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So, heres a whole bunch of stuff about me:

- I'm 23. Which scares me. I swear I was 17 yesterday!!

- My family are completely disfunctional and I wouldnt have it any other way.

- I work in a nursing home. Yep - bathing old people, taking them to the toilet and playing bingo all afternoon. Ok its not the most glamorous of jobs but i absolutely LOVE it and cant see myself ever doing anything else. I'd rather do a job which is a bit on the disgusting side but someone could not live without me doing for them than sit at a checkout all day saying "would you like a hand to pack?"

- I think I'm a little bit psychic. No really, stop laughing. Sometimes i just "get feelings" about things and then it happens. its weird.

- I fall in love very quickly. Not easily - I have a lot of boxes that need to be ticked before i'll want him, but if i meet someone special who does tick all those boxes, i'm in love in a matter of days.

- Relationships and the thought of being in love terrifies me right now.

- On 4 July 2007 I almost died - it wasnt my time. someone was looking out for me. Thank you.

- I have a big heart and it gets bruised easily.

- I can see things clearer when i'm not involved. situations seem very obvious to me when its happening to someone else, but when its me its a different matter. Basically, i should take my own advice sometimes.

- i love socks

- If all goes to plan, 2008 is gonna be a big one for me! Not much happened in 2007 really and I can only blame myself for not getting off my big fat butt and making stuff happen. So in 08 I'm planning to work in Zante, Greece for 6 months and also hoping to do Volunteer work in Ghana in November.

- i'd rather be told to F**k off than ignored

- I sing into my hairbrush and dance around in my underwear

- Someone on here (i forget who) recommended a book called The Secret to me. It completely changed my life.

- I hate drama. But i have so much drama. If it can happen to someone, it will almost certainly happen to me!

- I dont like being called pretty. Its not a compliment. Tell me i'm nice / important to you / did something that made you feel good or smile. I dont care if i got lucky in the DNA department or not, its not something i've done or achieved.

- Music is my life

- im a big big big believer in fate and destiny and i truly believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason.

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My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   7 May 2008: And what makes me think I am right and others are wrong? The fact that someone said they wish she had posted here before going to the police because he could have told her not to as the police would not do anything. I know for a FACT that is wrong... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   7 May 2008: I dont know the posters motives, but I fully believe that it was to protect her niece and to seek justice for herself. My mothers on motives for pressing charges against her uncle were very similar. And you are right, in this country we WILL pro... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   5 May 2008: But the point is, she did not know how the case would go therefor she was right to press charges and not just take the law into her own hands. Because he COULD have been tried and found guilty. She knew he commited a crime and she reported it. That ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   5 May 2008: And Laura, I'm not being funny but I dont think you are really grasping this at all. What does the age of consent have to do with any of this? We already know she was well under the age of consent and that he was well above the age of criminal ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   5 May 2008: You said yourself in your first post on this topic that you do not know how the law works in the UK. There have been plenty of high profile and not so high profile cases where victims of sexual abuse have filed reports as adults and the case has ... (read in full...)

All guys adore me and find me the hottest, but would not approach me...are they totally crazy?!

Q.   Well i am 19 years old and i am studying in this highly prestigious university in the United Kingdom. I am the most popular girl in class and my classmates think that i am a stuck up, attitude carrying show off. All this is said behind my back. ...

A.   5 May 2008: Read your own question back, it doesnt make sense. What people are telling you is that how can you be the most popular girl in your class if people are all talking about you behind your back? If people are all saying you are stuck up then they obv... (read in full...)

All guys adore me and find me the hottest, but would not approach me...are they totally crazy?!

Q.   Well i am 19 years old and i am studying in this highly prestigious university in the United Kingdom. I am the most popular girl in class and my classmates think that i am a stuck up, attitude carrying show off. All this is said behind my back. ...

A.   5 May 2008: yawn.... (read in full...)

All guys adore me and find me the hottest, but would not approach me...are they totally crazy?!

Q.   Well i am 19 years old and i am studying in this highly prestigious university in the United Kingdom. I am the most popular girl in class and my classmates think that i am a stuck up, attitude carrying show off. All this is said behind my back. ...

A.   4 May 2008: I happen to think i'm not bad to look at and both of my parents are surgeons. We're not exactly broke. But if I was to walk around claiming to be the most popular person in my class (even though every bitches about me behind my back) and that all ... (read in full...)

