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I haven't felt this sad or hurt in ages and I just don't know what to do. He was so nice and now he just seems to have run away!

Q.   I'm 49 and I can't believe I've allowed myself to be put in this position. I've been seeing a guy and it's been like fireworks. Thrilling every time. Now, after telling me he loves getting my messages and texts (some quite racy)...he hasn't replied ...

A.   10 November 2012: well Aunty Em...of course you are right..unfortunately for me...I have reached that low place that you are talking about.....yes I have had enough...no, I will NEVER beg,,,,been there before..in fact, at least I have learned NOT to give him the ... (read in full...)

I haven't felt this sad or hurt in ages and I just don't know what to do. He was so nice and now he just seems to have run away!

Q.   I'm 49 and I can't believe I've allowed myself to be put in this position. I've been seeing a guy and it's been like fireworks. Thrilling every time. Now, after telling me he loves getting my messages and texts (some quite racy)...he hasn't replied ...

A.   9 November 2012: Hey that hurt to read but I agree with most of it...it's hard when it's you in the situation..that's why I need advice from others I guess..The reason I want to stay friends is he is in my village and comes into the ONLY bar there. We both frequent ... (read in full...)

I haven't felt this sad or hurt in ages and I just don't know what to do. He was so nice and now he just seems to have run away!

Q.   I'm 49 and I can't believe I've allowed myself to be put in this position. I've been seeing a guy and it's been like fireworks. Thrilling every time. Now, after telling me he loves getting my messages and texts (some quite racy)...he hasn't replied ...

A.   9 November 2012: oh POO!! well, I let him back in..we had a great time together but he's doing the no reply to texts thing again...I've never nagged him about it although I don't want to be a doormat either! I left a sweet but humorous message on his voice mail las... (read in full...)

I haven't felt this sad or hurt in ages and I just don't know what to do. He was so nice and now he just seems to have run away!

Q.   I'm 49 and I can't believe I've allowed myself to be put in this position. I've been seeing a guy and it's been like fireworks. Thrilling every time. Now, after telling me he loves getting my messages and texts (some quite racy)...he hasn't replied ...

A.   25 October 2012: Thank you for your encouragement....how strange life is eh?.....well, I'm not religious, but I passed a church today and nearly didn't go in....I did an "about face" and walked in..I said to whoever I thought mught be there...PLEASE BRING HIM TO ... (read in full...)

I haven't felt this sad or hurt in ages and I just don't know what to do. He was so nice and now he just seems to have run away!

Q.   I'm 49 and I can't believe I've allowed myself to be put in this position. I've been seeing a guy and it's been like fireworks. Thrilling every time. Now, after telling me he loves getting my messages and texts (some quite racy)...he hasn't replied ...

A.   25 October 2012: Well, some days have now passed and I weakened yesterday...I sent a little text saying "Just a little thought of you. I hope that you are well :-) kiss" ....I suppose I just wanted him to know that I'm not waiting to tear him off a strip when I ... (read in full...)

I haven't felt this sad or hurt in ages and I just don't know what to do. He was so nice and now he just seems to have run away!

Q.   I'm 49 and I can't believe I've allowed myself to be put in this position. I've been seeing a guy and it's been like fireworks. Thrilling every time. Now, after telling me he loves getting my messages and texts (some quite racy)...he hasn't replied ...

A.   22 October 2012: thanks everyone...good to have a guy's perspective....... (read in full...)

I haven't felt this sad or hurt in ages and I just don't know what to do. He was so nice and now he just seems to have run away!

Q.   I'm 49 and I can't believe I've allowed myself to be put in this position. I've been seeing a guy and it's been like fireworks. Thrilling every time. Now, after telling me he loves getting my messages and texts (some quite racy)...he hasn't replied ...

A.   22 October 2012: Thank you anonymous reader...very kind and wise words..obviously from bitter experience!.actually from everyone...it's strange actually, I read somewhere that this kind of silent treatment is very controlling, passive/aggressive emotional ... (read in full...)

I haven't felt this sad or hurt in ages and I just don't know what to do. He was so nice and now he just seems to have run away!

Q.   I'm 49 and I can't believe I've allowed myself to be put in this position. I've been seeing a guy and it's been like fireworks. Thrilling every time. Now, after telling me he loves getting my messages and texts (some quite racy)...he hasn't replied ...

A.   22 October 2012: It's really hard because I'm not really fine with him gone but if he's being so "cloak and dagger" about why he's not contacting me to even end it, telling him I don't want it over so quickly is just going to make me look desperate and clingy isn't ... (read in full...)

I haven't felt this sad or hurt in ages and I just don't know what to do. He was so nice and now he just seems to have run away!

Q.   I'm 49 and I can't believe I've allowed myself to be put in this position. I've been seeing a guy and it's been like fireworks. Thrilling every time. Now, after telling me he loves getting my messages and texts (some quite racy)...he hasn't replied ...

A.   22 October 2012: thank you so much for your opinion and kind advice...I haven't been seeing him intimately for long..he's in my village and I have to see him drive past occasionally on his way to work...I really like him but i don't like this treatment at all...It's ... (read in full...)

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