does seem to be getting a bit carried away with his feelings. I'm pretty sure its not love, just infatuation which does feel a lot like love! Keep seeing him, its not like he insulted you or punched you or ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to be in a relationship with your teacher without any problems?
Q. Okay lets say you love your teacher and then you find out he loves you back....cant there be someway for the two to be together with out any problems??...
A. 5 April 2008: if you're 18 and he is not your teacher anymore then there's nothing wrong with it because he is not a figure of authority to you anymore. But be prepared for a lot of gossip and whispering and his reputation will be tarred because people like to ... (read in full...)
My boss hired me because I'm hot?!?!
Q. my boss told me that i 'mainly got the job based on the fact that i looked hot, and sexy'.... what should i say?...
A. 4 April 2008: Ask him if thats the way things work around here, how the hell did he get hired?
no im kidding dont really say that. But i would be massively offended if someone said that to me. If he says anything like that again tell him you dont apprecia... (read in full...)
What is lying?
Q. Just a quick question for everyone, in your opinions does not saying anything (and letting the other person assume – whilst not telling them the truth but also not lying) constitute as lying?...
A. 2 April 2008: It probably differs person to person but I would say that letting someone believe something you know to be untrue is a lie. Whether you have lead them to believe it or let them believe it.
But it depends on the context. Birdy gave you good adv... (read in full...)
I'm nearly 16 will I ever get a boyfriend?
Q. i no this will sound silly. but im 15 and i do ave a fair amount of friends at school. theres about 15 of us that hang around on a break and lunch and i sit will different people in all my lessons. i always have someone to be with and have many many ...
A. 2 April 2008: yep you will. definitely. i know that for definite cos you have so many friends. You're obviously a nice girl and fun to be around and thats the main thing when it comes to attracting people.
You just havent met the right boy yet. Theres nothing ... (read in full...)
I'm fed ape monkeying around, what makes a real chimpion for women?
Q. 'Pretty women out walking with gorillas down my street' These are the word from a famous pop song. Can someone tell me what women want, i'm confused. I've done all the talking about feelings thing and seem to get blown out for guys that can barely ...
A. 2 April 2008: you've done "all the talking about feelings thing"? That doesnt sound very genuine and is probably what your problem is. Us girls arent as thick as a lot of you boys like to think. We know when you're being real and when you're telling us what you ... (read in full...)
Is my husband gay?
Q. My husband is 34 and we have been together for 4 years and we have a baby boy,for the past 2 years i have caught him on gay websites many times!and he allways say he hasnt been on them..I know he has. he is gay....
A. 2 April 2008: i'm assuming the last sentence was meant to read "Is he gay" otherwise I dunno how to answer this post lol.
But to be honest, I cant say for definite of course because I am not your husband, but yes i would think he is at least bisexual. The part... (read in full...)
Please help me, I am getting down with the way husband is acting towards me!
Q. I am getting very very down about the way my husband is towards me and whenever I say about it he gets annoyed with me. If I give some examples of his behaviour...I would be so grateful for anyones opinion as I feel like I don't know whether I ...
A. 2 April 2008: I agree with you, it does sound like he's nit-picking at silly things just for the sake of it. But to be fair,he probably doesnt realise he's doing it. Or if he does he wont realise it upsets you this much.
If I was you I would tell him calmly, ... (read in full...)
I am regretting how horrible I was with her...please help me!
Q. Hi All, I need help and opinions... My longterm girlfriend broke up with me over a month ago now, saying she didnt have affectionate feelings for me anymore. A year previous she had said the same, but we managed to work through it. She said we ...
A. 2 April 2008: I dont think either of you are bad people. I just think you werent right for each other and the relationship brought out the worst in both of you.
I think you should apologise to her if you are carrying that guilt around so you can stop beating ... (read in full...)
Ok I have made a huge mistake......but is it better I don't tell the truth?