Where can I hide my "toy" from Mum?

Q.   Hello, I am trying to find a place to put my vibrator.do u know where the most unlikley Place that my Mom whould find it? Post thanks...

A.   4 May 2008: oh and a word of advice - take the batteries out of it when you're not using it. God has a sense of humour and I know a few people who have had the gross misfortune of a vibrator springing to life all by itself in a drawer when they have a room full ... (read in full...)

Where can I hide my "toy" from Mum?

Q.   Hello, I am trying to find a place to put my vibrator.do u know where the most unlikley Place that my Mom whould find it? Post thanks...

A.   4 May 2008: This is a tough one hey? lol When I lived at home I had frequent dreams about my dad finding mine - not nice! I used to keep it under the mattress then one day, I have no idea why but I decided to move it to the top of my wardrobe. I got home from ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend of 11 months may have lied to me about why he got fired!

Q.   My boyfriend of 11 months may have lied to me about something. I was at a party today and one of his friends whos step dad worked with my boyfriend and I were talking and we got to talking about my boyfriend and he said that my boyfriend got fi...

A.   4 May 2008: He was probably just embarrassed and didnt want to look irresponsible so he made out it wasnt his fault and there was nothing he could do about it. He is probably very disappointed in himself and doesnt want you to be disappointed in him too. Being ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   4 May 2008: Nothing needs to be proved to you. Everything that needs to be proved is proved to Andrew. Not you. Your logic is wrong. You claim that she should not have reported it because the police would not be able to do anything so far down the line. Wh... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   3 May 2008: You're disappointed by our behaviour? Who the hell died and made you king of all dear cupid? Thats obviously the attitude you have since you sent me a pm requesting that i forward YOU the pm's that paedophile sent me. What has it to do with you and ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   3 May 2008: and for the benefit of anyone reading this in a similar situation, my mother was sexually abused as a child. She reported the crime when she was 46. He was found guilty and is still in prison. pm me if you want links to the local media reports. Its ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   3 May 2008: I would say to you, poster, forgive him in the sense of "Im not going to let this animal effect my life anymore, i'm going to get past it and move on and not have hatred in my life" because it will be better for you. Do not forgive what he did i... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   3 May 2008: you are an idiot.... (read in full...)

How do I stop this obsession, and finally close this chapter in my life, once and for all?

Q.   I hope i can get some advice without anyone thinking i'm crazy :) I've been with my boyfriend just over 2 years. We have a fantastic relationship. I love him dearly. About six months before we got together, he had just got out of a 3 year relatio...

A.   3 May 2008: Woah! What a crazy lady. Not you btw lol. I can see why she's on your mind so much and why you hate her . This girl has gone out of her way to destroy you. Anyone would be looking for a little revenge. But really you are not hurting anyone but ... (read in full...)

All guys adore me and find me the hottest, but would not approach me...are they totally crazy?!

Q.   Well i am 19 years old and i am studying in this highly prestigious university in the United Kingdom. I am the most popular girl in class and my classmates think that i am a stuck up, attitude carrying show off. All this is said behind my back. ...

A.   3 May 2008: I'm sorry but what planet are you on? You're the most popular girl in class but all your classmates talk about you behind your back and they all think you are stuck up? You're not very popular at all then are you! And maybe part of the problem ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   3 May 2008: "She should not have reported it to the police because she would only ruin his brother's name, bring shame to the family and destroyed her relationship with her family." Actually Laura I think you'll find HE ruined his own name, HE ... (read in full...)

Sometimes I wonder if I'm really in love, or if it's been so long I don't know how to do anything else!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years. There was talk of marriage after two, but we don't want to rush anything. We want to wait until our jobs are more stable, and he finishes college (in 1 year). So we are in a serious relationship. L...

A.   2 May 2008: Hey, I think everyone starts to feel like that after a few years and the initial honeymoon period has worn off. It could be that you're just taking him for granted and not realising how much you love him because you're so used to him being a ... (read in full...)

Has anyone heard of linkng?

Q.   What does linking mean? Recently, boys having asking me and my friends to link them and none of us know what they mean? At first, we thought it meant to snog but we are now unsure and we are really confused. Is there anybody who could actual...

A.   1 May 2008: ha i'm only 23 and i felt ancient looking up that urban dictionary site! i'm so not down with da kids! :(... (read in full...)

Has anyone heard of linkng?

