I thought I liked him, but now I'm not so sure.
Q. I'm 14 (Please, no comments saying I'm too young for a boyfriend, they don't help) and I'm going out with this boy who has been my close friend for about 2 years. He's liked me since we were 12 but I wasn't interested in him. Time went on then I ...
A. 22 September 2012: A word of advice: Do not ever tell a man, or boy, you love him out of politeness. It is superficial and can be very hurtful if you don't really care about him in that way. He has probably realized that you do not like him in that way and is ... (read in full...)
Where should I break up with my boyfriend of 3 years?
Q. Hello Cupid I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. This is the first serious relationship for both of us. Sadly the feelings aren't the same for me and so I've decided to end the relationship. I live far away from anywhere so breakin...
A. 22 September 2012: I think it is going to cause the same amount of hurt regardless of how you do it. Also, since you do live 5 hours apart, I don't think that doing it over the phone or email would be any more hurtful or disrespectful than doing it in person. That ... (read in full...)
If I tell all I think he'll break up with me. Should I keep the whole truth from him forever or be honest about my earlier cheating?
Q. I've cheated on my boyfriend of 1 year 3 times, but that was when we first started seeing each other. I didn't like him that much at that time and was still quite hurt/ messed up from my last relationship, which ended 2 years ago but that was my f...
A. 22 September 2012: You need to talk to him about it and tell him exactly what you've said here if you plan to have a real relationship with him.
That said, I also think you need to look at why you started dating so soon when you were still hurt and messed up from ... (read in full...)
I think he likes me but why wont he talk to me about it?
Q. Hi, I have been talking to this guy online and he has shown interest in me for several years but he never came up to ke and spoke about it. We've met (never spoke to each other) at parties etc. He'd always stare at me and ask about me in my absence. ...
A. 22 September 2012: Because some men, or people, are just like this.
I am confused by your statement that you belong to a culture where women can't freely express themselves or be bold to ask someone out. If you cannot bring yourself to be more forward, then it ... (read in full...)
2 months of dating..... is it too soon to start talking about future plans?
Q. I am a 33 year old just separated 5 months ago (see my previous questions) with a kid that has started dating a girl about 2 months ago and has fallen for her. Since break up I have been getting together with a few wonderful women without getting ...
A. 21 September 2012: I think some women want to be pursued, but not obsessed over. I like it when a man takes an interest in me and shows that he wants to be with me. However, I don't like someone who has to know my every move and thought every hour of the day.
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Am I over reacting to the constant texts and calls
Q. Boyfriend constantly texting and calling another woman.... Please help, i have been with my partner for 4years and to be honest it hasnt been easy, after the 1st year he dumped me as he had feelings for a female friend. we got back together a...
A. 21 September 2012: I agree with SVC. The writing is on the wall. You can only take a relationship so far when one partner is not willing to make changes or help the situation. If you want to stop hurting, you are going to have to leave.
Just look at how much tim... (read in full...)
Where should I break up with my boyfriend of 3 years?
Q. Hello Cupid I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. This is the first serious relationship for both of us. Sadly the feelings aren't the same for me and so I've decided to end the relationship. I live far away from anywhere so breakin...
A. 20 September 2012: Honestly, I'd do it over the phone. You are a woman and I always feel like women need the protection of safe surroundings. I am not saying he could try to hurt you, but just for your protection, you do not want a big scene somewhere in a public ... (read in full...)
I earn double what my boyfriend does so he expects me to pay for everything
Q. Hi all. I earn double my boyfriend's salary and I'm a bread winner At home. He always ask for money and when he bring it back he doesn't bring the full amount. He's very stingy and he expect me do everything for him like give him money to go to ...
A. 20 September 2012: If you are paying for your man, then you are being used. It doesn't matter if you make double or not, he should pay for his own stuff.
He is saying YOU are the one who is disrespectful? He has really turned the tables on you. Now honestly... (read in full...)
2 months of dating..... is it too soon to start talking about future plans?
Q. I am a 33 year old just separated 5 months ago (see my previous questions) with a kid that has started dating a girl about 2 months ago and has fallen for her. Since break up I have been getting together with a few wonderful women without getting ...
