I'm nervous about meeting my online friend, should I meet up or hold off?
Q. I've been talking to this guy online for a couple of days and we text and stuff and we've seen each others pictures and I've seen him on webcam and I like him and he says he likes me and wants to meet up but Im kind of nervous about meeting up with ...
A. 28 December 2009: It's up to you what you do.
Meeting up with people you've met online is always risky. It can be dodgy and you have to be careful. It can go wrong. Having said that, one of my best friends is in a relationship with someone she met online. They firs... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my former boyfriend!?
Q. Hello my name is Jodie, I'm fifteen years old. And it may sound corny but I need someones help, well I'm crying out for it here. Well there is a boy called Tom in my life, he is a former boyfriend, and I'm madly, in love with him, so much he's m...
A. 27 December 2009: Falling out of love with someone isn't easy, as you know. It takes time. You'll probably be feeling like this for a while yet but you'll get over him honest.
You're fifteen now, in the middle of your teenage years and there really isn't a worse time... (read in full...)
I am worried about having sex with my boyfriend!
Q. right, im nearly 14 and i have a boyfriend. hes older than me, hes 15. hes not a virgin and we do talk about having sex alot. he has fingered me but he only fit 1 finger up and i am very scared of the pain if he does have sex with me, im also scared ...
A. 26 December 2009: Sex is scary for the first time at whatever age. So make sure you're 100% ready if you're going to. You're boyfriend should respect you so you shouldn't be worried about him saying something about you. He's a bad boyfriend if he does say anything. ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I think I'm ready for sex, and sometimes not! So confused!
Q. ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years (he's 18 and im 16) hes had sex but im still a virgin, i love him but im not sure if im ready some times i think i am and other times not so much.im confussed and need help please. ...
A. 22 December 2009: You should be 100% sure when you're going to have sex. If you have any doubts then don't, especially as it's your first time. You need to be sure you're with the right person, that the right time and that you're ready. It's one of those things that ... (read in full...)
My friend lied to me now I don't want to trust her again
Q. So I trusted my friend but she lied to me. I feel stupid because I can not believe I couldn't see through her. I believed everything she told me - yes everything. Now I feel upset, hurt and very angry. The lie was small but still hurtful. She kept ...
A. 18 December 2009: I often have trouble with trust after finding out someone's lied or hid something from me. It hurts and it's a horrible feeling that you can't trust them. But honestly don't worry. You can't tell anyone everything, no matter how close.
Look beyo... (read in full...)
I have spots but want to look good for my girl!
Q. Hey people just a little advice, Basically its about the classic teen problem....spots. My girlfriend is gorgeous, she thinks im cute but to be honest i dont like the fact i have spots. I know its not a huge deal but id like help with them. ...
A. 17 December 2009: The other post says it all really: healthy diet, exercise, good hygiene and don't pick.
You could also go to the doctor's. There's a lot of treatment you can get that will suit your skin, i.e. if you have sensitive skin. Tea Tree Oil is also good... (read in full...)
We like each other but are too shy to express ourselves!
Q. a girl likes me and i like her but we havnt been able to express our selves. i am too shy what do i do?...
A. 12 December 2009: This is a not as easy as it seems one. The only thing you can do is talk to her. It's something you'll to build up with time. Try smiling at her, saying hello and gradually talking to her. If you know she likes you then there's nothing to be afraid ... (read in full...)
What do I do if my feelings aren't as strong as his?
Q. Yesterday I decided to say yes to this guy who asked me out and has really liked me for a while, it was a hard decision because I wasn't sure I wanted a relationship and I thought it would be weird for him because he likes me more than I like him. ...
A. 10 December 2009: I think you should be honest with him. He's probably chuffed that you've agreed to go out with him but you seem to be leading him on. I don't mean that in a slaggish way at all. You sound caring and kind. But you know how you feel and you need to be ... (read in full...)
Why do my friends always get attention instead of me?