Q.   What does linking mean? Recently, boys having asking me and my friends to link them and none of us know what they mean? At first, we thought it meant to snog but we are now unsure and we are really confused. Is there anybody who could actual...

A.   1 May 2008: Hey, I'd never heard of it either but I looked it up in the urban dictionary for you. Apparently if you're linking someone it means you're having regular sex with them but are not in a relationship with them. They're a bit sad really so you shou... (read in full...)

My boyfriend comes from an abusive background. Should I be worried if he abuses our cat?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating over a year now and I couldn't be happier with him. But, he comes from an abusive background and that worries me. We have a cat that we bought together. He likes to put her inside the bath tub or shower because he ...

A.   1 May 2008: I dont think he's trying to torture the cat, i think hes genuine in that he doesnt want her to be afraid of water but cats hate water. Its just their instinct so he's fighting a losing battle and scaring the bejeezus out of the cat. Unles... (read in full...)

What does he really mean when he tells me I'm a good girl?

Q.   What's implied when a guy says good girl? He treats me well, we get along and talk alot, but sometimes i get a hint of chauvinism from him. Sometimes he calls me a ''good girl''(eg after or during sex, the 1st time i made a comment that the anal se...

A.   30 April 2008: It does sound chauvenistic in the context you described it. It sounds like he's saying it as a "reward" for something you've done that he's liked ie sex / saying you enjoyed anal sex. I would keep an eye on it and if he starts to show any chau... (read in full...)

How can I stop my Husband beating me?

Q.   How do I stop my husband from beating me all the time? ...

A.   30 April 2008: Leave him.... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   30 April 2008: Excuse me LonelyTwo but if you'd seen the PMs he has sent me you would not think that. so maybe its YOU jumping to conclusions? And when someone has OBVIOUSLY suffered abuse (or what would be the point to the post?) and comes on here looking ... (read in full...)

My friends fit into size 4. I'm overweight. How do I diet?

Q.   well, I'm 16 and weigh about 8 stone. i fit into size 8 or 10 clothes usually. i never thought i was particularly fat, although everyone has hang-ups and I'm no exception. however, today, me and few female friends were talking and i discover...

A.   30 April 2008: Victoria pissing Beckham has a lot to answer for. Size 4 is not an accomplishment. In fact its disgusting. I can hand on heart say I'd rather be a size 24. Size 8-10 is a good healthy weight and size to be so you should stick to it. And by the w... (read in full...)

I do not want to see him until my skin looks amazing - how to hide my blemishes?

Q.   Hi.I need help with something.I like this guy but i don't want to see him unless my skin looks absolutely perfect.I just would like to know which is good make up to use to hide anything like blemishes. I have porcelain skin which is why i'm find...

A.   30 April 2008: What blemishes are we talking about here? acne? birthmarks? If its acne use an exfoliator with beads in it (i use clean & clear morning burst) twice a day then wash with black mud from the dead sea face soap which you can buy online for about £3... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   30 April 2008: I apologise to the poster for the "help" you are getting from one of our "aunts". All I can really say is there is only one type of person in the world who would ever defend a paedophile. And that is a paedophile.... (read in full...)

I now have to work with two people I have previously slept with, how do I keep it cool?

Q.   I'll probably get judged as a complete slapper here (understandable)....but please give me some good advice before judgement. I know, i know....it's my own fault. I'm a student, and done temping work last summer for a great firm. I loved it, and ...

A.   30 April 2008: The good news is you're not a slapper. The bad news is your first few days at work are gonna be a bit mortifying. I'm thinking it will be a lot easier than you imagine though and that they probably wont even mention it. It was a year ago, you're w... (read in full...)

Please read and advise, is this the kind of person I am or even who I want to be?

Q.   I have a problem. I know im going to get all the generic answers of your a bitch who isn't satisfied with your own life so you have to go around messing up other people's etc etc....But Im not like that. Im just a young person who has done things. ...

A.   30 April 2008: I dont think you're a bitch who's going round messing up other peoples lives. I just think you and your boyfriend are out of the exciting new phase in your relationship, where the initial sexual chemistry isnt there anymore and when you found it in ... (read in full...)

I have sex five times a week but he has a girlfriend

Q.   Hi I have had sex 5 times in a single week with a man who already has a girlfriend. The sex was suprisingly very good and he wants to see me again(obvisouly). I just wanted to have fun and all but now I am not sure whether it's okay to contin...