A. 20 September 2012: Besides, perhaps your girl doesn't even want kids. Did you think about asking that before you slept with her?... (read in full...)
2 months of dating..... is it too soon to start talking about future plans?
Q. I am a 33 year old just separated 5 months ago (see my previous questions) with a kid that has started dating a girl about 2 months ago and has fallen for her. Since break up I have been getting together with a few wonderful women without getting ...
A. 20 September 2012: I am not sure how to answer because you are doing things out of order. Normally, you get to know a person first and ask certain questions like "Do you want to have kids/have a family?" or "Are you just dating for fun or for a committed ... (read in full...)
His behaviour and attitudes are unsettling. Should I leave him while I can?
Q. Before we married, my husband was really into me (always holding my hand, kissing - being intimate in every way but no actual sex). I thought our honeymoon would be non-stop, but over the course of 10 days we had sex maybe five times. I was very...
A. 20 September 2012: You're complaining because you had sex 5 times in the course of ten days? Does the guy ever get tired? I mean, I guess different people have different sexual appetites, but I'm not sure how easy it will be in the real world to find someone who has ... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting to the constant texts and calls
Q. Boyfriend constantly texting and calling another woman.... Please help, i have been with my partner for 4years and to be honest it hasnt been easy, after the 1st year he dumped me as he had feelings for a female friend. we got back together a...
A. 20 September 2012: You are not overreacting. You are the one being reasonable. He obviously still has some kind of feeling left for her if he is constantly texting and meets her when you are working.
You have two choices. You can stay and continue to listen t... (read in full...)
We argued, she left, and blocked me in every way. How can I get her back?
Q. I'll try and keep this short. My girlfriend and I had a silly argument nearly 4 weeks ago, and because of a misunderstanding she stormed off and I haven't heard from her since. She's completely avoiding me to the point of deleting me as a Face...
A. 20 September 2012: Plus, at her age (or your age), she is probably tired of messing around with "silly argument" and is hoping for a more mature, respectful, and understanding relationship.... (read in full...)
We argued, she left, and blocked me in every way. How can I get her back?
Q. I'll try and keep this short. My girlfriend and I had a silly argument nearly 4 weeks ago, and because of a misunderstanding she stormed off and I haven't heard from her since. She's completely avoiding me to the point of deleting me as a Face...
A. 20 September 2012: You go to her and tell her point blank that you are sorry for what you said and understand and value her view. If you genuinely do understand and value her view. If you don't, you might want to rethink wanting her back. She obviously sees this ... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting to the constant texts and calls
Q. Boyfriend constantly texting and calling another woman.... Please help, i have been with my partner for 4years and to be honest it hasnt been easy, after the 1st year he dumped me as he had feelings for a female friend. we got back together a...
A. 19 September 2012: Break up with him. If he is spending this much time on another woman, he isn't interested in you anyway. I know that is harsh, but behavior says more than words. If he cares about you and only you, he should be using that time to work on the ... (read in full...)
Is lack of physical attraction a valid reason to break up with someone?
Q. My boyfriend isn't attractive to me. I'm not implying that he's ugly or that other people might not find him good looking but I don't. He's a good person and treats me well and we're getting to that age where we're thinking about serious commitme...
A. 18 September 2012: I agree with Ciar. If he was the one, you'd find him attractive and would be drawn to him despite how physically "hot" he was.
If you aren't attracted to him then I would let him go so he can find someone he is attacted to him.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'll cheat if I go to Kent
Q. My boyfriend doesnt like the idea of me going to Kent because he thinks im going to cheat on him and not tell him because of my past relationships. i tell him everyday that i wont do anything to hurt him and i wont but he thinks im a whole ...
A. 18 September 2012: However, if you are not going to school there and just planning to go there to party, I think it's a bad idea. When you have a boyfriend you take his thoughts seriously and you shouldn't put yourself in jeopardy of losing the relationship unless ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'll cheat if I go to Kent
Q. My boyfriend doesnt like the idea of me going to Kent because he thinks im going to cheat on him and not tell him because of my past relationships. i tell him everyday that i wont do anything to hurt him and i wont but he thinks im a whole ...