Q. ok i have a made a huge mistake..there is this real cute guy in college and everyone thinks that we look awsome together and i know that this guy too lets call him mark checks me out but hasnr spoken to me as yet..even i did not try talkin to him ...
A. 2 April 2008: ok well I understand why you dont wanna tell her you lied, its great in theory but how mortifying would it be to actually do that?
Don't worry about your friend too much though. You've learned from this and wont do it again which is the importan... (read in full...)
How much porn is too much?
Q. Hi. I am 37 with two kids. My husband and I have know each other for 16 years and married for 8 years. Recently I've discovered he watches pornography every day via a free internet video. I wouldn't care if our sex life even existed but it ...
A. 2 April 2008: yeah i would agree its too much. He doesnt have much free time for you but has time to watch porn? The time that he is spending online watching that could be spent having sex with you. I would ask him whats going on and why he seems to prefer that. ... (read in full...)
My nan and his pop are first cousins! Would this affect any future children we may have?
Q. Please help. my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years and have just found out that my nan and his pop are 1st cousins. we are devestated and wondering what problems there will be if we decide to stay together and have children??? ...
A. 2 April 2008: no problems at all. You're not closely related enough for there to be problems. If you just found out your boyfriend was your brother, then yes that would be a drama. But this isnt a big deal at all, i wouldnt even say that you guys are related to ... (read in full...)
Ok I have made a huge mistake......but is it better I don't tell the truth?
Q. ok i have a made a huge mistake..there is this real cute guy in college and everyone thinks that we look awsome together and i know that this guy too lets call him mark checks me out but hasnr spoken to me as yet..even i did not try talkin to him ...
A. 2 April 2008: The truth is gonna come out. If she thinks you're with him she's gonna talk to him - she thinks hes her friends boyfriend. or at least she's gonna want to know why you arent spending time together.
One lie leads to another and the longer it goes ... (read in full...)
I want sex without putting in the work like listening, talking, etc.....what do you think?
Q. I'm 21 years old, single and I know a couple of girls I could be dating right now. The thing is, I'm only looking for sex at this point of my life :D I'm not interested in spending time listening to her, hanging out, etc. All I want to do with ...
A. 2 April 2008: you dont want to meet a woman, you want a hooker.... (read in full...)
He wants to practice picking up women so that he can make a career out teaching other guys, I'm not happy with this!
Q. Hello, I've been exclusively dating a nice guy for almost 8 months now. We've had good times together and he is always there for me when I need him. The thing is, before he met me, he was very promiscuous. (I don't have a lot of dating experien...
A. 2 April 2008: what kind of guys are gonna take advice on women and getting girls from a guy who thinks its acceptable to hit on women while in a relationship? i hope hes gonna have a refund policy!
I really think he just wants to pick up girls just to know tha... (read in full...)
How can I make her love me?
Q. how to make someone love you who does not have the same feelings with you. who tell you that she care a lot a lot as a friend but does not have other feelings. she also knows how much i love her....
A. 2 April 2008: the brilliant thing about love is that you cant make someone love you. its the most genuine beautiful emotion ever for that reason. you can make someone mad at you / hate you / feel hurt by you but it is impossible to make someone fall in love with ... (read in full...)
How do I apologise to my teacher for causing problems?
Q. This is another of those teacher/pupil situations... Please don't lecture me, because the damage is already done! Basically I've been obsessively crushing on a teacher for over a year now, I got very depressed last year - I even considered givin...
A. 2 April 2008: Ok well, i kind of get it now. He was right to tell the school because he could get in trouble for not bringing that to attention but i think your parents overreacted a little.
So onto the problem, I'm thinking he would prefer it if you didnt ap... (read in full...)
Her ex doesn't know about our relationship so how can I get her her to back off from my girlfriend?
Q. Im 18 and my girlfriend is 40. I have some trust issues and im finding it hard to cope while my girlfriends ex keeps ringing and texting. Her ex does not know she is in a relationship because of the age gap, my girlfriend is too scared to say. But i ...