Q. hi aunts x, at dinner time me and my friends hang out but my friends lets call them lisa and fran always! get attention from all our male friends and it makes me feel really left out, i mean ill try to get noticed like taking my jumper off an ...
A. 7 December 2009: CaringGuy's right. Don't take your jumper off. It obviously doesn't get their attention. Talk to them and be yourself. It doesn't matter that they're not paying attention to you. Guaranteed there's someone else there who is. And don't compare ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to make out with someone when you're about to break up with your girlfriend?
Q. Hi everyone. I was just wondering if it's okay to cheat if you're about to break up. I have a gf and i'm not really happy with things so i'm going to break up with her when I see her next. I was wondering if it's okay if I make out with someone ...
A. 1 December 2009: No it isn't. Even if you're about to break up with someone, until then you're in a relationship and should respect that person. It'd be hard enough for the other person even after you've finished. So wait until it's officially over.
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I don't know what's wrong with me. I only like guys with blond hair.
Q. ok here goes, for some reason i think i like guys if they have blonde hair i know that sounds really picky and i think thats y i didnt go out with a boy hu was just like me (personality wise) i mean the guy im in love with the heaven an bak and have ...
A. 30 November 2009: Lol. Don't worry. I don't think there's anything wrong with you. So long as you're not turning down guys because they're not blond! That would be picky. Just make sure you do like they're personality too. You'll probably find yourself attracted to ... (read in full...)
Why would she wish that I was two years older?
Q. me and this girl are good friend tho shes 2 yrs older than me. we go to the same school so i see her every day (small school) but one day she started saying stuff about her wishing i was 2yrs older i was wondering wat she couldve met by that? and ...
A. 30 November 2009: Totally agree with the other post.
I think she wants you to be a couple but she has a problem with the age gap. It's not that it'd stop you from being a couple but it's so much easier, especially when you're in your teens, when your bf or gf is t... (read in full...)
Before its too late how do I tell her my feelings?
Q. i'm gonna try to keep it short... i really like this girl and we get on amazingly, she broke up with her boyfriend recently and since then we've spoken loads more. She calls me a friend and i think she's too beautiful to fall for me, should i tell ...
A. 30 November 2009: If it's a risk you're willing to take why not? Just to warn you that from what you've said it sounds like she might like this other guy she's keeping a secret. But if you don't try you'll never know. Best of luck. X... (read in full...)
Before its too late how do I tell her my feelings?
Q. i'm gonna try to keep it short... i really like this girl and we get on amazingly, she broke up with her boyfriend recently and since then we've spoken loads more. She calls me a friend and i think she's too beautiful to fall for me, should i tell ...
A. 29 November 2009: I think you should tell her. You clearly really like her and you get on well so there's a chance she could feel the same about you. Forget about thinking she's too beautiful for you. She might think you're too good for her. If you really like her ... (read in full...)
He's sending mixed signals. Does he like me or not?
Q. Hiya. I am in a really difficult situation here. There is this boy and i have like him for over a year now. Last year, we went on a school trip and I held his hand like all morning and went on all the rides together but we wern't going out. Recently...
A. 28 November 2009: No, I think he's into you. You're relationship is up and down but I think it's because, like the guy said, you've got a thing going on.
I think you should be brave and tell him how you feel. Otherwise it'll just drag on and on. If you want to go o... (read in full...)
My friends thinks he fancies me but sometimes he avoids me. What's going on?
Q. Hello, I have this problem, basically I really like this lad. And he knows that a used to like him blah blah blah. Anyways my friends really think he is interested this time, we keep catching eye contact. We act like friends but sometimes he compl...
A. 28 November 2009: I think he's shy. He doesn't seem to know where he stands with you. I reckon he's not really sure how to behave around you as he doesn't know how you'd react to him or what you're thinking. So it's easier for him to just ignore you than to risk any ... (read in full...)
He doesn't have a girlfriend any more, is now my chance to tell him I like him?
