He Likes me or He likes me Not
Q. I recently met a man online. On our first date, we met for tea and kept it short as he had another business meeting to attend that day. He then arranged for a very romantic dinner on our second date and we talked for 3 hours. We kissed and hugged. ...
A. 18 September 2012: I know it is hard. I had to do the same thing with a boyfriend of 7 years. It was very difficult and I failed several times before actually sticking to the no contact. I kept hoping that he would change, but he never did. Hang in there...and ... (read in full...)
He Likes me or He likes me Not
Q. I recently met a man online. On our first date, we met for tea and kept it short as he had another business meeting to attend that day. He then arranged for a very romantic dinner on our second date and we talked for 3 hours. We kissed and hugged. ...
A. 17 September 2012: You're not seeing him, you're barely communicating with him, and when he does have free time, he isn't proactive about making plans with you. It sounds like he is stringing you along. I would end it.... (read in full...)
I hurt my FWB's feelings by talking to another girl. Did I cross boundaries?
Q. My friend with benefits is not happy with me after she found out that I was speaking to a mutual female acquaintance. I am not interested romantically in this other woman at all. The conversation was about music related activities that we both have ...
A. 2 September 2012: Don't think too deeply on this. When people have sex, they often have strong feelings for one another. You have a relationship with her and even call her your girlfriend/FWB. Either she's your girlfriend or she isn't...and you might want to ... (read in full...)
He Likes me or He likes me Not
Q. I recently met a man online. On our first date, we met for tea and kept it short as he had another business meeting to attend that day. He then arranged for a very romantic dinner on our second date and we talked for 3 hours. We kissed and hugged. ...
A. 2 September 2012: Is he still texting/communicating with you? Honestly, it is hard to tell. I would let him know you would like to go out again and ask him when would he like to go. I know the old saying is that men are supposed to pursue the women, but it has ... (read in full...)
B/f doesn't treat me with love and care like he used to
Q. in terms of problems this maybe isnt huge but it is playing on my mind a bit. i have been with my boyfreind for 2 years now...and he just doesnt treat me with the same care and attention he used to. Yesterday was my 24rd birthday....and i got ...
A. 2 September 2012: Don't hide your disappointment. You need to tell him it hurt your feelings, and if that does not help the situation, you may want to leave the relationship. I know that sounds rather harsh, but if you want someone thoughtful and caring, and he ... (read in full...)
I hurt my FWB's feelings by talking to another girl. Did I cross boundaries?
Q. My friend with benefits is not happy with me after she found out that I was speaking to a mutual female acquaintance. I am not interested romantically in this other woman at all. The conversation was about music related activities that we both have ...
A. 2 September 2012: FWB may seem like a good idea in theory, but frequently falters in practice. Friends with benefits arrangements aren’t as gratifying and easy as they seem to be. And while some people can maintain casual sexual relationships, just as many can not. ... (read in full...)
I'm beginning to lose interest in my boyfriend
Q. I think I am starting to become uninterested in my boyfriend. I was afraid this would happen if our relationship did not take off. Some things may have changed, but not enough to say this is who I want to spend the rest of my life with. When i...
A. 1 September 2012: The same thing happened to me. You can talk with him and see what he thinks, but if he is like my ex, he will say that everything is fine and then continue on with the same boring behavior and lifestyle. And that was going from someone who was ... (read in full...)
My best friend is jealous of my male friend and now she's ignoring me
Q. Hi readers. My best friend of 2 years is now becoming jealous of me and my guy friend. She's very dramatic and sensitive and Ive dealt with it all our relationship. She's known him longer than I have but this past summer we really became friendly...
A. 31 August 2012: Talk to her and tell her that you are sorry if she feels left out and that is not your intention. The thing is, as we get older, this sometimes happens betweens friends and there is really nothing you can do about it. Friends develop stronger ... (read in full...)
How can I control my urges? They're driving me crazy!
Q. Hi, I am 22 year old virgin male , who has a high sex drive. Is it wrong, all I seem to do is maturbate but it doesn't work. Every time I' am out, can't stop looking at girls, But feel weird because I look at breasts and other areas like Thier bums ...
A. 30 August 2012: It's not bad, but if girls see them, they may be a turn-off for them. Just make sure you're the only one who looks at them.... (read in full...)
How can I control my urges? They're driving me crazy!
Q. Hi, I am 22 year old virgin male , who has a high sex drive. Is it wrong, all I seem to do is maturbate but it doesn't work. Every time I' am out, can't stop looking at girls, But feel weird because I look at breasts and other areas like Thier bums ...
