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I cant decide between two boys

Q.   I have got back with an ex but now I am back with boy one. Boy two keeps ringing me and saying that we still have feelings for each other and we always will. He has asked me to meet him on wednesday but I dont know if I should as I am with boy one. ...

A.   13 September 2009: Follow your heart. Whatever you do, you have to be true to yourself so that you're happy. Once you know what you want, you have to be honest with them. Don't mess about with them. Be fair and honest. Good Luck. X... (read in full...)

I'm very worried because in my dream I was lesbian!

Q.   About a month ago now i had a dream i was a lesbian, before that I was perfectly straight. Now i'm really confused about my sexuality. I have a boyfriend but now i just don't know; i feel really happy when i'm around him and i really love him. But ...

A.   10 September 2009: Ok. I can tell this is a big deal for you. You're a teenager though (I believe) and that just means a good few years of confusion and a lot of emotional torture. You should exist and you do coz you're just as important as every other person on this ... (read in full...)

Should I give up on her? We were getting on so well but suddenly she has gone cold on me!

Q.   So, I started to become interested in this girl in my class. We got on really well for a few months, and she became the person I texted the most at that point in time. Then the rumors started, and though I am not much of a well-known perso...

A.   9 September 2009: Don't give up on her. I don't think you should. There's a reason why she's behaving this way. It could be a lot of things - to do with you or something else completely. I reckon you should try to talk to her, just you two. Over msn or by text if ... (read in full...)

Do you think he likes me? (He's pretty shy)

Q.   I met him about a month ago for the very first time, and we were at a park. He was by the roundabout I was on, and he was showing off and being really boisterous with his friends. He saw me smiling and looking at him, and he smiled back at me and ...

A.   8 September 2009: FOR GODS SAKE! Sorry. I think you know the answer... HE SO DOES! Honestly, if you like him, drop a few hints and viola! If he doesn't then I'd like to know what he's like when he fancies someone! X X X... (read in full...)

How do I get this girl to notice me?

Q.   there is a girl i like a lot and i mean a lot i cannot stop thinking about her. she doesn't know me but i see her almost everyday. i just want to tell her how i feel but i know i can't because she already has a boyfriend and i hate him so much. ...

A.   8 September 2009: To begin with, get over this hatred for her boyfriend! It's unhealthy to go round feeling bitter about someone who hasn't really done anything wrong. Try not to break them up. That won't get you into her good books. Make yourself seem cool and... (read in full...)

Is it worth telling him how I feel?

Q.   Okay, so here's my problem. I've really liked this boy for about 6 months now. We're good friends and we talk to each other almost everyday. I think he might like me too, I think he's shown some of the signs (Looking at me alot, getting nervous,...

A.   7 September 2009: Right. How to cut this short? I think you should go for it. It sounds as if he might fancy you so why not? If you're concerned about hurting this guy, then consider taking things slowly or waiting. It could give you both a chance to build up some ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my parents his real age?

Q.   Hey everyone, well this is a straight forward question. My bf and i are in love, there's no other way of saying it. Though we have not yet met each others parents. But I have told my mum and dad that he is 16 but he's really 19. I am nearly 1...

A.   4 September 2009: Hey. I think the best thing would be not to lie. But you've already done that... You should tell them the truth. Maybe waiting til you're 16 would be better but like you said that's a while away. You should probably just be as honest as possible ... (read in full...)

Who do I choose, Guy A or Guy B?

Q.   Okaay guys, I need help and fast! I fell in love with this guy, lets call him Guy A. We had something so special and a lot in common. However I listened to a small rumour, said by a friend who I know liked my Guy A. Now I realise she could have bee...

A.   3 September 2009: You have to be cruel to be kind. X... (read in full...)

Who do I choose, Guy A or Guy B?

Q.   Okaay guys, I need help and fast! I fell in love with this guy, lets call him Guy A. We had something so special and a lot in common. However I listened to a small rumour, said by a friend who I know liked my Guy A. Now I realise she could have bee...

A.   3 September 2009: Personally I think you should leave both. Forget about them and have some fun! You're still young and maybe in a few years time you'll find someone else who beats both guys. There's nothing forcing you to choose between them so if you don't know ... (read in full...)

Help!!! He wants to take my virginity at 13!!!

Q.   hi my name is kylie, i have a boyfriend and i dont think he loves me. all he really wants to do is take my virgintiy away from me, and it scares me. PLEASE help me im scared!...

A.   3 September 2009: If he makes you feel this way and is just using you then chuck him. You're still really young and he should know that. You don't want to lose your virginity if you don't want to, especially when you're only 13. The best thing would be to get rid, ... (read in full...)

I feel I have to make myself sick after eating!

Q.   lately i've been making myself sick after anything i eat. i don't binge but feel i hav to make myself sick. i feel like i'm doing nothing wrong as i'm doing it to lose weight bu started doing it more lately due to stress. do i have a problem?...

A.   6 July 2009: I think you might have a bit of an eating disorder if it continues for a while, as in a good few weeks/months. If you're doing it to lose weight, then I'd say it's the wrong way to go about it. You'll make yourself ill. You'll feel tired, look ... (read in full...)

Decisions decisions... go back with the ex or stay with my current boyfriend?

Q.   Ok so i have a difficult decision, go back to my ex or stay with my current bf? Ive been with this guy for about 2 weeks and hes really sweet and all but now my ex has told me he wants me back and i want him so bad now. Last time we spilt up because ...

A.   25 June 2009: I don't think you should rush back to your ex. He's your ex for a reason. And don't mess things up with your current bf before you've even given him a chance. You might regret it. Whatever you choose just be careful and think about it first. Don't ... (read in full...)

I need more confidence but I don't want to be like my mouthy friend!

Q.   hi aunts and uncles i'd really like to know how to be confident i've never really had the confidence in myself and i've never known how to have it either. everytime i think positive something knocks me back so i fight back and try again. i'v...

A.   23 June 2009: Well if you're the person you say you are then you have no reason to not have self-confidence. You seem pretty grounded, and you do sound quite confident coz you can see the good qualities in yourself. You've just got a quiet confidence. Just ... (read in full...)

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