Q. hey there i need advice. i like this guy in my college class he only just 16 thou and im 17.. we flirt all the time an are always looking at each over but his friends are people that put me in hospital a long time ago, he's noting like then i know ...
A. 26 November 2009: I don't see why other people should stop you from being with the person you want. If you feel sure about him then I think you should definately approach him. Just be wary of his friends and make sure he knows about this. If he genuinely cares for ... (read in full...)
I have a plan! What do you think? Should I tell him?
Q. ok i'm 16 and well i like this guy in my grade. he's really awesome and i really really like him. i've never liked any guy more then i've liked him. anyway he still likes his ex-girlfriend. everyone knows i like him, even he knows and well i've ...
A. 26 November 2009: Don't tell him how you feel. I think it'll only complicate things. You're a friend to him and he seems happy enough with that, and that's better for you than losing his friendship. He still likes his ex so that would be a factor. You don't want to ... (read in full...)
I think he's avoiding me and it's breaking my heart... what should I do?
Q. i think the boy i like is avoiding me, hes a good friend of mine so we normally go round with our friends together which i like because we usually have really funny conversations, but for some reason he isnt talking to me as much and ignoring me i ...
A. 26 November 2009: He either fancies you, and is too shy about it so he'd rather not have to face you. He'd probably feel embarrassed and uneasy around you so would rather avoid you. OR he knows how you feel about him and feels uneasy about this. So he avoids you.
T... (read in full...)
Should I tell my bestfriend her boyfriend is cheating on her?
Q. hey! i have this best friend of mine at school and she has a boyfriend whom she's been with for 4 years or so... he's also at the same school. her boyfriend comes to the same tuition place at me [we go there for extra classes] and there he flirts ...
A. 26 November 2009: This is a horrible situation to be in. I'm sorry that you've found yourself in it. As bad as it is I really think you should tell your friend. At the end of the day, you're someone she should be able to trust. You expect a friend to be honest and ... (read in full...)
I am crushing on my math teacher and he found out!
Q. Well fo starter I'm 14 and in Year 9 at the moment. But, I have the most gorgeous and amazing maths teacher ever! I love him so muchan can't keep him out of my head. We have a good laugh together and he is a great teacher. Anyway, A few weeks back...
A. 24 November 2009: This is a horrible situation and I'm sorry to be so harsh. I know it's tough when you really like someone but this is something you really need to get over. You need to stop feeling this way to save embarrassment for yourself and your teacher. ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my sudden change in menstrual cycle?
Q. hi, this is one for the girls. The situation is that a few months ago (back in July) i THOUGHT i was pregnant. I realised i wasn't, and even since my periods have become more infrequent. I used to be on an average menstrual cycle (every 28 days r...
A. 24 November 2009: I'm no expert but I'd advise you to visit the doctor. Your periods are still regular which is good but the pattern's changed quite suddenly it seems. And more than that it's changed after you thought you were pregnant so I'd definitely go for a ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and starting to look old! What should I do?
Q. Im 15 and im starting to look old i don't smoke or nothing people think im old enough to be 23 right now and my face is starting to rinkle (it least thats what it look like). I look exactly like my dad and that makes me look even older. I wish I was ...
A. 24 November 2009: Make the most of what you've got. This is the way you look and there's nothing you can do about it, unless you have some serious surgery which I strongly wouldn't advise.
Look in the mirror and pick out the good points about the way you look. It d... (read in full...)
How can you tell if you really like someone?
Q. how do you know that you like someone? i cant tell and im staring to worry that i will never meet anyone who i will like or maybe im just incapable of love. its driving me crazy and starting to scare me....
A. 24 November 2009: Don't worry. When you like someone, you'll know about it. You probably just haven't been in a situation where you do like someone. But fear not, your time will come!
You'll most likely just long for their company and feel happier when they're arou... (read in full...)
Should I make the first move?
Q. i think my best friend likes me, i would go out with him if he asked me but hes not the most confident of people so i dont think he would be able to ask me but if i asked him an he said no then everything would be dead akward between us but the more ...
