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- I'm 23. Which scares me. I swear I was 17 yesterday!!
- My family are completely disfunctional and I wouldnt have it any other way.
- I work in a nursing home. Yep - bathing old people, taking them to the toilet and playing bingo all afternoon. Ok its not the most glamorous of jobs but i absolutely LOVE it and cant see myself ever doing anything else. I'd rather do a job which is a bit on the disgusting side but someone could not live without me doing for them than sit at a checkout all day saying "would you like a hand to pack?"
- I think I'm a little bit psychic. No really, stop laughing. Sometimes i just "get feelings" about things and then it happens. its weird.
- I fall in love very quickly. Not easily - I have a lot of boxes that need to be ticked before i'll want him, but if i meet someone special who does tick all those boxes, i'm in love in a matter of days.
- Relationships and the thought of being in love terrifies me right now.
- On 4 July 2007 I almost died - it wasnt my time. someone was looking out for me. Thank you.
- I have a big heart and it gets bruised easily.
- I can see things clearer when i'm not involved. situations seem very obvious to me when its happening to someone else, but when its me its a different matter. Basically, i should take my own advice sometimes.
- i love socks
- If all goes to plan, 2008 is gonna be a big one for me! Not much happened in 2007 really and I can only blame myself for not getting off my big fat butt and making stuff happen. So in 08 I'm planning to work in Zante, Greece for 6 months and also hoping to do Volunteer work in Ghana in November.
- i'd rather be told to F**k off than ignored
- I sing into my hairbrush and dance around in my underwear
- Someone on here (i forget who) recommended a book called The Secret to me. It completely changed my life.
- I hate drama. But i have so much drama. If it can happen to someone, it will almost certainly happen to me!
- I dont like being called pretty. Its not a compliment. Tell me i'm nice / important to you / did something that made you feel good or smile. I dont care if i got lucky in the DNA department or not, its not something i've done or achieved.
- Music is my life
- im a big big big believer in fate and destiny and i truly believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason.
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How do I stay sane when I'm in a dead end job? Keeping up the motivation is hard!
Q. I've been employed with this department for over 8 years. It's a dead end job. I'll miss a few people here however, it's been time to move on to something better. I've applied with so many companies, departments, contractors, court houses...I've ...
A. 26 April 2008: Sounds like you've fought hard, worked your ass off and been really strong for a really long time. I have every faith than sooner than you think karma is gonna deal you the hand you deserve.
xx... (read in full...)
How do I give him oral sex without teething him? I also get tired!
Q. How can I give really good blowjob, but not have to be down there for a long period of time? Last time I gave my boyfriend a blowjob it took forever for him to cum, and my teeth accidently kept touching his penis. We've been dating for a two years ...
A. 26 April 2008: Hi,
To keep your teeth out the way you need to kind of cover your bottom teeth with your tongue and your top teeth with your top lip.
You do get a sore, tired jaw after a while but you can vary what you're doing. ie try kind of sucking the side... (read in full...)
Sex toys advice please?
Q. Hi I want to use some sex toys but here it is not available. So can anyone tell me where are I can get them? And what happens when I use it?...
A. 25 April 2008: Thats pretty vague. What happens when you use it? Err...depends what it is i suppose! You can buy them online though just do a search for whatever it is you're looking for.... (read in full...)
How do I impress this guy tomorrow night?
Q. heya, im going on a night out with friends tomorrow, there is a lad going to be there who i want to impress, only i dont want to make it to obvious, what cani do to imppress him? (physically the way i look and how to be subtly flirty?)...
A. 25 April 2008: Hiya, the best way is to be subtle. You can give him a bit of eye contact and a smile across the table or whatever but dont get wasted and put it right out there lol. As for how you look, you should keep it classy and just relax and have fun. Boys ... (read in full...)
Does anyone else have a fantasy about being watched while having sex?
Q. I have these fantasies of another man and\or woman watching me and my boyfriend making love, is this nonsense or is this a turn on for you as well?...
A. 25 April 2008: People have all sorts of weird and wonderful fantasies but the one you described is a pretty common one.... (read in full...)
I want to be perfect, I want to feel secure!
Q. I hate myself because: I'm clingy, moody, jealous, insecure, competitive, selfish, I don't trust people, I'm depressive, I'm weak, I have a very bad problem with anger, and because I feel ugly all the time, and not good enough. I have good qua...
A. 25 April 2008: You know people tell me my life is pretty amazing and i've even had emails from people on here, as well as comments from people i know in person, saying they would like to live their life the way I live mine and that they try to be like me. That ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left me for another girl when I was 7 months pregnant-now he's back and I can't cope!