A. 30 August 2012: Well, quite honestly, you can control them by doing what they are doing. Glad to hear you are *handling* it in a responsible manner. The girl who meets you is going to be one lucky lady!... (read in full...)
Porn and insecurities
Q. I need help. I know that there are a TON of porn and strip club questions out there, I know. But I really need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, and it has been great. We get along so well, we have a lot in common, e...
A. 30 August 2012: I agree with Person 12345. Take a look at her site as she has a lot of good information there. It is not really an insecurity on your part, so don't feel like it is. I think you will get some ideas on how to talk to your boyfriend there. Let us ... (read in full...)
Our anniversary is on a Thursday but he wants to go out on Saturday. Why?
Q. it's me and my boyfriends 1 year anniversary next month. I mentioned it and he said he'd already planned to take me to a certain restaurant I like so I'm happy that he's put some thought into it. our anniversary falls on a Thursday but he wants to ...
A. 30 August 2012: I agree with the other posts. Exact dates don't really matter in the scheme of things. What matters is that you are celebrating.
Personally, I do not like going out on nights when I have to work the next day. Like the others, I would do somet... (read in full...)
Can I trust him? Is he going to lie again or is he serious this time?
Q. So, My ex called me a few days ago and said that he misses me. I was head over heels for him. When we were first together, around may, everything was great but we seperated because he was scared to get to comfortable with me. A few weeks later we ...
A. 29 August 2012: He's a player. I would advise you to keep your distance and quit communicating with him. If he was genuinely interested in making it work, he would not have told you about texts he's getting from other girls (regardless of their relationship to ... (read in full...)
An ex my boyfriend slept with turned out to be a distant relative. Now she's in his life and a good friend. How do I handle this?
Q. hey im in a weird position with my boyfriend and i dont know what to do. Well my boyfriend use to sleep with alot of girls before he met me but he chose me to settle down with and i got over his past since he dint talk or hang out with any of the ...
A. 29 August 2012: I am kind of confused on what you are asking. First, if they are 3rd cousins and see one another at family get-togethers, you can't do much about it. However, if he is seeing her outside of family gatherings as a romantic interest, then that is ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a guy but he still has his dating profile up and says he is single!
Q. Okay so this is gone and past and i am completely over it but i was in a relationship for 2 1/2 years.. i moved in with him and gave everything to this guy and was honest and true to him and he had another girl for 1 year and a half of it and ...
A. 29 August 2012: I agree with Stayc. He may be dating you and he may be dating other girls. That is what "dating" is. It is meeting and going out with various people to find out who is the best match for you.
It does depend on how long you've been together... (read in full...)
My ex told his sister that he would date me. How do I get it across that there's no chance for us again?
Q. So here it goes.. My ex and I have not spoken much at all since I broke up with him last December. We had a roller coaster relationship, on again off again for almost 2 years. He was my first boyfriend. I did everything for him, I was the only ...
A. 28 August 2012: First, I understand you are friends with the sister, but some things must naturally come to an end. If you don't want to hear about the ex-boyfriend, then you are probably going to have to politely decline when asked to a family party and send a ... (read in full...)
32 yrs old always failed in relationships
Q. Hi there, I am a 33 years old girl who recently went throught a breakup. I was dating this guy only for 2 months but we had planned marriage and future. But due to some issue, he broke up with me. I am in a mess. I have always had failed relation...
A. 28 August 2012: I do not want to sound like I am coming down on you too hard, but if this was your longest relationship (2 months) and you've had sex with guys in other relationships...why are you having sex with men or giving your emotions over to them so soon? I ... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from ex are really confusing me.
Q. A confusing scenario, probably simply answered by you guys, and girls, one of my ex girlfriends, who absolutely without a doubt does not want to be with me any longer, has moved on, but shows up when her and her mom or her boyfriend get into an ...
A. 28 August 2012: You need to be honest with her and come clean about your intentions. If you want more, then you tell her you want more.
That said, if she says she doesn't want anything but friendship, you need to stop the snuggling and sleep-overs.
And lik... (read in full...)
How can I be less lonely?
Q. I have a serious problem of loneliness for two years,maybe more.I am 24 years old,all my friends (and old boyfriend)went to study abroad and gradually forgot about me.With my best friend haven't talked for a year since our vacation together,1 year ...
A. 27 August 2012: One thing I forgot to mention is to get a pet or buy some plants to take care of. I know it sounds kind of cliche, but a pet can add a lot of happiness and companionship to your life and taking care of plants can help get your mind off something ... (read in full...)