A. 18 September 2012: I agree with Kelly. Even when our significant others say things we don't like, there is often an element of truth to them.
I am not sure what going to Kent and drinking have in common, but if you're planning to do a lot of drinking there, a... (read in full...)
She knows I love and miss her so why does she tease me this way?
Q. My ex dumped me about 3 month ago after we had been together for nerly 6 years as we had not been getting on lately and arguing a lot and has refused to speak to me ever since. She Started seeing a new lad not long after we broke up and Will not ...
A. 18 September 2012: You can analyze all you want, but you likely won't find an answer to your question. You may even have the opportunity to ask her yourself, but that doesn't mean she will own up to her behavior. Don't allow her to have this power over you. Let her ... (read in full...)
He Likes me or He likes me Not
Q. I recently met a man online. On our first date, we met for tea and kept it short as he had another business meeting to attend that day. He then arranged for a very romantic dinner on our second date and we talked for 3 hours. We kissed and hugged. ...
A. 18 September 2012: I know it is hard. I had to do the same thing with a boyfriend of 7 years. It was very difficult and I failed several times before actually sticking to the no contact. I kept hoping that he would change, but he never did. Hang in there...and ... (read in full...)
He Likes me or He likes me Not
Q. I recently met a man online. On our first date, we met for tea and kept it short as he had another business meeting to attend that day. He then arranged for a very romantic dinner on our second date and we talked for 3 hours. We kissed and hugged. ...
A. 17 September 2012: You're not seeing him, you're barely communicating with him, and when he does have free time, he isn't proactive about making plans with you. It sounds like he is stringing you along. I would end it.... (read in full...)
Will you fight for a man who is in love with you and another women and can't make a decision
Q. I broke up with my LDR boyfriend 6months ago. It was a no-contact breakup because I was hurt and I truly wanted to move on. However, three months ago, he cut himself really bad and had undergone surgery. Several people reached out to me to call him ...
A. 17 September 2012: That is the biggest excuse in the book "It's hard to cut her off and hurt her as a friend". If this guy wanted YOU, he would cut off contact and would not care about her as a friend. That's what it boils down to. Does he care about her more or ... (read in full...)
He betrayed me,now I don't know how handle the situation
Q. Hello everyone, I am facing a situation that i don't know how to handle. I love my boyfriend and i believe he loves me too,we have been together for 2 years. 2 weeks ago ,we had plans, we were going to spend the day together,however...
A. 17 September 2012: He is lying to you. Don't believe anything he says. He is making up stories hoping you will believe him. There would be no reason to cancel plans with a girlfriend to do ANY kind of "favor" for a friend.
I agree with HoneyPie that you need... (read in full...)
A virgin who wants to know how to talk to women
Q. Hello everyone. I have a question that a lot of people probalby ask, and i've never posted on here before but some advice would be greatly appreciated :). Basically, I wanna know how to talk to women. I am a virgin, never been kissed etc. so i...
A. 16 September 2012: Also, never being kissed and being a virgin has nothing to do with anything. I have never cared about that with anyone I've been with. That is just my perspective.... (read in full...)
A virgin who wants to know how to talk to women
Q. Hello everyone. I have a question that a lot of people probalby ask, and i've never posted on here before but some advice would be greatly appreciated :). Basically, I wanna know how to talk to women. I am a virgin, never been kissed etc. so i...
A. 16 September 2012: You talk to women the same way you talk to everyone else. You take an interest in them, smile, and act friendly. I am not sure why this is such a mystery for men. That is, unless you're always surrounded by women who are mean to you. There are a ... (read in full...)
I'm uncomfortable since I discovered that my boyfriend has an interest in very young girls!
Q. So, straight to the point. I looked at my boyfriends phone before and in his picture album there were naked pictures of this girl he had sexual relationship with, which I get, it's old and all but you shouldn't have them while you are in a new ...
A. 16 September 2012: If he's had pictures on his computer then he is interested in young girls. People don't put pictures like that on a computer unless there is an issue with it. I would make arrangements to move out if you live with him, and I would seriously keep ... (read in full...)