A. 23 November 2009: If you think he likes you and you like to then go for it. Like CaringGuy said, you have to take a risk sometimes. The more confident you feel about his answer the better. If you think he's too shy to ask you even if he did like you, then you might ... (read in full...)
Any tips for learning to drive a car?
Q. I didn't know wether to write on this website or not but I don't know any other, and i'm on here quite a lot and have had some great advice in the past. But anyway I have my first driving lesson tomorrow.. and as i'm not exactly a car whizz, i...
A. 23 November 2009: Yay. I'm learning to drive at the moment and I was exactly the same as you before I had my first driving lesson: inexperienced and very nervous.
But I have to say I really enjoyed my first lesson. It went much better than expected and I haven't look... (read in full...)
Does he like me, or is he just fooling me?
Q. Okay so... I like this guy. I don't love him, cause that's pretty much impossible for me, since I have trust-issues... Anyway. He's like the "hot sports-jock" of our level... I mean. I'm the sad little "emo" (according to everyone else) and he's Mr. ...
A. 23 November 2009: Personally, I don't think he likes you. I'm sorry.
There's a chance that he does if he teases you but you also mention that he's a popular guy. So he could just be teasing you and picking on you to make himself seem more popular. If he can keep up h... (read in full...)
Let's Define ":Love" and Having a "Crush"!
Q. I am writing this article because I think that the term "love" is fast becoming meaningless. The word gets thrown around by so many people, teenagers in particular, and crushes are being labelled as Love, and are therefore getting blown way out of ...
A. 22 November 2009: Hey, I’ve only just read this but I have to say you’ve really created an impression on me.
I can relate to you in the sense of your problems, but not with a teacher. I recently fell for someone online. I knew him in person but it was as if neit... (read in full...)
Irregular periods, please help?
Q. hi, I'm new to this, but I'm really worried. I've had my period twice in one month and i don't know what that means :[ I'm not very old I'm only 13 and it freaks me out. It hurts really bad and nothing makes the pain go away other then layin...
A. 22 November 2009: Sounds normal to me. You're only 13 so your periods aren't going to be regular for years yet. Pain and cramps are normal too. A good idea is to hold a hot water bottle against the pain, you could also take paracetamol as pain killers.
Don't worr... (read in full...)
I like her more than just a friend! Should I tell her?
Q. i've known this girl for just less than a year now. We spoke over msn for months and we became really close and met for the first time about a month ago. I met her in person for the first time about a month ago. She'd been going out with a guy i ...
A. 21 November 2009: You're doing the right thing. For a chance to be with her in the future just keep doing what you're doing. Be there for her, be a "good friend" and let your relationship grow.
Her feelings for you could develop as you get to know each other bett... (read in full...)
I am taunted about my chest size. Is it really that important?
Q. i am 15 and have small bust, one of my friend (girl in the group who i get along with less) keeps taking the piss out of the size of my bust and was laughing about me when a lad said 'she'll never be able to feed a baby...', it got me down and my ...
A. 18 November 2009: Grr. I know exactly where you're coming from. I'm the same.
In the past, I'd even go as far as saying that I've been discriminated it because my bust could almost be considered non-existent.
When I was a teenager I got so many comments, especial... (read in full...)
Am I too young to move in with my boyfriend?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, we are in love and really care about eachother. im 17 and hes 23, we both have jobs and that. at the moment hes looking for his own place, and the other night he turnt and said to me "you could live ...
A. 17 November 2009: No, I don't think you're too young. Provided that you go into it with your eyes wide open.
You clearly know it's a big commitment, and you seem to have a wise head on your shoulders. There'll be a lot of issues and things to consider. Not only wher... (read in full...)
I want her back desperately! Any advice?
Q. hi guys! please i need your help. back ground- last year, when i was in 10th standard, there was a very cute girl in my class. but sh was very shy and reserved.and by luck, i was her only guy friend. slowly, i developed a huge crush on her. ...