Q. My boyfriend left me for another girl when i was 7 months pregnant, because she was "kinky". He came back before the baby was born and has been with me since the birth. But I cant seem to let what he did go, and its destroying the relationship.And I ...
A. 25 April 2008: I can't tell you what you should do but I can tell you what I would do in your situation. And that is get shot of him asap. If he will leave you at 7 months pregnant to be with a girl because she is kinky, he clearly has no morals and no sense of ... (read in full...)
I need to know if this particular discharge and itching is normal
Q. Hi, This is a bit embarrassing, but lately i have had quite thick white vaginal discharge, it doesn't itch, but sometimes there is quite a lot of it - which makes it a bit uncomfortable which i dont think is normal. I've tried a thrush treat...
A. 25 April 2008: Don't try to diagnose it yourself and you dont really want to be taking pills for things you don't have. Call your doctor and make an appointment, i'm not gonna say its probably nothing because if its itching so bad there's something going on down ... (read in full...)
I don't feel anything during sex, help me out please.
Q. I always give my boyfriend handjobs and blowjobs. And he really wants to please me by fingering me and 'eating out' but everytime he tries I don't really feel anything. Anyone have any tips I could send his way?...
A. 25 April 2008: Are you maybe just nervous and not able to relax and enjoy it? if it genuinely is just that hes a bit crap at it then you have to sort of "guide" him. Tell him what you like and what feels good and what doesn't because he cant read your mind.
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Why is my sister so obsessed with wanting to look like me??
Q. Hi everyone this isn't really a love problem but you are always so helpful that maybe you can help me with this this: Ok my older sister (she's 26 i'm 21). She tries to look like me, i just got a fringe cut in and now she's asking where i got it d...
A. 25 April 2008: Hey,
I totally understand why that must be frustrating but it really is one of the biggest, most genuine compliments you could get. Not only does she think you look nice, she thinks you look so good she's trying to make herself look just like you... (read in full...)
I just give and give. It is so one sided. Is it worth it?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. i love him soo much. i do anything he wants, he hasnt got a job or a license so i drive him everywhere and buy stuff for him. he doesnt invite me out, blames me on our problems and makes me chose ...
A. 25 April 2008: Honestly, read back what you wrote, if that was your best friend or sister who had written that what would you tell her to do? Exactly. He's taking the piss and I think you are encouraging it by doing everything for him. At the moment he has no ... (read in full...)
I have arranged for my ex to sleep with my friend at my place, should I go out?
Q. Hey all, I'm in a situation where i don't know have much experience in. My ex g/f and I are on good terms, and we occasionally meet up and still have great sex! Although she has only had experience with a different guy before she dated me. She i...
A. 25 April 2008: My God. What a weird situation. Ok let me get this straight, you want your ex to have sex with your friend but just the two of them? Not a threesome? Why do you want that so much? Its not your responsibility to make sure your ex girlfriend is ... (read in full...)
SITE VIDEO: April 2008 video from Andrew
Q. Been a while since we had a video update. Anyone interested in being able to post their replies to the site as YouTube videos??...
A. 25 April 2008: Honestly i'm scared I would end up screaming at people sometimes lol. Sometimes I need to censor myself and edit what i wrote because i get wound up by certain posts, so i'm thinking if i did a video response it would be completely psychotic and ... (read in full...)
How do I take lead and play around without being too hasty and leading him on too far? I'm 15.
Q. i'm nearly fifteen, and my boyfriends almost sixteen, i'm pretty mature for my age and so is he. i love him to pieces and love being with him. he knows i'm not ready for sex, and he respects that about me, as i've been brought up to know right from ...
A. 25 April 2008: Hey,
Just do whatever you feel comfortable with but talk to him about it beforehand so he doesnt think you're gonna have sex with him then feel a bit teased when it doesnt happen.
I'm so glad you're mature enough to wait and want your first ... (read in full...)
I wouldn't believe it was true even if she did say she likes me. What can I do about my self confidence?
Q. Hello! Ok first off, i dont know whats wrong with me, ive asked for help on this site alot of times, for the same reason, but i still cant bring myself to do it. basicly theres a girl i really like, ive known her for a while now and we are b...
A. 25 April 2008: Hey,
You should definitely say something. I remember being in a similar situation when I was about 19. I liked him so much and people told me he liked me but he never did anything about it! And there was no way I was making the first move just inc... (read in full...)
I married the wrong woman and I'm a mess. Is there any hope?