B/f doing drugs and thinks its ok as long as he treats me well
Q. so yesterday i found out my boyfriend did coke.... i had heard this from my friend and literally fought with her because i didnt believe it. then i asked my boyfriend and he told me that it was true but he would never do it again. i got very angry. ...
A. 16 September 2012: I would leave him. Honestly, you cannot have a relationship with someone who does drugs. All he will bring you is drama and lots of emotional pain. If he is doing coke, he has probably done a lot of other drugs too.
If this is against ... (read in full...)
Excited to be engaged, but Mum has raised some questions!
Q. Hi there! So, after a few months being on a LDR my bf proposed a few weeks ago over dinner. WOW! We've been together for nearly 2 years (too soon to get married?) and of course I said yes yes yes and I wanted to jump and scream and let the world ...
A. 16 September 2012: I think you should do what you feel is the best for you. I am not sure what I would think of being married and then having to live apart for two years.
My concern would be that after this 1.5 years, that he tells you again, "I need another ... (read in full...)
We had a threesome and my husband completely ignored me! I feel our marriage is over...
Q. I am married for 5 1/2 yrs. My husband and I have useId talking about a 3some several times during sex for excitement. Me being bi. But he has always said he doesn't really wanna do it. But the opportunity presented itself. And he asked and asked if ...
A. 15 September 2012: I was not mocking you and do not think you look like an idiot. But thank you SVC...you stated my thought perfectly...your husband played you. Honestly, I can also understand why you just stood there. You were shocked, you were in a compromising ... (read in full...)
We had a threesome and my husband completely ignored me! I feel our marriage is over...
Q. I am married for 5 1/2 yrs. My husband and I have useId talking about a 3some several times during sex for excitement. Me being bi. But he has always said he doesn't really wanna do it. But the opportunity presented itself. And he asked and asked if ...
A. 14 September 2012: Everyone is making your husband out to be a monster here, and I honestly can't see it. I understand how you feel, but at the same time, did you not think this through? Did you ever wonder why he became SO EAGER after he at one time wanted no part ... (read in full...)
She knows I love and miss her so why does she tease me this way?
Q. My ex dumped me about 3 month ago after we had been together for nerly 6 years as we had not been getting on lately and arguing a lot and has refused to speak to me ever since. She Started seeing a new lad not long after we broke up and Will not ...
A. 14 September 2012: She could be bitter against you and is trying to show off that she thinks she can get better. I do not know what she is thinking, but that would be my best guess.
I would not try to figure out what she is thinking. After this type of behavior... (read in full...)
I no longer desire sex with my wife but I do desire other women. It's consuming me, help!
Q. Ok,i'm married,and have lost my desire for sex with my wife,but have a desire to have sex with almost every female i come across! When i meet another woman,even for just a minute,i'm wondering what it would be like to have her! It's consuming ...
A. 14 September 2012: Everyone wonders what it would be like to have sex with other people. The issue is...you have a wife. My suggestion would be that you home and masturbate like everyone else does when they are horny and shouldn't cheat on a spouse.... (read in full...)
We had a threesome and my husband completely ignored me! I feel our marriage is over...
Q. I am married for 5 1/2 yrs. My husband and I have useId talking about a 3some several times during sex for excitement. Me being bi. But he has always said he doesn't really wanna do it. But the opportunity presented itself. And he asked and asked if ...
A. 13 September 2012: I am not sure what your question is, but having threesomes is a serious detriment to a marriage. If you wanted to include other sexual partners in your relationship, you should have stayed single.
I am not sure what to say except that you need... (read in full...)
Why would he keep pestering me for a kiss if he didn't like me in that way?
Q. Everyone says that teenagers get crushes, especially at my age, most of my friends get a crush for a few months, get bored and move on. How come that I have been in love with the same guy for six years then? Ive had no other feelings for anyone ...
A. 13 September 2012: He could have been pestering you to get some experience, so he could more properly kiss other girls in his life. You've heard of "friends with benefits"? Well...this seems like your case to me except you are not having sex, but sharing kissing ... (read in full...)
She knows I love and miss her so why does she tease me this way?