A. 14 November 2009: You just need to tell her that you're sorry. Explain what happened: you felt down and wanted some space. Tell her that you're sorry this upset her, you didn't want things to get this far and you want her back.
You said she was quiet. With quie... (read in full...)
I want her back desperately! Any advice?
Q. hi guys! please i need your help. back ground- last year, when i was in 10th standard, there was a very cute girl in my class. but sh was very shy and reserved.and by luck, i was her only guy friend. slowly, i developed a huge crush on her. ...
A. 13 November 2009: I really feel for you reading this.
I think the best thing for you to do would be to open up to her. She needs to know why you ignored her and how you felt. You want t her back so make her realize how much you want this. Just tell her ever... (read in full...)
Is it normal to blush everytime you see a cute guy?
Q. hi, i just have a question. is it normal for girls to like several guys at once. well not excactly like but think they look hot or something, because everytime i see a cute guy, i totally blush everytime i see him (like at school) is this normal...
A. 11 November 2009: Yes. Totally normal. And you're definately not the only one! X... (read in full...)
Does he sincerely like me? Or is to shy to ask me out?
Q. When I don’t see my friend he acts differently because I think he misses me. When I and he pass each other walking in the halls, he won’t look at me or wave if I wave back. He always makes fun of his cousin and it makes me laugh even though she’s my ...
A. 11 November 2009: Sounds pretty familiar to me...
I'd say he likes you. Your friend can see that and you wouldn't be wondering if there was nothing there.
I think he's shy. All the signs are there that he likes you, but he probably doesn't know how to behave w... (read in full...)
Why does no one want to kiss me in spin the bottle?
Q. Ok, what to do what to do: I am going on a bus tomorrow with guys. It is a soccer team so both teams are going usually we play truth or dare or spin the bottle but when it comes to me almost no guy wants to kiss me. It is not that I am pretty. ...
A. 11 November 2009: Don't take it personally. It sounds to me like it's them and not you. They're probably too scared to kiss you. Especially if other guys are around. There'd be a lot of banter afterwards and no matter what they'd find a way to tease that person about ... (read in full...)
My ex wants phone sex but he has a new girlfriend! Please help.
Q. me and my ex boyfriend of 9 months had this great relationship we split up because of my family we had the worst brake up and said things we did not mean , anyway after a month of us being apart he got back in touch saying he still loved me so we ...
A. 7 November 2009: Say no! He's using you. You deserve better and need to cut him out of your life.... (read in full...)
She's making out with me one minute then ignoring me the next???
Q. hey, long story (kinda) short, im 15, and there is a girl in the year above who has been one of my close friends for quite a long time, but i realised that i liked her more than that. A few weeks back i told her how i felt, and she told me that she ...
A. 4 November 2009: I think you need to talk to her. She seems to be a bit unsure of where she stands with you. You've told her how you feel and she's responded but nothing seems to be official with either of you.
She probably doesn't know how to act around you. If s... (read in full...)
My boyfriend took advantage of me while I suffered alcohol poisoning!
Q. Alright well, i'll try to explain this the best way i can. On halloween, last saturday, i went to a party with about.. 6 people. one of which included my boyfriend. We obviously were drinking since it was halloween and just for fun, you ...
A. 4 November 2009: Forget taking a break. Ditch your boyfriend and don't give him a second chance. He raped you so why are you even considering getting back with him? You could even go to the police with this. You were too drunk to know what you were doing and you're ... (read in full...)
We just broke up after a month of dating! What happened?!
Q. ok PLEASE PLEASE HELP!! me and my gf have been going out for like a month now. She just broke up with me, she still has feelings for me... but she said it didnt feel right... in the space of two days she didnt feel right, something wasnt the ...
A. 3 November 2009: Looks like she was doubting your relationship and felt she should end it. I don't think it's anything you've done, just how she feels about it. Maybe something happened or maybe she just felt it wasn't going anywhere with you.
If it's really both... (read in full...)
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