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So, heres a whole bunch of stuff about me:

- I'm 23. Which scares me. I swear I was 17 yesterday!!

- My family are completely disfunctional and I wouldnt have it any other way.

- I work in a nursing home. Yep - bathing old people, taking them to the toilet and playing bingo all afternoon. Ok its not the most glamorous of jobs but i absolutely LOVE it and cant see myself ever doing anything else. I'd rather do a job which is a bit on the disgusting side but someone could not live without me doing for them than sit at a checkout all day saying "would you like a hand to pack?"

- I think I'm a little bit psychic. No really, stop laughing. Sometimes i just "get feelings" about things and then it happens. its weird.

- I fall in love very quickly. Not easily - I have a lot of boxes that need to be ticked before i'll want him, but if i meet someone special who does tick all those boxes, i'm in love in a matter of days.

- Relationships and the thought of being in love terrifies me right now.

- On 4 July 2007 I almost died - it wasnt my time. someone was looking out for me. Thank you.

- I have a big heart and it gets bruised easily.

- I can see things clearer when i'm not involved. situations seem very obvious to me when its happening to someone else, but when its me its a different matter. Basically, i should take my own advice sometimes.

- i love socks

- If all goes to plan, 2008 is gonna be a big one for me! Not much happened in 2007 really and I can only blame myself for not getting off my big fat butt and making stuff happen. So in 08 I'm planning to work in Zante, Greece for 6 months and also hoping to do Volunteer work in Ghana in November.

- i'd rather be told to F**k off than ignored

- I sing into my hairbrush and dance around in my underwear

- Someone on here (i forget who) recommended a book called The Secret to me. It completely changed my life.

- I hate drama. But i have so much drama. If it can happen to someone, it will almost certainly happen to me!

- I dont like being called pretty. Its not a compliment. Tell me i'm nice / important to you / did something that made you feel good or smile. I dont care if i got lucky in the DNA department or not, its not something i've done or achieved.

- Music is my life

- im a big big big believer in fate and destiny and i truly believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason.

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I would like another child but my partner says no way!

Q.   I want another child but my boyfriend doesn't. Our son is 3 years old now and idon't want him to be a only child. Money is not a problem....

A.   6 February 2007: thats not very much information. why doesnt he want another one? is your relationship strong enough for another? you cant make him want something he doesnt want so i would say just to talk to him about why he feels like this and wait because he may ... (read in full...)

Saw my ex and I dream of him! Does this mean I am not in love with my current partner?

Q.   I've been in a relationship for 4 years and have a baby of 1 year, I recently saw my ex-boyfriend in the pub and haven't been able to stop thinking about him and having dreams of myself and him being together. Does this mean that I am not actually ...

A.   6 February 2007: Everyone feels a bit funny when they see an ex after a long period. You get butterflies and feel a whole rush of different emotions. And it'll stay on your mind for a while. Your just remembering how you felt about him back then, its probably not ... (read in full...)

Sent him some messages I regret. Will he be really angry with me?

Q.   This week a guy i fancy'd , found out ! =S ... he was all off with me for the rest of the week . Last night i was drunk and went on msn , and sent him some messages saying , i dont even fancy you anymore ... ect . He didnt reply because it was ...

A.   3 February 2007: ahhh the good old drunken messaging. everyone does it. dont worry about it. maybe you could tell him you were drunk and sorry for sending those messages then leave it there. i dont think he'll be angry with you because he's probably done a bit of ... (read in full...)

I am in love with my online guy. The problem is, I am stuck in the web of lies I created

Q.   I met this guy on the internet a few months ago and to start with i was just looking for fun and having a laugh, if i'm honest i just wanted a bit of attention. now i've fallen in love with him. he's in love with me too. and i know that people often ...

A.   3 February 2007: I agree that you can love someone you have never met and you probably do love him. He doesnt love you. He doesnt even know your name. Since it is you asking for advice here and not him, i would advise you to go back to wherever you met him from, i'm ... (read in full...)

Should I meet this 16 year old girl who says I am a stunner, even though I know I'm not! What should I do?

Q.   i'm very worried about the girl i'm about to meet. i'm 24 year old i've just come out of a 15 months r-ship and now i'm bored and want a new r-ship. i went on this website called " faceparty " and this girl aged 16 has gotten my msn and is now ...

A.   3 February 2007: she probably doesnt want you to go near her house because she knows her parents won't approve of their 16 year old daughter going out somewhere with a 24 year old man she met on the internet. i really dont think she's planning to get a group of lads ... (read in full...)

Is there something wrong with boys not wanting to date fat girls?

Q.   I have never ever had a boyfriend. I say it is because I am fat and ugly, but all my other friends say it is because nobody is interested in my yet. Is there somethng wrong with me? Is there something wrong with boys not wanting to date fat girls?...

A.   3 February 2007: at 13-15 years old, its not surprising you have never had a boyfriend. its not like your 65 and have never had one! :P Don't worry about it so much. to be honest at your age, you really dont want a boyfriend. dating can be complicated and painful at ... (read in full...)

My gf hides alot of her thoughts and feelings from me! What should I do?