A. 2 April 2008: Why does your girlfriend care so much if her ex approves or not? It has nothing to do with her. i dont really understand why she is so scared of what she thinks.
I can understand why it bugs you so much that she is contacting your girlfrie... (read in full...)
Help he is huge and I am scared!
Q. I am an average size girl, 5'7", and I have recently started dating a man that is wonderful. One problem ... I have never seen a penis that big b-4. I have no idea what to do. I felt bad because he could tell I was shocked. Does any one have some ...
A. 2 April 2008: it really depends. just the same as every man's "bits" are different lengths, so are every womans. it might fit fine, it might not. Make sure you do lots (and i mean like LOTS ) of foreplay and maybe use lube.
I had the same problem once and like... (read in full...)
She wont say she loves me because "you have not said the reason I am wanting to hear yet"-what does she mean?
Q. I have been seeing this girl for a while, and we recently became a couple, and I have fallen in love with her. She has told me it takes her a while to fall in love or at least allow herself to feel that strongly because of her past. I have been ...
A. 1 April 2008: bah. mind games. who needs them?
Tell her you dont love her for a reason you just love her. Cos thats true. Thats why you're finding it hard to put into words. Its not like you love her because she is funny, so if she ever stops cracking jokes yo... (read in full...)
How do I apologise to my teacher for causing problems?
Q. This is another of those teacher/pupil situations... Please don't lecture me, because the damage is already done! Basically I've been obsessively crushing on a teacher for over a year now, I got very depressed last year - I even considered givin...
A. 1 April 2008: I'm just gonna ask really quick, is that the whole story? cos i dont think i get why writing a letter saying you have feelings for someone but have absolutely no intention of acting on them landed you in a meeting with your parents and the ... (read in full...)
Could I have been that bad in bed, that he didn't want sex with me again?
Q. A couple weeks ago, me and a guy friend slept together. We met through a mutual friend but we've only known eachother a few months, it's not like we're really close or know eachother realy well. Well i was attracted to him, and he seemed into me, ...
A. 31 March 2008: It doesnt mean you were bad but dont believe the common attitude that all men want sex anywhere, with anyone at anytime. It doesnt mean you were bad in bed, maybe he just doesnt want to have sex with you because he doesnt want to mess up the ... (read in full...)
My parents DON'T understand!
Q. I'm always crying at home and it's because my parents always say something to make me feel like I'm not good enough. I love talking to my friends on the computer, I must admit, I stay on the computer all day and my parents complain that I stay in ...
A. 31 March 2008: I think a lot of what you are feeling is hormones. All your emotions are completely heightened at this point in your life. I remember being your age and i wouldnt wanna go back there for all the money in the world!
But i think your parents ... (read in full...)
If you have a boyfriend and you kiss a guy that is one of your ex boyfriends and you kissed only once, is that cheating?
Q. If you have a boyfriend and you kiss a guy that is one of your ex boyfriends and you kissed only once, is that considered cheating?...
A. 31 March 2008: of course it is. how would you feel if your boyfriend kissed his ex? exactly.... (read in full...)
I’m 16 and I’ve fallen in love with someone I’ve never met before, I’ve never even spoken to, and will probably never do so in my whole life.
Q. Won’t somebody help me, please. I’m 16 and I’ve fallen in love with someone I’ve never met before, I’ve never even spoken to, and will probably never do so in my whole life. I think there is something wrong with me, all these feelings are bunged up ...
A. 31 March 2008: hey,
I can relate definitely. I've had a similar experience but you need to understand it is infatuation. I know i know, it sooo does not feel like infatuation but you dont know him. You dont know what he's like. He might be a total arsehole... (read in full...)
I know it's a sin, but I don't care!!
Q. Hello. Well, i'm young and I am very very horny..haha..I am a virgin so I like to masturbate alot..It is not secret..I don't care..anyhow. Pornagraphy is a sin..I am Christian and have been raised that its a sin..and it even says so in the ...
