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I am currently in a relationship. A rather satisfying one at that. I love helping people. I have always been there when someone needed another to confide in and I get such pleasure when I know something I said impacted someone's life. I don't like people who lie and I can't stand people who take advantage of the important things. I live in Florida, USA. The panhandle. Nice and mostly sunny all the time. I love it. The beaches are wonderful and I love most of the people here.

My girl is my world...but she wants a break...what should I do?

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been having problems for about a month or longer. We have been fighting and carrying on but recently she told me she wanted a break. This absoloutely crushed me to pieces. The only way that I was able to cope with this ...

A.   7 March 2008: First, you deserve BIG HUGS. You know it's funny that I am going through something very similar with my boyfriend. Tonight I called him and he was hiding something from me. I called him on my break at work. So after he confessed to what he was hidi... (read in full...)

Do I sound like I'm in love?

Q.   I've been seeing this girl for around 4 months now and I find myself wanting to see her more and more. I want to be with her so much. My question is this. Does it sound like I am in love with her? It's driving me nuts! Please help!...

A.   5 March 2008: Honestly...In Love is such a strong term. It can't just be determined so easily. There is more to it than that. I think that you love her in the sense that you enjoy her company. You love being with her, around her, and you love being something to h... (read in full...)

My new boyfriend leaned against me and put his hand on my shoulder. Why?

Q.   I'm a 13 year old girl and I just got my first boyfriend. I actually do like him kind of alot(hehe) because he is very sweet to me. He's in my class(13). When I was about to go home(from school)because I didn't feel well, I started to walk towards ...

A.   5 March 2008: Sweetie Pie... You are so young and innocent. Your first boyfriend and everything that comes along with it is always gonna make you feel kinda weird. With all of the movies now days it's easy for a child such as your age to see something done and... (read in full...)

Would it be wrong for a 36 year old to date a teenager? Can people choose who they are attracted to?

Q.   honeslty do people think this is wrong if a 36 year old man is really really attracted to a 16 year old (mature, or so he thinks) girl...i mean people cant help who they're attracetd to right??? and if he got carried away and ended up in bed with ...

A.   5 March 2008: Well Sweetie. Let me just start off by saying that this whole factor is just plain weird. This day and age, it is practically social suicide to be involved in a relationship of such age difference. Honey, a 36 year old man is on a whole differ... (read in full...)

How can I keep his love from fading?

Q.   Well, I am from America and I traveled to Australia 9 months ago to be with the love of my life. I moved in with him and the first few months were great, constant love and affection, I have never been treated so good. Over the months we have had a ...

A.   5 March 2008: Sweetie. Well relationships will leave someone feeling lonely, depressed, irritable, and sad at least one time or another. He is frustrated with everything. It isn't going according to plan and honestly not to be sexist...affects men easier t... (read in full...)

Serious After Sex Pain!!!

Q.   Recently, I have just had sex with my boyfriend and since then all I want to do is go to the toilet and it hurts when I pee. I'm getting rather worried, I don't want anyone to know I'm not a virgin but I want to find out what's wrong and get ri...

A.   5 March 2008: honey, i can see that you are terribly young. i was rather young when i started having sex as well. but that was when i was 16. i know what you mean when you say that you don't want anyone to know you are a virgin. here is the deal...try to take... (read in full...)

I think about my ex constantly, does this mean I prefer him to my current boyfriend?

Q.   I'm so confused, my ex has resently come back to where i live after moving away in the summer holidays. I now have a new boyfriend that i have been dating for 2 months, but at night i cant stop thinking about all the good times i had with my ex a...

A.   5 March 2008: Well as you may have feelings for you current boyfriend...there is definately something else there with your ex that is unexplainable. although, you should probably sit down and either write down the pros and cons of each guy to figure out the diff... (read in full...)

My gf, to whom I offered everything, told me she likes someone at work. What next?

Q.   I just dont understand what went wrong, but my girlfriend of 4 years had just told me today the worst news I could possibliy ever hear. She told me she liked someone at work and that she wanted to be with him. I have never expected this to happen ...

A.   4 March 2008: Sweetness. Goodness....Just the WORD "relationships" has an entire dictionary full of meaning and definitions all in itself. Good and Bad. Unfortunately, you have gotten the raw end of the deal here. You can only do so much babe, before you have ... (read in full...)

Should I just call the whole thing off or wait even if it hurts so much?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 16 months. I've had huge trust issues from an ex who cheated on me multiple times, was a drug abuser, self-mutilator, and stole from me and my parents. My ex's friends were all female, and I never ...

A.   4 March 2008: Honey. I have been where you are. Let me just start off by saying that I do, to an extent, agree with your first reply. Your insecurities are ruining what could be a great relationship. I have been there with myself before, and it tore my relation... (read in full...)

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