Q. I'm a 32 year old male, and I'm so unhappy in my marriage anymore. I married the wrong woman. I did. This lady has issues from her past that I thought I could handle, and I have for years. She was raped as a child, molested too (by strangers). ...
A. 25 April 2008: You really cant handle all of this on your own. Nobody could so I think you should see your doctor and ask to be referred to someone. It sounds like you're depressed and really, who wouldnt be with all of that on their plate?
Don't worry too much... (read in full...)
How do I stay sane when I'm in a dead end job? Keeping up the motivation is hard!
Q. I've been employed with this department for over 8 years. It's a dead end job. I'll miss a few people here however, it's been time to move on to something better. I've applied with so many companies, departments, contractors, court houses...I've ...
A. 25 April 2008: You just havent found the right job yet. If you're not getting the jobs you're applying for it means you're not right for them so thank god you didnt get them otherwise you'd be miserable in them. A lot of it also depends on who else applies so keep ... (read in full...)
Does the morning after pill make one sick for a few days?
Q. Hi. I was wondering does anyone know if the morning after pill makes you sick for a few days? because i took levonelle on tuesday (after unprotected sex on saturday), and have been feeling really sick for a few days. Ive taken it before but it didnt ...
A. 24 April 2008: I took it once years ago and was fine, i wasnt sick at all but my older sister had advised me about it and told me to prepare to be as sick as a dog cos thats the experience she had when she took it. so i think it just depends on the person. but if ... (read in full...)
I have reoccurring dreams about a girl I haven't seen in 8 years and never bothered about, why?
Q. In the last year I have had about 3/4 dreams about a girl I haven't even seen in 8 years. Most recently I had one last night that she was at this party I went to recently and we ended up kissing, and I felt bad when I woke up because I have a ...
A. 24 April 2008: Maybe its not so much her you're longing for but what she represents? ie your childhood. Dreams arent literal. I had a recurring dream my baby nephew died and it upset me so much i went on a dream forum to ask ppls opinions and most people told me ... (read in full...)
We met online, only after we slept together he said that he loves his ex and we could remain FWB! Should I accept this?
Q. I met a guy on a dating site, we hit it off. But he broke up with me a few days later because he wanted to get back with his girlfriend. This is after we slept together. I emailed him back wanting to see him to discuss the situation. He said he ...
A. 24 April 2008: You need to run like hell in the opposite direction of this guy. He loves his girlfriend so much he's cheating on her. I find it hard to believe she agrees to an open relationship, its something guys will say to make themselves look like less of a ... (read in full...)
I want to marry him but he has a child and I come from a traditional background. What do you think?
Q. I'm 21 and absolutely in love with a man whose 30. He already has a 4 year old from a previous relationship. I know for a fact he is ready to marry me. I want to marry him as well, but one thing keeps me from saying "yes", and that is the fact ...
A. 24 April 2008: You cant say you want to marry him but have nothing to do with his son. Thats cruel and will never work out. I have dated someone who had a daughter and at first it was weird that he had this massive history with someone else and had a baby with her ... (read in full...)
Is a 3 year age gap that big of a deal?
Q. is that okay to continue with my boyfriend who is younger than me? i am 24 and he is 21 what do you think?...
A. 24 April 2008: I think its fine but it depends on the guy. You can get a 21 year old who acts like hes 16 or younger. Then again you get 21 year olds who you would never believe are only 21 cos there heads are screwed on right and they're mature and responsible. ... (read in full...)
Do female genitals grow with age?
Q. Hi The question may sound funny and i don'tknow the correct words to use. My wife and I have been married for over 20 years and always had a great sex life. we have been having oral sex in all that time. As the years have gone on my wife genit...
A. 23 April 2008: i took the question to be about inner labia rather than loosening of the vagina?
If thats the case then yes it happens with age. Everyones bits start heading south so your wife is totally normal.
There is surgery that can be done but its exp... (read in full...)
He forced me onto the bed and hurt me, but I still love him. How do I learn to trust him?
Q. A few nights ago i was with my boyfriend and we had a fight. I got fed up with him and started egnoring him. That pissed him off worse so he grabbed me and forced me to look and him and he grabbed my arms really tight and it hurt and i screamed at ...
A. 20 April 2008: From your words i'm not completely sure if you are saying he raped you or threatened to rape you but either way you need to 86 this guy. Like, yesterday. Men like that are never going to change and he will never care about you like you want him too ... (read in full...)
Attracted to my little sister but I don't think it's wrong!