A.   30 April 2008: I hate women who screw over other women. Its just all messed up. He has a girlfriend, I could maybe understand if you were madly desperately in love with him and couldnt live without him but you're not. Its just sex. Hes not the only man in the w... (read in full...)

Just wondering if there is anyone out there that has hurt the person that they adore?

Q.   Hi my name is Kieron and up intill a month ago i was one of the happyest men youcould meet. But that all changed when my partner told me she was leaving. It all started about a 3 monthes ago i have had some problems with myself due to things in the ...

A.   30 April 2008: I think being apart from her will do both of you good. She will have space and time to find herself again away from a controlling relationship and you will have space and time to work through your issues which is crucial to you if you want to have a ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   30 April 2008: Can someone delete or edit what solver wrote? I can only assume he has been in a similar situation where HE was the abuser. But either way his post was cruel and an embarrassment to the site.... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   30 April 2008: I can see it from all angles. I think you were absolutely right to press charges against your brother and I cant stress that enough but I can see why it is hard for your parents too. He is their son and he has their grandchildren. That is difficult ... (read in full...)

Should I become a meaner person... or louder and outspoken just to be loved??

Q.   So i am the sweetest person anyone can meet..evryone who i have ever encountered tells me that i am nice and i am really kindhearted. I am willing to be devoted to someone, care about them and be faithful...so i dnt understand why guys wont make me ...

A.   28 April 2008: Why would you want to be mean? Thats only gonna make people not like you and if you do meet someone who is attracted to mean people...well he's probably not gonna be the nicest guy in the world is he? So why would you want him? I don't think it... (read in full...)

How do I dump the trouble women while keeping one or two lookers on the side for sex and still stay with me girlfriend?

Q.   My love-life has been pretty hectic lately and I need some advice. I've been in a relationship with this truly wonderful, sweet girl for the past seven years. We get along great, do all sorts of fun things together and really care about each other. ...

A.   28 April 2008: your life and you'll bang who you wanna bang? if you really believed that you wouldnt be shitting yourself about the husbands finding out who you are. Tell them its your life and you'll bang who you wanna bang and see if they give you a slap on the ... (read in full...)

Why do men lie??

Q.   Me and this guy hit it off perfectly, there was never a dull moment between us. We loved being around each other, but over the course of our relationship he would lie about the stupidest things...and just not tell me the truth. He told me that he ...

A.   28 April 2008: I hate to say this but if he told you he doesnt want a girlfriend then got a girlfriend straight away, it looks like he just didnt want to lead you on. He didnt want you to think he wanted you to be his girlfriend but if he'd said it like that it ... (read in full...)

I honestly don't want to do this course, but feel I can't let my parents down.

Q.   I don't know if this question is relevant to Dear Cupid. I'm just hoping i can get some good advice. I'm 19 in 2 weeks. Young to some, very old to me. I got my A-levels last year. Not amazing grades (through no fault of my own,i was off 3 months...

A.   28 April 2008: Too old to start making changes? At 19 you're too young to know what changes you want made never mind having made them already. If you really hate your degree and really dont want to do it, I would say not to. It'll only get worse and you'll e... (read in full...)

How can two people be sexually involved yet not have a relationship?

Q.   I am confused about something. Nowadays, it seems quite normal for a single man to have sex with a single woman without any need for a relationship. This is something I fundamentally cannot understand. How can someone - man or woman - actually...

A.   28 April 2008: Each to their own I suppose. To some people its an incredibly intimate, personal, emotional and sometimes a spiritual thing. To others its something that feels good. Personally I think human beings as a species were designed to want a lot of sex d... (read in full...)

How to I get in contact with modelling agents?

Q.   well can someone tell me how to i get in contact with modelling agents or just something to do with glamour world......

A.   27 April 2008: The best way to get into glamour modelling is to look up online portfolios of girls who are already in the industry or who you admire and it will tell you who their agent is. Then contact them and send them pictures (remember they get hundreds of ... (read in full...)

I need to go to my doctor with a good excuse for not seeing him when I first found out I had this embarassing problem!

Q.   I realised i had genital warts about 8 months ago. They were tiny, but after massive research, i knew what they were. I was obviously devestated. Over the 8 months they have gotten much bigger. I'm ver embarrassed. I haven't had sex in this long...

