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My fiance will have a dabble with crack here and there... and now I'm not so sure I can handle it!
Q. I had been bought up around a drug infested enviroment.. I've never really found it a problem being around friends who do such drugs as ecstasy, amphetamine and weed. I've dabbled myself but left it at that. I've always been against heroin, ketamine ...
A. 15 November 2009: It you truly believe it won't get worse...stick around! There are very few people who can smoke crack and not become addicted! I have never known any! But if you can hang in there...when it does get bad...I wish you luck! Oh by the way...I did ... (read in full...)
My fiance will have a dabble with crack here and there... and now I'm not so sure I can handle it!
Q. I had been bought up around a drug infested enviroment.. I've never really found it a problem being around friends who do such drugs as ecstasy, amphetamine and weed. I've dabbled myself but left it at that. I've always been against heroin, ketamine ...
A. 14 November 2009: I've never known anyone to "dabble" for very long! Crack is very addictive...and before you realize what's happening, it will take everything that's important to you away. Little by little it will steal your life away. It might seem like ... (read in full...)
I think deep down he loves me -- any ideas about what's going through his mind?
Q. Why I can't forget him while he seems to me just a liar? He knew that i am elder than him for about 14 yrs but he continuously showed his love and jealousy for me .I am an educated , unmarried and pretty woman.I have my reputation and position as ...
A. 2 October 2009: I agree with "Caring Guy," It's time for you to move on!
Allow yourself to grieve the relationship...then let it go.
If you have pictures of him...put them away in a box and don't look at them. Don't listen to sappy love songs that remind y... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend of 3 years about my one-night-stand?
Q. I've just started university and last week was my freshers week. One night I really had too much to drink and ended up leaving the place I was in to go to a guys house and had unprotected sex. Only thing is, I'm in a relationship. I've been with my ...
A. 22 September 2009: I agree with caring guy and the others who said you shouldn't tell him (unless you are tested positive for an STD, then you are obligated to tell him)
I don't believe you should hurt him just to clear your conscience. You will have to learn to... (read in full...)
Will I look like an idiot for writing to the man I'm in love with, "my thoughts are with you"?
Q. I feel so stupid. I am in love with a man and he recently wrote to me to tell me that he is going through an emotionally difficult time. I responded that "I understand and that my thoughts are with him". After sending it I realised that the ...
A. 19 September 2009: That is not the only time that phrase is used, and it was perfectly appropriate as you intended it!
You let him know you care! Mission Accomplished!... (read in full...)
Considering a divorce here...what do you all think?
Q. Immediate problem: my husband went away to a beer festival over the weekend with 5 other single guys when I specifically told him it made me uncomfortable and I didn't want him to go. The reason why this is a bigger issue than it would be normally...
A. 19 September 2009: I don't think the silent treatment solves problems. No matter how you feel and what your decision might be, it is always best to be upfront and communicate!
Tell him how you feel just like you told us. Don't hold back! Then, take it from the... (read in full...)
Too much has happened and I think I'm growing up too fast
Q. So heres the thing i have just won a legal battle so as me and my pregnant girlfriend can live on our own (you wont have heard about it, non of us wanted it to go public). We now live in a flat for 800 rent which the court pays. I LOVE my life, the ...
A. 18 September 2009: WOW! I wish you the best of luck! I give you credit for atleast attempting to live in the adult world. Although it sounds as though you don't have much responsibiltiy as far as taking care of your family...sounds like that is being done for you. ... (read in full...)
My mother broke her promise to me and really let me down. Should she apologize?
Q. I have been living on my own for some time now few years, and done actual very well, but my car broke down and so I have no way to get around I am in a very tiny rural town and without a car you cant get around. I told my mother this but never asked ...
A. 17 September 2009: There is always room for healing, no matter how long it takes!
I know what it is like to be in the middle between husband and daughter. It's a very difficult place to be! I haven't always made the right decisions, regretably. But I have alwa... (read in full...)
PARENTS: What are safe, suitable play areas for childen aged 3 to 5?
Q. I've just started a childcare and education course at college, and have been set an assignment to find out as much information as possible about the subject safe and suitable play areas for children between the ages of 3-5. So, I thought i'd get ...
A. 14 September 2009: I just read your article and hope it's not too late for your assignment!
I have been a preschool teacher for the last 12 years. There are lots of do's and don'ts when it comes to child safety. The best thing to do to protect children from dang... (read in full...)
How can I regain her trust especially now that the woman I cheated with is pregnant?
Q. Hello, I am asking this question so some of the viewers would reply, I met this girl in a bar one evening after having 4 long island, I ask her to meet me near the bathroom were it was private, she got up and walk back to the bathroom and I wa...
A. 14 September 2009: Sweetthing has said it best! And you are right...I believe you are at the point of no return!
I'm sorry. I know that's not what you want to hear, but we all have to pay for our mistakes!
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I feel stuck with an impossible choice: him or friends!