Q. My ex dumped me about 3 month ago after we had been together for nerly 6 years as we had not been getting on lately and arguing a lot and has refused to speak to me ever since. She Started seeing a new lad not long after we broke up and Will not ...
A. 13 September 2012: The thing is...it DID bother you. Ok, so maybe you haven't emailed her, but she is still looking to get a rise out of you by going to your favorite places.
I agree with HoneyPie and would switch up your schedule. I know it means you may not ... (read in full...)
She knows I love and miss her so why does she tease me this way?
Q. My ex dumped me about 3 month ago after we had been together for nerly 6 years as we had not been getting on lately and arguing a lot and has refused to speak to me ever since. She Started seeing a new lad not long after we broke up and Will not ...
A. 13 September 2012: Stacy hit the nail on the head. She gets attention from you and she gets attention from the new guy, so she probably couldn't be happier. If your break-up was non-amicable, she can flaunt her new guy in front of you to force you to see what you ... (read in full...)
Should I acknowledge my ex's birthday?
Q. I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years. It was a mutual agreement as the relationship wasn't working out. We haven't spoke in 3 months since the break up. (we both decided never to speak again) Her birthday is coming up soon and I'm ...
A. 13 September 2012: You agreed never to speak with one another again, so stick to the agreement. Sending birthday wishes will just confuse her. My ex in college sent me things for birthdays and Christmas and it made me mad. He would even leave things at my door. If ... (read in full...)
He always looks at me in class. Does this mean he likes me or is it in my head?
Q. Hello am 17 and never had a boyfriend and i recently just started college and i have been attending for 5 days now and since day 1 of college i have noticed this guy staring at at me at he is tall tan and i think he is shy and pretty fit. Our ...
A. 13 September 2012: Do you think we can actually answer this question without you having talked with him? The only way to know if someone is interested is to show interest in them and see what happens. Otherwise, there is no way to know.... (read in full...)
Am I really unloveable?
Q. I’m 27 and have never had a girlfriend or any kind of relationship for that matter. I just can’t understand the why of it all. No woman has ever wanted me. My love just isn’t good enough for some reason. I’ve gone so far as to ask my friends f...
A. 13 September 2012: I apologize...you said it was not a fraternity party, it was a social event. I still stand by my statement that some girls would not even consider going to a fraternity social event. So, consider some other options and be active in getting to ... (read in full...)
Am I really unloveable?
Q. I’m 27 and have never had a girlfriend or any kind of relationship for that matter. I just can’t understand the why of it all. No woman has ever wanted me. My love just isn’t good enough for some reason. I’ve gone so far as to ask my friends f...
A. 13 September 2012: How could the girl you met be so flirty one night but so cold another? It's called "fraternity party". You need to get out of your zone and mix and mingle with all kinds of people. Not just people who attend fraternities and fraternity parties. ... (read in full...)
How do we deal with our different schedules?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in an LDR for almost two years. Over the past year, our visits have become significantly less frequent and shorter. His work schedule if completely opposite mine. I work 9-5 Monday through Friday, and he is 2-11 ...
A. 12 September 2012: I agree with Aunt Honesty. There really isn't a magical answer to this. You have to make your relationship a priority. That means taking personal time and vacation time to be together. If that isn't working and it is serious relationship, where ... (read in full...)
Am I really unloveable?
Q. I’m 27 and have never had a girlfriend or any kind of relationship for that matter. I just can’t understand the why of it all. No woman has ever wanted me. My love just isn’t good enough for some reason. I’ve gone so far as to ask my friends f...
A. 12 September 2012: For starters, if relationship come "easy" for everyone around you, you must be living in one perfect place. I have never known relationships to come easy for anyone.
My advice is that you might be a good-looking and nice guy, but if you aren't s... (read in full...)
He Likes me or He likes me Not
Q. I recently met a man online. On our first date, we met for tea and kept it short as he had another business meeting to attend that day. He then arranged for a very romantic dinner on our second date and we talked for 3 hours. We kissed and hugged. ...
A. 2 September 2012: Is he still texting/communicating with you? Honestly, it is hard to tell. I would let him know you would like to go out again and ask him when would he like to go. I know the old saying is that men are supposed to pursue the women, but it has ... (read in full...)
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