Q. So I am attracted to my little sister and I don't think it is wrong. i always have an erection around her and we are home alone a lot. she is just too sexy to ignore. i want to have sex with her but i don't think she wants it with me. if i can't ...
A. 20 April 2008: You got a girlfriend and dont think about her so much anymore? On the same day that you asked the question? Err...ok then!... (read in full...)
How do I deal with their teases that became annoying after a year?
Q. Okay, alot of guys i know think i look like 50 Cent, the rapper, and they always call me "CURTIS' because they think it's funny...and whenever me and one of the guys are alone, they say i don't really look like him..i just don't understand...i told ...
A. 19 April 2008: The more you tell them you hate it, the more they will do it. They're doing it just to wind you up. If you ignore it and dont react to it they will get bored and forget about it soon enough.... (read in full...)
Can a fleshlight provide good sexual training?
Q. Hi all, I am 24, still a virgin. As I have moderately high sex drive and do not want to visit hookers or embark on one-night stands, I usually use sex toys (such as the Fleshlight) for masturbation purposes as I am kinda sick of using my hands, ...
A. 19 April 2008: lol you guys are funny.
i dont think its THAT weird. i mean girls use dildos right? but whats a bit concerning is that you think its gonna make you better at sex with a girl. umm...no. us girls need a little bit more attention that being shoved b... (read in full...)
How can I learn how to orgasm? Is there something wrong with me?
Q. I have read the other questions related to this on the website but I am still slightly confused. Does a woman have to learn how to orgasm? I am 17 and have never experienced an orgasm, and I'm worried there is something wrong. Other girls I sp...
A. 19 April 2008: an orgasm is a reaction to stimulation. its not something you can control. think of it like this - right now, do the following things.
Touch your nose with your finger.
Stretch your right arm out
stick your tongue out.
Sweat.
Have a... (read in full...)
I worry about HIV, could I have caught it in a moment of madness?
Q. Hi, This is probably a really stupid question but i'll ask none the less. A few years back I was really drunk and thought it was a brilliant idea to take off my shoes and go wading around in the city fountain in Leicester. I didn't get far and...
A. 19 April 2008: Nah you wont have HIV. If your foot became itchy its probably bacteria in the water irritating the skin (which is a nuisance but is harmless enough).
The only way you could've caught HIV from the fountain is if you had stood on a needle or somet... (read in full...)
Attracted to my little sister but I don't think it's wrong!
Q. So I am attracted to my little sister and I don't think it is wrong. i always have an erection around her and we are home alone a lot. she is just too sexy to ignore. i want to have sex with her but i don't think she wants it with me. if i can't ...
A. 19 April 2008: are you fucking serious? can someone help you on this?
Yeah, call 911 and tell them you have very good reason to believe your sister is at danger from an incestuous paedophile. Then admit yourself to the nearest psychiatric hospital and get the ... (read in full...)
Should he stay a virgin?
Q. Hi all, I find it really disturbing that one of our Aunts (WE ALL KNOW WHO) is ranting and raving over religion. He is clearly very disturbed, and should anyone that has such extreme views be giving advice? We are all entitled to believe in w...
A. 19 April 2008: maybe he's high?
nah just kidding. i did read that thread and its definitely....passionate! I think his views are pretty strong and he's definitely not open to other peoples opinions or beliefs in any way shape or form. He thinks he's right ab... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't let me go out! What can I do? I really want to see my friend.
Q. i want to go out tonight but my boyfriend soon to be x, wont let me, i did tell him not to let me spend any more money but i really want to go out, im 22 yrs old and wont see my friend for 6 months as she is moving to spain,ill only see her friday ...
A. 19 April 2008: Dont miss out on saying goodbye to your friend for a guy who's gonna be history soon! If you're planning to dump him soon then it would be silly to let him make a decision like that for you. I do think he's getting mixed signals though. I bet you ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my brother's girlfriend, what do I do?
Q. For just over 4 years now I have been in love with my brother's girlfriend and have no idea of what to do. I know that she feels the same way about me because two years and half ago she confessed her feelings to me and for six months we were seeing ...
A. 19 April 2008: I think the kids should be put first. Regardless of everything, you are their uncle. not their step-dad. If you did get with their mum, what would that make their dad? their step-uncle? it would be really bizarre for them to understand and I dont ... (read in full...)
A dear cupid STD riddle, can someone solve it?
Q. This is a dearcupid riddle... Who's done it??? Girl A is long distance girlfriend of Man B, but Man B also has an affair with girl C. Man B has unprotected sexual relationships with Girl A and also with Girl C. Recently Man B has had sex...