A.   27 April 2008: Genital warts can go away on their own (although 8 months is a long time so i'm not sure he'd buy it if you told him you were waiting to see if they'd go away by themselves). Don't be embarrassed they are VERY common. I went with my sister w... (read in full...)

He saw me misbehave when I was drunk and is now avoiding me! Help!

Q.   Theres this guy I really like that I work with.. He has a bit of a reputation as a slut and for some stupid reason I've slept with him.. Twice. For me, this has just made me like him even more and I don't really know what to do anymore. He's made it ...

A.   27 April 2008: I think its YOU who should be avoiding HIM. 99% of the time, people get reputations for a reason. He's a slut. And he had sex with you even though he "doesnt think of you in that way". Sad little boy. You dont wanna be with a guy like that, yo... (read in full...)

He's starting to get on my nerves now...should I stick with it?

Q.   Im really frustrated in my head at the moment and im really hoping you can help. I have been with my bf for a little while, but recently he has been really frustrating me. everything he does gets on my nerves and he makes racist or stupid re...

A.   27 April 2008: Every relationship has good bits. I think you should get shot of him and find someone else who will give you all the good parts and none (or a hell of a lot less) of the bad parts. It sounds like your attraction to him has gone straight out the ... (read in full...)

Sleeping with a married man and jealous of his wife and baby..what should I do?

Q.   Im sleeping with a maried man and i thibnk i might be falling in love with him. Im jealous of his wife and i cant handle that he has just had a baby with her. what should i do?...

A.   27 April 2008: Are you really 13-15 years old? That just makes this all more tragic and frustrating. He is married. That makes him legally and morally HER man. He is not cheating on you with her. He is cheating on her with you. She's his wife - the woman he... (read in full...)

This morning he told me it's over...but why?

Q.   ok.. so the story goes... im really good friends with this lad.. have been for quite a wile..he has tried kissin me a few times..each time ive sed no. however he tried last night wen i was really drunk, n i kissed him bak but then stopped. also ...

A.   27 April 2008: hi, i dont know whats going on with him - did you get with any other guys last night? did anything happen that someone might have told him about which has pissed him off? if not then he might just be confused and thinking you're messing with his... (read in full...)

He's my best friend and I think I love him but he sees me as a sister, do I state my feelings to him?

Q.   Hiiyah! I've Been best friends with this guy for about 3 years now and i can honestly say that i love him to pieces but we've started to drift apart recently and i hate that! :( A while back before i was going with my last boyfriend i started to f...

A.   27 April 2008: To be honest i've been in that situation twice, where i had a close guy friend and started thinking i was in love with him. On one occassion it was when we began drifting apart, with the other guy it was when he started getting serious about his ... (read in full...)

What do you feel about the issue of men watching porn together?

Q.   (1).what is the opinion of both men and women about the issue of men watching porn together, even if it is heterosexual porn. (2). My husband likes to go a football game in Florida every year, which I have not caused commotion about. Sometimes...

A.   26 April 2008: It doesnt make him gay! I mean he's not gonna watch porn and then jump on the nearest red blooded thing - man, woman or animal. Its just a guy thing and he took it because they were having a bit of a boys weekend - football, beer, porn. Altho... (read in full...)

How do I stay sane when I'm in a dead end job? Keeping up the motivation is hard!

Q.   I've been employed with this department for over 8 years. It's a dead end job. I'll miss a few people here however, it's been time to move on to something better. I've applied with so many companies, departments, contractors, court houses...I've ...

A.   26 April 2008: Sounds like you've fought hard, worked your ass off and been really strong for a really long time. I have every faith than sooner than you think karma is gonna deal you the hand you deserve. xx... (read in full...)

How do I give him oral sex without teething him? I also get tired!

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A.   26 April 2008: Hi, To keep your teeth out the way you need to kind of cover your bottom teeth with your tongue and your top teeth with your top lip. You do get a sore, tired jaw after a while but you can vary what you're doing. ie try kind of sucking the side... (read in full...)

How do I stay sane when I'm in a dead end job? Keeping up the motivation is hard!

Q.   I've been employed with this department for over 8 years. It's a dead end job. I'll miss a few people here however, it's been time to move on to something better. I've applied with so many companies, departments, contractors, court houses...I've ...

A.   25 April 2008: You just havent found the right job yet. If you're not getting the jobs you're applying for it means you're not right for them so thank god you didnt get them otherwise you'd be miserable in them. A lot of it also depends on who else applies so keep ... (read in full...)

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