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I have read advice on Dear Cupid very often, and then I registered when I needed help. I am moved by all the people who are trying to help and will try to take as much time to help others in return!

P.S. I got my sense of humor back today. Thank God. That means this, too, shall pass!

Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?

Q.   I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...

A.   17 March 2010: They are not allowed! You are absolutely right! He might get in trouble for being non-professional, nothing to do with abuse. A friend of mine (teacher like me) was scolded by the principal because she went to see her favorite student. The g... (read in full...)

If she didn't want to talk to me, why did she give me her number?

Q.   ...so this girl at my school i like somewhat gives me her number..so i wait about 3 to 4 days..and i send her a text saying is she there....she reply who is this..i say it was me...after about 9 min i get no reply so i send her another asking did ...

A.   17 March 2010: You're young, learn on your mistake: play it cool B-) It's just manners. She is not scared, she just doesn't want to date a guy without dating manners. They are complex, far more than holding her jacket and not getting drunk on the first date! Rule ... (read in full...)

How would you take this compliment?

Q.   OK I gave this lady I like a compliment in a round about way here is the way it happened. I feel this lady is attracted to me but I was walking with her co-worker and she was communicating with her back and forth while we were walking together...

A.   17 March 2010: That's a nice compliment... But try saying it to her face :) - Hey there. I heard you started running? - Yeah, I want to get into shape. - I think you already look great, but if it makes you happy... [look away] Fancy a jogging buddy? - [giggl... (read in full...)

I have developed feelings for my 14 year old student, how do I forget about this and get over him?

Q.   I am a teacher. First of all, I would like to state that I am 27 and have *never* had a crush on anyone younger than me! I also know that what I'm about to write makes me a pedophile, so I am asking you not to call me names; I deserve them all. Tha...

A.   17 March 2010: If you do not bother to read, why bother answering? I DO NOT WANT NOR PLAN ANY KIND OF "RELATIONSHIP" WITH THIS BOY. I am not an idiot. Even if there was a way to do it, I WOULDN'T. Ever. Because it is wrong. I posted this to ask for advice how to ... (read in full...)

Are all women bisexual?

Q.   just wondering... are all women bisexual?...

A.   16 March 2010: I am. Not all are. It became trendy in Angelina Jolie's pre-Unicef era. She also kept rats as pets and married Billy Bob at that time, so the public image of bisexuals got worse because of it. Test for all "bi-curious" women: would you go dow... (read in full...)

If she didn't want to talk to me, why did she give me her number?

Q.   ...so this girl at my school i like somewhat gives me her number..so i wait about 3 to 4 days..and i send her a text saying is she there....she reply who is this..i say it was me...after about 9 min i get no reply so i send her another asking did ...

A.   16 March 2010: Can you please answer: how much time had passed between your first SMS and the third call? When you do, I'll answer. Small things matter, especially at that age.... (read in full...)

His behavior is making me unsure of myself.

Q.   So there's this guy that I've known for about a year. We dated for a short time last year, but he ended the thing, because he claimed he had feelings for other girls. We had a good time when we dated, cuddled etc. Nothing sexual, though I felt his ...

A.   16 March 2010: I think that he doesn't know what he really wants. He lacks determinacy - if you don't mind that in a partner, go for it. If you do, he is really not right for you. This kind of insecurity may be fine in school, but your age is 18-21, right? I ... (read in full...)

I have developed feelings for my 14 year old student, how do I forget about this and get over him?

Q.   I am a teacher. First of all, I would like to state that I am 27 and have *never* had a crush on anyone younger than me! I also know that what I'm about to write makes me a pedophile, so I am asking you not to call me names; I deserve them all. Tha...

A.   16 March 2010: P.S. Thanks to the mod, for letting me ask this. Don't know where else to thank, so I am doing it here, I apologize if I am breaking any rules by this!... (read in full...)

I have developed feelings for my 14 year old student, how do I forget about this and get over him?

Q.   I am a teacher. First of all, I would like to state that I am 27 and have *never* had a crush on anyone younger than me! I also know that what I'm about to write makes me a pedophile, so I am asking you not to call me names; I deserve them all. Tha...

A.   16 March 2010: First of all, THANK YOU all so much and thank you for being honest! To those who did not read carefully, I will repeat: NO, NO, AND A THOUSAND TIMES NO!!! I would NEVER act on it, never! I do not even consider acting on my impulse, God no! He i... (read in full...)

Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?

Q.   I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...

A.   15 March 2010: I am a teacher, and I say no! It would terrify me to get such a confession of a student of mine! You really love him, you say? Well, you would not want him to rot in prison, would you? Also, age gap or not: never mess with other people's partners: ... (read in full...)

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