A. 29 March 2008: im sorry but ive never understood how masturbation can be a sin. I suppose its a personal thing, but for me i just dont get that. i am a christian and my faith is important to me but this part i've never understood.
Humans are sexual. We all have... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wont talk to me until I tell him if I will have sex with him or not
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and he is younger then me, he said when he turns 18 will i have sex with him, and now he wont talk to me until i answer him with yes or no help! stuck in the middle ...
A. 29 March 2008: the age of consent in the UK is 16 so it wouldnt be breaking the law but you definitely dont want to have sex with someone just because he wont speak to you unless you do. you'll regret it big time if you do it.
Tell him no you're not gonna ha... (read in full...)
I don't reject the idea of a threesome, my only fear is losing my partner subsequently. What can you suggest?
Q. My partner and I are thinking of doing a threesome i dont mind at all connsidering i have never done one at all, the only worry i have is losing him through it ...
A. 29 March 2008: I dont think you should do it. Not because I think your partner will run off into the sunset with the other woman, but just because a threesome is the kind of thing where there has to be 110% trust and security or your jealousy will torture you ... (read in full...)
Wondering if the relationship is worth saving - after she has been cheating me on the rent, double charging me to clear her arrears -, and if so, how?
Q. I moved in with my partner in October past having been together for about 18 months, believing that I had found a strong relationship based on love and trust. I recently discovered that she has been cheating me on the rent since I moved in, double ...
A. 29 March 2008: I think its an individual thing, and some people may handle things differently than others. Only you know if you can forgive something like this. It doesnt sound like you have forgiven her entirely, or there would be no problem for you to write ... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with an older divorced man...
Q. Hello..I am young..a 17 year old girll.I fell for this one man between the age of 40-50 years old in 2005.He is the best guy I have ever seen in my life and I love him to death. Actually, I am overly obsessed with him.I used to go to his church he ...
A. 29 March 2008: as much as it hurts, you cant make someone love you. You cant make someone want to be with you. its painful alright but if he knows how much you want him and hes still not letting it happen it really is time to move on.
its one thing for you to s... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wont talk to me until I tell him if I will have sex with him or not
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and he is younger then me, he said when he turns 18 will i have sex with him, and now he wont talk to me until i answer him with yes or no help! stuck in the middle ...
A. 29 March 2008: if i was you i would dump him. hes obviously very immature and to be honest, hes using you for sex. thats why he wants no contact with you unless hes getting his leg over. hes just little boy. dump him, forget him, go out with a real man! its so ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is having a child with some one else, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I dated for 10 months and we broke up. After a couple of months, we started seeing each other and reconnecting. Things are so much better now for us however during the break-up period he got someone else pregnant. He says he car...
A. 29 March 2008: i can understand why you are heartbroken. i was heartbroken when my ex started seeing someone else during a month long break from me. god s what i'd feel if he'd gotten her pregnant.
i think you need to take a lot of time and think everythi... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with an older divorced man...
Q. Hello..I am young..a 17 year old girll.I fell for this one man between the age of 40-50 years old in 2005.He is the best guy I have ever seen in my life and I love him to death. Actually, I am overly obsessed with him.I used to go to his church he ...
A. 29 March 2008: wait til you are in your 20s then, he might feel more comfortable about the age thing when you are out of you teens. and for gods sake dont kill yourself! that wont help you be with him will it? ... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with an older divorced man...
Q. Hello..I am young..a 17 year old girll.I fell for this one man between the age of 40-50 years old in 2005.He is the best guy I have ever seen in my life and I love him to death. Actually, I am overly obsessed with him.I used to go to his church he ...
A. 29 March 2008: your gonna hate me and im gonna sound like a recording of everyone you know but you gotta try to forget him. he's right, he is too old for you. i can see why it is attractive to you and boys your age are probably total idiots in comparison but it ... (read in full...)
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