A. 18 April 2008: I'm not actually 100% sure but I think it would mean girl A had sex with someone else since February and then caught chlamydia so Man B and Girl C havent come into contact with it.
I dont think its possible to have been in a sexual relation... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New feature, "watched questions" list
Q. I've added a new feature that lets you add questions to your "watched questions" page. It's just an easy way to make a list of questions that interest you and that you want to keep track of. It's easy to remove items from the list or clear it. ...
A. 17 April 2008: Thanks Andrew thats a great idea, there has been a couple of times I've read posts but not really had anything to contribute that hasnt been said by other people. So I dont post anything then can never find the thread again when I'm wondering how ... (read in full...)
Where can I get Lapdancing/Stripping lessons?
Q. i want to give my boyfriend a striptease or a lapdance, does anyone know any sites that have tutorials..? (preferably videos) any tips would be much apreciated. thanks!...
A. 17 April 2008: Carmen Electra released a tutorial DVD on it. Its awesome lol. You can get it cheap on Amazon or Ebay. She released it as a fitness DVD but its called Carmen Electra's Aerobic Striptease and nobody does sexy like Carmen does sexy!... (read in full...)
I'm confused, and still in love with my ex-girlfriend!
Q. About two years ago, I got into a relationship with a girl. We were desperately in love, I was for sure. But 2 weeks later we broke up, I said something that she took the wrong way and from that point on it was wierd. From that point on I tried to ...
A. 16 April 2008: To be honest I think you need to try to forget about her. Mainly because she has been with a close friend of yours for 1.5 years so that makes her off-limits to you now. It was a bit different for him because you were only with her for 2 weeks but ... (read in full...)
Since I have become pregnant my partner has gone off sex completely!
Q. Since I have become pregnant my partner has gone off sex completely, he used to be very loving and affectionate but now looks at me as if I'm one of his mates and he even talks to me differently, I have asked him why he has changed and he says he ...
A. 10 April 2008: I think your boyfriend needs to grow up! You're pregnant and need support he should be trying to make things easier for you, not harder! Most men find women even more attractive when she is carrying his baby, its natural inbuilt instinct to make him ... (read in full...)
Can I become pregnant from previous ejaculation being on the penis even though I am on the pill?
Q. I had unprotected sex (pull-out method) and I just realised he ejaculated from the previous time (used a condom). that was stupid. i've been taking my pills at the right time everyday without missing any since, I started birth control which has been ...
A. 10 April 2008: if you're on the pill and are taking it correctly, are on no other meds and havent had any heavy sickness recently then you are protected against pregnancy but remember the pill does not protect against std's.... (read in full...)
I am pregnant at 16 and my boyfriend doesn't want the baby
Q. i am 16 and i am pregnant. my boyfriend (now he isn't my anymore) just tuned 18 and he does not want the baby. he told me to abort the unborn child. but i don't want to. i want to have this baby.is this the right decision?...
A. 10 April 2008: dont have an abortion because someone else wants you to. you will regret it massively. if you are sure you want the baby and could cope on your own then have it and ask your parents/friends/local council for as much help and support as you can get. ... (read in full...)
My confidence and self esteem are at an all time low.... Help!
Q. hi I live in california. I am very physically unattractive (I am very stockily built and my hair is not the conventional smooth sweeping locks, I also do not have a very nice complexion and my face is unfortunately put together. I do not belie...
A. 8 April 2008: hey,
First of all that boy is an idiot. He's showing his maturity by posting that. Who the hell cares what he thinks he's a loser and he and his friends all need to get lives.
Secondly, I bet you're a lot prettier than you think you are! y... (read in full...)
What do I do when time doesn't help me get over my first love?
Q. Hello all, I am writing to get some advice on how to move on with my life after a very bad break up. I am now at the worse state in my life. I cant concentrate for even a second, my mind always wonder to thinking what if things were dif...
A. 6 April 2008: I remember that pain only too well and wouldnt wish it on my worst enemy. I genuinely feel terrible for you, you just have to be strong and go through it. It might take a few more months but dont look at pictures of her, keep as busy as possible. It ... (read in full...)
What do I do when time doesn't help me get over my first love?
Q. Hello all, I am writing to get some advice on how to move on with my life after a very bad break up. I am now at the worse state in my life. I cant concentrate for even a second, my mind always wonder to thinking what if things were dif...
A. 6 April 2008: I've been there. It sucks so much. But seriously, even though you dont believe it, it really does get better in time. You wont be like 85 years old and still feel this way. One day you'll be over it.
Until then really try to keep busy, join a g... (read in full...)
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