How can I be less lonely?
Q. I have a serious problem of loneliness for two years,maybe more.I am 24 years old,all my friends (and old boyfriend)went to study abroad and gradually forgot about me.With my best friend haven't talked for a year since our vacation together,1 year ...
A. 27 August 2012: I can understand how you feel. I had a bad break-up with a boyfriend a few years ago, and I felt very lonely afterward. I cried on the way home from work, I cried when I was at work, and I cried when I went to bed. It was terrible.
I think th... (read in full...)
"This song is not about you" ?!
Q. Ive been dating this guy for about three years last night he turned on some music. He was particulalry playing songs from a personal play list. After hearing several songs. he search for a particular one and before the song came on he said, now ...
A. 27 August 2012: I don't blame you for being stunned and hurt. Your boyfriend does not sound like he is emotionally mature. If he was, he would know not to make dumb and insensitive comments like the ones he made.
I would tell him that you were upset by his c... (read in full...)
We broke up but I want to remain close friends
Q. Hello everyone, To make it short and simple I want to start by saying my boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 years. We've had our ups and downs in the relationship but always knew how to steer it back on the right track when things were goin...
A. 25 August 2012: I agree with Cerberus 100%. I would also like to add that if it was possible to be friends (and it isn't), I am not sure why you would want to be friends with someone who has treated you so poorly. I have enemies who treat me better than this guy ... (read in full...)
I've never met anyone so straightforward about their perviness!
Q. We're both 30 and newly started dating and I think he is perfect... for the most part anyway. He showed me a collection of photos of near-naked celebrities. It's so disturbing, it's making me insecure cuz he admitted that he's obsessed with nice ...
A. 25 August 2012: You will never understand some people, so don't attempt to try. If you don't like someone's values, you do just what you did and move on. Don't waste your time and energy even trying to analyze him or his situation. ... (read in full...)
Do you think I overreacted?Should I just stop talking to him?
Q. I'm a girl.I've known this guy for 9 months and we were always good friends.We talked about almost everything - music,piano,our own crushes....etc. I always saw him as my really good friend cos he was such a caring,respectful(he always says sorry to ...
A. 24 August 2012: No, that is not what I was saying. Please do not twist the words of a post around to fit your needs.
He's a guy, he's your friend, and he wants you. There is nothing twisted or sick about it. Perhaps he was disrespectful at the most, but I do... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from ex are really confusing me.
Q. A confusing scenario, probably simply answered by you guys, and girls, one of my ex girlfriends, who absolutely without a doubt does not want to be with me any longer, has moved on, but shows up when her and her mom or her boyfriend get into an ...
A. 24 August 2012: There are some people in life who will perplex and confuse you continually...if you allow them. All I was saying is that if this situation confuses you, and she will not provide you with any satisfactory answers, you are either going to be stuck in ... (read in full...)
Is this girl flirting or just being playful?
Q. I hope you guys don't mind long reads and I warn you I am very detailed with these types of questions so that I can get the best information. So I was kind of new to this church and nobody really knew me that well. One day we were sitting there at...
A. 24 August 2012: I am not sure why all of the details really matter. If this girl is being friendly and polite to you, then why not make a move? Ask her out to grab a bit to eat or go see a movie. I think sometimes we dwell more on these situations when we should ... (read in full...)
Do you think I overreacted?Should I just stop talking to him?
Q. I'm a girl.I've known this guy for 9 months and we were always good friends.We talked about almost everything - music,piano,our own crushes....etc. I always saw him as my really good friend cos he was such a caring,respectful(he always says sorry to ...
A. 24 August 2012: Your friend isn't "sick", he wants more from you. It doesn't make him "sick" that he wants to have a sexual relationship with you, it makes him a guy. You shouldn't be scared, you should simply tell him that you take sex seriously and you are not ... (read in full...)
Do you think I overreacted?Should I just stop talking to him?
Q. I'm a girl.I've known this guy for 9 months and we were always good friends.We talked about almost everything - music,piano,our own crushes....etc. I always saw him as my really good friend cos he was such a caring,respectful(he always says sorry to ...
A. 24 August 2012: Hopefully the person who recently asked if men and women can be friends will read this post. While some say they can, most cannot because stronger feelings normally develop when two people talk a lot or spend a lot of time together.
Your ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to this guy?
Q. So around December I added this guy on Facebook because he seemed very interesting to me. We started talking and it turns out he is 7 years older than me, so at first he said he felt uncomfortable for talking to such a young lady. Later on though, ...