Q.   Hi everybody. I am having trouble handling my gf. She does not tell me if she's unhappy with me even though i asked her. She does not tell me a lot of things too. Like for example, when i could not spend christmas with her last year, she was pretty ...

A.   3 February 2007: sounds like a lot of it is coming from her friend. Communication is so important in a relationship so explain your girlfriend that if she doesnt tell you how she feels about things and doesnt let you "in", then your relationship will fail at some ... (read in full...)

Why would he be turned on by my feet!?

Q.   Why are feet such a turn on for some people? My boyfriend even asked me to incorporate them into our intimate times. We got on the topic of fetishes, and I said 'well, I like feet and everything, but not to the point I'd cut someone's off', and he ...

A.   3 February 2007: i've never really gotten the foot fetish thing myself although it is very common. i can only assume its because its a part of the body which is usually covered by socks and shoes so you dont see peoples feet often. kind of making it another private ... (read in full...)

We used to contact each other daily, now she only replies every 3 days. Is she forgetting about me?

Q.   Hi, I have been with my current girlfriend since around November/December and we contacted each other daily, spending all our credit on each other. Recently though she seems to be ignoring my texts and only replying every 3 or 4 days when ...

A.   16 January 2007: wait for her to text you. it sounds like your making yourself too available to her, if you dont text her for a couple of days she'll wonder what your up to and she'll be back. its human nature to want what you cant have so if you cool off a little ... (read in full...)

What the heck does nip mean?

Q.   i have been dating this boy for ages now and he asked me if i would nip him what do i do when i nip a boy as i have never done it b4 this is really important help!...

A.   1 November 2006: it means kiss.... (read in full...)

He dumped me to date other girls..but now claims he loves me and wants back in my life. What should I do?

Q.   to all cupids, me and my bf went out for about 3 months then we got into a big arguement which ended in him dumping me. we stayed away from each other for a few months then he emailed me saying he wanted to talk. so we talked it turned out that he ...

A.   29 October 2006: he's an idiot. he just wants a girlfriend and doesn't sound too bothered about who it is. you're better than him and if you take him back, he'll do the exact same thing again. He's taking the mick. don't let him. best of luck babe xxx... (read in full...)

His new gf is fat and busty. Should I be insulted that he chose her over me?

Q.   My ex has a new girlfriend. She's fat and ugly, massive bust, and not very similar to him in personality. I'm slim, average looking (although since we broke up I've been getting a hell of a lot of offers from guys!), my chest is quite small but in ...

A.   29 October 2006: don't be insulted. its always hard when your ex gets a new girlfriend but just try to move on with one of the other guys! hehe. He likes her and theres something about her that he finds attractive, just as there was obviously something about you he ... (read in full...)

mY friend told this man I liked him and now...he thinks I am a stalker and I am so embarrassed!

Q.   OK really difficult situation...any insight is needed, thanks in advance...What do you do when a dumb friend of yours (without permission) went off and told the man of your dreams( very 3rd grade) That you absolutely adored him and that this guy ...

A.   29 October 2006: I remember a similar situation. Fell out with one of my friends and she told the object of my affection that i was in love with him, cried myself to sleep over not being with him and was basically just obsessed. I honestly thought i was going to die ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for my little 9 year old sister to enjoy bathing with her 9 year old friend?

Q.   hey all cupids, i have a very weird question, but here just a lil bak ground info first. i am 15 yr old and my lil sister is 9(laura). we share a room and we r very close. she has a best friend(danny)also 9. they are togther all the time which is ...

A.   29 October 2006: i used to have baths with my sister when i was young. i think at 9 its not a problem. but much older than 9 and i would feel uncomfortable about it. its not like they are going through puberty yet. so i think its acceptable...but only just.... (read in full...)

We broke up and he saw how upset that made me - has he asked me out again out of pity?

Q.   hey... me and my boyfriend split up just over a week ago becase he told me he felt uncomfortable because im 2 and a half years older ... after a day or so he kept askin me if i was ok becuase to him i was acting stange.. and he told me because ...

A.   26 October 2006: If he just wants to get back together because he feels sorry for you it won't work out. If he's going to be with you it has to be because he wants to be with you otherwise you'll get back together for a few weeks or maybe a month then he'll be off ... (read in full...)

I'm 21 and just can't move on from my past crush!

Q.   I'm nearly 21 years old and I’ve never been in a committed relationship. When I was 19, I was seeing this bloke and he told me he didn't want a relationship. At that time, I didn't want a relationship either. Then as time went on, he was flir...

A.   26 October 2006: you will move on and one day you'll meet someone who treats you with respect and a lot better than this guy did. I think your finding it hard to move on from him cos he's the only guy you've ever felt like that about and the only person you've ever ... (read in full...)

He wants a relationship with me but I'm not sure! What should I do?

Q.   Am 22 yrs and he is 29 yrs. he's a family friend and his mum is a very good friend of my mum. the problem is that he asked me for a relationship, he says he loves me so much and wants to marry me if my parents agree to it. but i don't know what to ...

A.   25 October 2006: if you love him i think you should just go for it! the age gap isn't too big, and if he's friends with your parents maybe they'll be ok with it because they obviously know him and think he's a good guy or they wouldn't be friends with him. don't ... (read in full...)

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