Q. I am in a long term relationship with an older man. The age hasn't been an issue until recently. I am in my mid 20s and he is in his mid 40s. We had led a quiet life together which we both liked. I had a bit of social anxiety and was unwell for a...
A. 14 September 2009: It is a totally unfair ultimatum he is giving you! But life isn't always fair! So, it is up to you to re-evaluate your relationship. You are not his hostage! He does not make the rules for you to live by! You are your own person and deserve ... (read in full...)
Are guys really addicted to checking out other women even if they are with someone?
Q. are all guys adicted to really checking girls out when they are with someone else or is that just natural...
A. 14 September 2009: No, I don't believe so! I have been with both types of men. One's whose head spins around when a pretty girl walks by and the other who had enough class, that it was as if he had blinders on when we were out together!
And I might add that the ... (read in full...)
He'll start an argument over anything!
Q. I got with my boyfriend around 9 months ago, We were absolutly amazing, he treated me like a princess and he really did seem special, he wanted to spend every waken moment with me aswell as i did with him. We have now got to the stage of 9 month...
A. 14 September 2009: I was married to a man like that for 16 years...it started with anger issues, then rage! It ended when I began to fear for my life. He was physically, emotionally, and verbally abusive! In the beginning I fought back...at the end I just tried to ... (read in full...)
Are we too clingy?
Q. It seems like we're perfect together. Both of us have mellow personalities and neither of us have tempers so when something bad happens we end up laughing. We never fight, we never get tired of talking or things to talk about, we disagree but never ...
A. 14 September 2009: Not only normal...but in my opinion very fortunate! When a couple makes a perfect match as you have, it's something to build on!
A far as clinginess, it's okay if you both feel the same way...it's when ones smothers the other, that it beco... (read in full...)
He says he's too old for this - any advice?
Q. Hi I am in an age gap relationship, my partner is 57 and I am 37, we have a great relationship, he has a boy of 8 from a previous relationship whom I have known since he was 3 and we get on brilliantly, there is only one problem I have recently ...
A. 13 September 2009: That is a tough situation to be in, but he sounds like he is willing to do anything to make you happy! If he said anything can be worked out, then try working it out!
But don't try to force fatherhood on him if he really isn't into it.
I wis... (read in full...)
I want us to have a threesome with a female escort. Is this is a good idea?
Q. Hello, just a quick request for advice, please. My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 8 years, and enjoy a healthy loving relationship. We are hoping to get married soon. We are both in our late 20s, professionals, and own our own ...
A. 13 September 2009: While it may sound great in the fantasy...things are not quite the same in reality. I won't necessarilly play out the way it does in your minds. Our imagination is sooo much more creative!
Having said that, if you are both willing to give it a... (read in full...)
Should I stay secretly unhappy in love?
Q. I need help? I am in a de-facto relationship of 18 months, we have bought a lovely home together. I love him very much but unfortunately it is the old hollywood line "I love him but I'm not IN love with him". I don't want to hurt him, I thought I ...
A. 13 September 2009: Give it more time! Appreciate the man you have! He is good to you and loves you dearly! What more could you ask for in this confusing, crazy world! The afteshock of marriage may be hitting you....Don't be so hasty to throw in the towel! There ... (read in full...)
Becoming obsessed with g/f in LDR
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 11 months now and now I'm in college. We're staying together because we really do love each other. I find myself staying home and waiting for a call from her when she promised she would. For example, there ...
A. 13 September 2009: Although I am guite a bit older and should be quite a bit wiser...I know how you are feeling. It is always me who contacts my LDR...well at least 95% of the time. It causes feelings of doubt. I know! Sometimes I force myself to Not Cont... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a married man...HELP!
Q. I started interning for this company about a year ago. That's were I met him. He was my boss and a solid 18 years older than I am. There was no immediate attraction. I knew he was married and the thought of us being together never ever evvvverr ...
A. 13 September 2009: This may not be the answer you are looking for...but I can only answer from my own experiences...
Enjoy what you have shared. Look back fondly on the memories...
And then let him go!
it is obvious you are not the "other woman' material... ... (read in full...)
A Dignified Life
Q. As the years go by, as the number of bodily aches add up, as the dream of having a feline I can go home to fades more and more, I often wonder if humanity would be capable of standing on their own two feet. If they would choose the options that ...
A. 13 September 2009: Thank you for your insight and commentary on todays society and way of thinking! It's not all about "me," and what I should do or what I want or need! It is time to think of others! It is time to put our greed and desires aside for the benefit ... (read in full...)
Am I making a decision based on rationality or am I just fed up?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We live together in my home and have children from previous relationships. He is still married and trying to get custody of his children. The children live here 1 week and at their mother's for another ...
A. 13 September 2009: Anyone can say that they are willing to change...the evidence is in their actions! We have all heard the phrase "actions speak louder than words!" It's absolutely true! If he is willing to change, then, you should see some action!
If you don'... (read in full...)
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