A. 23 August 2012: Sorry it was kind of repetitive as I was writing very early in the morning before work. I wish you the best!... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to this guy?
Q. So around December I added this guy on Facebook because he seemed very interesting to me. We started talking and it turns out he is 7 years older than me, so at first he said he felt uncomfortable for talking to such a young lady. Later on though, ...
A. 23 August 2012: This is the problem. You are not attracted to him, you are addicted to the feeling you get when you are mutually talking dirty. How can you be attracted to someone you have never met and only know through cyber space? This is a very dangerous and ... (read in full...)
Old friend keeps blowing me off for her new friends!
Q. This isn't a relationship q, but about friendship and I would really appreciate the input. I have been best frinds with a girl since I was 12, and we are now both 26. She used to be quiet and shy, but the past couple of years she has been coming out ...
A. 23 August 2012: This happens a lot when people get out of school and start pursuing new interests and friendships. It probably has very little to do with you and more the fact she has outgrown the friendship. This should not offend you, it is something that ... (read in full...)
My wife was intimate with someone else while we were separated. How do I get past this?
Q. So My wife and I of just over a year have been separated(distance) since April. During that time we talked on the phone, texts, skype. It seemed like everything was going ok, we were both heartbroken and sad to be away from each other, but we were ...
A. 22 August 2012: Honestly, if you really want to try to make this work, you need to forgive her. People do things they might not normally do when they are distraught over relationships or other life situations. Someone pays her some attention, and the next thing ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to this guy?
Q. So around December I added this guy on Facebook because he seemed very interesting to me. We started talking and it turns out he is 7 years older than me, so at first he said he felt uncomfortable for talking to such a young lady. Later on though, ...
A. 22 August 2012: You asked if you should stop talking to the guy because you are getting red flags. We tell you what we believe is going on and then you start justifying why you talk to him and why you believe he's a great guy. Why in the world would you believe ... (read in full...)
I caught my wife in the bathtub with my brother! What do I do now?
Q. Dear friends, I am hoping to find a way on how to handle a situation. Me and wife (23) are married for 3 years now and for the last 2 years my youngest brother stays with us for study. He and my wife are close in their age. He is just 19 months l...
A. 22 August 2012: Well then just move on. I am not entirely certain why you posted on this site if you are ok with it. Plus, she DID tell you about the brother because you told her to go ahead and brush up against him. I think you just go on your merry way and let ... (read in full...)
He wants my panties
Q. So me and my boyfriend of two years were just snuggling in his bed when he suddenly asked me if I could give him a pair of my panties. He asked me with this big smile on his face like he was a bit nervous and at the same time excited. We haven't had ...
A. 22 August 2012: He might want them for whatever reason, as many of the men here say, but the truth is, you won't know until you ask. Being a woman and being very protective of myself and my things, I would want to know.
You always need to keep it in the back of ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to this guy?
Q. So around December I added this guy on Facebook because he seemed very interesting to me. We started talking and it turns out he is 7 years older than me, so at first he said he felt uncomfortable for talking to such a young lady. Later on though, ...
A. 22 August 2012: Also, he is telling you you are mature for your age because he is "grooming" you. That means, he is complimenting you and making you feel like you can trust him when he just wants to take advantage of you. Please be careful of who you associate ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to this guy?
Q. So around December I added this guy on Facebook because he seemed very interesting to me. We started talking and it turns out he is 7 years older than me, so at first he said he felt uncomfortable for talking to such a young lady. Later on though, ...
A. 22 August 2012: Yes, you need to block him from Facebook and not communicate with him otherwise if you've given out other numbers. This kind of thing is quite dangerous. You should not have argued over morals as these predators don't have any. They go online ... (read in full...)
He wants my panties
Q. So me and my boyfriend of two years were just snuggling in his bed when he suddenly asked me if I could give him a pair of my panties. He asked me with this big smile on his face like he was a bit nervous and at the same time excited. We haven't had ...
A. 22 August 2012: I would ask him if they are going in his collection or what. I would ask him what he is going to do with them. I have honestly never had a man ask me that, and I have been with some characters. I don't think I would do it, but that is just me. I ... (read in full...)
Does he love me? Want to dump me? Or just sickly obsessed with me?
Q. Okay .. This is the first time that I'm doing something like this .. But I need answers .. So my boyfriend and I are now dating for about 8 months and I'm starting to noticethe jealousy . And its becoming more and more by the day hy doesn't want me ...
A. 22 August 2012: That is not love, please take our advice and start taking steps to distance yourself from him. The emotional abuse will only get worse over time and you will wonder why you did not get out sooner.... (read in full...)
We have been dating for 9 months but we haven't done anything together or spoken in months! Is it over?
Q. Hi there. I have been dating a guy for nearly 9 months now and everything was going well until approximately three months ago. He calls/texts me less i.e never and we haven't been out together for those three months. Granted we were both bust with ...
A. 22 August 2012: It is probably too premature for you to talk about any of this. You've known the guy for 9 months. While this is a long time for some people, for others you are just now really getting to know one another. If you're interested in being with him, ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him before I leave? I'm a virgin.
Q. So recently I met this guy in Georgia and ever since then him and I have been flirting and making out,and you can say that we are dating. The problem is I'm leaving in a few days and he tells me wants to have sex before I leave. I'm a virgin and I ...
A. 22 August 2012: I agree with the other two posts. Why would you want to lose your virginity to some guy you hardly know and probably won't see again? Save yourself for someone you really care about, just as the others said. While some people just have sex to ... (read in full...)
Does he love me? Want to dump me? Or just sickly obsessed with me?
Q. Okay .. This is the first time that I'm doing something like this .. But I need answers .. So my boyfriend and I are now dating for about 8 months and I'm starting to noticethe jealousy . And its becoming more and more by the day hy doesn't want me ...
A. 22 August 2012: What he is doing is emotional abuse. He may say he loves you but this isn't love. Someone who loves you does not make you feel guilty to live your life. Someone who loves you does not try to stop you from seeing people you care about. If you ... (read in full...)
I am a cheater but is that really so bad?
Q. I am cheating on my GF. should i stop. i cant help it i like the excitement of chasing new women and when i see a beautiful woman im curious how it feels to be with her. but i like having something guaranteed at home. but people make it seem like a ...
A. 21 August 2012: Your girlfriend is getting hurt because you are cheating on her. She may not know it now, but with every new girl you are with, there is a higher probability that she is going to find out. Most women like a man who is faithful. Does your ... (read in full...)
My kickboxing teacher acts very weird around me. Opinions?
Q. Okay well I don't want people saying a load of shit. So I go to kickboxing club and I'm a blackbelt. My teacher seems very flirtatious with me...... When we do fitness he seems too be looking at me, sometimes I catch him staring at me , but for ...
A. 21 August 2012: I guess I do not know what you consider a load of shit or not, so I am wondering if I should respond.
How old is your instructor? In my country, it would be inappropriate to ride alone with a coach or instructor. Any adult doing that in my count... (read in full...)
I caught my wife in the bathtub with my brother! What do I do now?
Q. Dear friends, I am hoping to find a way on how to handle a situation. Me and wife (23) are married for 3 years now and for the last 2 years my youngest brother stays with us for study. He and my wife are close in their age. He is just 19 months l...
A. 20 August 2012: Most people also attach commitment, loyalty, and respect to love. Your brother and wife have neither...for themselves or you.... (read in full...)
I caught my wife in the bathtub with my brother! What do I do now?
Q. Dear friends, I am hoping to find a way on how to handle a situation. Me and wife (23) are married for 3 years now and for the last 2 years my youngest brother stays with us for study. He and my wife are close in their age. He is just 19 months l...
A. 18 August 2012: I agree with Karlos. I am also not sure why you are upset with her not telling you about everything if you don't care if she sleeps around. I'd just say "Did you sleep with him? How was it?" I mean, you are husband and wife and yet you're not ... (read in full...)
I caught my wife in the bathtub with my brother! What do I do now?
Q. Dear friends, I am hoping to find a way on how to handle a situation. Me and wife (23) are married for 3 years now and for the last 2 years my youngest brother stays with us for study. He and my wife are close in their age. He is just 19 months l...
A. 18 August 2012: They are two grown adults and you found them in the bathtub together. What do you think? Do you think they had sex?
This is what happens when men and women are supposedly "just friends"...they end up doing something like this. This is bad, ... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from ex are really confusing me.
Q. A confusing scenario, probably simply answered by you guys, and girls, one of my ex girlfriends, who absolutely without a doubt does not want to be with me any longer, has moved on, but shows up when her and her mom or her boyfriend get into an ...
A. 11 August 2012: She may be playing games, but you are the one who is ultimately in control of this situation. If you don't want her in your life, then simply tell her that you do not think it is a good idea that she come over, come in, stop by, and/or ask you ... (read in full...)
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